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Originally posted by: RitikaS99

I agree with you on everything you said here except one thing.

Ram has never been an MCP and his actions have never said he lied to Priya bcz he wanted vedika in front of him in KM. Infact he never wanted vedika under the same roof as Priya and he was the one who kept trying to send back vedika to shashi. He was the one who was pissed when Priya stopped vedika. He said to adi that Priya stopped vedika without talking to him and doesn't know how to handle it now bcz he can't say no to Priya. After that too he asked vedika in clear words when is she leaving. After accident the first thing he did was invite shashi to that he can take vedika away.

Totally agree! Ram has made mistakes, some of them would have serious repercussions, but I don’t see him as a MCP who think different rules applies to Priya because she is a woman. Yes, he has different rules for Neeraj and Vedika, that’s because he is blind to Vedika’s faults while Neeraj doesn’t even try to hide his cheap mindset with his talks about how Priya can’t move from from him and how Maitri always wanted him. And yes, he has been the only one who actively try to send Vedika out of KM,

After diwali and since raya's first official date after diwali Ram had continuous thought about telling priya the truth but shit happened again and again and they got sidetracked.

1. Priya told him she will leave if she ever thought ram will be to sacrifice his any old relationship due to her. This scared ram even though he wanted to tell her truth.

And he showed guilt about this till his birthday he wanted to tell her but Anjali kaand happened and priya and ram went in opposition.

2.And then ram realised that Priya has a very different perspective about the same things. ( Nazar and nazariya came into play)

3.Then the accident happened and he realised his love for Priya but also realised that Priya is not yet there.

Akshay was proven innocent which got their heads into sync but not their hearts.

And if Priya got to know the truth now she will remove herself from the relationship. ( Making point 1 a reality)

He is scared of losing Priya, which is making him stupid.

And to get their hearts into sync first he started to woe priya in his way. Which lead to much drama and many MUs.

All these 3 things made him to lie to himself that vedika didn't matter but in reality he just wanted to wait it out untill both of their heads and hearts were in sync.

Ik his way was wrong and his actions might not have been right but he never emotionally cheated on priya.

Vedika was not in his thoughts, conscious or subconscious.

He should have listen to adi and told priya the truth very early on but the fact is the fear of losing priya to his past kept him mum.

Bang on 👏🏽👏🏽

And as much as Priya is concerned she has every right to question Ram's actions bcz she was kept in dark for more time than necessary but also she kept a huge truth which can lead to Ram's death

Ram's truth maybe emotionally damaging but a truth which can result in death is much more bigger and bad.

I understand why priya is not revealing it bcz everytime anything happened in last few months by default she and her entire family was insulted and blamed for it and they had to prove their innocence in every matter. And this time she can't find proofs. somewhere this is Ram's fault that she is not telling him the truth, everytime he went directly in attack mode, opposing her. Last time he hurt her mother who she loves the most. And going by the past she is right to not put all her trust in ram.

I might be minority here, but I don’t blame Ram for taking Shivi home in Akki-Anjali track. If I have younger sister (or daughter as Ram considers Shivi as his bacchi) whose hubby is accused of molestation by his colleague, I too wouldn’t want my sister to live with that person until the issue is resolved. Yes, Anjali was proven to be lying once before, but Akki was also caught lying (about money and wanting to stop the search). It is not the question of taking Vedika’s side over Priya’s. The woman involved (Anjali) is making a very serious allegation which had to be thoroughly investigated, which Ram didn’t do, which is his mistake in this case. Also when both Vedika and Nandini told him about Mami hearing Priya ‘confessing ‘ that she still love Neeraj (which is not a lie from their pov, because mami only heard a small part of the confrontation), he didn’t question Priya because he believed in Priya’s character.

The second interview showed that Ram is in sync with Priya bcz priya proved herself to him again and again.

But priya is not in sync with ram bcz he has yet to Prove himself to her. He has always expected answers from priya but it's his turn to be answerable to her, to prove himself, his devotion, his honesty, his loyalty. Much like how priya have done.

A lot of people will not agree with me saying I'm being too defensive in Ram's favour. But i cannot oversee his past and his struggle as well.

