Dobara (Humtv)| Bilal Abbas, Hadiqa Kiani, Usama - Page 41

Originally posted by: zooni.blue

I don't think it's illegal to marry without first wife consent... The marriage will be very much valid...

But what I don't understand is how everyone is underestimating mehru... She is ageing but not bedridden who will hand over everything on a platter to narmeen n mahir to enjoy... Or are they planning for mahor to return in about ten years to actually take all property... Mehru doesn't really need mahir to run the business.. She can appoint people..

The older women with young maan is practically impossible marriage to survive I guess.. .. Kehne ko humsafar hai also had a similar track where the woman wanted to use surrogacy to have a baby??

I think this show is making us talk about age difference n how it is treated in men vs women which is a good thing

I have seen mens behind the bar for 2nd marriage. Maybe it is illegal without 1st wife's consent.

Originally posted by: awida

You know women can have their own children only untill a certain age. Men can have them even when they are very old.. so for a young guy to be satisfied with a much older woman it is kind of impossible. Also biologically women age faster..

Yes. Men are more likely to be untrusted.. although in this drama 2 women also were shown as untrusted: Mahir's mom and Narmeen.

What does kids have to do with marrying an older woman? Not everyone wants their own biological kids. And by the way it’s not easy for older men to conceive as your making it seem. Sperm quality decreases with age which means fewer healthy sperm, more difficulty with reproduction, and more health issues with children.

Originally posted by: badshah_begum

What does kids have to do with marrying an older woman? Not everyone wants their own biological kids. And by the way it’s not easy for older men to conceive as your making it seem. Sperm quality decreases with age which means fewer healthy sperm, more difficulty with reproduction, and more health issues with children.

Also people can always go for adoption!It is a blessing to give an orphan kid a home and shower affection to them.Marriage is not about having kids!!It is about finding a compatible partner to live your life with.There are women who can never give birth,so does that make them undesirable or unworthy of love or does that give a man permission to look for other women!!

Originally posted by: Smithhh

Also people can always go for adoption!It is a blessing to give an orphan kid a home and shower affection to them.Marriage is not about having kids!!It is about finding a compatible partner to live your life with.There are women who can never give birth,so does that make them undesirable or unworthy of love or does that give a man permission to look for other women!!

And there are impotent men regardless of age

Originally posted by: awida

You know women can have their own children only untill a certain age. Men can have them even when they are very old.. so for a young guy to be satisfied with a much older woman it is kind of impossible. Also biologically women age faster..

Yes. Men are more likely to be untrusted.. although in this drama 2 women also were shown as untrusted: Mahir's mom and Narmeen.

If we got by Islamic History our Beloved Prophet SAWW married an older woman who was 40 years old and They had kids after marriage. So Anything can be possible.

I know that chances of having baby after certain age degrades for women. But Mahir knows all this. Bacha toh tha nhi na. Lalach main akey shadi karli.

Originally posted by: zooni.blue

I don't think it's illegal to marry without first wife consent... The marriage will be very much valid...

But what I don't understand is how everyone is underestimating mehru... She is ageing but not bedridden who will hand over everything on a platter to narmeen n mahir to enjoy... Or are they planning for mahor to return in about ten years to actually take all property... Mehru doesn't really need mahir to run the business.. She can appoint people..

The older women with young maan is practically impossible marriage to survive I guess.. .. Kehne ko humsafar hai also had a similar track where the woman wanted to use surrogacy to have a baby??

I think this show is making us talk about age difference n how it is treated in men vs women which is a good thing

In Pakistan it's illegal.

See this

https://punjabpolice.gov.pk/More-than-one-Marriages#:~:text=Any%20person%20who%20entres%20into,her%20children%20from%20the%20husband.

Originally posted by: _OrChiD_

I just don't get why Pakistani shows keep showing that men can just marry secretly and show up suddenly!!!

It's illegal and Islam didn't allow one by one marriage for satisfaction, this is strictly for life or death situation but Pakistani shows be like Mannnn chahey toh shadi kar li, biwi key sath jhagra hui toh shadi kar li...sasural seyy banti nahi toh Shadi kar li ..mummy ko pachandh nahi hi hai shadi kar lo....yyehhh kaunsa tarika vaii 😕

Inhoney mazaaq banaya hua hai. Dusri shadi aisy hi moh utha ky karwa dety hain. Islam main toh equal rights ki baat hai. Husband should do equality with his all wives. Which is not an easy task.

Originally posted by: _NINA_

If we got by Islamic History our Beloved Prophet SAWW married an older woman who was 40 years old and They had kids after marriage. So Anything can be possible.

I know that chances of having baby after certain age degrades for women. But Mahir knows all this. Bacha toh tha nhi na. Lalach main akey shadi karli.

I know it is possible, but as you said : Chances degrade.

Sarwat Nazir in Dar Khuda Se , showed Imran Abbas married to much older woman. He was a greedy guy and outright negative character. Here Mahir stayed in the grey zone, then suddenly became positive . Now I am afraid he is showing his true colors.

Originally posted by: _OrChiD_

I have seen mens behind the bar for 2nd marriage. Maybe it is illegal without 1st wife's consent.

Yeah maybe in Pakistan but in Islam second marriage is legal... India it is acceptable I guess but not many cases

Originally posted by: awida

I know it is possible, but as you said : Chances degrade.

Sarwat Nazir in Dar Khuda Se , showed Imran Abbas married to much older woman. He was a greedy guy and outright negative character. Here Mahir stayed in the grey zone, then suddenly became positive . Now I am afraid he is showing his true colors.

Imran abbas character in dar khuda sy was total negative. Will see mahir's kitna aur girta hai.