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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

The way I see is both CN folks and Sai want him to come and join them the celebrations when he is not interested to attend . It has become a challenge now as to who will bring him down . Will joining the celebration make him happy ? No it won’t but it will make them feel less guilty so he is being forced .

Hmm.....I also was telling this over insta that the cause of both is same, that is Virat to join them. But I don't know, as I said, I may sound selfish that I found Sai's efforts good and well for a reason. Maybe cuz the whole family doesn't live upto their mouths or fame which they claim. And the frustration towards the family is also there .

And maybe there is part of Sai which wants Virat to come down for aai and Ninu ( I don't know why for them😳) but yeah, felt that many times yesterday.

But what touches me that she isn't leaving things to fix themselves, to be honest maybe I am getting personal here, cuz I felt many things will work out on their own sometimes and they ended up the other getting more angrier and insecure. So I like efforts being put rather than being like a crying mess like aai.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I loved loved the episode. Sai's words defines Virat and his decisions. in line with my understanding of the plot

When it comes to EMA, only a wife can give clean chit to a husband. If she had stood by him earlier, no one would have dared to question him. But unfortunately she was at a stage where she could not understand him. Now when she saw him, she saw him in a crystal clear way. Only Sai could have cleared his image in this way. Afterall, she is his wife and truly cared for his reputation. I loved both Sai and Virat when Sai was speaking highly of him. Neil and Ayesha acted well.

I think he will be miffed because Sai would not say I love you :) I still hope for confession and holi celebrations. Lets see.

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I was saying this over insta, the whole media fiasco, if I have to say that. There is actually nothing much over there. Everything is so clear and right on point that we don't need to discuss it in depths. The only thing which we all are aware is, Virat was never wrong with his intentions. The only thing wrong was his silence and secrecy. His silence was his approval ( unagreed and unsaid one) to all the allegations. He wasn't wrong in solving the problem, the way he chose to solve the problem was actually problematic.

The scene is beautiful

But my favourite was Sai holding Pakhi's hand. That gave me weird sense. Sai has finally understood the secure feeling in a relationship doesn't rest on the single person. The media interaction can be applied with this too. As much as Virat is responsible to make Sai feel secure, it is her equal responsibility to safeguard him. From you can flirt with anyone to stopping Pakhi herself. That spoke volumes and actually showed she is living upto her words.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yes! he is bringing the resentment factor. There is an age difference and family background that plays a major role also. Virat tried to be patient for an year and half but at the end of the day he is also a 28-29 year old young man who is afraid of heartbreak. That aspect is well brought out.

And yesterday, we can see his hurt runs very deep. Imagine being in his situation. He supressed his feelings, been loyal to her in his heart and mind, tried his best not to force her in any way...He will be pushed to self pity mode too. It is normal. And hurt because he was accused of the opposite! By all the family members. I can feel his pain.

People argue how Sai's pain was ignored. I say this...Sai has also undergone so much pain due to her misunderstanding no doubt but at the end of it all, she found 'relief' and 'peace'. For Virat, he lived through the same pain and the additional burden of protecting two lives. He did not get time to wallow in his pain like Sai did. And at the end of it, he did' not get either 'relief' or 'peace' because he was the one who was misunderstood.

I cannot put it in a better way. Sai is happy not because she loves him or she is a doormat! It is because she found 'peace'. Virat is not arrogant or acting pricey, rather he did not find the closure yet. 😭

You have written Virat's trauma so well. I agree, Sai is happy because she found peace and relief after all the pain she went through. But, Virat has not been able to find closure to all his pain and suffering. He needs some lone time to get over everything that happened,but the Chavans are not letting him do that either. It's so sad that after all he endured the Chavans can't see his pain but wants him to join in their celebration. They think throwing out their son is such a small issue that Virat would forget everything and behave in a normal way.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Very well put . I agree being in Virat’s position is not easy . People say he was the one who made people suspect him but they forget Virat had shared everything with his family and wife except Sada’s name . He tried explaining them but everyone refused to believe him and accused him . It hurts when you are blamed for things you never did . It’s been even a week of truth coming out and people expect him to forgive these people . He needs time to heal . Why is he obligated to forgive them the moment they realize their folly .

Was this the first time his wife questioned his character? She has done it multiple times with Pakhi and with Shruthi . Why should he not get upset ? When Virat questioned Sai once about her relationship with Ajinkya she was upset and took her time to forgive him .

You have beautifully explained the relief and peace Sai found after knowing the truth . It makes so much sense .

