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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: IAMHope

Anyway - the writer who used the cheating in a dance competition to cause unrest in Abhi’s mind is a genius.

A little silly cheating exposed a conflict of values between Abhi and Ak . The entire fandom was divided on this.

I first read about it in Freddie’s post but wondered how cheating in a board game or a dance could connect so deeply to values and ethics but seeing my own strong stance and reaction, I agree with her - that if there is a conflict of values it can cause uncomfortable tension.

They used this tension to propel Abhi’s strong reaction to Ak - “Akshara jhoot mat bolo”.




I don't see it as a difference in values! I see it more as a different perspective on the same act, which is largely a result of their individual experiences. Without getting into it again, from Akshu's POV, it was all fun and games. This is what happens in family festivals. People cheat, they mess around. It's nothing deeper. From Abhi's POV, his insecurities were triggered, so he created a deeper meaning that did not exist. To me, what was more significant was his conversation with Harsh afterwards. Harsh planted the seed of doubt in regards to trust in his mind, and he had those flashbacks while he was running after talking to the PI. Harsh, the man who Abhi knows to hate Akshu and be a constant instigator against her, got into Abhi's head, taking advantage of a vulnerable moment. All of this goes to Abhi's rash and impulsive nature, which exacerbated his pre-existing insecurities, which arise from his own childhood. So, Abhi and Akshu's upbringing also played a large role here.
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

I didn’t like Anand’s approach towards akshara after dpt thing. Department was abhi’s doing. He didn’t consult so what is Akshara’s mistake? Why are they taunting her? Yesterday’s conversation between harsh and Anand again left a bitter taste in me. Anand is equally toxic like harsh. Anand doesn’t appreciate mahima and that’s exactly where mahima’s evil ness comes from. And I fear same thing is going to happen with Parth and Shefali

All of this really does show that Neil and Abhi both deserve a lot of credit for turning out the way they did despite the toxic environment they grew up in. Parth took after his father, but Abhi and Neil took a different path. It goes to show that when one suffers abuse and trauma, either they fall into the same patterns, or they look to create something better. I'm not saying that Abhi doesn't have his faults...but, he is a gem of a man compared to these people who grew up watching. In this way, it really makes me feel sad for him and his insecurities about marriage and love, because all he has witnessed is one-way relationships void of love. His worst nightmare is ending up in the same situation.
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: tptwi

I don't see it as a difference in values! I see it more as a different perspective on the same act, which is largely a result of their individual experiences. Without getting into it again, from Akshu's POV, it was all fun and games. This is what happens in family festivals. People cheat, they mess around. It's nothing deeper. From Abhi's POV, his insecurities were triggered, so he created a deeper meaning that did not exist. To me, what was more significant was his conversation with Harsh afterwards. Harsh planted the seed of doubt in regards to trust in his mind, and he had those flashbacks while he was running after talking to the PI. Harsh, the man who Abhi knows to hate Akshu and be a constant instigator against her, got into Abhi's head, taking advantage of a vulnerable moment. All of this goes to Abhi's rash and impulsive nature, which exacerbated his pre-existing insecurities, which arise from his own childhood. So, Abhi and Akshu's upbringing also played a large role here.


its a simple difference in upbringing yaar..they just see it differnetly..akshu is raised to just take this as a game but for abhi thanks to his dad this became serious

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: spshastr


its a simple difference in upbringing yaar..they just see it differnetly..akshu is raised to just take this as a game but for abhi thanks to his dad this became serious

After falling down Abhi looked at Akshara angrily for few seconds. Akshara felt like she offended him with her prank. Then Abhimanyu smiled and clapped. That's when Akshara realized he didn't take it seriously and started celebrating their win. If Harsh hadn't instigated Abhi he would have almost forgotten Akshu's cheating.

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Posted: 3 years ago

As far as the cheating goes, we discussed and settled before, we ( Pooja and Ash) agreed to disagree on this. 😊 . You won’t be able to convince me one way and I know I cannot convince you otherwise- which is EXACTLY what the writers wanted.

