GHKPM Social media update thread #44 - Page 86

Originally posted by: Shaome

see according to them we hate aish because she plays the other woman in the show..also what i have been observing this team is extremely amateur and completely alienated from audience..As a result they lost six shows back to back ...Otherwise this issue could have been sorted long ago...The last blow was SJ..It was a stupid move by the channel

We hate Pakhi not Aish. Honestly I never had an issue with her till Holi 2021 when she started her crap, it just got worse and then the prega reel and who the hell are they was the last straw for me. I never had an issue with their relationship too till holi 2021 when they started mixing reel and real. If they kept it to sairat and kept a balance honestly we all would have liked neil aish as a pair and this FD itself would have rooted for them in SJ!

Oh manh… too much to say but I will stop at … there is always two sides of a coin!

Yes trolling can and should not be tolerated. Similarly you cannot forget your own actions and words that causes it.

Also it’s not like only one person gets trolled, it’s the person who makes the most noise about that troll gets noticed. We think others are only loved.

I feel everyone should be part of those corporate jobs once where they had clauses of why spouses cannot work in same team. Also some companies don’t even allow them to work on same company.

Alas, it’s always how you behave ultimately matters, what are your word of choices. Consider this there are gazillion human beings so there will always be gazillion opinions!

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Siya, Getting trolled is not part of any job description. It is unacceptable. It's unfortunate that actors face it. But no way can it be normalised. It is like saying a girl should get used to lecherous looks from men because that's how the world is. Even as an uninvolved party, my experience in SM...reading the nasty, horrible comments...one can sense the dent it will cause to the targeted person's self esteem. And that's cruel. And it is incessant. Trolling is very very very problematic...it can never be okay.

i agree with you thatt trolling never should be justified...These actors are doing their job as we are paying them to do so...But doesnt mean we own them..Trolling can take toll on anyone's mental health..

What siya means what is the point of fighting with bunch of faceless people..Some actors, while I cant deny that actually invite trolls..Not mentioning the names🤢

Originally posted by: Moor278

Not just sympathy... from the post leap scenario they are highlighting the difference between Sai and P's upbringing beautifully and openly.

Even today everyone has commented on how Vinu can do online shopping and Saavi on the other hand is well trained enough to offer water and tea to BK.

CN scenes in my opinion get second hand treatment.... no subtlety and nuance while Sai's scene with even UM bringing her food gets a thought process.

This is prominent in the last few episodes... and its surprising to me why people feel P gets footage and importance. All her scenes only evoke anger and cringe.

Sorry to jump on but I want to give an example here for why people think she gets advantage or pissed of at treatment of that character

Like you said, they r showing difference between the two women to US viewers- now for scene you said about Vinu n how everyone notice upbringing difference- BUT problem is that on the show they will make characters say Oh Savi is dumb n poor. Not tech savy n smart. Unlike Vinu. Or Sai cant provide enough as mother.

Thos one is hypothetical but we saw plenty such occasions where PL should have been reprimanded but was praised for being Sansakri n mature. After her openly screaming how Sai came in between her n Virat, or Virat calling her mature n sankari after she proposes to runaway with him, or Sai calls her good mother etc etc. The list is very long.

And that twisted narrative is what people are mad about- what they they show and what they end up concluding are opposite. Its as if they are trying to keep both actors happy cause they have to be positive. PL gets whitewashed and Sai gets sympathy.

Till date after so much not a single person is referring PL as negative character. Chanel did it once to get out of complain n now they r back to its human mature/fate/mother band wagon.

PS: Last few months were PL heavy. And I can’t deny that there is now. Shift in Screen time. But also cause narrative has changed and now Virat, BK needs to be whitewashed through Sai and Savi- so their screen time will increase for now.

Also Ayesha is trolling.But we don't see her bitched about it. Trolling the artists has become part of the profession.This does not mean that it is correct.

But whoever enters this field knows the conditions,and he accepted it, so he must learn to deal with it.

The artist cannot antagonize the audience.

If you can't get out.

Originally posted by: Coolmeg

Oh manh… too much to say but I will stop at … there is always two sides of a coin!

Yes trolling can and should not be tolerated. Similarly you cannot forget your own actions and words that causes it.

Also it’s not like only one person gets trolled, it’s the person who makes the most noise about that troll gets noticed. We think others are only loved.

I feel everyone should be part of those corporate jobs once where they had clauses of why spouses cannot work in same team. Also some companies don’t even allow them to work on same company.

Alas, it’s always how you behave ultimately matters, what are your word of choices. Consider this there are gazillion human beings so there will always be gazillion opinions!

