Please think like a small kids’ parents Akshara & Abhimanyu

Pehle toh jo yeh maante hai ki abhimanyu abhir ka sirf sperm donor hai unke liye yeh post nahi hai. Mere liye Abhimanyu abhir ka father hai so I made this post. Sab ka apne vichar aur soch hota hai. I accept and appreciate.

As a mother mera yeh post Parents(Abhimanyu-Akshara) vs child hai.

Today Abhimanyu was tying Mahadev chain on abhir’s neck because now he knows why this child is also Mahadev bhakt like him. Akshara was angry and all set to stop abhimanyu from tying Mahadev chain. It was abhinav who stopped her.

Abhimanyu knows this very well that Akshara doesn’t want him in abhir’s life except as docman/mausa that’s why he is bouncing like spring that already I have missed his 6 years of life due to whatever reason and now you are not allowing me to shower fatherly love on my child who belongs to me too alongs with you couple.

The thing is Akshara has to allow and accept Abhimanyu to shower love on abhir as a father keeping her trauma/grudges/pain everything a side for the sake of abhir.

As a mother, when I read here people writes like agar Abhimanyu abhir par haqq jayate toh abhir ko Abhimanyu kaisa hai woh pura sach batado uss bacche ko! I was like yeh kaisi baat hui ki ek chote se 6 saal ke bacche ke dimag mai sach naam kachra/zeher daalna chahte hai. Yaha mai hu jo mere bete ko har ek negative baato se durr rakhti hu chahe woh orthodox saas ki ho yah dedhshani nanad ki ho.

Abhir ke fool se dimag mai zehrila sach daalne se acha hai , Akshara Abhimanyu ke sath apne bacche ke Khatir deal karle ki jitna fatherly love shower karna hai kare, abhir ke liye joint decisions le sakta hai uske and abhinav ke sath, jab chahe tab milne aa sakta abhir ko lekin uski age ko dhyan mai rakh kar usko yeh na bataye that he is his father. Agar Abhimanyu fir bhi batana chahe toh sab Mahadev par chod de.

Lekin aise he agar woh Abhimanyu ko abhir par as a FATHER love shower karne se, decisions mai participate karne se rokegi toh abhimanyu spring ke jaise aur zyada uchlega.

Ab sach ka khulasa ho gaya hai so Akshara chahe ya na chahe, usko middle ground lena hoga , co-parenting accept karna hoga, visiting rights dene hoge. Apne past/pain/grudges unn sab ko abhir se alag rakhna hoga.

Jab hum maa banate hai tab apne pain se uper uth kar bacche ke liye middle grounds lene padte hai. Aj ki duniya mai mostly divorcee kid wale couples isiliye middle ground he lete hai.

And abhi shaitaan nahi hai. Agar akshu jaake boldhe ki dekho abhimanyu tumne 6 saal pehle jo kiya main uske liye kabhi main tumhe maaf nahi kar sakthe. Agar tum bacche se pyar karna chahthe ho toh theek hai karo main bhi kaise bhi karke abhi toh tumhe bhi papa maane ke liye mana lungi.

Lekin abhir ko mujhse door math karna kyunki tumne mujhe 6 saal pehle jo thoda hai main abhi thak tooti huyi hun agar abhi mujhse door chala gaya toh main zinda nahi reh paungi. Aur abhir bhi mera bina zinda nahi reh payega jaise tum apne maa ke bina nahi reh sakthe.

Bas abhi back off kardega.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

And abhi shaitaan nahi hai. Agar akshu jaake boldhe ki dekho abhimanyu tumne 6 saal pehle jo kiya main uske liye kabhi main tumhe maaf nahi kar sakthe. Agar tum bacche se pyar karna chahthe ho toh theek hai karo main bhi kaise bhi karke abhi toh tumhe bhi papa maane ke liye mana lungi.

Lekin abhir ko mujhse door math karna kyunki tumne mujhe 6 saal pehle jo thoda hai main abhi thak tooti huyi hun agar abhi mujhse door chala gaya toh main zinda nahi reh paungi. Aur abhir bhi mera bina zinda nahi reh payega jaise tum apne maa ke bina nahi reh sakthe.

Bas abhi back off kardega.

Abhi toh akshara Abhimanyu ka spring zyada se zyada daba rahi hai isiliye woh spring ke jaise uchal kar abhir par haqq jata raha hai. Isiliye precap mai woh bina bataye abhir ko uske birthday ke din kisi kids play area mai le gaya.
Agar mooh par bolta ki muje abhir ke sath uske birthday ke din quality time spend karna hai toh woh allow bhi nahi karti. Bedroom mai time isiliye spend kar sakta kyunki Akshara ke Dadaji ne bhi bola ki jao ja kar akele mai abhir ke sath time spend karo.

Akshara ki taraf se fir se wohi ek he tape recorder lines hoti ki uske parent sirf woh and abhinav hai , Abhimanyu sirf sperm donor hai, docman hai , mausa hai blah blah blah.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

And yeh baat Akshara ko he isiliye bolna padega kyunki she is the one jisko Abhimanyu ko Zara bhi fatherly right nahi dena hai due to her past/pain/grudges/experiences whatever.

Abhi toh akshara Abhimanyu ka spring zyada se zyada daba rahi hai isiliye woh spring ke jaise uchal kar abhir par haqq jata raha hai. Isiliye precap mai woh bina bataye abhir ko uske birthday ke din kisi kids play area mai le gaya.
Agar mooh par bolta ki muje abhir ke sath uske birthday ke din quality time spend karna hai toh woh allow bhi nahi karti. Bedroom mai time isiliye spend kar sakta kyunki Akshara ke Dadaji ne bhi bola ki jao ja kar akele mai abhir ke sath time spend karo.