People feel more for Priya bcz she keeps herself in the perpetual state of unhappiness and in direct contrast with ram.

She shows very little emotions and keep everything tightly closed within. It gets difficult to support ram when his actions can eventually lead to Priya's another heart break.

But every one forgets to notice that Ram has his fair share of struggles too. He is a person who has been continuously neglected, manipulated, living in a illusion, loved deprived, and he has put his trust in wrong people because that was the only option available to him until priya and since priya he is relearning about right and wrong.

Totally agree! Also Priya is lucky to have good support system in her family, she has people who not only supports her at the right time but also scolds her when necessary. Ram’s support system of friends are useless, there is a barrier there because they are not family and hence couldn’t talk directly against the ‘family’ even when they know the family & V are taking advantage of him

And learning is a long process. It doesn't happen instantly. It takes time, patience and a hell lot of mistakes before you are making almost none mistakes.

If we want a real story then we need accept that no one is perfect. We all are so much more receptive to priya's flaws but we keep complaining about ram's. He is as much a flawed and imperfect character like priya.

And I'm watching this show because both ram and priya are so imperfectly impressive.

Every couple goes through things but what makes it important is how they overcome it and grow through it.

I just want them to sort things out on their own without taking shitty advice from others. That's it. They can make mistakes, fight, be angry and still love each other.

💯

As I mentioned in another post, I find Ram’s behaviour in Birthday track despicable, but it was not that of MCP, it was that of a kid who feels he isn’t getting the attention he seeks from his favourite adult and throws a tantrum. Since he is not a kid, it is not cute and he will have to face the consequences,

I don’t think Priya’s hesitation in revelation about the murder attempt is not because Ram might not believe her, it is her own father who already once confessed to harm Ram, why will he suspect her. It is Sara’s bad advice combined with her concern for MM, which makes no sense because MM knows MS’s true face, in fact she herself tried to do detective work showing MS’s photo to the food cart fellow during prawn track.

Originally posted by: TheCoolDocSid

Behene, itna bak bak Nakko karo…

Drama screen writing 101:

Give a secret/fact/thing on the lead to the audience, the lead is supposed to handle this fact/secret/thing, according to the character sketch… but the lead doesn’t do so… makes us “question” the leads endlessly, but there is no drama if it is handled properly immediately, there will be obstacles/over pushes until they reach there.

Yeh jo questioning character cheez hoti hai na, ye hi to engagement from audiences hai…😆 you feel more close to the fictional character coz you know it’s vulnerability and truth. 🤪

In this sense, cvs succeeded , every where, ram did this ,Pri did this, ram didn’t do this, Pri didn’t do this… so engaging !🤣

What I am saying is behne,

Itna sar phodo mat… ram has a secret that needs to be disclosed to priya and Priya has a secret that needs to be disclosed to ram. We know what those secrets are , and therefore we are questioning and toppling and pitting them over each other… In actuality …

If the writers make it in the direction of reality, it will be ram and pri “discussed”/ “talked”… saare drame khatam… 🤣plot moving jaldi Karin padegi… wo ho ne se nahi Rahi🤣

So No more avi aise hua ,aise hoga, aise ho sakta discussing…

Wait for them to write something from their own heads..😆

Until then ,

Hold Peace.

Bang On. As I said earlier, we will have Team Ram vs Team Priya 🤣CVs are smart, kudos to them

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

Behen, the behavior of Ram during his birthday was a typical MCP one. Even if he never realized his love for Priya at that stage, his kaands with Vedika were enough for any partner to leave and go. He never trusted his friends nor Priya's siblings when they tried to explain the situation to him. He has to suffer and he will realize his mistakes. Priya has always told him that she has nothing to do with Neeraj and she has proved it by her actions and her words

He should also understand that Adi is a wellwisher and if he says something he needs to think about it and take some actions. Anyways, Priya's behavior post-Holi will make him realize his mistakes. Priya went through a lot to prove herself trustworthy, now its Ram's turn.I don't feel sympathetic at all for Ram here. His kaands with Vedika > Priya's kaands with Neeraj 🤣

I will give you 3-4 examples of Ram’s blind trust on Priya.