Nitu, you have penned my thoughts. It wasn't as if he kept everyone in the dark but they were the ones who didn't trust him. It hurts a lot when one's family don't trust you and I can relate to Virat very well. Why do people complain when he shows his resentment? Can't he be upset? It's very natural.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

One thing I observed, CN folks are sulking because their son is not part of the celebration but same folks last year celebrated without any worry for their another son Samrat who was missing then . The only person who remembered Samrat apart from his mom was Virat . It’s unfortunate that Samrat never understood his Shiva .

Yes,true. None of the Chavans deserve Virat. And, Samrat is not worth being called Virat's brother. He's good for nothing.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Sai should be a politician … the way she changes her stand without battling an eyelid😆😆…anyway I liked that Virat name was publicly cleared . I think we might get his speech tomorrow.

One think I want to ask ..neither Chavans or Sai is bothered about his food or medicines . All they need is he should forget everything and join them for celebrations .isn’t this Selfishness. Will they decide when he should forgive them as well ? It’s little uncomfortable to see him forced into celebrations when he has asked for some time to heal .

I wouldn't say Sai is selfish but yes, Chavans are indeed a selfish bunch of people. They only think about themselves,their happiness and their so called self respect. And,to protect their self respect they will fall from low to lowest. For example when Virat married Sai they didn't accept her because of their so called status and what will people say and even now they threw Virat out of the house to protect their self respect.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I loved loved the episode. Sai's words defines Virat and his decisions. in line with my understanding of the plot

When it comes to EMA, only a wife can give clean chit to a husband. If she had stood by him earlier, no one would have dared to question him. But unfortunately she was at a stage where she could not understand him. Now when she saw him, she saw him in a crystal clear way. Only Sai could have cleared his image in this way. Afterall, she is his wife and truly cared for his reputation. I loved both Sai and Virat when Sai was speaking highly of him. Neil and Ayesha acted well.

I think he will be miffed because Sai would not say I love you :) I still hope for confession and holi celebrations. Lets see.

Yes, I agree. Only a wife can give a clean chit when it comes to extra marital affair. If during Shruthi incident she had trusted him noone would have been able to point a finger at him. But,sadly she didn't trust him. Well, what's done cannot be undone. I loved the episode because finally Virat's image got cleared.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

The way I see is both CN folks and Sai want him to come and join them the celebrations when he is not interested to attend . It has become a challenge now as to who will bring him down . Will joining the celebration make him happy ? No it won’t but it will make them feel less guilty so he is being forced .

When neighbours taunted them raising Virat’s Badnami Sai must have determined then to make a move and clear his name in society.

Some Virat stans are unhappy that Sai gave the statement about his ch. They want DIG to do that but I differ.

It is the wife who should certify the ch of husband not a third person. Virat is more maligned for his live in relationship which is the topic of discussion among neighbours and others.

Sai Virat Chavan only could give a statement acquitting him from infidelity charges.

So Sai did not overdo the part. She did the right thing by addressing the issue.

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

@bold

I was saying this over insta, the whole media fiasco, if I have to say that. There is actually nothing much over there. Everything is so clear and right on point that we don't need to discuss it in depths. The only thing which we all are aware is, Virat was never wrong with his intentions. The only thing wrong was his silence and secrecy. His silence was his approval ( unagreed and unsaid one) to all the allegations. He wasn't wrong in solving the problem, the way he chose to solve the problem was actually problematic.

The scene is beautiful

But my favourite was Sai holding Pakhi's hand. That gave me weird sense. Sai has finally understood the secure feeling in a relationship doesn't rest on the single person. The media interaction can be applied with this too. As much as Virat is responsible to make Sai feel secure, it is her equal responsibility to safeguard him. From you can flirt with anyone to stopping Pakhi herself. That spoke volumes and actually showed she is living upto her words.

Sometimes our own actions make us a villain or hero. This goes well with Virat. Unfortunately whatever he did with pure intention was not taken well by his family. Though his intentions were not wrong his approach was taken in a wrong way and he was accused for all the wrong things which he had never done. I hope Sai keeps her trust on Virat even in the future because Pakhi will not stop here. She's an evil witch.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Nitu, you have penned my thoughts. It wasn't as if he kept everyone in the dark but they were the ones who didn't trust him. It hurts a lot when one's family don't trust you and I can relate to Virat very well. Why do people complain when he shows his resentment? Can't he be upset? It's very natural.