Love's In The Air - Invite Only - Page 93

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Because that kid was of him too. You can't expect him to give lectures on moving on, when he can't himself move on. He wanted a child for a long time, not after remarriage even way before in Diwali times, when Sai didn't even think of that phase, he wanted their baby from that time. And when the hope is lost finally, he couldn't cope up. Many people have different mechanism for coping up with a pain. If it was miscarriage only he would have coped up easily. But it's also losing the hope too. You may find him selfish, self-absorbed, self-centred but that's how some people do behave to cope up!! You can't compare one's pain with other's.

Before I am blessed with my daughter I got miscarriage and I experienced the most traumatic phase of my life. The fact that I was not able to let my husband enjoy his first born,threw me into depression. He only helped me the most and within two years I got my beautiful daughter by god’s grace.

Husband and wife together travel through this phase not alone.

Thankfully Bhavani sided with Sai. Wtf she targeted Sai and harassed her for her inability to get chirag?

Husband’s role is so crucial in this situation.

I thought that they will show Virat,help Sai get through this. Period. As usual Vankar chose to make Virat the scapegoat.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

They are hell bent proving themselves as trollers .

https://twitter.com/Isqhuahihua/status/1534608975601147904?s=20&t=H5-zPHJqj7Xtqm3f9clpAA

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Because that kid was of him too. You can't expect him to give lectures on moving on, when he can't himself move on. He wanted a child for a long time, not after remarriage even way before in Diwali times, when Sai didn't even think of that phase, he wanted their baby from that time. And when the hope is lost finally, he couldn't cope up. Many people have different mechanism for coping up with a pain. If it was miscarriage only he would have coped up easily. But it's also losing the hope too. You may find him selfish, self-absorbed, self-centred but that's how some people do behave to cope up!! You can't compare one's pain with other's.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I don’t think what Virat is doing is acceptable atleast not to me.

Before I am blessed with my daughter I got miscarriage and I experienced the most traumatic phase of my life. The fact that I was not able to let my husband enjoy his first born,threw me into depression. He only helped me the most and within two years I got my beautiful daughter by god’s grace.

Husband and wife together travel through this phase not alone.

Thankfully Bhavani sided with Sai. Wtf she targeted Sai and harassed her for her inability to get chirag?

Husband’s role is so crucial in this situation.

I thought that they will show Virat,help Sai get through this. Period. As usual Vankar chose to make Virat the scapegoat.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Yes . After confession, I was looking forward to two tracks one fake pregnancy and other Jagtap return . Fake pregnancy was needed to establish the trust between Sairat after so much misunderstandings

I guess this track will confirm Sai's trust on Virat.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

We are conditioned to think if a miscarriage happens it’s mom who will be the one to suffer the most . The way Virat is behaving is how usually the ITV FL behave when they lose the baby . At that time we don’t question their love for their husband because we think as a mom she is unable to cope up with the pain but Virat’s behavior will be misunderstood and his love will be questioned.

I don’t want to distrust a man who was ready to live all his life in a deal marriage provided his love would br with him even as a friend .

Did anyone see new promo . I read that as per promo Sairat are not in good terms with each other .

I guess Vankar has started his dirty game of butchering Virat was again. His haters are ready to criticise him and now once again start saying his love for Sai wasn't true and he's not worth for her. Pathetic.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Breaking the stereotype mard ko dard nahiin hota or trying to show Virat’s attitude forced Sai to suggest surrogacy. Pakhi and Sai will go Scott free and Virat will be held responsible for making Pakhi the surrogate and upcoming kand . Vankar never disappoints

https://twitter.com/kritisri/status/1534730832056918017?s=20&t=X2EyhXJV63WA77O5zQDeRg

This scene was very well done and a very good way of sending a message to those who think a man is not a human and he doesn't feel any pain.

Originally posted by: Fats24

I guess Vankar has started his dirty game of butchering Virat was again. His haters are ready to criticise him and now once again start saying his love for Sai wasn't true and he's not worth for her. Pathetic.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Nitu yaar. chal kya raha hain?

why is virat giving mixed signals to Sai?

I dont think he is hurt by pakhi's leaving as such. It looked pakhi's dellusion only. But he could have hugged sai.

I know he is devastated. but when did baby become more important than Sai?

And what is this low fertility and all? so will they use pakhi's egg (which will be my last day in this forum if it happens).

Also if Sai also becomes pregnant, then they are doing it right? If they are doing it, why will they separate (someone speculated).

Or it will be just a legal battle with pakhi?

I am not upset at this point, i am angry that they are all over the place.

I guess he's unable to express his pain. If he becomes weak then how will he give Sai the strenght to bear the loss? And,why would Virat and Sai seperate?

I too won't watch if Pakhi's egg is used for SaiRat baby.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I wanted to write about Virat yesterday but didn’t because I couldn’t translate my thoughts into words .

Few things are clear about Virat

1. He doesn’t hold Sai responsible for Samrat’s death

2. He doesn’t blame Sai for the miscarriage

3. He is unable to cope up with the intense pain caused by death of two important people in his life .

4. He believes having a child means Sai is the mother of his child that’s why in yesterday’s episode he clearly says he cannot be a father ever . Medically he can be a father but he cannot think anyone other than Sai being the mother of his child . That’s why he is against adoption or surrogacy.

Now coming to his situation, he might be suffering from PSTD hence he seems to isolate himself from everyone. He is not able to open up and share his pain , guilt with anyone .

Virat is someone who has great mental strength . He might be emotional but he is mentally strong . When KJ was killed , he was going through a lot . He was having survivor guilt , recently had a heart break and was called a murderer by his mentor’s daughter . He was forced to marry the same girl against his wishes and had to fight for her rights with his family yet he never once he gave up .

Similar thing happened during Shruthi’s time . He was mentally strong to endure all the insults , accusations and loss . He has been tested time and again .

I guess this time he doesn’t have that mental strength in him . He has already faced a lot and was looking for few happy moments . He lost his dear brother due to his wife’s obsessive lover and now the last hope was the child . If you notice he was like this even before the miscarriage. He was lost after Samrat’s death . It’s not about the child but the trauma has made him avoid any conversation, events that can remind him of the events .

Nitu, very well written. You have summed up Virat's feelings,his pain, his anguish and his loss so well. He has endured so much in a short span of time that now he doesn't have the courage to face any more pain. He's become mentally weak.