Originally posted by: iheartChai
Sometimes you are product of your environment.
Anand has only thus far shown misogynistic tendencies. He never respects his wife’s work and has taken credit for ideas she gave. He and Mahima's real issue is the pressure they put on their children.
Harshvardhan is the one with the anger streak and it looks like all the Birla boys have inherited it. Abhi and Neil for the most part tried not be like their father but since they were never properly taught how to manage their anger it manifested out in their object throwing and their sharp tongues. Manjari was not equiped to guide them properly due to her own trauma and old school thinking of keeping everyone together in a "happy" family.
Mahima and Anand were too busy working at the hospital to care about what was going on in the domestic front. Also, they felt that it wasn't their business as to what Harshvardhan and his family were going through. That is how the Birla mindset has always been. Living as an extended family but act somewhat nuclear to each other’s family issues.
Truth is Abhi and Neil needed to go get therapy so they wouldn't become like Harshvardhan. As much as Abhi tried to self managed in the end his anger has destroyed his own life by pushing away the one person who whole heartedly loved him. If Abhi has let go of his anger I hope its because deep down he realized this was his downfall. But with the way the dialogues have been seems like the writers don't want to go that way 🤦♀️ He is still clueless.
I want to believe that on the day he heard Akshu re-married was the day he let it all go. And of course with Roohi in the picture he may have had a new sense of responsibility and he didn't want to make the child fearful of him. So he maintained.
But who knows Abhi's anger may comeback with Abhir's truth. But I would prefer it to be managed appropriately to show his growth.
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