Sai bhul gayi ki biological mother of Savi n Vinayak - Page 7

Originally posted by: Indira1211

I don’t believe vinu and Savi will get abused by their dad and grandparents..they are too precious to them.. I didn’t see devis story so,I don’t know

And we have seen how effective the grandparents are in protecting the abused...remember all the time they stood up for Sai, or Vinu or Savi:

when Virat kicked them out?

When Kaku was saying awful thing about Sai and Savi

When Vinu was paranoid and parakyzed

When Pakhi repeatedly made sure Savi wasnt a pat of the family

Unpopular Opinion - Pakhi was a good mother to Vinu before Sai entered Vinu's life. She even was ready to get Sai for Vinu's health. I hear many people saying Sai is not fighting for her kid. Vinu is not a thing to fight and snatch from Pakhi. He is emotionally connected to Pakhi. Sai came to CN to get back Vinu only but after seeing how much he is connected, as a mother she can't force or break his heart and forcefully take him.

And it is proved that she is correct on not wanting to break Vinu's family as Vinu again got health issue after seeing the fights. Vinu is still a child and he may not get all this mess created. Maybe once he is few years more older he will start considering Sai as his Aai.

I know it is unfair to Savi to not stay with her family. But Savi is also not being forced to leave CN (till now). Sai explained that they have to stay separately and she can always meet them.

And most importantly Savi loves her Aai so much that she can't stay in CN without her.

Staying seperately is far better for SAVI than staying together in this mess.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

Sai can leave Virat..when did I say she must stay with him..I said the kids should stay with him because I haven’t seen him hurting the kids and so far he’s been a good dad to them ..I’m,talking about the kids..not Virat , pakhi and equation.’

So Virat was right in abandoning Vinu so that he can keep Pakhi at home? Your father choosing somewomen who repeated attacked your mother and would rather let you and mother leave home isn't abuse? You know he didn't haveto keep PAkhi at home right? He wanted to keep Pakhi home more than Sai and Vinu

He was again right when he started seeing less of Savi just some can keep Pakhi happy and give her happy fmaily and Shadi ka sukh?

How can you be so sure he wont do it again if Pakhi or any other woman asks him to

Originally posted by: looseseal

Jab baap hi kardega toh grandparentsko karne hi nahi padega.

And we have seen how effective the grandparents are in protecting the abused...remember all the time they stood up for Sai, or Vinu or Savi:

when Virat kicked them out?

When Kaku was saying awful thing about Sai and Savi

When Vinu was paranoid and parakyzed

When Pakhi repeatedly made sure Savi wasnt a pat of the family

how not abused they all are...wah wah

Originally posted by: looseseal

So Virat was right in abandoning Vinu so that he can keep Pakhi at home? Your father choosing somewomen who repeated attacked your mother and would rather let you and mother leave home isn't abuse? You know he didn't haveto keep PAkhi at home right? He wanted to keep Pakhi home more than Sai and Vinu

He was again right when he started seeing less of Savi just some can keep Pakhi happy and give her happy fmaily and Shadi ka sukh?

How can you be so sure he wont do it again if Pakhi or any other woman asks him to

Originally posted by: Indira1211

I’m not understanding you saying Virat kicked them out..when did Virat kick out Sai and the kids. I saw Sai leave on her own with baby vinu ..while the family was begging her to stay .. I know in yrkkh Abhimanyu kicked akshara out and divorced her immediately after her miscarriage that’s why I think she should never go back to that disgusting man’’but in ghum I didn’t see Virat kick Sai out with the kids. He wants his kids and Sai at all costs. But it’s Sais decision to leave him and she can do that..but the kids are happy in CN ..so let them,stay there

No, Virat wanted to force Sai to let PAkhi raise her son in the same house.

If you dont see that as wrong then I dont know what to tell you. If you think Sai did wrong by not listening to the pati parmeshaw than again I shall go back to the misogynistic argument becaus ethats what that all is.

Why did Virat bring his wife's abuser back home?