Agree 💯

Anyone who has done trainings on unconscious biases will understand. Why corporate policy of no spouses on same team/project makes sense.

In acting its even more difficult to be unbiased cause you are enacting a fictional situation but you see the person you love in that situation n its hard to not be yourself.

There is this nice IV of Ravi- Sargun Ka husband, after her song release where the story is the girl goes crazy and is destroyed in love for a man.

He said he couldn’t see that last but n threw away phone. He very nicely explained that how he can never take his wife’s face out of that scene. He is in industry n has worked n seen lot of qork but at some point he as a husband could not see that.

Having said that, there are many who have managed to play different characters despite being married. But most kept their relationship low key till show ended.

Point being- as soon as personal equation starts affecting the work- its time to step back. Mostly onus is on employer n then on employee- if it affects their relationship or mental health.

However in Ghum they seem to have milked out of this conflict. All are benefiting from this drama. Couple got to do a whole show. Cried victim n got more clout for Ghum. Sai character gets lost of love sympathy on n off screen. So it seems they r using it to their advantage.

Its just that its may be hard as audience to accept that people in creative field would prioritize benefit over audience satisfaction- but these days everything is business. If it generates number n money - nothing is off the table for them.

Originally posted by: Moor278

Not just sympathy... from the post leap scenario they are highlighting the difference between Sai and P's upbringing beautifully and openly.

Even today everyone has commented on how Vinu can do online shopping and Saavi on the other hand is well trained enough to offer water and tea to BK.

CN scenes in my opinion get second hand treatment.... no subtlety and nuance while Sai's scene with even UM bringing her food gets a thought process.

This is prominent in the last few episodes... and its surprising to me why people feel P gets footage and importance. All her scenes only evoke anger and cringe.

i think majority of the times pakhi's misdeeds are never called out on the show...Example her surrogacy crime still has not been mentioned byy anyone except sai, hence I guess such reaction.. I think this ph really thrives on negative publicity 😆

For example kavya, pakhi and the first king gets enough bashing in the show itself, so there is hardly any mention of their characters in the social media 😆

Originally posted by: Sab07

However in Ghum they seem to have milked out of this conflict. All are benefiting from this drama. Couple got to do a whole show. Cried victim n got more clout for Ghum. Sai character gets lost of love sympathy on n off screen. So it seems they r using it to their advantage.

Its just that its may be hard as audience to accept that people in creative field would prioritize benefit over audience satisfaction- but these days everything is business. If it generates number n money - nothing is off the table for them.

Bang on!

They don’t care as long as they are getting fame and money. Morals don’t matter to them, it matters to people like us. At the end they earn a hefty paycheck to lead a lavish life.
They all are gaining in some way or another and as audience it’s on us to give clout and hype to those that matter. we should learn to be wise.
There Will always be a few fish who spoil the pond but at the end if majority ignores we will be able to be saner. Hence I get agitated with the theories on Virat Pakhi cause I know it irritates and yet people indulge in it, when it comes we should bash but why think about it before and get all riled up overthinking and ruining our moods.

Originally posted by: Svt611

Bang on!

They don’t care as long as they are getting fame and money. Morals don’t matter to them, it matters to people like us. At the end they earn a hefty paycheck to lead a lavish life.
They all are gaining in some way or another and as audience it’s on us to give clout and hype to those that matter. we should learn to be wise.
There Will always be a few fish who spoil the pond but at the end if majority ignores we will be able to be saner. Hence I get agitated with the theories on Virat Pakhi cause I know it irritates and yet people indulge in it, when it comes we should bash but why think about it before and get all riled up overthinking and ruining our moods.

Pakhi & Aishwarya too. I'll not mention particularly lol but I've legit seen how xyz is irritated with P, matlab irritated ho woh bhi dus baar bolne samaye irritate nehi hote even in Pakhi free episodes like idk what to say

Originally posted by: mysticriver

Pakhi & Aishwarya too. I'll not mention particularly lol but I've legit seen how xyz is irritated with P, matlab irritated ho woh bhi dus baar bolne samaye irritate nehi hote even in Pakhi free episodes like idk what to say

Bohot log hai. They keep giving so much importance to her and her existence. Bhai you don’t like her stop talking about her opening threads on her and giving her that weightage. But this constant that Pakhi this that usko yeh milega Aree jab ayega dekhenge till then stop with theories, it just makes it hard to be positive.
like this rose thing, let it come and we will see before that only everyone has made up their mind and changed the entire topic to Pakhi today…. Kyun yaar.