Ak makes a mistake: Epi AirDate Jan 23 2023 - Page 26

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

From start his anger is due to his dysfunctional family and their relationships at home.His hate in his father always made him raise to save his mother against his wrath. When Ak went against him or his words his anger starts.This is his in-built system in him opposing what he does not want near in that way. Harsh after divorced with manjari , abhi has nothing to worry of his mom so that anger was not there. It's all diverted to ak only. He and his mom's mistakes he will never consider anytime as he ignores them stomps other.Parth is easily excused by abhi .mahima never got any bad treatment except one two days anger on her because they are his family .Ar did much much nonsense and now she is very casual normal for him in the name of losing Neil.He has enough destruction in life.As ak is married told to him he keeps her as a stranger woman and keeps that line. If she is single and stayed with a kid he could have tortured her by asking questions and mental abuse too.This man has lost everything in life after losing Ak.So he has no feelings left for anything except passing time in the name of Ruhi responsibility. All his emotions are associated with akshara only. He won't share anything with anyone it's waste. Even if he married Ar out of Matas force , there won't be anything it's just a stale life. He can't give her anything except a wife tag.

When he loves her so dearly why is he so inhumane towards her? He claims that he can't live without her from the beginning. When Harsh said Ak yeh ladaki,he became very violent and fought with him before marriage.After marriage there was a sudden change in his behavior and attitude towards her.to some extent Ak's interference in his family matters in spite of his unwillingness is the main reason,during mata's marriage anniversary, Neil adoption track, etc.no need to be so rude for such small reasons..

He is considerate towards others expect Ak ..during khera track also he was numb and insensible towards her till the truth of Kairav out and involvement of parth ,mahima out..

Amazingly in spite of knowing Ar's truths and her manipulations,her blackmailing, her fake pregnancy, he is so friendly and cool towards her, . but with regard to Ak ,he can't even hear her side of story and treats her very badly..Really it's disgusting to watch a hero's character,behaving so rudely with his wife in the given circumstances of mc.

Many youngsters try to follow and imitate heroes in the movies or itv ,the makers are setting bad examples to society.

Even after leap, his behavior is mysterious and taunting her as if she is only at fault .I don't like his crying for everything with his mother like nursery kid..though the actor can get along with any emotion realistically, it doesn't mean he weeps for everything 😉 taking mata's pallu and her lap.

The makers made his character laughing stock ..

I used to rewatch the initial episodes ,but now I don't feel like watching as it sounds their lovey dovey scenes are just fake and artificial. They are no longer carry their essence of love.,soul connection which has to be appreciated ,accepted and understand each other unconditionally during tough situations..they failed miserably..

The makers made the ml terribly awful and repugnant for trps.

Even if they show now that they care and love eachother ,we feel what next another situation like this,another misunderstanding, another separation, another divorce,same repeat and rinse...

I am done,just venting out frustration 😤. I pity myself for investing my time and energy on this dumb and insensible show just for the sake of favorite actors.

Seems abhi in drunken mode tamasha created..akshu s devasted or abhinav proposed kya

https://twitter.com/abhira_fd/status/1617969676872736769?s=19

Originally posted by: Aarthiviji

Seems abhi in drunken mode tamasha created..akshu s devasted or abhinav proposed kya

https://twitter.com/abhira_fd/status/1617969676872736769?s=19

Originally posted by: SunnyWhite

When he loves her so dearly why is he so inhumane towards her? He claims that he can't live without her from the beginning. When Harsh said Ak yeh ladaki,he became very violent and fought with him before marriage.After marriage there was a sudden change in his behavior and attitude towards her.to some extent Ak's interference in his family matters in spite of his unwillingness is the main reason,during mata's marriage anniversary, Neil adoption track, etc.no need to be so rude for such small reasons..

He is considerate towards others expect Ak ..during khera track also he was numb and insensible towards her till the truth of Kairav out and involvement of parth ,mahima out..

Amazingly in spite of knowing Ar's truths and her manipulations,her blackmailing, her fake pregnancy, he is so friendly and cool towards her, . but with regard to Ak ,he can't even hear her side of story and treats her very badly..Really it's disgusting to watch a hero's character,behaving so rudely with his wife in the given circumstances of mc.

Many youngsters try to follow and imitate heroes in the movies or itv ,the makers are setting bad examples to society.

Even after leap, his behavior is mysterious and taunting her as if she is only at fault .I don't like his crying for everything with his mother like nursery kid..though the actor can get along with any emotion realistically, it doesn't mean he weeps for everything 😉 taking mata's pallu and her lap.

