What matters to sai? - Page 8

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

This time he realizes he has hurt her in the hotel room and by going against her in the court . He wants her to forgive him and that was visible in his shayari as well . He has seen her vulnerable side after Vinu was taken away from her so he is guilty to some extent because of which he is not taking her taunts to his heart . The day he will feel he hasn’t wronged her he will take offense to her words .

Virat at Kankovli and now is different . He is confident that there is no one in Sai’s life and her words during her vulnerable side makes him believe that Sai regretted their separation and may still have feelings for him . Regarding move on , he is already committed to P , giving her wife rights and has no plans to reconcile with Sai so what more is left for him to move on . He is lusting after Sai but from far and looks like he is content with that . He is not frustrated that he is stuck in an marriage with P and is unable to pursue Sai . He is not desperate to woo Sai either .

Going against her in the court when. He felt bad

Originally posted by: mysticriver

Don't think he knew that after Savi's revelation. How does Sai currently express or he thinks she wants him now when she's dissing him.

Thats what!! He knows that she will not tell her feelings openly but she loves him still…that’s why this time she didn’t leave her hand. And openly flirts with her. He takes certain things like she says “our daughter will make us proud” etc as indications. That will make him get more closer to a point where she might rebuke him.
I am guessing.

I don’t understand why he can’t clear his feelings with her when he is anyways pursuing openly? Thats a 2 timing behavior 😞

Originally posted by: mysticriver

Don't think he knew that after Savi's revelation. How does Sai currently express or he thinks she wants him now when she's dissing him.

To give you more clarity. Ofcourse we never should forget character traits before understanding the dialogues, but there are situations also that are similar.

Virat understood Sai loved him all through their separation(past) when savi’s truth is revealed.

Similarly Sai understood virat didn’t move on with pakhi and lived in her memories on picnic accident day. She might have understood he loves her still because that night virat comes in her imagination and asks if what pakhi said was the truth. There was a realization.

however both are not sure if the other wants them back. For sai it is a dead end as she sees a marriage with pakhi. She wants just her kids though she loves and needs virat. She will not ask him or take him back easily. It is her self respect too that doesn’t let her

For virat too, he was not sure if sai loves him still or wants him Back. Loving someone and needing someone are different. Virat got clarity that she loves him and might be wanting him after all those breakdowns. Now there is no looking back for him. He was only holding himself back because he was not sure of her feelings. 👍

Originally posted by: Sherry24

I agree Moor. And the above sentence sums it up.

V will be a father not a husband. Sai will do anything for her kids. And which is what justifies many of her actions lately.

But this is Sai. She will also not bargain her self respect for it. Or be in a relationship where she feels compromised. That is state now.

If that was not the case Sai would not have left with Vinu. She would have stayed back and made peace with the situation. But she didn’t . Similarly she would have gone back to V after Savi. Savi's longing for her father would have melted her, but her resolve was much stronger.

Things definitely have changed, and certain perspectives would have changed for her, but she would not be part of the deal. It will only be an adjustment for the kids if that happens. She will not give in as a wife. She is different that ways to just succumb to such situations, and take the common route.

I still see it as two houses and co-parenting till V proves himself to Sai. And till she is able to completely forgive him and is convinced by his side of the story.

I do feel V will apologise. I know he has done it in private and that by his standards should complete his quota 🤣

But due to the same fact that he regrets his decisions, he will seek her forgiveness.

The tricky part how they have played this is that V regrets his actions. Now the point is the actions at that point where solely driven by him and his judgement. He had a choice then, but he gauged Sai and the situation incorrectly. He failed Sai, when he had a option. When he was in command of the situation.

Now things have changed. His actions on the face of it still screams his prioritisation of P, and insensitivity towards Sai. Something very similar to pre-leap. But what no one knows is that V is not in control of the situation anymore. The circumstances are playing V this time. Unlike pre-leap he is not so free to make the choices. Ironically, it is happening when he has a clearer understanding of things and if not chained by circumstances he would have made a different choice.

Hence, for Sai who does not know about the difference in situation and a changed V, with a back story (indirect narrative), she will assume that V is still the same. V who prioritises P over her and the kids.

For Sai to forgive this truth has to be known to her. For her to realise that Sai is his priority. Just that fate played the game just when he had realised his faults.