1. Also, Priya never told Ram about her past. It accidentally came out on the day of their engagement. Though it was not Priya’s fault.On that first day itself Ram trusted Priya and her family.

2. Even when Adi was doubting Priya and Neeraj and he told this to Brinda and Ram (the morning after Priya was drunk for the first time) he brushed off Adi saying that Priya is not like this and she can’t do that.

3. When during KC, Vedika told him that Priya has confessed her love to Neeraj on their wedding day, he didn’t believe Vedika even when their marriage was going to end.

4. Even after the 1st interview, when he came to know that Priya took Neeraj’s help for papers ( Priya lied to save Adi), he told Priya that even though everyone in the family feels that she still has feelings for Neeraj, he doesn’t believe so. He even gave Neeraj his job back just for Priya.

His rash behaviour on his birthday had more to do with returning of 5 percent rather than Neeraj. Neeraj was just a medium that was brought in to make him feel possessive. Though his obscenity with Vedika cannot be justified at all.

Now I feel Priya’s ego and self centered behaviour is the one that’s ruining this relationship. She has never accepted this marriage but Ram has. She is always in a mode of self victimisation which sometimes is too much.

Upar I posted, check it once bhai!

Originally posted by: TheCoolDocSid

Behene, itna bak bak Nakko karo…

Drama screen writing 101:

Give a secret/fact/thing on the lead to the audience, the lead is supposed to handle this fact/secret/thing, according to the character sketch… but the lead doesn’t do so… makes us “question” the leads endlessly, but there is no drama if it is handled properly immediately, there will be obstacles/over pushes until they reach there.

Yeh jo questioning character cheez hoti hai na, ye hi to engagement from audiences hai…😆 you feel more close to the fictional character coz you know it’s vulnerability and truth. 🤪

In this sense, cvs succeeded , every where, ram did this ,Pri did this, ram didn’t do this, Pri didn’t do this… so engaging !🤣

What I am saying is behne,

Itna sar phodo mat… ram has a secret that needs to be disclosed to priya and Priya has a secret that needs to be disclosed to ram. We know what those secrets are , and therefore we are questioning and toppling and pitting them over each other… In actuality …

If the writers make it in the direction of reality, it will be ram and pri “discussed”/ “talked”… saare drame khatam… 🤣plot moving jaldi Karin padegi… wo ho ne se nahi Rahi🤣

So No more avi aise hua ,aise hoga, aise ho sakta discussing…

Wait for them to write something from their own heads..😆

Until then ,

Hold Peace.

I was thinking the same 🤣

Agr har character mistakes nahi karega to story hu nhi bachegi 🤣

Fr hum dekhege kya or ladege kispe🤣

Behenon, yeh Sara vartalap… or vicharon ka adaan Pradan mujh pe udhar raha… will come back by evening or tomorrow morning … too many posts to catch up … 😳

Missing out all the fun … 😕

Aati hoon Shaam mein… 😎

Originally posted by: Real_Me

As I mentioned in another post, I find Ram’s behaviour in Birthday track despicable, but it was not that of MCP, it was that of a kid who feels he isn’t getting the attention he seeks from his favourite adult and throws a tantrum. Since he is not a kid, it is not cute and he will have to face the consequences,

I don’t think Priya’s hesitation in revelation about the murder attempt is not because Ram might not believe her, it is her own father who already once confessed to harm Ram, why will he suspect her. It is Sara’s bad advice combined with her concern for MM, which makes no sense because MM knows MS’s true face, in fact she herself tried to do detective work showing MS’s photo to the food cart fellow during prawn track.

Completely agree with you on ram behaving like a kid and throwing tantrum. We cannot put that behaviour above a tantrum bcz it was only his childish stubbornness about Priya not paying attention to him after he came back from quarantine.

He wanted priya's undivided attention like he enjoyed in the quarantined condition, he comes back and i first thing he learns is Priya creating distance between them by returning the 5%. He was loosing ground there.