The makers made his character laughing stock ..

I used to rewatch the initial episodes ,but now I don't feel like watching as it sounds their lovey dovey scenes are just fake and artificial. They are no longer carry their essence of love.,soul connection which has to be appreciated ,accepted and understand each other unconditionally during tough situations..they failed miserably..

The makers made the ml terribly awful and repugnant for trps.

Even if they show now that they care and love eachother ,we feel what next another situation like this,another misunderstanding, another separation, another divorce,same repeat and rinse...

I am done,just venting out frustration 😤. I pity myself for investing my time and energy on this dumb and insensible show just for the sake of favorite actors.

Originally posted by: SunnyWhite

When he loves her so dearly why is he so inhumane towards her? He claims that he can't live without her from the beginning. When Harsh said Ak yeh ladaki,he became very violent and fought with him before marriage.After marriage there was a sudden change in his behavior and attitude towards her.to some extent Ak's interference in his family matters in spite of his unwillingness is the main reason,during mata's marriage anniversary, Neil adoption track, etc.no need to be so rude for such small reasons..

He is considerate towards others expect Ak ..during khera track also he was numb and insensible towards her till the truth of Kairav out and involvement of parth ,mahima out..

Amazingly in spite of knowing Ar's truths and her manipulations,her blackmailing, her fake pregnancy, he is so friendly and cool towards her, . but with regard to Ak ,he can't even hear her side of story and treats her very badly..Really it's disgusting to watch a hero's character,behaving so rudely with his wife in the given circumstances of mc.

Many youngsters try to follow and imitate heroes in the movies or itv ,the makers are setting bad examples to society.

Even after leap, his behavior is mysterious and taunting her as if she is only at fault .I don't like his crying for everything with his mother like nursery kid..though the actor can get along with any emotion realistically, it doesn't mean he weeps for everything 😉 taking mata's pallu and her lap.

The makers made his character laughing stock ..

I used to rewatch the initial episodes ,but now I don't feel like watching as it sounds their lovey dovey scenes are just fake and artificial. They are no longer carry their essence of love.,soul connection which has to be appreciated ,accepted and understand each other unconditionally during tough situations..they failed miserably..

The makers made the ml terribly awful and repugnant for trps.

Even if they show now that they care and love eachother ,we feel what next another situation like this,another misunderstanding, another separation, another divorce,same repeat and rinse...

I am done,just venting out frustration 😤. I pity myself for investing my time and energy on this dumb and insensible show just for the sake of favorite actors.

Firstly, I'm going to say is that these are fictional characters. They are at the whim of the writers who can take them to down to the lowest of the lows and pull them up to the highest of highs for the sake of TRP. Trying to peg them into a particular hole and do so much introspective on these oscillating characters is a bit fool hardy particularly so with the current writing team of YRKHH. We can be honest here, this season's writing is bad.

Expectations vs Reality

When we were first introduced to Abhimanyu Birla he seemed to be on the surface a mature doctor. He loved his mother, loved his brother, and had his reasons for not getting married. Which we soon discovered was most likely because of the relationship his mother and father had. We saw the doctor wasn't perfect he had his flaws such as his anger. But it seemed that anger was justified with the way his father treated his mother. And he stood up against wrong.

Akshara Goenka was introduced as this bubbly girl who was raised in a warm family oriented environment. But despite her smiles she carried with her the guilt of her step mother's death and the promise to look after her younger half sister who unfortunately, spared no minutes of the day to taunt and belittle her for just being alive.

Over a course of a two day trip Abhi ends up falling in love with Akshu. Of course we know he fell in love with her voice first but later when he meets her he falls even more for her personality and her good heart.

I believe we all thought that the story would go this angry young man would find solace in a peppy but mature girl who will some how transform the relationships in the Birla family. But then...it didn't exact go that way. We received two people who fell in love and were enamored with the concept of "love" and how their problems or issue would just disappear or get fixed with "love". These two were in for a rude awakening. The trauma they both carried with them that were never addressed just seemed to have exacerbate when they got together mostly due to their outlook on life and how they personally tackled problems.

Abhi is impulsive, becomes overly emotional when faced with highly stressful situations involving his family, and he is use to breaking things and relationships instead of mending. Much of this has to do with the trauma of seeing his mother in a toxic relationship with his father. Abhi is forced to become a protector for his mother. Because he cannot fully control their relationship and their dynamics the only thing he can control is himself. This most likely explains his OCD behavior. So for Abhi who has never seen what a loving equal partnership relationship is like has trouble balancing what that should look like in his personal marital life. He cannot control his family so the only way to protect himself and Akshu is to put limits on what they should or should not do with the family. He knows how toxic and negative they can be. So he tries to control the situation by telling Akshu don't get involved with them. But what he fails to understand is you cannot control life. Situations happen and you will have to deal with them. Also, it doesn't help that Akshu also tends to do things on her own regardless.

