Originally posted by: sadiltl
Nitu yaar. chal kya raha hain?
why is virat giving mixed signals to Sai?
I dont think he is hurt by pakhi's leaving as such. It looked pakhi's dellusion only. But he could have hugged sai.
I know he is devastated. but when did baby become more important than Sai?
And what is this low fertility and all? so will they use pakhi's egg (which will be my last day in this forum if it happens).
Also if Sai also becomes pregnant, then they are doing it right? If they are doing it, why will they separate (someone speculated).
Or it will be just a legal battle with pakhi?
I am not upset at this point, i am angry that they are all over the place.
I wanted to write about Virat yesterday but didn’t because I couldn’t translate my thoughts into words .
Few things are clear about Virat
1. He doesn’t hold Sai responsible for Samrat’s death
2. He doesn’t blame Sai for the miscarriage
3. He is unable to cope up with the intense pain caused by death of two important people in his life .
4. He believes having a child means Sai is the mother of his child that’s why in yesterday’s episode he clearly says he cannot be a father ever . Medically he can be a father but he cannot think anyone other than Sai being the mother of his child . That’s why he is against adoption or surrogacy.
Now coming to his situation, he might be suffering from PSTD hence he seems to isolate himself from everyone. He is not able to open up and share his pain , guilt with anyone .
Virat is someone who has great mental strength . He might be emotional but he is mentally strong . When KJ was killed , he was going through a lot . He was having survivor guilt , recently had a heart break and was called a murderer by his mentor’s daughter . He was forced to marry the same girl against his wishes and had to fight for her rights with his family yet he never once he gave up .
Similar thing happened during Shruthi’s time . He was mentally strong to endure all the insults , accusations and loss . He has been tested time and again .
I guess this time he doesn’t have that mental strength in him . He has already faced a lot and was looking for few happy moments . He lost his dear brother due to his wife’s obsessive lover and now the last hope was the child . If you notice he was like this even before the miscarriage. He was lost after Samrat’s death . It’s not about the child but the trauma has made him avoid any conversation, events that can remind him of the events .