Originally posted by: sheet_leher
So, someone on the forum commented that they want mature conversations and not this childhood trauma shit (and I may have tagged the person and asked how discussing childhood trauma not a part of mature conversation)
Anyway, so I wanna know what according to you all comes under mature conversation?
What all do we want our AbhiRa to talk about?
I, for one, am very happy with the way things are going. I like the conversations they've been having. I would definitely want Akshu to talk about how she feels about Naira... And about her life in Pune..
And maybe Abhi to discuss more about his childhood when he's ready...
What else??
Also, please tag the others as wellll ...wanna know what everyone feels ❤️
So AbhiRa's childhood trauma has shaped them into what they are...it is why Abhi doesn't speak to Harsh properly yet is so respectful to Mahima and Anand even though he might not agree with them. Its why Abhi tries to be everyone's saviour (why can't Parth step up and be his own sister's saviour - I am so irritated with him. I am not against him wanting to have a career that makes him happy but I genuinely don't think that he should be wallowing in self pity because his family thinks he is a failure whilst the successful interventional cardiologist carries the burden of his father's lack of empathy; his mother's physical and emotional abuse; his brother's adoption and his sister's issues.
Abhimanyu's mother knows what he goes through and knows he hates being in that house but Akshara needs to know. If she doesn't know, how will she heal him? Not everything can be healed through music therapy; some things need to be spoken about.
Now coming Akshu, her mother who was so loved passed away and for many months her father moped around living in her memories. Then, he found her look alike and got entangled in those issues until he finally married the look alike. Poor Akshu was left to her great grandmother and her grandparents from when she was a baby. Her step mother's daughter was always spoiled and stubborn acting as if she deserved the moon and the stars. Then her step mother had an accident and this poor soul was blamed for it by her half sister.
She left her home and family and moved away. Her half sister continues to blame her. She has panic attacks every time her step mother's accident replays before her. So why can't she share all this with the man who is the love of her life.
What mature conversations should they talk about? Future kids so early in their relationship?Or careers? Or a new house? Or holidays? What kind of relationship will this be?
I m sorry but I don't understand why they shouldn't discuss their life events that have shaped them into what they are or traumatised them?
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