What makes a perfect couple

Today's episode made me think that more than anything else in a relationship compatibility is very important. Otherwise live can become a living hell.

Dev And Amba: zero compatibility, their thoughts do not match. Dev cannot stand Amba. Amba is in love with the idea of being Dev's wife. But think about it, the way Dev treats Amba, I don't understand why she wants to marry him. They should give some justification for her obsession.

Abhimanyu And Priya: They don't respect each other, there is a constant environment of tension in the house because of them. On the surface they seem like a perfect couple, correct age gap ,a cute daughter. The way Priya taunts him for cooking, I feel extremely bad. Imagine your life partner taunting you for something you really like. Same with Abhimanyu, he does not support Priya and her ambition. It seems both of them are being suffocated in the relationship.

Vidhi And Arjun: Another prospective couple in the show, Arjun is a sweet guy, who adores Vidhi's qualities. But he does not understand where she comes from, her family values. Today he was joking about the poster issue with Dev. Even if they get married, will it be a good match. Today Vimla was trying to persuade Hariprasad about them. According to Hariprasad perfect age gap is most important. I cringed at his thought process, there are a lot of couples who at the surface look incompatible, but have a deep and beautiful relationship.

Dev and Vidhi: frankly I think they are soulmates who complete each other. They understand each other, there is respect in their relationship. They value each other's qualities. It's true they have a huge age gap. But if you compare them with so called perfect couples or prospective couples, you would feel that their connection is so beautiful does age really matter.

Hariprasad's thinking in most matters is very stupid. So his thinking that age gap should be perfect rest all is about adjusting to each other is wrong. I feel for Vimla, the way he lashes out at her. Is their marriage good? He just wants his wife and daughter to follow his oders. Do share your thoughts.

Originally posted by: zack69

Today's episode made me think that more than anything else in a relationship compatibility is very important. Otherwise live can become a living hell.

Dev And Amba: zero compatibility, their thoughts do not match. Dev cannot stand Amba. Amba is in love with the idea of being Dev's wife. But think about it, the way Dev treats Amba, I don't understand why she wants to marry him. They should give some justification for her obsession.

Abhimanyu And Priya: They don't respect each other, there is a constant environment of tension in the house because of them. On the surface they seem like a perfect couple, correct age gap ,a cute daughter. The way Priya taunts him for cooking, I feel extremely bad. Imagine your life partner taunting you for something you really like. Same with Abhimanyu, he does not support Priya and her ambition. It seems both of them are being suffocated in the relationship.

Vidhi And Arjun: Another prospective couple in the show, Arjun is a sweet guy, who adores Vidhi's qualities. But he does not understand where she comes from, her family values. Today he was joking about the poster issue with Dev. Even if they get married, will it be a good match. Today Vimla was trying to persuade Hariprasad about them. According to Hariprasad perfect age gap is most important. I cringed at his thought process, there are a lot of couples who at the surface look incompatible, but have a deep and beautiful relationship.

Dev and Vidhi: frankly I think they are soulmates who complete each other. They understand each other, there is respect in their relationship. They value each other's qualities. It's true they have a huge age gap. But if you compare them with so called perfect couples or prospective couples, you would feel that their connection is so beautiful does age really matter.

Hariprasad's thinking in most matters is very stupid. So his thinking that age gap should be perfect rest all is about adjusting to each other is wrong. I feel for Vimla, the way he lashes out at her. Is their marriage good? He just wants his wife and daughter to follow his oders. Do share your thoughts.

Understanding caring aur respect honi chahiye ek couple ko ek dusre ki. Sadly most log thode time iss baat ki acting kar lete hai but baad mei asliyat baahar aa jati hai.

this is really good summarization abt the so called Perfect "looking" couple

Perfect Couple...

ill be back on this for sure.. bahut kuch kah sakti hu.... abhi thoda busy.

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

this is really good summarization abt the so called Perfect "looking" couple

Perfect Couple...

ill be back on this for sure.. bahut kuch kah sakti hu.... abhi thoda busy.

Please do. would love to know your take on this. Initially I used to think that Arjun might also be good for Vidhi. But today's episode made me think otherwise.

For most people physical appearance is more important is . Even I like Vijun together, but now its a big no for me.

Hariprasad is a typical male specie. I am supose to take care of you, you are suppose to be dependent on me kind of philosophy follow karta hai. People matter to him more than anything else. I am really scared of his reaction regarding Videv. Dev ki kitni insult karega yeh aadmi soch ke darr lagta hai.

Yeah yeh toh hoga hee. Because baat jab Pratap uncle ne ek gift dee Vidhi toh kaise chillaye , sirf isiliye kee Pratap uncle married a woman whose age is much lesser than him

Lekin ek baat bolun, baaki daily soaps se hum log isliye interested hein kyunki iss mein kaafi kuch realistic hein. . Real life mein Ek Paapa itni aasani se unki beti ko beti se kaafi umra bade aadmi ke saath nahi dekh paayenge. Isko unhein samjhane ke chakkar mein bahut zyada hungama hote hein. Aur agar woh Maan bhi gaye toh bhi relatives toh kuch naa kuch ulta bolenge. Lekin exceptions bhi hein . Iss show ko dekhkar agar sab log kuch inspired ho jaaye toh accha hein.

I really think that Hariprashad is made to portray the typical conservative father. I can relate to this as I have a rather conservative father myself.

As for the other relationships prese t, most of them seem toxic at best, Abhimanyu-Priyanka they seem to limit each other. Like, they can't even compromise. Also, their love is 1-sided as told by Priya. This girl has the right to be so frustrated tbh. She didn't get married to someone of her choice nor do something with her degree, neither at her father's place nor after being married. Her dreams were killed by all. And even if she wants to do something even secretly, she's unable to. And her husband doesn't even support her. And Abhimanyu, he got married to someone he loves but who doesn't reciprocate it back, has the stress and pressure of being the owner and rightful heir of Raichand Enterprise. He never got to do something he loved due without having those pressures. This creates a toxic environment for their child to stay in. They should consider counseling if not divorce. (Im talking as if it's a real couple, but props to the actors who made it so)

You put the valid points . Good one 👍