What makes a perfect couple - Page 2

your analysis on each pair is bang on.

even i cringe on HP's thought process. very narrow minded. 🤢

Iske acc yahi sahi sochta hai, even today he gave vidhi a sort of warning, 2 bar kaand ho chuka hai, third time nhi hona chahiye, how come those were vidhi's mistakes? If someone is framing her again n again, isme vidhi ki kya fault? Is HP ke views bahot khokhle hain, family members ko apne likhe rules follow karwana chahta hai. Vidhi will question his thought process one day. 🤓

Originally posted by: zack69

Hariprasad is a typical male specie. I am supose to take care of you, you are suppose to be dependent on me kind of philosophy follow karta hai. People matter to him more than anything else. I am really scared of his reaction regarding Videv. Dev ki kitni insult karega yeh aadmi soch ke darr lagta hai.

Wah bhai wah🤣Wo uski beti pataye to koi dikkat nhi aur HP agar gussa bhi kare to vo zalim pita🤣

Bahut na insafi hai....🤣

Originally posted by: Scissor

Wah bhai wah🤣Wo uski beti pataye to koi dikkat nhi aur HP agar gussa bhi kare to vo zalim pita🤣

Bahut na insafi hai....🤣

(bold) galat, vidhi ne dev ko pataya hai. 😆

Originally posted by: Revutty

Yeah yeh toh hoga hee. Because baat jab Pratap uncle ne ek gift dee Vidhi toh kaise chillaye , sirf isiliye kee Pratap uncle married a woman whose age is much lesser than him

I don't understand his problem regarding Neeli-Pratap who aren't even related to him in any way🤣 matlab voh dono ne pyar kiya shadi ki abb khush bhi hai, isme HP ji ko itni jalan kyu hogai🤣🤣

Originally posted by: bhshre95

I don't understand his problem regarding Neeli-Pratap who aren't even related to him in any way🤣 matlab voh dono ne pyar kiya shadi ki abb khush bhi hai, isme HP ji ko itni jalan kyu hogai🤣🤣

Inko bhi logon ke mamle mein bolna hai. Isliye toh dusro ko inta seriously lete hai aur apne gharwali ka jeena haram karte hai

Originally posted by: Angel_Shweta

(bold) galat, vidhi ne dev ko pataya hai. 😆

Vo choti baccchhhi hai....shame on him🤣

Originally posted by: bhshre95

I don't understand his problem regarding Neeli-Pratap who aren't even related to him in any way🤣 matlab voh dono ne pyar kiya shadi ki abb khush bhi hai, isme HP ji ko itni jalan kyu hogai🤣🤣

Kahama khan ke chowdhary Naam ki bhi koi cheej hoti hai ya nhi.....hunhh🤣🤣HP vo hai..

Apko to luch mhi aata🤣

Thoda taka jhanki karne ka..

Chugli khori karni chahiye...🤣

Nahi to apko society wale boycott kr denge🤣

Originally posted by: Scissor

Vo choti baccchhhi hai....shame on him🤣

baatein Jo repeat hogi Vidhi bacchi hai🤣

Dev Sahab aur main lagbhag ek hi umra ke hain🤣.

Maine Dev ka 15 saal intezaar kiya hai.like iss hisaab se me first jaise Dev koi candy ho.🤣

Originally posted by: zack69

Today's episode made me think that more than anything else in a relationship compatibility is very important. Otherwise live can become a living hell.

Dev And Amba: zero compatibility, their thoughts do not match. Dev cannot stand Amba. Amba is in love with the idea of being Dev's wife. But think about it, the way Dev treats Amba, I don't understand why she wants to marry him. They should give some justification for her obsession.

Very true!! I also don't understand her obsession. I kind of think she has an air about her class and status and probably thinks Dev is someone who deserves her, someone who is worthy of her and her love as he is also rich, successful etc. Also she probably wants her ego satisfied that she made a guy like Dev fall in love who doesn't give any woman a second look. Thats why she seems so angry on Vidhi. Her ego is hurt that Dev is falling for a such an extremely simple girl like Vidhi who has no class no looks no social status nothing worthy (Acc to Amba)

Abhimanyu And Priya: They don't respect each other, there is a constant environment of tension in the house because of them. On the surface they seem like a perfect couple, correct age gap ,a cute daughter. The way Priya taunts him for cooking, I feel extremely bad. Imagine your life partner taunting you for something you really like. Same with Abhimanyu, he does not support Priya and her ambition. It seems both of them are being suffocated in the relationship.

This relationship really has no meaning. I mean Abhi just frowns everytime when Priya even opens her mouth to speak. There are so many times she has told about her ambition to work but he just ignores her or gets angry. Even once he has not been shown trying to convince his family for her. Probably thats why she makes fun if him. She got no respect or love from this relationship. Still she is also very wrong in making fun of him like that. They both don't have love respect or understanding or even communication between them.

Vidhi And Arjun: Another prospective couple in the show, Arjun is a sweet guy, who adores Vidhi's qualities. But he does not understand where she comes from, her family values. Today he was joking about the poster issue with Dev. Even if they get married, will it be a good match. Today Vimla was trying to persuade Hariprasad about them. According to Hariprasad perfect age gap is most important. I cringed at his thought process, there are a lot of couples who at the surface look incompatible, but have a deep and beautiful relationship.

Dev and Vidhi: frankly I think they are soulmates who complete each other. They understand each other, there is respect in their relationship. They value each other's qualities. It's true they have a huge age gap. But if you compare them with so called perfect couples or prospective couples, you would feel that their connection is so beautiful does age really matter.

Yup!!They are truly soulmates

And there could be no one else for them other than each other❤️ its as if Dev was waiting all these years just for Vidhi❤️ to fall in love❤️

Actually I have a loooooong rant for both ViJun and ViDev😆 yahan bohot zyada ho jayega🤣 But I completely agree with you regarding both the couples😆 why ViJun are not right and why ViDev are meant to be❤️

Hariprasad's thinking in most matters is very stupid. So his thinking that age gap should be perfect rest all is about adjusting to each other is wrong. I feel for Vimla, the way he lashes out at her. Is their marriage good? He just wants his wife and daughter to follow his oders. Do share your thoughts.

I don't take HP seriously🤣 and now I don't even watch his scenes toh I don't know his thinking also 🤣 just hope ViDev bhi isko seriously lena band karde🤪

You are so spot on about all the couples👏

Loved this post ❤️

My replies in pink😆

That's an interesting topic!

I am skeptical of using the word "perfect" as I really don't think that exists. A successful marriage/couple know what each other's flaws are and they both eventually work on those flaws. It's impossible to always comprise in this day of age...it's equally important that both partners work on their flaws to become a better person and to me that's what a good marriage is about.

Marriage teaches us a lot of things. I'm sure Dev and Vidhi also have their bad qualities/habits (bad doesn't always mean evil but rather not showing their best quality). Dev supporting his mom that a woman cannot go outside to work is a bad quality and I know for sure I'd have an issue if my husband shares or agrees with that type of mentality. However, because this is a hindi serial, we tend to ignore it. Even if Dev fights for this specific right after his marriage with Vidhi, he opinion is then biased. He preaches one thing but practices another (e.g., teaches Vidhi the importance of working and becoming independent but doesn't voice up his opinion for Priya's concern). To sum up, a perfect couple or let's say a good couple bring the best in one another and work on their flaws...because no one is flawless.