What matters to sai? - Page 6

As of now I am not shipping them together .. V and S .. because it will end up more heartache, sacrifices and expectations for Sai

Virat is not in that phase at all ..Sai should stay far far away from him emotionally..

Ujanpur is track in KD where Rono is fully in support of Emon and she doesn't give him bhaav.

Pretty similar to V Sai equation right now.

Him camping outside her house is same to what Rono did.

If Vanku has selectively picked up KD again, then V will repent and regret his mistakes and will make up for it.

In KD there's a fake organ racket or something which is blamed on Emon. Here it looks like goons.

I'm not a regular viewer of the show after the Shruti track- the acting and gaslighting at that stage put me off the show for a long time, but BK flipping for Sai made me watch a few episodes.

If I can make a guess - nothing other than her kids matters to Sai. She has burnt the lover/wife inside her and only the mother remains now. Her utter nonchalance when it comes to VP's relationship is the proof. She doesn't consider Virat as hers anymore and so doesn't feel emotionally uprooted everytime she sees them together. Virat knows that and it grates him. Pakhi does not and that is why she seems to think that her Fevicol ad with Virat is going to rattle Sai.

Obviously in the future she is going to be Virat's again, but as of right now, only Savi and Vinu are her priority. All her actions - coming to Nagpur, or CN or any concessions she has given to the Chavans has been for her children. She is hoping that Virat turns out to be a better father than he was a husband, especially because the kids hero-worship him. If Virat-Sai happens in the future, it will be because the kids really want to happen and she relents to give them a wholesome family. A relationship, if any other than mother-father, will happen only after that. Maybe it'll be a slow burn where Virat and the kids pull down her wall brick by brick. That would be a great track to watch, but considering that the PL is unavoidable, that seems unlikely. Fingers crossed though.

By marrying PL, for whatever reason, after she destroyed their marital life, Virat proved Sai's worst nightmares true. That is a betrayal I never want her to forget, even if she forgives. Virat is fickle when it comes to matters of the heart, and I want Sai to be weary of that fact so that it doesn't happen again. VP's physical relationship or lack thereof is the last thing on her mind. Emotional fidelity is Virat's Achilles' heel, not physical.

Originally posted by: Moor278

That's what I don't recall exactly... but based on whatever I remember... VP relationship status has not come out after the pheras and HM. It got sidelined in the Vinu reveal situation...

And like I said, V doesn't know P video called Sai or Vinu video called Saavi. In both instances Sai has seen a lot... why would she not assume that VP did everything?

You think it's good that she accepts him as father but not as husband???? I thought I would be crucified for saying this 🤣. Darr rahi thi main 🙈🙈🙈

Hasn't she already accepted V as father? There's no question really... they are working as parents since quite a few days now. But doesn't look like V can be back as lover 🤪... uske liye bada drama chahiye.

He doesn't know that Sai knows about their honeymoon trip?

Originally posted by: mysticriver

He doesn't know that Sai knows about their honeymoon trip?

I dont think so... as in she knows they went on trip... but P showed her room decorations and all... he was not in the room when that phone call happened I think

Originally posted by: mysticriver

He doesn't know that Sai knows about their honeymoon trip?

Moor

I missed your post amidst so many tags… your own tags. 😅

yes you expressed clearly. I also accept it. This is what I would have done in real life scenario. If he is celibate it gives me immense relief. Though I would have a deep wound which just his celibacy will not heal it. And I would have taken him back only because kids need him and I was responsible also for not coming back. That is the logical ending.

But we are talking about a love story and therefore I want her to get back virat without any doubts. A better version who knows what went wrong. That would make the story beautiful if not realistic. Thinking from that perspective I wanted him to prioritize her, show her it was she who always was his priority but he messed up.

I am still hanging on to KJs words. 😅

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I asked this to few friends before! Wanting to know more about sai’s mindset.

What I think lately is that sai knows virat didn’t move on with pakhi after picnic accident. The vows freaked her out. Later seeing pakhi’s situation she would have also understood virat would not have consummated with her. Somewhere she knows he is a celibate without her. Still she will not accept him because for her I think his emotional involvement has been the problem always.

See how she accuses him of understanding pakhi’s mamta but not hers. How he supports her every time and picks pakhi over her. It is like pre leap only. She might think he didn’t change a bit after she is gone. He still takes pakhi’s side, now more because she is his wife.

Ultimately his celibacy is just a cherry on cake for sai. He is celibate which gives her some comfort but that is not enough for her! What mattered to her always, even when they had healthy and active sex life was that he didn’t support her when needed. So if virat gives back vinu to her, she will melt for him. She knows he misses her physically so she might be okay with his closeness. Though she might not let him cross the line?? Tomorrow if pakhi accuses her of seducing him which she already did multiple times during pani puri date also, sai will not get offended. But if Virat supports her and puts pakhi down, it will melt her more.

Bottom line is proving celibacy is not a big deal, sai might already know he is celibate. No one will consummate with a bleeding from stitches kind of a lady. And she knew after picnic that virat loved her always. The vows are the major setback to her. His involvement with her. How will he prove to sai that there were no emotions involved when he is sharing his space and time with pakhi?

