Akshara And Aarohi - Page 2

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

And whatever I did not say, you said it dear ❤️❤️.. Lekin yeah I too felt bad for her...I wrote so many posts for her today and I think today's episode justified that. I am telling you that wedding in hush hush is hurting her and there is nothing wrong in that. If she really was doing Kaands I will not feel bad for her but she really doesn't deserve all hatred.

I personally felt tht aru wAs always more important for goenkas..they literally send ak to another place just for arohi and tht clearly shows how imp she is for them..nobody saw how ak was bullied by arohi for the mistake which she has not even committed..they were so wrong in blaming ak for sirat’s death..

Originally posted by: pbv3434

I personally felt tht aru wAs always more important for goenkas..they literally send ak to another place just for arohi and tht clearly shows how imp she is for them..nobody saw how ak was bullied by arohi for the mistake which she has not even committed..they were so wrong in blaming ak for sirat’s death..

Definitely, they looked at the two girls and said who needed it more and just gave everything to that one (Aaru). The truth is both girls needed it but if we've learnt anything, it's that the Goenka's only see one child at a time. That's how they neglected Keerti's abuse too.

What I interpreted is this, it wasn't the Goenka's love that Aaru thinks Akshu stole from her, but it was Sirat's. And now that Sirat's gone, she's projecting it onto the entire family, like she's projecting Sirat's death on Akshu. Aaru doesn't want to admit it's not the Goenka's but Sirat who had a soft spot for Akshu the entire time.

But here's why I'd be super confused if Aaru did plant the card - she'd admit it. In a scene alone, she'd admit it in a monologue or a comment like she did in the promo. She'd have that vindictive smile that she wore when Abhira had the disagreement at the hospital after Manish's surgery. But she ran off and cried instead.

But also, Aarohi someone does understand you. Someone does care for and that someone is Akshu. Give Akshu the respect she deserves, don't just hide behind her when times get rough like today when she jumped in Akshu's arms cause everyone was blaming her. You're wrong Aarohi and at some point, if you want people to trust you, you'll have to admit it in front of everybody and apologize.

2 things came to my mind after watching today’s episode -

1. Karma is a bitch - it will come back to bite you..!!

2. Story of the boy who cried wolf - I believe Aarohi’s emotions were true today but unfortunately you do a mistake 10 times folks believe you and 1 time she is being honest no one trust’s her. That is harsh reality

PS: #2 applies to the audience as well. They just don’t trust her

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

And whatever I did not say, you said it dear ❤️❤️.. Lekin yeah I too felt bad for her...I wrote so many posts for her today and I think today's episode justified that. I am telling you that wedding in hush hush is hurting her and there is nothing wrong in that. If she really was doing Kaands I will not feel bad for her but she really doesn't deserve all hatred.

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I really wanted to feel bad for Aarohi today. Trust me, I did. There are just a few things that I cannot look past. I think that Aarohi has brought this entire situation upon herself. Abhi was not the only one who doubted her today. Her entire family did. They all expected her to have done it. Why? Because at this point, they all know what she is capable of. It is not only about knocking the tilak thali down. Before that, she has a huge list of lies and plotting underneath her belt namely: exposing Abhira on Valentines Day, lying about saving Abhi from the fire, lying about sending Akshu to speak up about Ruby, lying about Manjari's pooja, lying about the MD kaand. She herself said that she will cut Abhi's wings after the tilak. She herself said that she will show Abhi who is best at the hospital yesterday after getting jealous when the nurses were complimenting Akshu. It is a complete "the boy who cried wolf" situation.

Forget all of her lies and these dialogues... to me, the biggest and more undeemable quality in Aarohi is the way in which she has treated Akshu. She emotionally blackmailed her to stay away from Abhi, and never even apologized for it. Hell, she blamed Akshu for Sirat's death her entire life and never said sorry even once. She was being a good sister to Akshu while Abhira were separated, but the second she started seeing that Abhira were reuniting and the families were accepting them, she started getting jealous again.

When it comes to Aarohi's pain, I don't doubt that it's real. But, it is what she does as a result of that pain that is unacceptable. If she was crying and feeling bad, then I would sympathsize with her. But, more than her pain, she is driven by jealously and ego. That is my problem.

Last point- yes, she did not switch the cards. But she wanted to destroy the card with paint. It is the intention that matters here.

Originally posted by: tptwi

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I really wanted to feel bad for Aarohi today. Trust me, I did. There are just a few things that I cannot look past. I think that Aarohi has brought this entire situation upon herself. Abhi was not the only one who doubted her today. Her entire family did. They all expected her to have done it. Why? Because at this point, they all know what she is capable of. It is not only about knocking the tilak thali down. Before that, she has a huge list of lies and plotting underneath her belt namely: exposing Abhira on Valentines Day, lying about saving Abhi from the fire, lying about sending Akshu to speak up about Ruby, lying about Manjari's pooja, lying about the MD kaand. She herself said that she will cut Abhi's wings after the tilak. She herself said that she will show Abhi who is best at the hospital yesterday after getting jealous when the nurses were complimenting Akshu. It is a complete "the boy who cried wolf" situation.

Forget all of her lies and these dialogues... to me, the biggest and more undeemable quality in Aarohi is the way in which she has treated Akshu. She emotionally blackmailed her to stay away from Abhi, and never even apologized for it. Hell, she blamed Akshu for Sirat's death her entire life and never said sorry even once. She was being a good sister to Akshu while Abhira were separated, but the second she started seeing that Abhira were reuniting and the families were accepting them, she started getting jealous again.