I too believe in this narrative. The plot is too tight. You don’t know whether it is destiny or choices. With pakhi it is destiny playing and with virat his own informed choices.! 😅. Otherwise they have to show virat had a brain damage that changed his character. He must be a new man, not the virat we knew!!

Originally posted by: mysticriver

Going against her in the court when. He felt bad

He will do that eventually... especially after building up a track like this... but isn't it too late?

Hebhas to completely eliminate P from their lives. Her death would be the best scenario... but if it doesn't V ignoring P for any damn thing would be ideal.

Considering how the show has been, I feel this is a improbable situation 🤔... would be happy to be proved wrong but just keeping this in mind so that I feel less of a heartbreak

I don't want Pakhi to die, sai should not be an option to him, he should choose sai over Pakhi with proper redemption and I want Pakhi to witness it.

Hope this track will be end with Virat's redemption.

Originally posted by: mysticriver

I know all that & have seen but I'm asking does he know that Sai is aware of them going on honeymoon?

Maintaining celibacy is not a big deal. What is the use of those things when Virat didn't give regard to her presence? I agree that he supported her in her education and accomplishing her dreams, and went against the family. But he didn't stand by her when it mattered the most.

Virat always chose Pakhi over her, which he should change once and for all.

As far as I think as being a boy, yeah when talked about sai whatever the situation is somewhere deep in her heart she always knew that Virat will not gonna cheat her it was always like something came in front of her and she responded and same goes for Virat he always believed sai as it can be seen from many scenes like gulab Rao meet-up, vitthal mane's anab sanab on sai and kaku's doubt of savi in all these sai wasn't there always but Virat defended whether w.r.t. words or get involved in fight even when jagtap informed about savi he was like how can savi be my child if sai is not able to conceive they know each other well it was never the matter of celibacy though sai didn't believe in Virat from the very first moment she saw vinu and was like does he moved on? It's like there comes a time in your life where you want to hug someone, you want that someone with whom you want your pain to get opened to, cry out louder, feel that sense of belonging, that love, clear every misunderstanding, forget each other's mistakes and start a new life considering the problems whatever happened in our past and just be in our space as much as possible but at the same time present situation- the result of a long past doesn't allow you to take even a single step that yout heart always wanted to as sai said once hum dono pass zaroor hai par karib nhi and the leap period was just opposite they were not pass pass but karibi humesha se thi this is what sairat was and always be so it was all frustration of sai and Virat towards each other but the celibacy wala point never existed from the root you can see it like this that everyone knows that showing monopoly on your child and taking him away from his father and after accident his loss, not informing about his daughter's existence continuously showing monopolistic behaviour towards your child is one of the biggest crimes from any parent because what is right or wrong for kids after certain level of quarrel between couples is decided by law not them you don't have right to decide it on your own in this sai had already done a lot and both the kids were once involved in life threatening incidents that could have resulted in thier death because of sai but Virat and this show never mentioned on this Virat was like sai was always mera mera but never taken action against her or even described anywhere about it do not even after she found that sai is alive but vinayak is dead and also not after savi is his daughter he didn't mentioned about Sai's this side and aspects anywhere just wanted to throw his anger on sai by putting her in jail not w.r.t. having savi only to him just like sai he was feeling like being played by sai with his emotions and he didn't expected sai to go to this extent but never ever wanted sai to be away from their child and same goes with sai she after being found didn't mentioned or not even wanted clarification about the relationships running now as far as I know this isn't bigamy since sai was assumed to be dead and yeah Virat really visited kankavli for the first time during Vinayak's treatment, she would have sorted out all these you are not allowed to live life this way it results in many unwanted consequences that lead to the pain factor among them but she didn't taken any action towards clarification.

So yeah when talked about celibacy it wasn't the point there will always be trust between sairat and when talked about what matters to sai is not the clarification of emotional connection between Virat and pakhi it is that can we just have a talk and have the indirect communication for a while and let ourself get to that space we used to share without the limitations imposed by our presents which will lead to clarification, understanding each other's past and what can we do now? Not directly between them but with different incidents this will gonna take progression and the ultimate outburst will result the togetherness of forever between them......as per my pov