Okay this is actually disappointing - Page 5

Originally posted by: Suvika.

I agree. This is blind love. Not love.

It's going to take a lot from the makers to revive the character of Akshara for me personally. More than taking the blame for her sister, it's the hiding of the truth that is wrong on so many levels, esp by the person who is supposed to the FL of the show.

Interesting id you have. Gave me a chuckle.

@ Bold: Exactly 💯 Has Akshara ever thought what'll happen to her "jaan" aroo after she goes to jail to hide aroo's crime? Aroo will commit some other mistake like she's always been doing. Or some other crime. Who'll hide aroo's crimes from the police at that point?

If she really loved aroo, she'll oppose aroo's rotten behaviour, both in general and in particular with respect to their mother's death (when aroo repeatedly blames & abuses Akshara). We've always seen Akshara being defensive and dependent on aroo, every time the mother matter has come up.

If she really loved aroo, she will at least not support aroo so actively in her mistakes and crimes. In fact, when the MD seat truth came up, Akshara not only hid the bribe truth, but also went out of her way and lied so much to everyone, just so that no one knows about aroo going to another city to give the exam.

Why couldn't she be truthful and just tell the family that aroo was giving an exam? She's so caught up in doing just what aroo wants her to, chaahe jo bhi ho. That's blind love indeed. This has become a habit for her now.

On top of it all, the show seems to glorify this kind of behaviour, with all the behen behen behen, aroo aroo aroo chants 👎🏼 No sensible sister, who loves her sister, will behave like Akshara. Galati karne wale ka saath dena and chup rehna, that too jaan bhujke to save the criminal, is even more wrong than the crime.

PS: I just went blank when I had to choose the ID. Toh kuch bhi likh diya. Later I thought of some good names but then thought let this be 🤣😆

Originally posted by: Suvika.

Oh! You're into literature! Beautiful! What area, if I may ask? I write Crime / Thrillers. Started out with romance and branched out to my fav genre - Crime. Wish I had realized my own passion for writing while I was studying instead of going along with the herd mentality and doing my MBA. Better late than never, I guess. :) Wish you all the very best in everything you do and very happy to help you in any way I can. Please don't hesitate to reach out if you so desire.

@Blue - do you honestly think the makers plan to show something like that? All things aside, they first need to understand the characters and know what they are sketching. Here, half the time I feel three different writers are writing three different scenes and the editor is brainlessly clubbing them all into one episode. Or maybe the writers team is changing too often and the new ones aren't taking the time to understand what the previous ones are trying to take the character towards. So I don't have too many expectations :D

@maroon - Abhimanyu, I think is legally a Birla but not Manjari's biological son. If he is not a Birla then post marriage track won't have much. His dynamics at home will change. He will feel indebted in a way and mellow down if he realizes he has no direct connection with any of them. Even Manjari's hold on him won't be able to stop him from leaving the house. Remember, he does everything in extremes. So situation has to be such that he stays there yet the dynamics within the family change, including the one with Harsh and most importantly with Manjari. At least that's my thought on it. Let's see what the very "creative" CVs have planned.

@Green - Birla house (the overly dramatic scenes aside), represents a lot of households in India. Gender discrimination and value of a person basing on their career choice / earning. See them from that lens.

Goenkas - multiple aspects determining the upbringing. Kids feel indebted that grandparents brought them up with nary a word of complaint. (Most of Kairav's behavior stems from that). Grandparents trying to bring up 3 little ones at a stage when they are low on energy levels and dealing with the pain of losing both their son and daughter in law. They ensured the kids never lacked anything, in fact, overcompensated by giving them whatever they wanted. They probably didn't want to be accused of mistreating Arohi (considering how close Manish was with Naira etc) so they went to the other end of taking extra care of her. Of course, Arohi being present and watching her mom pass away also plays in their mind. Akshara had been a baby when her parents passed away, right? And accept it or not, the three years Akshara was away, they did grow close to Arohi. It is but natural. So they gravitate towards her first instinctively even though in their hearts, all the 3 grandkids hold equal place (maybe).

