Aur karo apne Sweetudi ko jaldi jaldi maaf…….. - Page 4

Yes of course shuru shuru mein kavya koi interest nahi tha tabh kavya ne kaha anupama se Mera bhi breakfast fast Bana do

Agar anupama ko maid banana Hota shah houss ka,to how anupama happily agree with kavya ki when kavya said to anupama ab tum is Ghar ki chinta chodo main sub sambhaaloongi

Of course anupama Has, answer both vabaa aap logo ne mujhe baar baar phone karke pareshan kar diya,but vanraj baa to bus apne hi dhun mein rehte hai

Originally posted by: lalaland23

Exactly!! After they insulted her and assassinated her character SO terribly, she immediately said you never know I might have to come back...Like WHY would any normal person hope for that? Unless they have Stockholm Sydrome! Imagine someone kicks you out of their house after using the worst language against you and insulting you so badly, would you say ok I am leaving but you never know, I might have to come back....Any normal person would never want to go back there again. That means she only left because she was kicked out. All the character assassination, abuses etc. did nothing to her wish to be at Shah House. She's the walking talking definition of lack of self respect, among other things.

That's what am saying that why was she hopeful to return back in that zoo where her character was assassinated ? She is insulted,called names,still she wants to be treated like their maid like come on dude give everyone a break.50 pages ka bhashan kyun deti ho phir jab kudh uspe follow nahi karna.Agle din phir muh utha ke aati hai shah house mein because she wants to listen all these abuses and then play victim card.She is the worst and the most hypocrite female lead I have hadd ever seen.

And all these people treat her that way because she lets them. If she put her kids and that stupid Baa in their place and drew actual boundaries (that they only spoke about, but never ever implemented), they wouldn't dare talk to her like that. Even maids won't put up with the treatment meted out to Anupama even after she left the house and got married again. They'll just leave. The way Baa spoke to her during the naamkaran and madam just ran to the kitchen to patapat finish the work. Didn't open her mouth when CA was being insulted by Baa. Why will they not continue their behaviour when someone gives them so much leeway?

And as far as kids are concerned, it's the same thing everyone has been saying - it's about how she reacts when they do the wrong things. Mamta is wanting your kids to grow and be better people, not forgiving them for everything without any repercussions. So I agree, she's the WORST parent ever. And Anuj will not do ANYTHING that Anupama doesn't want so if she really wanted to teach Pakhi a lesson and be a good mother, she should have said no to this whole shaadi idea and instead pushed them to be independent and start their own lives. Pakhi will have no choice but to change when her mother stands her ground and she's confronted with the harsh realities of life. She's only the same because she knows WHATEVER she does, Anupama will forgive her and do things for her the very next time. She's getting everything she wants so why on earth will she change when being like this is clearly working in her favour?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Of course anupama Has, answer both vabaa aap logo ne mujhe baar baar phone karke pareshan kar diya,but vanraj baa to bus apne hi dhun mein rehte hai

Sirf bolti hai but karne ki himmat nahi hai..Even her toxic in laws knows that she has no self respect and woh sirf 50 pages ka bhashan de sakti hai because end mein usne U turn hi lena hai.

First of all.why we expect anupama will never return to shah house

Because for writer it is not possible to show anupama completely detach from shah house kyon ki write ki story drama to tabhi aagey bhadta hai jub anupama shah house mein jaati hai

Agar anupama shah house mein nahi jaayegi to CVS ke pass story drama bacheigi hi nahi

I always,knew though writer show might show anupama will not return back but it is not possible to show CVS for long time kyonki they can't show drama aur move story without anupama going to shah aur shah going to Kapadia

Pakhi ko abhi ek hi din hua hai Kapadia mein ek din mein kaise jaan le ki pakhi is getting every thing she want

Philhaaal pakhi ek Sapna to waise hi anupama ne destroy kar diya,that is lavish wedding nahi hogi

if it is not possible for writers to show that anupama doesnt go to shah house, then they should stop showing those abuses and stop showing anupama giving bhaashan that she will not return bla bla blah.

Make her say that she is a doormat and no matter how much they insult her, she will come back. and Stop her bhaashans about how all the kids are like her kids, because other kids and husbands are not like her family at all.

she can go back keeping her self respect intact if they want to show. In that case, she should stop doing baa baa when her little anu and current husband (on paper, not by dil se lol) are insulted.

It makes anupama look like a hypocrite that she says one thing and does other. It gives a message to all abusers that it is okay to abuse woman of their house as she will continue to be their doormat.

It gives a message that women should continue to worship her in laws and ex husband and kids even though they treat her as worse thing on the planet.

Telling your child you will buy them their tenth bag when they already have nine BUT it won't be a Gucci bag is not a real punishment. You're still spoiling the kid who doesn't need that bag. Pakhi is getting exactly what she wanted - she ran away and got married, hurt everyone in her family and continued her selfish ways but now she's being forgiven for it, a proper wedding is being sponsored, she's been given a house to stay in, her husband has been given a job by Anuj and she gets to stay in Kapadia mansion and live a lavish lifestyle without lifting a finger. Her not getting a lavish wedding can hardly be considered a punishment except by her because she is a greedy, selfish, entitled brat.

Originally posted by: lalaland23

Telling your child you will buy them their tenth bag when they already have nine BUT it won't be a Gucci bag is not a real punishment. You're still spoiling the kid who doesn't need that bag. Pakhi is getting exactly what she wanted - she ran away and got married, hurt everyone in her family and continued her selfish ways but now she's being forgiven for it, a proper wedding is being sponsored, she's been given a house to stay in, her husband has been given a job by Anuj and she gets to stay in Kapadia mansion and live a lavish lifestyle without lifting a finger. Her not getting a lavish wedding can hardly be considered a punishment except by her because she is a greedy, selfish, entitled brat.

and noone can blame this on Anuj. Bapuji forced him to take Pakhi's responsibility. And he is not like Vanraj. He does not force any of his decisions on Anupama even being her current husband, while Vanraj still does that being ex husband and anupama follows them.

If anupama told anuj that she will not allow pakhi in their house, he would have left Pakhi then and there. He does not argue or say no to AnuMA ever. Even the marriage decision he took after AnuMA was doing OTT panic attack. Now she is upset only coz Pakhi wont let her enjoy the wedding in the shah house