As i keep saying that Ram is smart. He knew that Priya has handled the meeting nicely, client was happy and praising priya, company wasn't affected and she saved face for him. So the only conclusion he drew in his head was she was not liking the authority, power and responsibilities that came with being a Kapoor and that's why Ram thought she was rejecting the shares.

If only priya had not listened to nandini and told ram about shubham being insecure, he must have been more understanding. But that's a useless discussion.

She priya not telling about MS is about Meera only bcz when vedika's truth came out the first thing Ram's family did was blame priya and meera. What Meera had to do with all that, NOTHING and priya is a very defensive person due to her past.

MS came to ram's life bcz of Priya and neera was the reason ram got MS out on bail.

So she has a valid reason from her pov to find proof first so that her mother doesn't have to face another humiliation for the same man.

Originally posted by: Yashpa54

3. Ram may have not trusted Priya at times but I don’t remember Ram saying that their marriage is not “asli” or “a marriage with conditions” after their marriage. Priya instead has ranted this on and on. What’s this behaviour?While Ram has been an aa MCP, Priya too has been an ultra feminist at times.

See the thing is Priya might have called this marriage fake many times but time and again priya had proved by actions that she takes this marriage seriously.

She might have been sceptical about her marriage bcz she didn't want to get dependent on ram as they had agreed before hand. She was just trying to keep her promise to him. She didn't wanted ram to feel trapped with her.

She is very straight forward person who doesn't understand hints.

Ram told her in clear words a few times that he does not expect love to ever happen as he is already in love with someone else and friendship is all he can provide. And until ram in clear words will tell her that he is no longer in love with his ex and loves priya, she will not move ahead with him. And will keep herself in her shell.

Basically the moral of their communication story is that baaton ke bhoot actions se nahin bhagte. Such a significant life-changing verbal condition can only be cancelled by a sincere verbal retraction. To dispel a mindset induced by what was clearly said, one needs to clearly unsay. It cannot be achieved indirectly through actions coz actions are open to interpretation, and that very mindset, which was induced by Ram’s own words, is causing Priya to interpret his loving actions as niceties.

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

Completely agree with you on ram behaving like a kid and throwing tantrum. We cannot put that behaviour above a tantrum bcz it was only his childish stubbornness about Priya not paying attention to him after he came back from quarantine.

He wanted priya's undivided attention like he enjoyed in the quarantined condition, he comes back and i first thing he learns is Priya creating distance between them by returning the 5%. He was loosing ground there.

As i keep saying that Ram is smart. He knew that Priya has handled the meeting nicely, client was happy and praising priya, company wasn't affected and she saved face for him. So the only conclusion he drew in his head was she was not liking the authority, power and responsibilities that came with being a Kapoor and that's why Ram thought she was rejecting the shares.

If only priya had not listened to nandini and told ram about shubham being insecure, he must have been more understanding. But that's a useless discussion.

She priya not telling about MS is about Meera only bcz when vedika's truth came out the first thing Ram's family did was blame priya and meera. What Meera had to do with all that, NOTHING and priya is a very defensive person due to her past.

MS came to ram's life bcz of Priya and neera was the reason ram got MS out on bail.

So she has a valid reason from her pov to find proof first so that her mother doesn't have to face another humiliation for the same man.

Gosh, I totally forgot about Nandini blaming Meera during Vedika-Shashi drama.

Looks like Ram has learnt to take his family’s behaviour & opinion with a pinch of salt, on that day Ram assertively took Priya’s side, and he had been ignoring Nandini’s sneaky putdown’s of Pri for a while, also he either ignores or opposes whenever Nandini claims to V that KM is her house too, even when Nandini explicitly asked him to second her,

Priya too has to learn to do that, She will do it (I hope) when she is confident of Ram’s love.

I would say Ram’s most stupidest act till date is bringing MS out for MM’s sake, it didn’t even result in any drama for the makers to rejoice. And MM as a character certainly wouldnt want MS to escape the consequences,

Adding my opinion on your other post, Yes, Priya cannot move forward until Ram clarifies his current position on ‘no love’ deal. That’s the first major step, she won’t be ready to hear his confession until she processes his change of heart.