For him his anger is a big thing. For the first few fights he didn't know how to handle himself because the situation was beyond his control. He was more angry at the fact that Akshu was getting pulled into the situation and there was no way to defend her. He choose to keep silent so he wouldn't explode on her. I didn't like his treatment of her then as well. This is where we would expect after such heavy fights and a few days of cool down a discussion would be had between the two to better understand how they could have handled it better. But we never got one. It wasn't until after the hand separation track and talking about second chances did they start to communicate with each other more. Things were looking up. Then we had this forced painful and cruel separation.

Abhi is a very flawed character. To think his anger wouldn't one day turn on Akshu is well crazy talk. Of course it was going to come back around and dump on Akshu. We expected Abhi to learn be better after each fight but his learning curve was always too slow. Believe everyone else and what you see instead of talking to the one person you are mad at. Why? Is it because you don't want to believe the worst? Because if you hear it from Akshu who you know won't lie to you and if it is the worst case scenario you won't know what to do? You have lost control? Half the time I think Abhi acts the way he does is because he is afraid. He is afraid of getting hurt. And because he grew up in such a negative environment he assumes the worst first.

I never bought the soul connection. That was established with the original writer and creator of Abhi and Akshu. He had more of a mythical touch and soul connection. But he has long since left.

To me Akshu and Abhi fit the twin flames concept more. Two halves that push each other and bring out the best but also shows the mirror to their worst traits. To some extent we have seen how Abhi and Akshu have affected each other. Abhi did become calmer and Akshu did become more confident in herself. Its a slow progression with some major and extreme cases for each lesson. But writers keep doing 1 step forward and 2 steps back.

I don't know if my rambling made any sense and if it answered any of your questions about Abhi's behavior towards Akshu. In some sense Akshu just traded one toxic relationship for another. Abhi's control to not become like his father has caused him to become like his father. He may not be violent towards Akshu but his anger and in ability to keep his emotions in check when they fight is his biggest flaw. Akshu isn't without her own issues. She does what she wants without properly thinking out the consequences of her actions. She cannot see the bigger picture because she is too busy worrying about the other person. She has good intentions but sometimes when good intentions continuously land you into trouble you have to change some of that behavior. She has to think about herself first and how things can affect her.

what a fantastic write up Grace.❤️. So well balanced.

I do like the soul connection though, however unrealistic, that is what drew us to Abhira.

Loved this analogy.

"To me Akshu and Abhi fit the twin flames concept more. Two halves that push each other and bring out the best but also shows the mirror to their worst traits. To some extent we have seen how Abhi and Akshu have affected each other. Abhi did become calmer and Akshu did become more confident in herself. Its a slow progression with some major and extreme cases for each lesson. But writers keep doing 1 step forward and 2 steps back".

Makers are taking it very slow, not complaining because they have also rushed tracks in the past, but we do need to see some progression just not what we are dreading.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

Firstly, I'm going to say is that these are fictional characters. They are at the whim of the writers who can take them to down to the lowest of the lows and pull them up to the highest of highs for the sake of TRP. Trying to peg them into a particular hole and do so much introspective on these oscillating characters is a bit fool hardy particularly so with the current writing team of YRKHH. We can be honest here, this season's writing is bad.

Expectations vs Reality

When we were first introduced to Abhimanyu Birla he seemed to be on the surface a mature doctor. He loved his mother, loved his brother, and had his reasons for not getting married. Which we soon discovered was most likely because of the relationship his mother and father had. We saw the doctor wasn't perfect he had his flaws such as his anger. But it seemed that anger was justified with the way his father treated his mother. And he stood up against wrong.

Akshara Goenka was introduced as this bubbly girl who was raised in a warm family oriented environment. But despite her smiles she carried with her the guilt of her step mother's death and the promise to look after her younger half sister who unfortunately, spared no minutes of the day to taunt and belittle her for just being alive.

Over a course of a two day trip Abhi ends up falling in love with Akshu. Of course we know he fell in love with her voice first but later when he meets her he falls even more for her personality and her good heart.