When it comes to Aarohi's pain, I don't doubt that it's real. But, it is what she does as a result of that pain that is unacceptable. If she was crying and feeling bad, then I would sympathsize with her. But, more than her pain, she is driven by jealously and ego. That is my problem.

Last point- yes, she did not switch the cards. But she wanted to destroy the card with paint. It is the intention that matters here.

We really don't know if she was trying to destroy the card with her paint. I'll give her benefit of doubt just like the card.

Yes in the past she was very bad sister and I don't deny that. But why did Akshu took all her hatred or Goenkas supported her. Akshu deserves her share of happieness just like Aarohi. So on marriage day when she choose her love I was very happy and had no issues. Abhimanyu too deserves to get his Love for all lies Aarohi said. So though she was dumped on marriage day that no girl should go through I don't think even Abhira were wrong.

Now after confession she tried accepting her sister. But she just cannot see the same customs so soon with same guy who dumped her on marriage day so yes that ego jealousy is coming back. But she is trying and we need to give her benefit of doubt. It cannot go away in one day all that she carried from her childhood. If it was Aarohis fault, I'll say Akshara should have also taken steps to show her place. She happily accepted and gave her controlling powers.

Now coming back to today's episode just because Akshara suffered Aarohi also deserves suffering is something I cannot accept. Today she was genuinely hurt and I do not expect audience to forgive her but atleast in this episode she doesn't deserve hatred messages.

Originally posted by: Shubh44

Nope......she does deserve all the hatred

Ok I respect your opinion but please read my above message

Originally posted by: tptwi

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I really wanted to feel bad for Aarohi today. Trust me, I did. That's beautiful though. It means you're thinking about it and showing an open mind and heart. For me, I don't care what your judgment is on anything, what I care about is how you arrived there (i.e., did you consider the alternative explanations and then choose the one that's right for you?). There are just a few things that I cannot look past. That's totally fair and I think your thought process mimics Abhi's exactly. Initially, he tried to give Aaru the benefit of the doubt cause she's Akshara's sister but now, so much has happened that he can't look past it. He can't give anyone a second chance if they even show the slight possibility of hurting Akshu. I think that Aarohi has brought this entire situation upon herself. Absolutely! Abhi was not the only one who doubted her today. Her entire family did. They all expected her to have done it. Why? Because at this point, they all know what she is capable of. It is not only about knocking the tilak thali down. Before that, she has a huge list of lies and plotting underneath her belt namely: exposing Abhira on Valentines Day, lying about saving Abhi from the fire, lying about sending Akshu to speak up about Ruby, lying about Manjari's pooja, lying about the MD kaand. She herself said that she will cut Abhi's wings after the tilak. She herself said that she will show Abhi who is best at the hospital yesterday after getting jealous when the nurses were complimenting Akshu. It is a complete "the boy who cried wolf" situation.

Forget all of her lies and these dialogues... to me, the biggest and more undeemable quality in Aarohi is the way in which she has treated Akshu. She emotionally blackmailed her to stay away from Abhi, and never even apologized for it. Hell, she blamed Akshu for Sirat's death her entire life and never said sorry even once. She never apologized or held herself accountable. In fact her reconciliation scene with Akshara, where they did the handshake again, involved her forgiving Akshu, not vice versa. And she never specified what that forgiveness was for. Like was she forgiving Akshu for killing Sirat cause that would mean she still harbours those thoughts and will bring it up again. Moreover, if it was for killing Sirat, that means she never truly understood anything and is unlikely to change. She was being a good sister to Akshu while Abhira were separated, but the second she started seeing that Abhira were reuniting and the families were accepting them, she started getting jealous again.

When it comes to Aarohi's pain, I don't doubt that it's real. But, it is what she does as a result of that pain that is unacceptable. I agree and I think a fine example of that was her dropping the plate on purpose. Her emotions and hurt are understandable but her actions were childish and mean (sullenly the mood of the ceremony for a sec before Akshu stepped in). If she was crying and feeling bad, then I would sympathsize with her. But, more than her pain, she is driven by jealously and ego. Definitely. There are very few choices of Aarohi's that aren't rooted in jealousy, insecurity, and ego and it is problematic. That is my problem.

Last point- yes, she did not switch the cards. But she wanted to destroy the card with paint. It is the intention that matters here.

But if intentions are all that matters then isn't everyone a terrible person? Cause we've all had bad thoughts, thoughts that, even if for just a second, involved hurting someone. What matters is our actions, IMO. It matters if we act on those thoughts. And whether or not Aarohi would've ruined the card if something many have entertained, ik I have, but at the end of the day, it's just speculation and just a show. I'm not saying Aarohi is right in this situation, it's just my principle to consider actions slightly more than intentions, 'cause sometimes intentions aren't enough.

Aarohi's actions usually speak for herself. For example, her MD fraud speaks for herself. Her intent could've been positively interpreted, I remember someone citing it as ambition and saying she wouldn't have done it if she didn't pass the date for submission or some, but her actions were illegal, especially given the context.

Originally posted by: Baarish_Sim

But if intentions are all that matters then isn't everyone a terrible person? Cause we've all had bad thoughts, thoughts that, even if for just a second, involved hurting someone. What matters is our actions, IMO. It matters if we act on those thoughts. And whether or not Aarohi would've ruined the card if something many have entertained, ik I have, but at the end of the day, it's just speculation and just a show. I'm not saying Aarohi is right in this situation, it's just my principle to consider actions slightly more than intentions, 'cause sometimes intentions aren't enough.

Aarohi's actions usually speak for herself. For example, her MD fraud speaks for herself. Her intent could've been positively interpreted, I remember someone citing it as ambition and saying she wouldn't have done it if she didn't pass the date for submission or some, but her actions were illegal, especially given the context.