Akshara ki taraf se fir se wohi ek he tape recorder lines hoti ki uske parent sirf woh and abhinav hai , Abhimanyu sirf sperm donor hai, docman hai , mausa hai blah blah blah.

Akshara gets hyper for small things like that locket dal the waqt in the end abhi is not trying to kill him. He is wishing something good for abhir.

Atleast jab abhi accha kartha hai usko rok kar usse trigger toh math karo. agar kuch bura kar raha hai toh she has every right to stop him.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

haan woh shayad abhimanyu ko birthday par bhi na bulaye abhi ko. Agar aisa karegi toh abhi custody case zaroor dalega

Akshara gets hyper for small things like that locket dal the waqt in the end abhi is not trying to kill him. He is wishing something good for abhir.

Atleast jab abhi accha kartha hai usko rok kar usse trigger toh math karo. agar kuch bura kar raha hai toh she has every right to stop him.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Spring bhi dabati hai and trigger bhi karti hai kyunki usko lagta hai ki agar woh chahti hai ki Abhimanyu apne fatherly rights chod de and sirf docman/mausa bann kar rahe toh abhimanyu chup-chap unki history ki wajah se yeh baat maan le.

Fatherly right, visiting rights , co-decision making rights abhimanyu ko de kar Akshara ko middle ground lena chahiye.

Akshara khud he Solo custody chah kar Abhimanyu ka trigger daba rahi hai.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

haan woh shayad abhimanyu ko birthday par bhi na bulaye abhi ko. Agar aisa karegi toh abhi custody case zaroor dalega

Akshara gets hyper for small things like that locket dal the waqt in the end abhi is not trying to kill him. He is wishing something good for abhir.

Atleast jab abhi accha kartha hai usko rok kar usse trigger toh math karo. agar kuch bura kar raha hai toh she has every right to stop him.

Bhulane ka voh sab nhi dekhane vale hei i guess makers but vaise b abhi aa hi raha hei ma birthday mei aur then abhi ne toh shayd se Bina bataye lekar b gaya hei abhir ko kahi i think precap se yahi lagta hei. Anyways ak ko pasand nhi b aaye still she ain't stopping them to create a bond. But yes abhi ko shanti se baat karna hoga aur clear karna hoga ki I won't take abhir away from you. Voh bharosha dilana hoga na but yeh yaha Bina bataye abhir ko kahi b lekar jara hei so these things would also put in a wrong sense. Yes and even if ak gets hyper she didn't stop abhi from putting the chain. But ulta abhi taunted saying that jo chize jiska voh usko lauta dena chahiye. Yeh toh nhi kehna tha na toh agar ak hype hoti hei toh abhi b uske dar ko sahi sabit karra hei instead giving her the trust towards him.

Originally posted by: Anu234

Bhulane ka voh sab nhi dekhane vale hei i guess makers but vaise b abhi aa hi raha hei ma birthday mei aur then abhi ne toh shayd se Bina bataye lekar b gaya hei abhir ko kahi i think precap se yahi lagta hei. Anyways ak ko pasand nhi b aaye still she ain't stopping them to create a bond. But yes abhi ko shanti se baat karna hoga aur clear karna hoga ki I won't take abhir away from you. Voh bharosha dilana hoga na but yeh yaha Bina bataye abhir ko kahi b lekar jara hei so these things would also put in a wrong sense. Yes and even if ak gets hyper she didn't stop abhi from putting the chain. But ulta abhi taunted saying that jo chize jiska voh usko lauta dena chahiye. Yeh toh nhi kehna tha na toh agar ak hype hoti hei toh abhi b uske dar ko sahi sabit karra hei instead giving her the trust towards him.

Birthday se pehle lekar gaya hai. Like early morning when abhir worke up.

She knows abhi gets cranky when some one does injustice to him. Currently she is not stopping as nav is stopping her.

But agar by chance abhinav nahi hoga toh chad jayegi uspe 😂 it's not like i mind if they have fight. Cringe dekhne se accha fight dekhlo 😂

But agar woh choti choti chheezon par bolegi toh usko trigger karega so better avoid and have happy life 😄 waise bhi usne sirf kitab padhi hai law ki case studies patha nahi kiya hai ya nahi 😂

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Birthday se pehle lekar gaya hai. Like early morning when abhir worke up.

She knows abhi gets cranky when some one does injustice to him. Currently she is not stopping as nav is stopping her.

But agar by chance abhinav nahi hoga toh chad jayegi uspe 😂 it's not like i mind if they have fight. Cringe dekhne se accha fight dekhlo 😂

But agar woh choti choti chheezon par bolegi toh usko trigger karega so better avoid and have happy life 😄 waise bhi usne sirf kitab padhi hai law ki case studies patha nahi kiya hai ya nahi 😂

Itv mei padte dekhaya hei matlab lawyer ban gaye hei ithne deep mei nhi Jane vala hei koi😂

And also kapdon se lagte hei ki it's already party time kyuki they are dressed up.

Originally posted by: Anu234

Itv mei padte dekhaya hei matlab lawyer ban gaye hei ithne deep mei nhi Jane vala hei koi😂

Samajh gayi doctor jaise butterknife se operate karthe hai 😆 akshu bolegi.

" Judge saabh main maa hu maa.

Jo raath ko jag kar lori sunathi hai

Jo khud bhooke pet baccho ko khilathi hai.

Mujhe custody de do judge saabh "

Read in deeepika padukone's voice fron om shanti om 😆