Originally posted by: Krinya
What's right and what's wrong is just a matter of perspective. Akshu hid the truth , she had to fake marriage (it can be a legal marriage too we just don't know ) , she hid abhirs truth , there is an abhinav in her life , all these events occurred in her life BECAUSE abhimanyu threw her out AND refused to answer her calls , talk to her , shun her down completely by saying that she shouldn't ever come bk in his life and he doesn't care about any bacha or akshu.
My common sense tells me that if he is that mad on akshu to tell her she shouldn't dare come bk in his life again, how is she to tell him that our baby is alive so here I come bk in your life again...how is she to tell him, "here is the reason we can be together again " , after hearing from him "nai parwahuski ya uske bache ki" ..... Again the same doormatish behavior if she exhibited I would never be writing this.
Akshu had to take these "wrong" decisions bec life threw a curveball at her ,thanks to abhi, and she had to protect her son ..the person who was god sent , who saved both their lives , she put her fate in his hands .
Yes she can raise him as a single mother too , just like naira ..but what's wrong with abhinav ? He is acha admi? He doesn't have chemistry with akshu? Ultimately abhira is the end game ? Akshu can't love anyone no matter what abhi does? Coz abhir is there to bring them together , the safest and best excuse , abhir must know his paternity ? For aforementioned reasons , expose the 5 yr old kid to a complicated messed up past and even messed up future ? I don't agree.
Let abhimanyu know through any source. If akshu tells him her butchering started along with abhi
And here is my perspective:
Abhi has no excuse for throwing Akshara out at that point in life. If he wanted to separate, he could have done so in a civil manner.
However, I do not agree that all that happened to her was due to Abhi. People are acting as if Akshara was homeless without the Birla. She was not. She had her own family who were rich enough to take care of her and her baby and neither would they have pressurised her to go back to Abhi. If she wanted, they would have even funded her for an accommodation elsewhere. I don't know about others but if I was in her situation, my utmost priority would be my baby and I would never risk living with a stranger with little to no money in a country where hosptial fees are tall and especially when I know that the pregnancy is complicated. When bade papa came to see her, she refused to meet him so I am sorry, it was her own choice to go on this journey. I'll repeat that it's a show so I can ignore all the illogical nonsense but in reality, a woman would not risk her baby's life when she has a loving family to support her and I'd deem it very reckless if one did venture out alone despite knowing the risks because in real life, Nav like people are uncommon.
I also do not like this call excuse people keep bringing up because again, if I were to place myself in her shoes then I would not call the father of my baby and then not tell him about the baby. Agreed, Abhi was a jerk and I don't feel so bad for him that he doesn't know yet because he could have listened but at the same time, Akshara could also have made it certain that she is still pregnant. In my opinion, the vague phone calls were abysmal and in real life this would never happen. Abhi did ring her back but Nav picked up and again, Abhi was never told about his babies. He was reminded of his babies (which were deemed dead in his mind) but never actually made clear that his babies were alive. If people can excuse Akshara and nav for such silly phone calls then I think even Abhi deserves a benefit of the doubt that maybe he just did not want to keep being reminded that his babies were dead. It should be noted that Abhi never actually rejected the babies, he said he does not want to talk about them and it is not so difficult to understand this phrase coming from someone who is mourning.
I blame bade papa too in this. He knew the situation but he never tried to dilute it. Both Abhi and Akshara needed an advice from an elder but the elders did nothing to cease the misunderstanding.
Not suggesting Akshara to go back (I actually never want to see Abhira together again) but the phone calls are a poor excuse to justify Akshara hiding the truth.
I don't think you understand my point about Abhir and Nav. I don't hate Nav, I just dislike this fake story Akshara has cooked up in order to give a "better life" to abhir. It would have been acceptable had Akshara and nav been a real couple but they are not. It is very clear that Akshara is with nav as a friend so my question is that if you are only friends then why not bring Abhir up as friends? Regardless of Abhir knowing about Abhi, if he finds out about this fake love story then this alone will break him. Maybe they will dilute this topic on the show but I'm thinking how a child would react if he were to find out that his mum and dad are just acting and the family he believes to be real, is all a facade. Now, Abhir not only has to deal with Abhi's truth but he also has to deal with this lie. There was no need to fake things, that's my point. Nav could have been a great guardian for Abhir too.
If Abhinav and Akshara were really a couple then I wouldn't be complaining.
Also, this marriage cannot be a legal one for various reasons (legally).
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