My point is that they used this one thing to cause unrest and trigger insecurities in Abhi’s head and PB was able “get” Ito him and that impacted his reaction to what came later. I was simply appreciating the writers and how they knew exactly how to trigger us the audience knowing each of us will have a different opinion on it.




Originally posted by: tptwi

I don't see it as a difference in values! I see it more as a different perspective on the same act, which is largely a result of their individual experiences. Without getting into it again, from Akshu's POV, it was all fun and games. This is what happens in family festivals. People cheat, they mess around. It's nothing deeper. From Abhi's POV, his insecurities were triggered, so he created a deeper meaning that did not exist. To me, what was more significant was his conversation with Harsh afterwards. Harsh planted the seed of doubt in regards to trust in his mind, and he had those flashbacks while he was running after talking to the PI. Harsh, the man who Abhi knows to hate Akshu and be a constant instigator against her, got into Abhi's head, taking advantage of a vulnerable moment. All of this goes to Abhi's rash and impulsive nature, which exacerbated his pre-existing insecurities, which arise from his own childhood. So, Abhi and Akshu's upbringing also played a large role here.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: IAMHope

As far as the cheating goes, we discussed and settled before, we ( Pooja and Ash) agreed to disagree on this. 😊 . You won’t be able to convince me one way and I know I cannot convince you otherwise- which is EXACTLY what the writers wanted.

My point is that they used this one thing to cause unrest and trigger insecurities in Abhi’s head and PB was able “get” Ito him and that impacted his reaction to what came later. I was simply appreciating the writers and how they knew exactly how to trigger us the audience knowing each of us will have a different opinion on it.




The writers don't always mess up! I agree it was a good build up!
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Posted: 3 years ago

And yet he brought it up in the kitchen and then again after the dance.


it rankles for him.


He saw what motivated her “ making her family win because they had practiced so much” and dropped it reluctantly- his family also practiced hard and they aren’t naturally inclined towards song and dance so they tried harder but he didn’t push it. Had she said “ my family and I will be separated soon and I wanted them to win” he would have dropped it entirely and oh so generously.

Harsh “got” to Abhi this time because Abhi’s mind was in an uncomfortable tension after the marbles were dropped. He did not expect it.

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Originally posted by: Life_Is_Dutiful

After falling down Abhi looked at Akshara angrily for few seconds. Akshara felt like she offended him with her prank. Then Abhimanyu smiled and clapped. That's when Akshara realized he didn't take it seriously and started celebrating their win. If Harsh hadn't instigated Abhi he would have almost forgotten Akshu's cheating.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Me and my family used to watch this TV show.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: tptwi

I don't see it as a difference in values! I see it more as a different perspective on the same act, which is largely a result of their individual experiences. Without getting into it again, from Akshu's POV, it was all fun and games. This is what happens in family festivals. People cheat, they mess around. It's nothing deeper. From Abhi's POV, his insecurities were triggered, so he created a deeper meaning that did not exist. To me, what was more significant was his conversation with Harsh afterwards. Harsh planted the seed of doubt in regards to trust in his mind, and he had those flashbacks while he was running after talking to the PI. Harsh, the man who Abhi knows to hate Akshu and be a constant instigator against her, got into Abhi's head, taking advantage of a vulnerable moment. All of this goes to Abhi's rash and impulsive nature, which exacerbated his pre-existing insecurities, which arise from his own childhood. So, Abhi and Akshu's upbringing also played a large role here.

I completely agree with this. It’s their upbringing. Akshu has grown up in a very different environment compared to Abhi. Abhi has never been secured and always in search of some kind of security, peace. He found a solace in Akshara but Akshara who has lost so much in life and is a victim to abuse by her sister has learnt to find joy in smallest of things

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: IAMHope

As far as the cheating goes, we discussed and settled before, we ( Pooja and Ash) agreed to disagree on this. 😊 . You won’t be able to convince me one way and I know I cannot convince you otherwise- which is EXACTLY what the writers wanted.

My point is that they used this one thing to cause unrest and trigger insecurities in Abhi’s head and PB was able “get” Ito him and that impacted his reaction to what came later. I was simply appreciating the writers and how they knew exactly how to trigger us the audience knowing each of us will have a different opinion on it.




Not just one thing. The whole subplot, which I think people call track.

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