Please think like a small kids’ parents Akshara & Abhimanyu - Page 3

Originally posted by: Krinya

I never said abhim is a criminal.

I'm all for second chances but that , akshu will decide. If and when she forgives him ,that day everything will change ...he also has to forgive akshu and not repeat the past mistakes.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Both leads need to understand each other. If they are bringing Abhira together I want them to maintain distance and understand each other first then only jo bhi karna hai karo. even if they drag 5 months for understanding phase i don't mind.

Jab ek parent dusre parent ke right khud he decide karne ka soch dikhata hai tab woh baat sole custody ki direction mai jati hai.

So jab bacche ka baat hota hai tab dono parents ke liye yahi better hai ki middle ground le kar ek dusre ke rights khud na decide kare.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

ABHIMANYU WAS BAD HUSBAND BUT NOT CRIMINAL

Ugly divorce hone se koi criminal nahi bann jata.

Shaleen dalljeith is perfect example. Thank you.

ha to kon usko jail bhej raha hai. Koi usko bura insaan nahi kah raha hai.

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

ha to kon usko jail bhej raha hai. Koi usko bura insaan nahi kah raha hai.

Abhimanyu want Abhir to know he is his biological father & call him as papa. What & how they are going to tell him why they seperated without hurting his innocent mind with the brutal truth & what about Ruhi. How they will explain to both Abhir & Ruhi this messy relationship.

Originally posted by: Veenapai

Abhimanyu want Abhir to know he is his biological father & call him as papa. What & how they are going to tell him why they seperated without hurting his innocent mind with the brutal truth & what about Ruhi. How they will explain to both Abhir & Ruhi this messy relationship.

Akshara and Abhimanyu should discuss about abhir kaise handle karega iss sach ko ? Abhir ke nazuk mann ke uper kaisa asar padega ? Agar inn logo ko zara sa bhi knowledge nahi hai about child psychology then they should go and take help of child psychologist jo unko bacche ko kaise reveal karna chahiye uske liye guide kare. Take guidance and help of professionals.

Yeh koi pehla case nahi hoga professionals ke liye, woh bahot acche se iss divorcee couple ko counsel karege and guide karege.

Regarding Ruhi, abhir toh hamesha apni mummy ke sath rehnwala hai , Ruhi ko pyar se itna samjana hai ki uske poppy abhir ke papa hai aur woh dono se he ek barabar pyar karte hai. Dhire dhire bacche mai yeh confidence build karna hota hai ki usse uska kuch snatch nahi hua hai.

Ruhi se uska kuch chhina nahi hai usme yeh confidence build karna main toh aarohi ka role and responsibility hai. Ab yeh aarohi ke uper hai k woh kaise apni bacchi ke mind mai bina negativity failaye, confidence build karti hai. Agar abhir ke sach se khud he aise insecure behave karegi toh apni bacchi ko kaise secure feel karayegi.?!

Inn logo ka problem he yehi hai ki har baat mai sirf pain and injustice ka rona ro kar insecure ho jate hai lekin bacche ke mind ko acche se handle kar ke kuch bhi execute karna nahi aata.