Excellent excellent analysis.
Murtasim also understands her fear of abandonment.
The biggest problem is as you said the fear or lack of communication.
Originally posted by: Gundamwing
My preliminary thoughts on Episode 46
When two very volatile people fall in love it is very important they are on the same page emotionally or the other person has to be wise enough to back off, but if they don't and become unstable during an argument they will be self destructive.
Meerab and Murtasim never had an actual blow out fight, they have never properly resolved any previous conflicts, either Murtasim walks off or Meerab walks off or there is a car accident or they are interrupted. What happened in this episode was months of pent up frustrations, unresolved fights, things left unsaid between them, BeHaya was the match that lit the fuse.
Murtasim love for her is patient, any obstacles that came his way his reaction is dejection, sulk, ignore and wait. Meerab love for him is demanding and aggressive, she will have him when she wants him and if any obstacle gets in her way she will not only destroy it she will ravage him as well. We only have seen Murtasim's love for Meerab, not what Meerab's love for Murtasim is capable of, she is dangerous when in love.
They don't doubt each other, they are using third parties as leverage to provoke one another to get a reaction because they are fearful and they don't know how to deal with that in a healthy way. While they bring out the best in each other, we see now what monsters they can become because of each other.
Does Meeru really think Murtu has a thing for BeHaya NOPE
Does Murtu really think Meeru has a thing for SN NOPE
So why are they doing this to each other. Because discussing real problems are frightening it is easier to blame a soft target an outsider. They don't dare speak the truth because they are afraid to face it.
Meeru is upset Murtu told her to go home, she knows she is wrong but she expects him to forgive her easily like he always does. She doesn't want to face the fact that her betrayal was so huge that he will never exonerate her fully or love her like he used to. She is an ego centric character and she feels diminished in his eyes so she rather blame him and behaya than examine her own behaviour.
Murtu is upset Meeru never prioritizes their marriage, so it is easier to blame her friends and pretend like she purposefully does mistake after mistake to escape him. He deep down knows that is not true, but he is afraid to face the fact that she doesn't love him as much as he loves her and her causes are more important to her than his happiness.
They are both wrong, she loves him more and he will forgive her anything, but they don't want to talk about that, they would rather character assassinate each other over something they don't even believe in because that is easy to do.
They both are active volcanoes eruptions are expected. But if they don't deal with the actual problem these eruptions will continue to happen.
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