I believe we all thought that the story would go this angry young man would find solace in a peppy but mature girl who will some how transform the relationships in the Birla family. But then...it didn't exact go that way. We received two people who fell in love and were enamored with the concept of "love" and how their problems or issue would just disappear or get fixed with "love". These two were in for a rude awakening. The trauma they both carried with them that were never addressed just seemed to have exacerbate when they got together mostly due to their outlook on life and how they personally tackled problems.

Abhi is impulsive, becomes overly emotional when faced with highly stressful situations involving his family, and he is use to breaking things and relationships instead of mending. Much of this has to do with the trauma of seeing his mother in a toxic relationship with his father. Abhi is forced to become a protector for his mother. Because he cannot fully control their relationship and their dynamics the only thing he can control is himself. This most likely explains his OCD behavior. So for Abhi who has never seen what a loving equal partnership relationship is like has trouble balancing what that should look like in his personal marital life. He cannot control his family so the only way to protect himself and Akshu is to put limits on what they should or should not do with the family. He knows how toxic and negative they can be. So he tries to control the situation by telling Akshu don't get involved with them. But what he fails to understand is you cannot control life. Situations happen and you will have to deal with them. Also, it doesn't help that Akshu also tends to do things on her own regardless.

For him his anger is a big thing. For the first few fights he didn't know how to handle himself because the situation was beyond his control. He was more angry at the fact that Akshu was getting pulled into the situation and there was no way to defend her. He choose to keep silent so he wouldn't explode on her. I didn't like his treatment of her then as well. This is where we would expect after such heavy fights and a few days of cool down a discussion would be had between the two to better understand how they could have handled it better. But we never got one. It wasn't until after the hand separation track and talking about second chances did they start to communicate with each other more. Things were looking up. Then we had this forced painful and cruel separation.

Abhi is a very flawed character. To think his anger wouldn't one day turn on Akshu is well crazy talk. Of course it was going to come back around and dump on Akshu. We expected Abhi to learn be better after each fight but his learning curve was always too slow. Believe everyone else and what you see instead of talking to the one person you are mad at. Why? Is it because you don't want to believe the worst? Because if you hear it from Akshu who you know won't lie to you and if it is the worst case scenario you won't know what to do? You have lost control? Half the time I think Abhi acts the way he does is because he is afraid. He is afraid of getting hurt. And because he grew up in such a negative environment he assumes the worst first.

I never bought the soul connection. That was established with the original writer and creator of Abhi and Akshu. He had more of a mythical touch and soul connection. But he has long since left.

To me Akshu and Abhi fit the twin flames concept more. Two halves that push each other and bring out the best but also shows the mirror to their worst traits. To some extent we have seen how Abhi and Akshu have affected each other. Abhi did become calmer and Akshu did become more confident in herself. Its a slow progression with some major and extreme cases for each lesson. But writers keep doing 1 step forward and 2 steps back.

I don't know if my rambling made any sense and if it answered any of your questions about Abhi's behavior towards Akshu. In some sense Akshu just traded one toxic relationship for another. Abhi's control to not become like his father has caused him to become like his father. He may not be violent towards Akshu but his anger and in ability to keep his emotions in check when they fight is his biggest flaw. Akshu isn't without her own issues. She does what she wants without properly thinking out the consequences of her actions. She cannot see the bigger picture because she is too busy worrying about the other person. She has good intentions but sometimes when good intentions continuously land you into trouble you have to change some of that behavior. She has to think about herself first and how things can affect her.

This is so well written, Grace❤️

Abhi and Akshra both have their baggages which they brought into their relationship. They never properly shared that with each other either.

I keep thinking what would Abhi have done if he was in the situation Akshra was. I don't think Abhi would have waited for police to save the girls either.

But the fact that Abhi didn't have the control of the whole situation due te him being away, made him more angry. Him telling Akshu not to leave the room was a way of asserting some control and getting a peace of mind while he was away.

The changes in their personality after the leap is a step forward. But let's see how far it goes.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

Firstly, I'm going to say is that these are fictional characters. They are at the whim of the writers who can take them to down to the lowest of the lows and pull them up to the highest of highs for the sake of TRP. Trying to peg them into a particular hole and do so much introspective on these oscillating characters is a bit fool hardy particularly so with the current writing team of YRKHH. We can be honest here, this season's writing is bad.

Expectations vs Reality

When we were first introduced to Abhimanyu Birla he seemed to be on the surface a mature doctor. He loved his mother, loved his brother, and had his reasons for not getting married. Which we soon discovered was most likely because of the relationship his mother and father had. We saw the doctor wasn't perfect he had his flaws such as his anger. But it seemed that anger was justified with the way his father treated his mother. And he stood up against wrong.

