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Posted: 3 years ago
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I am going to keep both the ships aside for a moment,


going by the show's writing and what has been shown so far, is Virat going back to Sai for Savi's dream of a happy family? No. Has he considered how Vinu who has grown up knowing Pakhi and Virat as his parents will take it? No. Given that he is still not able to come to terms with the fact that Sai is his biological mother? This kid who was traumatized that Sai might take him away from pakhi who irrespective of how we feel as audience is seen by him as a nurturing figure, has Virat paused to consider how this will impact Vinu?

Forget about sentising Vinu about a potential divorce or separation between his parents (Pakrat/Virakhi), he has not made any conscious effort to help Vinu accept Sai or remove his fear! Whatever progress Sai has made with Vinu is on her own and even Satya who is a complete stranger might have aided in his own simple way but not Virat!

Is he divorcing Pakhi because he finally sees through her and realizes what went wrong and why? NO

He wants to leave Pakhi, with whom he renewed vows and went on a honeymoon with not so long ago because he has 'realized' that he loves Sai!!?

Virat is ready to break Vinu's happy family without a split second consideration on how the child would take it!? yet, somehow Sai is the one paying for his hasty and insensitive decisions! Claiming to love and actually showing you love someone are two very different things! Virat saw Sai hallucinating Vinu in her grief and yet didn't so much as lift his pinky in setting that right instead is on his way to start afresh with Sai? I mean really!!???

So when Virat has not been blamed for being inconsiderate towards his kids then why is this being expected of Sai?!!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ragq

I am going to keep both the ships aside for a moment,


going by the show's writing and what has been shown so far, is Virat going back to Sai for Savi's dream of a happy family? No. Has he considered how Vinu who has grown up knowing Pakhi and Virat as his parents will take it? No. Given that he is still not able to come to terms with the fact that Sai is his biological mother? This kid who was traumatized that Sai might take him away from pakhi who irrespective of how we feel as audience is seen by him as a nurturing figure, has Virat paused to consider how this will impact Vinu?

Forget about sentising Vinu about a potential divorce or separation between his parents (Pakrat/Virakhi), he has not made any conscious effort to help Vinu accept Sai or remove his fear! Whatever progress Sai has made with Vinu is on her own and even Satya who is a complete stranger might have aided in his own simple way but not Virat!

Is he divorcing Pakhi because he finally sees through her and realizes what went wrong and why? NO

He wants to leave Pakhi, with whom he renewed vows and went on a honeymoon with not so long ago because he has 'realized' that he loves Sai!!?

Virat is ready to break Vinu's happy family without a split second consideration on how the child would take it!? yet, somehow Sai is the one paying for his hasty and insensitive decisions! Claiming to love and actually showing you love someone are two very different things! Virat saw Sai hallucinating Vinu in her grief and yet didn't so much as lift his pinky in setting that right instead is on his way to start afresh with Sai? I mean really!!???

So when Virat has not been blamed for being inconsiderate towards his kids then why is this being expected of Sai?!!

This 💯. He did honeymoon and remarriage with pakhi ignoring his daughter, not caring for her. Now he wants sai ignoring his son , not caring about his feelings. He takes decisions only for himself.

Will he live single life by living in sai memories and wishing her to move on with other man for her happiness?

No. He will go back to pakhi. Again play happy family with her. So sai always been a option to him.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ragq

I am going to keep both the ships aside for a moment,


going by the show's writing and what has been shown so far, is Virat going back to Sai for Savi's dream of a happy family? No. Has he considered how Vinu who has grown up knowing Pakhi and Virat as his parents will take it? No. Given that he is still not able to come to terms with the fact that Sai is his biological mother? This kid who was traumatized that Sai might take him away from pakhi who irrespective of how we feel as audience is seen by him as a nurturing figure, has Virat paused to consider how this will impact Vinu?

Forget about sentising Vinu about a potential divorce or separation between his parents (Pakrat/Virakhi), he has not made any conscious effort to help Vinu accept Sai or remove his fear! Whatever progress Sai has made with Vinu is on her own and even Satya who is a complete stranger might have aided in his own simple way but not Virat!

Is he divorcing Pakhi because he finally sees through her and realizes what went wrong and why? NO

He wants to leave Pakhi, with whom he renewed vows and went on a honeymoon with not so long ago because he has 'realized' that he loves Sai!!?

Virat is ready to break Vinu's happy family without a split second consideration on how the child would take it!? yet, somehow Sai is the one paying for his hasty and insensitive decisions! Claiming to love and actually showing you love someone are two very different things! Virat saw Sai hallucinating Vinu in her grief and yet didn't so much as lift his pinky in setting that right instead is on his way to start afresh with Sai? I mean really!!???

