How is abhir going to understand all this? - Page 2

Originally posted by: luvakanksha

First of all how do you expect a 6 year old to understand the concept of biological father and foster/step father. When people adopt a child they wait till teens to reveal that complexity. Also ruhi is surrounded by 2 families. And that's why it's easier for her to know about her biological dad. But have you seen the insecurity she holds regarding abhimanyu's love? That's not how you raise a kid. A kid is raised with security and love, and abhir is being raised exactly like that. Akshu's decision to have this marriage or fake Marriage may or may not be correct for abhira shippers, but hello she is a single divorced woman. Who has the right to live like she wants to. And she is happy. She thanks God for her life unlike episode 1 after leap where11:11 angels time she requested God to keep everything alright. Now this complexity of abhinav akshu relationship is not meant for abhir otherwise you will have a insecure kid. Abhimanyu is now living a life he chose for himself and he is clearly not happy. Why is ruhi only his responsibility? Why is he co parenting? Why can't arohi with 2 families support raise a kid alone? Now you may question Akshu's decision of moving away from the family well she should have done that long ago. Both families are so toxic. Why should she live a family that blames her for 2 deaths? And now when abhimanyu agrees with that and has divorced her why should she live with that man? Why should she endure a non listener? 6 yrs his anger didn't cool off? It's worst that virat of ghkkpm (I mean the logic not character abhi is much better than virat) who presumed that sai is dead. Here he knew she is alive, and he made no efforts to atleast talk it out?

Originally posted by: Bloody-Mary

also, this abhinav guy is so cringe. He added ghee to the fire with his foolisheess

When a person on call in pissed off the least you can do is be direct with them and answer the question as an adult "where is akshara - she is at the hospital" simple baat khatam but bro went ahead and gave an absolute ridiculous response of being "Mr.india" 🐷

Also, people may say ruhi is insecure but I guess it's pretty common when you do not have a father you will hold the person closer who is like a father figure, I have seen that happen in real life as well.

Tabhi with kids things can be very tricky..I m not sure if the cvs ll be able to deal with it or not..let’s wait for some epis to unravel the track..probably there’s more than what meets the eye😒

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

I'm Abhira shipper but I'm not annoyed by the marriage factor. It's the fact that Akshara has denied Abhir his right to know about his father. Both Abhi and Abhir have the right to know the truth and the marriage has nothing to do with this. Children live with step parents but still meet their biological parents if they want to. So, a child can definitely understand the difference. It may not be an ideal situation but that's a different matter.

Yes but akshara didn't deny the right from abhimanyu. She tried contacting him multiple times keeping her ego her hurt aside. Abhi in his anger just refused to listen like I mentioned in 6 yrs his anger didn't cool off? He could have picked up the phone. But his ego refused. And akshu having an ego is not correct she made the first move and he refused to listen. It was abhi's turn to be a better person. N like I said things like this usually discussed in teens. When you are more secure and mature as a kid, otherwise you raise a child who is insecure about your love.

Originally posted by: Asthetic

are i was talking about how makers are presenting the story🤦,they will show abhira as the end game,so why to show all of this, presenting him as abhir's father in his eyes,this was completely unnecessary and not correct..........the kid will have problems fathoming the reality later......

Yes but I think they will kill off abhinav. Like they handled sirat n ranveer. More than abhira I feel sad for abhinav poor guy only wanted a family. Let's see how makers handles this. Also I m not seeing any guilt in akshu's eyes for "keeping a kid away from his father". Like I feel abhimanyu is guilty when he slept alone it was visible. So I do feel akshu must have tried to convey about abhir to abhi but must have failed. I am afraid to further destroy abhi makers cld have shown abhi disbelieving akshu. It's only 2 epis.

Originally posted by: Akanksha9212

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Originally posted by: Silveraliax

I'm Abhira shipper but I'm not annoyed by the marriage factor. It's the fact that Akshara has denied Abhir his right to know about his father. Both Abhi and Abhir have the right to know the truth and the marriage has nothing to do with this. Children live with step parents but still meet their biological parents if they want to. So, a child can definitely understand the difference. It may not be an ideal situation but that's a different matter.

I am not a hardcore AbhiRa shipper , just a general viewer and I fully agree with all of what you have written.

Naira not telling Kairav and Kartik about each other- heck putting her entire singhania family through her death was low . And now we have Akshu (who atleast has not faked her death) but hidden such an important thing from both Abhi and Jr.

However I am okay with Akshu and Abhinav. If she has found happiness and love with another man, good for her. (Just please don’t go emotionally cheating on him once Abhi comes back - a track I didn’t enjoy at all when Kartik does this to Vedika).

Originally posted by: luvakanksha

Yes but I think they will kill off abhinav. Like they handled sirat n ranveer. More than abhira I feel sad for abhinav poor guy only wanted a family. Let's see how makers handles this. Also I m not seeing any guilt in akshu's eyes for "keeping a kid away from his father". Like I feel abhimanyu is guilty when he slept alone it was visible. So I do feel akshu must have tried to convey about abhir to abhi but must have failed. I am afraid to further destroy abhi makers cld have shown abhi disbelieving akshu. It's only 2 epis.

Ab separate Kiya tho show proper angst and meaningful scenes without rushing the Milan. They need to show proper falling in love phase like kaira after Mumbai track. Donno why they keep rushing everything.

Abhir will call Dr.Abhimanyu as “SIR”

There will come a time when Abhir will have an issue with his heart and needs a glorified cardiologist, that’s when Dr. Abhimanyu will get to know he is his khoon when he needs blood 😌 very filmy I know lol