Akshara Goenka was introduced as this bubbly girl who was raised in a warm family oriented environment. But despite her smiles she carried with her the guilt of her step mother's death and the promise to look after her younger half sister who unfortunately, spared no minutes of the day to taunt and belittle her for just being alive.

Over a course of a two day trip Abhi ends up falling in love with Akshu. Of course we know he fell in love with her voice first but later when he meets her he falls even more for her personality and her good heart.

I believe we all thought that the story would go this angry young man would find solace in a peppy but mature girl who will some how transform the relationships in the Birla family. But then...it didn't exact go that way. We received two people who fell in love and were enamored with the concept of "love" and how their problems or issue would just disappear or get fixed with "love". These two were in for a rude awakening. The trauma they both carried with them that were never addressed just seemed to have exacerbate when they got together mostly due to their outlook on life and how they personally tackled problems.

Abhi is impulsive, becomes overly emotional when faced with highly stressful situations involving his family, and he is use to breaking things and relationships instead of mending. Much of this has to do with the trauma of seeing his mother in a toxic relationship with his father. Abhi is forced to become a protector for his mother. Because he cannot fully control their relationship and their dynamics the only thing he can control is himself. This most likely explains his OCD behavior. So for Abhi who has never seen what a loving equal partnership relationship is like has trouble balancing what that should look like in his personal marital life. He cannot control his family so the only way to protect himself and Akshu is to put limits on what they should or should not do with the family. He knows how toxic and negative they can be. So he tries to control the situation by telling Akshu don't get involved with them. But what he fails to understand is you cannot control life. Situations happen and you will have to deal with them. Also, it doesn't help that Akshu also tends to do things on her own regardless.

For him his anger is a big thing. For the first few fights he didn't know how to handle himself because the situation was beyond his control. He was more angry at the fact that Akshu was getting pulled into the situation and there was no way to defend her. He choose to keep silent so he wouldn't explode on her. I didn't like his treatment of her then as well. This is where we would expect after such heavy fights and a few days of cool down a discussion would be had between the two to better understand how they could have handled it better. But we never got one. It wasn't until after the hand separation track and talking about second chances did they start to communicate with each other more. Things were looking up. Then we had this forced painful and cruel separation.

Abhi is a very flawed character. To think his anger wouldn't one day turn on Akshu is well crazy talk. Of course it was going to come back around and dump on Akshu. We expected Abhi to learn be better after each fight but his learning curve was always too slow. Believe everyone else and what you see instead of talking to the one person you are mad at. Why? Is it because you don't want to believe the worst? Because if you hear it from Akshu who you know won't lie to you and if it is the worst case scenario you won't know what to do? You have lost control? Half the time I think Abhi acts the way he does is because he is afraid. He is afraid of getting hurt. And because he grew up in such a negative environment he assumes the worst first.

I never bought the soul connection. That was established with the original writer and creator of Abhi and Akshu. He had more of a mythical touch and soul connection. But he has long since left.

To me Akshu and Abhi fit the twin flames concept more. Two halves that push each other and bring out the best but also shows the mirror to their worst traits. To some extent we have seen how Abhi and Akshu have affected each other. Abhi did become calmer and Akshu did become more confident in herself. Its a slow progression with some major and extreme cases for each lesson. But writers keep doing 1 step forward and 2 steps back.

I don't know if my rambling made any sense and if it answered any of your questions about Abhi's behavior towards Akshu. In some sense Akshu just traded one toxic relationship for another. Abhi's control to not become like his father has caused him to become like his father. He may not be violent towards Akshu but his anger and in ability to keep his emotions in check when they fight is his biggest flaw. Akshu isn't without her own issues. She does what she wants without properly thinking out the consequences of her actions. She cannot see the bigger picture because she is too busy worrying about the other person. She has good intentions but sometimes when good intentions continuously land you into trouble you have to change some of that behavior. She has to think about herself first and how things can affect her.

Grace beautifully 😍 explained

Thanks for explaining in detail the behavior of Abhi due to his trauma with his parent's scarred relationship and his anger issues.you are right,he is afraid to being hurt and Ak being pulled into the situations,he wanted to avoid it as far as possible in the beginning of their marriage, but our heroine is more interested in helping others than herself,her relationship with her husband 😀 which landed in deep trouble making their life upside down.

Your twin flames concept suits them perfectly 🥰

Now we should see the change in their attitudes towards life after learning life lessons in a hard way. khud se khud ka rista on the way.