So when Virat has not been blamed for being inconsiderate towards his kids then why is this being expected of Sai?!!

well said.

he has made zero effort to make Vinu realize Sai is his aai and she is not a jadugarni nor is she a pari or rakshak etc. she is his aai. she is not his "aunty".

he barely made an effort to explain to Vinu why P was wrong either. very cursory and let him run away

he has not acknowledged to Savi or Vinu that he was married to Sai but they are separated.

Vinu doesnt even seem to realize the implications of Sai being his AND Savis mother

Savi doesnt realize the implications of P being in Vs life if sai is her aai and V is her baba.

The onus of everything for kids is always falling only on Sai. when will V grow a spine.

If he chooses to prolong the lie with P just because Sai rejects him then what is he doing. Neither did he consider Vinus feelings before planning to end things with P and if he cancels his plan to separate from her then he will be living a lie again and making Vinu think everything is ok when it isnt.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

This 💯. He did honeymoon and remarriage with pakhi ignoring his daughter, not caring for her. Now he wants sai ignoring his son , not caring about his feelings. He takes decisions only for himself.

Will he live single life by living in sai memories and wishing her to move on with other man for her happiness?

No. He will go back to pakhi. Again play happy family with her. So sai always been a option to him.

Exactly! In a way Sai's entire decision of getting married for Vinu's sake is based on Virat going back to Pakhi, she knows him too well! That's how predictably fickle and selfish Virat is !!

Sai's decision might not make sense and as audience we can see that it is a mechanism to just drive the plot but Virat's decision to go back will validate it automatically!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: scarlett22

Vinu is happy in Chawan Niwas. His happy family is with Virat and Pakhi.


even if you didn't mean me, I am feeling bad about Sairat because I started watching only for them. Sairat now includes their kids, unfortunately. That doesnt mean I want Sai to go running back to Virat either.


I definitely hope Satya will help Sai get her children with her if marriage is the only hope for Sai's happiness.

Whatever ship yaar...kids be with Sai. Hope this happens. Virat be Vinu k liye shaadi ki, Sai bhi Vinu k liye kar rahi. Aajtak V galat thha...two timer thha. But Sai heart mei V ko rakhke(tumhara pyaar- reflection of V in mirror in promo) Satya se shadi karegi...then what it will be...sacrifice or mahanta. Just a logical question

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ragq

I am going to keep both the ships aside for a moment,


going by the show's writing and what has been shown so far, is Virat going back to Sai for Savi's dream of a happy family? No. Has he considered how Vinu who has grown up knowing Pakhi and Virat as his parents will take it? No. Given that he is still not able to come to terms with the fact that Sai is his biological mother? This kid who was traumatized that Sai might take him away from pakhi who irrespective of how we feel as audience is seen by him as a nurturing figure, has Virat paused to consider how this will impact Vinu?

Forget about sentising Vinu about a potential divorce or separation between his parents (Pakrat/Virakhi), he has not made any conscious effort to help Vinu accept Sai or remove his fear! Whatever progress Sai has made with Vinu is on her own and even Satya who is a complete stranger might have aided in his own simple way but not Virat!

Is he divorcing Pakhi because he finally sees through her and realizes what went wrong and why? NO

He wants to leave Pakhi, with whom he renewed vows and went on a honeymoon with not so long ago because he has 'realized' that he loves Sai!!?

Virat is ready to break Vinu's happy family without a split second consideration on how the child would take it!? yet, somehow Sai is the one paying for his hasty and insensitive decisions! Claiming to love and actually showing you love someone are two very different things! Virat saw Sai hallucinating Vinu in her grief and yet didn't so much as lift his pinky in setting that right instead is on his way to start afresh with Sai? I mean really!!???

So when Virat has not been blamed for being inconsiderate towards his kids then why is this being expected of Sai?!!


Summary Virat Chavan is a narcissist who thinks only about his happiness & his sadness.

He gave zero f@cks about Sai having to witness his married life with P. Only his emotions mattered.


He gave zero f@cks about tying Pakhi to a loveless marriage twice, as long as he's making Sai jealous & hurting her he needed Pakhi. And to make himself look mahaan.

He gave zero f@cks about Savi's happy family. That bitch of a wife of his literally broke her name plate but did he yell at her? No cuz P didn't hurt him she hurt his daughter or Sai.

He gave zero f@cks about emotional trauma & manipulation Vinu is going through or solving his confusion about two mothers. As long as he got to be baba he's fine.

Suddenly this middle aged loser is having chest pain cuz realization STRUCK him after ages that he loves Sai so he should have Sai and he should free Pakhi from this marriage. If Vinu's heart breaks, or P feels betrayed, or whether Sai will be called home wrecker won't matter to him. At least he'll be happy 😊

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Exactly you just wrote my mind. What I genuinely fail to understand is V can marry and have a whole bloody family with the vamp the literal VAMP of the show but hell knows no bounds if Sai decides to move on with a decent guy. Then she is be sl**-shamed, being called dumb, selfish, breaking Savi's family, bad mother and what not.