Sorry for the long post.

@ bold 1: that's true actually 😆 There are 3 different writers overall - one (or two) for the story, one for the screenplay, and one for dialogues. Natural that not all 3 will have the same direction or intention in mind for character behaviour. Hence the mismatch and the editor puts it all together 🤣

Bold 2: that'll be very interesting to watch. I too think he's Harsh's son but not Manjari's. It'll be a good watch if they write it well.

Bold 3: that makes sense.

Bold 4: I love reading long analyses. Please do post more 🤗 And sorry for barging in everywhere 😆

Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9

Actually, cancelling the wedding is indeed the right decision in this case. Abhimanyu or anyone else can never be happy with someone who can't differentiate between right and wrong when her sister is involved.

Akshara's blind dependence on her so called sister has no limit. What's the guarantee that she'll not support her sister's crime in the future?

She didn't go check the accident spot, and didn't tell the family about the accident or about aroo's overdose driving. All because she wants to save aroo despite aroo obviously showing criminal intent.

Now, if Manjari had not survived the accident, even then there's no guarantee that Akshara will not support her sister's crime. We saw that she lacks the courage to be truthful. She'll see aroo's cries, and tantrums about aroo's career, and will just hide aroo's crime, however big it is. It's become a habit for her, and there's no guarantee that she'll be a trustworthy person. 😕 Aise insaan se shaadi na hona hi sahi decision hai.

Akshara taking the blame was useless when she had already confessed in front of Abhimanyu that Arohi was driving the car...

Maybe she couldn't think of anything else but that was stupidity in my opinion

Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9

@ Bold: Exactly 💯 Has Akshara ever thought what'll happen to her "jaan" aroo after she goes to jail to hide aroo's crime? Aroo will commit some other mistake like she's always been doing. Or some other crime. Who'll hide aroo's crimes from the police at that point?

If she really loved aroo, she'll oppose aroo's rotten behaviour, both in general and in particular with respect to their mother's death (when aroo repeatedly blames & abuses Akshara). We've always seen Akshara being defensive and dependent on aroo, every time the mother matter has come up.

If she really loved aroo, she will at least not support aroo so actively in her mistakes and crimes. In fact, when the MD seat truth came up, Akshara not only hid the bribe truth, but also went out of her way and lied so much to everyone, just so that no one knows about aroo going to another city to give the exam.

Why couldn't she be truthful and just tell the family that aroo was giving an exam? She's so caught up in doing just what aroo wants her to, chaahe jo bhi ho. That's blind love indeed. This has become a habit for her now.

On top of it all, the show seems to glorify this kind of behaviour, with all the behen behen behen, aroo aroo aroo chants 👎🏼 No sensible sister, who loves her sister, will behave like Akshara. Galati karne wale ka saath dena and chup rehna, that too jaan bhujke to save the criminal, is even more wrong than the crime.

PS: I just went blank when I had to choose the ID. Toh kuch bhi likh diya. Later I thought of some good names but then thought let this be 🤣😆

Are there people who love like that? Of course there are. But to portray the show's FL that way is disappointing (to put it diplomatically). The previous issues never involved a person's life so it's easier to ignore them, I guess. But this one has no justification whatsoever. Of course, all these put together, show us the pattern of the two of them. Arohi doing whatever she wants, hiding behind Akshara and her promise to Sirat and Akshara taking the bullets in the name of her promise to Sirat. Both their behaviours have been conditioned and Goenkas turning a blind eye cemented that pattern and behaviour.

PS: Yes, ID is definitely unique and brings a grin. So keep it as is. I love it 😆

Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9

@ bold 1: that's true actually 😆 There are 3 different writers overall - one (or two) for the story, one for the screenplay, and one for dialogues. Natural that not all 3 will have the same direction or intention in mind for character behaviour. Hence the mismatch and the editor puts it all together 🤣

Bold 2: that'll be very interesting to watch. I too think he's Harsh's son but not Manjari's. It'll be a good watch if they write it well.