To understand my point better, contrast it with virat himslef. He was agitated that sai slept with another guy. He didn’t see a man lingering around sai. She doesn’t have anyone with her. But the thought of her sleeping with another man who could be savi’s father troubled him more. Once he found savi is his daughter, he understood easily sai never cheated him. Or have such feelings for anyone. But how can sai be sure, even if she know he is celibate?

For sai it is his emotional infedility that freaks her. Now that he is married, he is emotionally involved with pakhi. How will he prove her his love? Only way is to prioritize her at every step. Show her that she comes first!!! Right?

It is hard to clearly put out my thoughts on this! The summary is virat’s celibacy doesn’t matter to sai anymore. She might Already know he is celibate. What matters is his emotional investment in pakhi!

Additionally to what I have already spoken about emotional infidelity....

Sai, V and P are differently built. And each has their own needs and understanding of love and marriage and what they prioritise in a relationship. Hence, it is imperative that we figure out that aspect to understand them and their actions.

Sai - Something I have spoken about a few times. Sai is a strong woman, who fights her own battles. But the strongest of people need support. The only problem with such people is that they don't seek that openly. For them it is a display of weakness, and showing their vulnerability which can be used against them. And they are too proud to show that too. However, silently they expect their person to understand and stand by them in their hour of need. That is Sai. She will not plead or beg. Just like when she left with Vinu. She gave him a choice, and silently expected him to support when the entire family was against her. And he failed. For Sai, more than physical proximity, emotional bonding matters more. And supporting her without her asking for it, is an extension to that.

V - He is a blend of both. He is someone who demands a person in a wholesome manner. There is no compromise. Ajinkya, JM or his doubts about some man in Sai's life are the proofs that he cannot tolerate the thought of Sai being in a physical relationship with anyone. The emotional connect with Sai was not explored till lately. This is because V failed to recognise her need for it. Sai's breakdown in front him in the cafe was that revelation. This is why he was happy. She fulfilled the other half of his need in their relationship. Emotional dependency. She sought him emotionally. And that became wholesome. See how post that he became more active. His bend towards her increased. Because he wanted to provide her that emotional support which he never experienced from her end before.

And this will answer the question, why V looked for P early on whenever he fought with Sai. Because he connected with P on an emotional level. She bared herself, and he felt easy to express and share things with her. With Sai it didn't come so easily. Because the male ego is at play there. Sai being strong and not seeking his emotional support, discouraged him from sharing his own emotional plight. This part is very clearly during Sai's miscarriage and their subsequent counselling session. He brings up the fact that Sai is much stronger and has taken the news more easily while he is struggling.

P - P is someone who seeks carnal pleasures in a relationship. For her emotions don't hold priority. This is why she was never happy with the "Best Friend" status and always tried to change the rules in their friendship. This is why she wants to involve with V physically despite being aware that his heart lies with Sai. For her, once she establishes a physical relationship with V, he will get tied to her. And physically tying him to her is all that counts. Precisely why she tried to get close with V physically, even when he shared his sorrows with her. It really wasn't her concern. She only used that as means to create rift between Sai and V. The only reason she heard him ought was because she could only have in that capacity and she could emotionally tie him with their past and guilt trip him. Post leap shows this more evidently. Look where P freaks out the most. Not where they are talking. Where there is a physical touch. She goes crazy. For her the emotional connect between Sai-V doesn't matter. All she is trying to stop is physical connect. Because that is her understanding of a relationship. Even now, her fear is them getting intimate physically. V's love is immaterial. All she wants from V right now is to have conjugal relationship with her.

So yes, when the current issues are resolved in whatever capacity, Sai and V will have unresolved issues forbidding their union owing to their built. It will have to be another track altogether.

Well put out about virat. He wants sai to depend on him! That is a very male thing. Sai is independent woman who can fend for herself and she is emotionally strong too! Something which is virat’s pride and major worry too! He wants to be someone irreplaceable in sais life. He doesn’t understand that ofcourse sai needs him, much in the way her dad was to her! In the background always supporting her. He fails to recognize that she already placed him at his level. She always in her actions showed what he means to her. She came back to him every time when she could have easily walked out during deal marriage phase😭

And the only time she openly seeked his support he disappointed her. But by that time virat thought he tied her to him forever with the baby . He forgets that she values him much more than being her kids' father. 😅

They never had proper communication 😡

And all other women virat saw were sooo dependent on him that he had formed a complete different meaning for companionship 😅

Originally posted by: -honeydew-

he was coming back with Pakhi when they encountered Sai and kids at an eatery , and she subsequently was called by Pulkit to operate on PL as knew her case well - so he does know - only those days he was more into giving his marriage a chance and then learning Vinu was his son - so though it was not expressly stated - PL also said to Virat after the surgery that she will never be able to beat him a child, so she may have assumed they wanted to make a fresh start - however sai is not one of those people who would think only a physical relationship would complete a marriage - his other actions, loyalty and emotional breakdown showed how effected he was after her operation and she did act supportive of him for standing by his wife - that way Sai never expressed her pain over not holding any importance in Virat’s current life - if anything she always brought up her past pain and what happened before she left. Virat isn’t aware of what’s going on in her life right now and he doesn’t have the guts to question her as well, since the one time he dragged her out to question him she showed him his place

I know all that & have seen but I'm asking does he know that Sai is aware of them going on honeymoon?