Firstly, when did Savi even have a happy family? It consists of her mom, dad and dada right? Did Sai take or break it away from her? No, she can still co parent with Virat, just like they use to do when Sai lived with Usha maushi and Vinu with his Nanny and Co.

Then why will it be such a big problem if the same happens now, just because sai is a mom she isn't supposed to take any decision. But V can two time, make heart eyes at a single woman because she has no man in her life, kiss his present wife and dream about ex wife, dance with ex wife and harass her during holi (I am sorry it wasn't romantic, you can't be romantic with someone you are not even involved with), can doubt on Sai's character, ask for Savi's paternity, hide that vinu is alive to his own mom and says he is dead, then claims that the said mother is not the mother at all so she has no rights on her, try to take Vinu away again, try to take Savi away, has sweet soft convos with the wife who insults the mother of his children, lets his daughter be bad mouthed by said wife and even let that witch make that little kid cry, do I have to continue? and this is only post leap.

People just can't accept that Sai is also a woman, a person who is being endlessly character assassinated by her ex husband's wife and mother, harassed by said ex husband and rejected by her own son. What exactly she is supposed to do? Dance to the tunes of Virat, have an affair with him because hey Sairat and their abusive history right, try to force herself in her son's life who is only gonna hate her thanks to Sai's superb ex husband who keeps a mistress around. Now if V doesn't get Sai, no problem, he always has his mistress' lap where he can lie and cry for a new beginning coz 'Sai kyun nahi samajhti main usse pyaar karta hoon?"

Loving someone, and making them feel loved are two different things, Virat fails in both. he is absolutely not the parent of the year, he let down Vinu when he harassed him to run, ignored him when he got his new doll Savi, and let Savi down when he couldn't stop her mother going out of their home, couldn't protect her mother literally ever, even couldn't protect her from the witch who resides there. And still V is believed to be better parent? For what, donating his gametes? Bullshit.

Sai should get solo custody of her kids, or co parent with V, for his biological contribution. If Satya is a decent man, he will be good to Sai. But either ways Sai will be judged, blamed, and even wished for being Jagtap's wife. Not satya, who actually has potential to become an endgame and stand at par with the abuser. Guess our society is not so dissimilar from the CN, after all fiction is inspired from real life.

Sorry for this rant, some of the discussions and blame on Sai's character just pissed me off so much that I needed to vent out.

Edited by Cold-Fire - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

it's funny how people care only about savi happy family not vinu's happy family.

Accept that u want sairat (nothing wrong in it) but don't use kids for ur convinence.

Suddenly sai became bad mother even though she is marrying for one of her kids (though the reason is stupid).

Ofc they want sairat man 😆

And it is fully understandable because they're hardcore sairat fans


But it is a fact that the makers are doing business

They don't care about people's emotional investment in a ship.

It is emotions for you, but for them it's business


If you believe Vankar will give you sairat as endgame just because he said it, then you're wrong my friends

He will do what brings him the coins


Not saying this as a saiya fan, just stating the bitter truth about the television industry. It is unpredictable. At the end of the day, all that matters is what is actually selling. And as saiya fans, we're just fortunate that we're shipping a pair that is actually selling and being immensely hyped

If sairat was working, if the majority wanted to see Sai with Virat, this is what they would've shown, without thinking twice. But unfortunately it was not working.

I'm sure they must have been skeptical about this decision but now that they know it's working, they won't hold back in showing it

Again, not saying this as a saiya fan, it's just the reality of the television world

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Clois_semperanc

Apparently Sai should've waited few more years in that house watching Pakhi & Virat sleep together in same room, taking care of her two kids while world's best dad grew a spine & broke off his marriage.


You see it's always on the woman, to forgive cheating husbands for sake of kids society bla bla

No expectation on men to take tough decisions cuz they get free passes, specially virat. Sai should've just waited till he grew tired of Pakhi & came to her...


I don't even want to start with how stupid this 'Sai should think of Savi's happy family' view...it's infuriating! That kid is oblivious when it comes to her baba's kaands


the sole reason she even entertains virat is Savi's happy family jaap. She could have easily made up a story about how her father died, or how her father is a bad wizard( which he actually is) and hurt her mom always because of which she had to run away to keep herself and Savi safe.

But people will see only they want to see. Sai is to blame for everything even for Pakrat marriage.

kalko if V sleeps with P that will also be because of sai because she married Satya🤪 people and their hypocrisy I tell you.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I think
April fool guys😍

Don’t think happens so early..

Sai heads over heel to get Vinu back

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