How is abhir going to understand all this? - Page 3

I think it is absolutely disgusting how the feelings and rights of an adoptive parent is not even acknowledged. Are we really rooting for abhimanyu to swoop in like some shining hero to take away his son to a brighter future, why does he any right to do that. Gosh I will gag if they show abhir being attracted to abhimanyu abs, glamorous doctor father with the bigger house more money and discard a good man who saved his life.

Other than legally adopting abhir, abhinav is abhir father in everything but blood. Everyone is just assuming abhinav will go crazy, become jealous and possessive excuse me why shouldn’t he be pissed off if another man swoops in to claim his son. Abhinav relationship with akshara is separate from his love for his son, he doesn’t need akshara as a wife to claim abhir as his son. Akshara can forgive abhimanyu she can go back to him, that is her right to but she has no right to have her son be raised by another man and then go oooopssss I am sorry you can bugger off now. Abhinav has just as much rights on abhir as akshara doee, she can’t go back on her words just because abhimanyu feels bad. I can just see birla parivaar going all khandhan ka Khoon is being raised a beggar tour guide as humiliating and will demand abhir back, poor abhinav will either die or have his world destroyed and I have a bad feeling akshara will let this happen.

The fact the Abhir is more attached to Abhinav than Akshara just hurts my heart. In the milan of the two supposedly “lead characters” both Abhir and Abhinav will sadly suffer a lot. Akshara and Abhi just walk out when things aren’t well and get back together after years just like that but this time two other individuals are involved and both their lives revolve around one another.

Abhi is Abhir’s biological father but was never there during pregnancy nor upbringing so Abhinav has all rights over him oppose to Abhi.
I know Abhi and Birlas will try to take away Abhir from Akshara but that won’t go too well.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

I think it is absolutely disgusting how the feelings and rights of an adoptive parent is not even acknowledged. Are we really rooting for abhimanyu to swoop in like some shining hero to take away his son to a brighter future, why does he any right to do that. Gosh I will gag if they show abhir being attracted to abhimanyu abs, glamorous doctor father with the bigger house more money and discard a good man who saved his life.

Other than legally adopting abhir, abhinav is abhir father in everything but blood. Everyone is just assuming abhinav will go crazy, become jealous and possessive excuse me why shouldn’t he be pissed off if another man swoops in to claim his son. Abhinav relationship with akshara is separate from his love for his son, he doesn’t need akshara as a wife to claim abhir as his son. Akshara can forgive abhimanyu she can go back to him, that is her right to but she has no right to have her son be raised by another man and then go oooopssss I am sorry you can bugger off now. Abhinav has just as much rights on abhir as akshara doee, she can’t go back on her words just because abhimanyu feels bad. I can just see birla parivaar going all khandhan ka Khoon is being raised a beggar tour guide as humiliating and will demand abhir back, poor abhinav will either die or have his world destroyed and I have a bad feeling akshara will let this happen.

Originally posted by: luvakanksha

Yes but akshara didn't deny the right from abhimanyu. She tried contacting him multiple times keeping her ego her hurt aside. Abhi in his anger just refused to listen like I mentioned in 6 yrs his anger didn't cool off? He could have picked up the phone. But his ego refused. And akshu having an ego is not correct she made the first move and he refused to listen. It was abhi's turn to be a better person. N like I said things like this usually discussed in teens. When you are more secure and mature as a kid, otherwise you raise a child who is insecure about your love.

I'm not defending Abhi, his character is ruined for me. He randomly went from monitoring about Akshara's every move to then not even looking at her and the writers didnt even do a good job at making this a subtle change. It was so abrupt and unnatural.

But I don't think Akshara did enough if I look from my lenses. I'm all for Akshara to boycott the birla clan at this stage but she should have made sure that Abhi knew about his child. Two unclear phone calls are not enough.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

I'm not defending Abhi, his character is ruined for me. He randomly went from monitoring about Akshara's every move to then not even looking at her and the writers didnt even do a good job at making this a subtle change. It was so abrupt and unnatural.

But I don't think Akshara did enough if I look from my lenses. I'm all for Akshara to boycott the birla clan at this stage but she should have made sure that Abhi knew about his child. Two unclear phone calls are not enough.

I am all for men rights but when does it stop, especially when the marriage ends in violence. In a country like India where it is more complicated to coparent when the traditional family structure breaks down. Is parenting a check in and check out card when you are in the mood. Even if abhimanyu knew about his son, what kind of father could he have been when his relationship with the mother is so toxic. This character abhimanyu never shown any signs of wisdom, that he looks at the bigger picture, or is ever patient and he is a villain of his own story. I can believe bad husbands can be good fathers but that is not abhimayu character he is all or nothing fellow.
My question is why did akshara decide abhinav will be abhir father!

Was it to punish abhimanyu

Was it to reward abhinav loyalty

Was it because she was afraid of being a single mother and society judgement

Was it to give her son a traditional family unit

any and all of the above reasons are wrong because this decision will not stick according to plot.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

I am all for men rights but when does it stop, especially when the marriage ends in violence. In a country like India where it is more complicated to coparent when the traditional family structure breaks down. Is parenting a check in and check out card when you are in the mood. Even if abhimanyu knew about his son, what kind of father could he have been when his relationship with the mother is so toxic. This character abhimanyu never shown any signs of wisdom, that he looks at the bigger picture, or is ever patient and he is a villain of his own story. I can believe bad husbands can be good fathers but that is not abhimayu character he is all or nothing fellow.
My question is why did akshara decide abhinav will be abhir father!

Was it to punish abhimanyu

Was it to reward abhinav loyalty

Was it because she was afraid of being a single mother and society judgement

Was it to give her son a traditional family unit

any and all of the above reasons are wrong because this decision will not stick according to plot.

I am confused? When was Abhi ever violent?

Akshara toh I have no words. I was rooting for her but writers made her weak as always. Why does she always need to rely on someone?

My point was that Abhi does deserve to know about his son and he didn't do anything that bad to be stripped of this right.

I just dislike the writing this season. Everything is so abrupt and forced. Abhira went from having their first night to being separated in a very short span of time.

Whatever they did has worked though. I am watching the show again just to see how Abhira will unite but deep down I miss what the show had last year. They truly ruined Abhira.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

I am confused? When was Abhi ever violent?

Akshara toh I have no words. I was rooting for her but writers made her weak as always. Why does she always need to rely on someone?

My point was that Abhi does deserve to know about his son and he didn't do anything that bad to be stripped of this right.

I just dislike the writing this season. Everything is so abrupt and forced. Abhira went from having their first night to being separated in a very short span of time.

Whatever they did has worked though. I am watching the show again just to see how Abhira will unite but deep down I miss what the show had last year. They truly ruined Abhira.

violence isn’t just when a man hits a woman, violence is also neglect when he abandons her, emotional abuse through cruel words and actions of presenting divorce paper at the worst time possible, disregard once mental well being when she is grieving. After the miscarriage did he pay attention to her physical and mental health NO it is domestic abuse, regardless of how angry you are at your spouse you do not have to right to cause them harm. He wants to divorce her fine man leaves his wife that is not abuse, but the circumstances in which he does is abuse.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

violence isn’t just when a man hits a woman, violence is also neglect when he abandons her, emotional abuse through cruel words and actions of presenting divorce paper at the worst time possible, disregard once mental well being when she is grieving. After the miscarriage did he pay attention to her physical and mental health NO it is domestic abuse, regardless of how angry you are at your spouse you do not have to right to cause them harm. He wants to divorce her fine man leaves his wife that is not abuse, but the circumstances in which he does is abuse.

fair enough. I agree.