Putting gun against someones head and asking them to slap themselves and then turn back and say maine kaha thappas nari woh toh usne khud ki hai...this is what you are defending

Originally posted by: Indira1211

this is a fact…couples divorce because they have issues with each other ..they don’t divorce because of the kids..and kids are uprooted..like Sai Is going to do now with Savi. I’ve seen enough people get divorced in life to know what I’m talking about ..and this is a open forum so I’m giving my opinion. When I refer to judging ..I mean you judging me on what I’m saying..like assuming I’m saying people shouldn’t get divorced. You know if you are on the yrkkh forum my opinion is different there..there I feel abhir should stay with akshara and abhinav as they are a happy content family and abhimanyu should not disrupt abhirs life ..he can get visiting rights.. but here I think it will be most beneficial for the kids if it’s the other way around.. the kid stays in CN with their dad and grandparents rather then go to strangers

Couples divorce only when a) the woman can bear the socioeconomic ramifications of it which is why India has a lower rate of divorces than the Western European-North American bloc b) the dysfunctional/abusive relationship becomes detrimental to everyone's health. Kids who grow up with dysfunctional parent child triads internalise and even justify shitty relationships— either becoming vulnerable to bad relationships themselves or perpetrate the cycle of abuse themselves.

Divorce is a bitter medicine for children than the masquereded poision of internalising trauma and abuse. This is the stupidest anti-divorce statement I have seen.

Husbands slapping wives was not a dealbreaker to our grandmas and they passed it on to our mothers who despite better education struggle to recognise the various forms of abuse they get from their spouses/in-laws.

And there is a difference between having issues in a relationship and being in an abusive one. Sairat are abusive where the man was and continues to be abusive.

Funny how people are so pro-divorce when it comes to Pakrat-Vinu situation but want a single woman to stay in threesome with her ex for her naïve daughter.

It is not because of Sai but because of Virat both kids r not with their parents as a family...Virat sacrificed this for Pakhi and now can't make it right with his psycho acts ... specially when he has not sit down and accepted his crimes Infront of both kids....infact he always BW kids against Sai or support Pakhi as Aai....so.please accept it that Virat is toxic as father as he is toxic as a husband....Virat is the culprit of his whole family be it kids or Sai..

Originally posted by: samhitha1234

Unpopular Opinion - Pakhi was a good mother to Vinu before Sai entered Vinu's life. She even was ready to get Sai for Vinu's health. I hear many people saying Sai is not fighting for her kid. Vinu is not a thing to fight and snatch from Pakhi. He is emotionally connected to Pakhi. Sai came to CN to get back Vinu only but after seeing how much he is connected, as a mother she can't force or break his heart and forcefully take him.

And it is proved that she is correct on not wanting to break Vinu's family as Vinu again got health issue after seeing the fights. Vinu is still a child and he may not get all this mess created. Maybe once he is few years more older he will start considering Sai as his Aai.

I know it is unfair to Savi to not stay with her family. But Savi is also not being forced to leave CN (till now). Sai explained that they have to stay separately and she can always meet them.

And most importantly Savi loves her Aai so much that she can't stay in CN without her.

Staying seperately is far better for SAVI than staying together in this mess.

A mother's love should be unconditional which Pakhi lacks.. Vinu is just the ticket to stay close to virat.. She is no way emotionally connected to the kids rather she has emotionally manipulated the child.. Which mother would write a message for a seven years old child that she can't see him calling anyone else aai.. Most importantly she was the one who constantly have been implanting jadugarni story in his mind ..

Vinu is turning out another p who manipulates others for his own selfish motives.. He locks himself to get things done on his way..This child is no way normal..

Originally posted by: Indira1211

I’m not understanding you saying Virat kicked them out..when did Virat kick out Sai and the kids. I saw Sai leave on her own with baby vinu ..while the family was begging her to stay .. I know in yrkkh Abhimanyu kicked akshara out and divorced her immediately after her miscarriage that’s why I think she should never go back to that disgusting man’’but in ghum I didn’t see Virat kick Sai out with the kids. He wants his kids and Sai at all costs. But it’s Sais decision to leave him and she can do that..but the kids are happy in CN ..so let them,stay there

If a sister in law lover and abuser like virat can be redeemed then abhi can be redeemed easily...and abhir should be raised by both families sharmas and Birla....and if akshara can't love abhinav then she should unite with abhi and abhira love eachother just like couple here...