Bold 3: that makes sense.

Bold 4: I love reading long analyses. Please do post more 🤗 And sorry for barging in everywhere 😆

@Bold

@Blue - I have barged into this thread, haven't I? So you and I are even in that 😆

Originally posted by: Suvika.

Here the problem is not slow character growth. It's one step forward, two steps back scenario. So much so that we are unable to trust any change / growth.

And yes, practically speaking, marriage at this point is not making any damn sense to me. Families hate each other, Abhi has his fears that are clouding every word and act, Akshara is actually thinking when he said - wedding with me / our love or your sister attending the wedding.

His words alone if you see, of course one would feel it's a tough decision for her to make. But the whole picture is that these two caused the accident to his mom, left her to die and fled the scene. Yet he is there standing in front of his whole family, defying them, saying he wants to marry her. Asking Arohi, who was in the driver seat, to not be a part of the wedding is an extremely small price. Yet she is thinking. It comes across as Abhi throwing an unreasonable tantrum and Akshara stuck between pacifying him and the love of her sister.

@ Bold: Exactly!!!

And she's not only thinking, but she's actually hoping that he'll backtrack on his decision to not have Arohi attend the wedding. She wants him to finally accept and love her sister who almost killed his mother. How insensitive is that.

She doesn't respect Abhimanyu, his feelings or his love. If she did, she'll understand his mindset and how big a thing this is. If she actually loved him, she'll not expect him to accept her sister after what her sister has done to his mother.

Sadly, she doesn't seem to even get a hint that he's wanting aroo out of the wedding only to keep her away from the bad influence. He saw how she's blackmailed and emotionally manipulated by aroo and pointed this out so explicitly. Phir bhi akkal nahi hai. Marriage is not a good idea at all at this point. Akshara needs therapy to realize that she needs to differentiate between right and wrong, and that she can't blindly support a criminal just because the criminal is her sister.

And now again, she's being dishonest and hiding the truth from him by indirectly indicating she's happy and playing with words when he directly asked her how she feels about her decision. At least ab toh truthful rehti and just tell him that she doesn't care whatever crime her sister does, she'll always want to latch onto the abusive relationship.

Abhimanyu should understand that she was silent and couldn't make the decision because she wants to choose her sister. But lacks the courage to be truthful and do that.

Before going to the park, she was even convincing Arohi that she loves her and her importance hasn't reduced. 😳

Originally posted by: pbv3434

they didn’t knw they had hit someone..once she got to knw she immediately tried to tell Abhi bt I agree ak taking the blame was completely unacceptable..by doing this she indeed save a criminal and gave a wrong msg..😐

No. When they hit, it was Akshara who said - I felt as if we'd hit something real hard. (or something along those lines). Once that thought gets into her head, she can't brush it aside and move on. She was concerned about Arohi's OD at the point - let us assume. But what about later? Doesn't matter if it was Manjari or a stray or a haystack. You have a doubt, you go and check. At least that's what a FL would do, esp one who gives bhashan on sahi, galat and faisla.

Originally posted by: Suvika.

Are there people who love like that? Of course there are. But to portray the show's FL that way is disappointing (to put it diplomatically). The previous issues never involved a person's life so it's easier to ignore them, I guess. But this one has no justification whatsoever. Of course, all these put together, show us the pattern of the two of them. Arohi doing whatever she wants, hiding behind Akshara and her promise to Sirat and Akshara taking the bullets in the name of her promise to Sirat. Both their behaviours have been conditioned and Goenkas turning a blind eye cemented that pattern and behaviour.

PS: Yes, ID is definitely unique and brings a grin. So keep it as is. I love it 😆

Bold: Yes, I do plan to keep the ID! 🤣😆 Thank you 🤗

Originally posted by: viji2111

Akshara taking the blame was useless when she had already confessed in front of Abhimanyu that Arohi was driving the car...

Maybe she couldn't think of anything else but that was stupidity in my opinion

It's instinctive for her na, to shield Arohi. Arohi is Akshara's achilles heel.