I think Swaran has a long way to go still.....lol abhi toh bas early days hain.
Her illusions about her sons were shattered the way very day she saw the text from them asking her to sell SG and their refusal to send money for the injection....uske baad se toh she has barely had time to process her traumas and heartbreaks in her fight to save Bedi saab's life.
Now the dust is settling a bit and so she is asserting herself.....woh jo ek sadma hota hai na of realizing how truly ALONE you are in this world - ki jitne marzi log bol lein woh aapka parivaar hain, saath hain....that moment of clarity when you realize ki sab aapko khud hi karna hai....woh hone lag gaya hai Swaran ko.....that is why she is repeating again and again ki sirf woh hai Bedi saab ke liye aur Bedi saab uske liye. First they were feeling alone as parents....now she is feeling utterly alone as his widow and yes, she has lost trust in her sons to step up to help for anything. Losing Bedi Saab has opened her eyes to that much atleast.
But we will likely see her continue to struggle with shunning her sons....she is emotional about them as is obvious from her trying to repair that gullak again after it shattered....toh that gussa/hurt and maa ka dil will keep going back and forth....woh kehte hain na ki maa ke dil ko jitni bhi chot de lo, woh phir bhi apne bacchon ke liye hi rota hai.....so I think they will show that aspect to Swaran - she will put the kids in their place when needed but beech beech mein emotional blackmail mein thoda bahut sway bhi ho sakti hai.
Bete toh rahenge hi besharam.....Maa ko koste koste bhi uske haath ke khaane ka swaad le rahe hain - pathetic losers.
The grandson is the one bright spot in her life now so that's nice....I like how he's given her a cute nickname - Powerwoman D.....lol. That was a lovely subtle bit they showed of him transitioning that Powerman cape onto Swaran to show ki woh khud se bhi superhero ho sakti hai rather than always viewing only Bedi Saab as a superhero. Orphanage wala scene bhi achha tha and another insight into parenting struggles.....woh beauty parlor waali lady seems like a single mom with a daughter who misbehaves with her and wahaan achha parallel draw kiya with Swaran as that lady tells her ki bade hokar bhi toh aapke bacche aapse aise hi baat kar rahe hain toh dosti karke bhi kya badal gaya......subtly they are weaving in all these messages.....the show does have lovely scope but it needs time jo ki pata nahin aaj ki short attention span waali junta kitna de paayegi inhein.....lol
Anyways, I'm gonna enjoy for now :P.....liked the epi even if there wasn't any Ajit today.....Neelu also subtly snubbing the loser kids was a nice touch :P
word!! I didn't even realize ajitless tha till the end..the interactions with the kiddo are really sweet though again mujhe darr lagta hai esp caz they have now made a mention of how he will be used by his mom too toh am also like swaran itna na pyar karo caz yeh bhi dhoka hi dedega baap ka khoon dikha dega but for now he is so innocent and that is the thing I liked in that phone comvo with bedi saabtoo both the grandkids atleast seemed to have thoda respect and love for the grandparents and weren't being jerks. waise toh woh Vikram ki partner bhi jitna dikhayi hai so far is normal causal isko zyada padi nahi hai i did like her shutting that Kiran ke uske maabaap woh jo marzi kare am not gonna get Into it but wahan woh loser Vikram hi enough hai
Omg the audacity of those bhukkads while stuffing themselves with the food and being humare liye bana hai kaise aaye thay and then kha peeke being oh toh leftovers thay yeah right.thuss toh phir bhi lia..matlab maa tumhari naukri kare tumhare nakhre utthaye even when she is grieved like this tum logon ke liye 56 bhog ka pakwaan banaye but you cannot even say a single condolence ..that is like kind of really leaving me amazed.these kids didn't even had a single moment of soberness ke baap marr gaya..fine close nahi thay and all that inko padi nahi hai but phir bhi man kabhi toh koi toh kuch toh hoga if now dettach ho gaye they have not had a single passing wala token bhi afsos of any kind..
Oh yeah that lady asking her straight in the face ke aapne toh pyaar se baat ki thi kya hi ho gaya and the way swaran had no answer..it really stood out caz if anyone is really privy to how much her kids are losers first hand it is her since she heard how she begged them how helpless they left him so then the way she went silent it was so noticeable sigh sgain such main kahan kami reh gayi in dono se in nikammon ko raise karne main .
@ bold yup that struggle between maa ka dil and someone who is still apahij as she said in the past caz is abandoned by them just comes so beautifully on those moments where she doesn't want to be rude to them do uthao their nakhre and all but then she gets reminded of their coldness and how she ended up losing bedisaab due to all this..more then the physical ailment bedi saab kinds gave up caz of their behavior their coldness esp during that last conversation thay how behiss and begairat they are. Sangita does incredibly well to show those moments those pauses in between the way her eyes still has he warmth where she wants to Dote and all byt her heart doesn't support it shows on her face.. I loved the way she was avoiding them again her dilemma was so clearly shown in this whole thing where sach ka saamna toh ho gaya hai and her baatein had woh silent protest mode too .. the gullak fixing immediately was esp palpable as if fixing thst will reverse the rime.nd will.fic everything jahan swaean ki dunia was perfect she was protected with bedisaaab having this illusion about her kids..*sigh* and perfect family .
I am sure she will get swayed again swaran is very gullible so jahan 2, 4 din inho ne meethi baatein kar li thoda paise lene ke liye naatak kar liye ke ab hum sudhar gaye sorry ya nahi bhi has thoda sa dhang se behave kar lia toh pighal jaayegi.. woh toh we got a demo in this whole saga too ke bas inki visa bhejeinge wheel chair bheji main hi how she ndd up fighting that they didn't took her calls etc toh matlab isko patina is not difficult and it will ake more for her to actually cut then off and move onto bachon se tallak.
I hope yeh grandson se sahi hi rakhein behavior and not involve a masoom kid into this behuda laalch ka khel
And yup for now we enjoy.. jab tak they can maintain it .. caz effort daali gayi hai in that subtle display
+1 about the cape and how the kid is motivating her ke she is superwoman it did played a role to her in pulling her out of darkness too that day i was esp touched by the way the kid got so excited over the sweater thre sweater she was so concerned about ke bachon ke liye leke jaani thi iw as like oh no they will make fun of her for that nakhra karke dil tod denge but the way that kid got so happy and were it..it was nice to see and him trying to care for her without any matlab for a change ..sigh
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