Originally posted by: Esotericbird92
So here are my 2 cents on Som situation which no one asked for but I am going to share anyway 😆
Som is a user with a victim complex...yes I may sound harsh but he has taken advantage of the Modak's affection, especially Sid's love for him in every situation so far.
Starting right with the failed wedding with Mithai...even if we don't consider Mithai and her mother and the pain and trauma the situation caused them what about the Modaks? Did he think about Dadai? Sid despite having so much trauma did not even give a second thought about marrying Mithai because of his unconditional love for Dadai. That is a true dil ka rishta not what Som does where he just takes and expects but never gives anything back in return
Ekon sheye gaye pore, chokhe jol niye Dadai ke abhinandan janache kintu eto bhalobasha kothaye chilo when he conspired with the Agarwals to burn down the base kitchen? Did he once think about Dadai or Sid at that time? No as ususal he very conveniently made himself the victim and ran away.
When Sid married Mithai to cover up for his mistake...was he ever angry at Mithai for his brother's sake? No it was always because Mithai gained more recognition within the family and the Modak group for her efforts, so he wanted to get rid of her
Som's pathology is that he is always the victim and everyone is to blame for his situation except for him. I agree there have been external factors that have influenced his judgement but they were able to influence him to this extent because of his own insecurities.
Even in his marriage he is now shifting the blame onto Tess for not being able to accept him...despite very well knowing beforehand how obssessed she is with Sid. Did he really expect her to magically change especially now given her closer proximity to Sid? And the irony of the situation is now he actually has no one to blame but himself ...because he consulted no one...not even his precious little brother whose former best friend he was marrying.
Sid is fully justified in calling him out on this matter...in fact I would have called him foolish had he not done so. Although I know that this fracture is not going to last long this time and will probably be used as a plot device to show Mithai helping the two brothers patch up...but Som needs to do serious penance for his redemption...he needs to realise that he is living in a house of cards right now which can crumble at any second and accordingly decide where his loyalties lie.
Ok so that was more than 2 cents for sure 😂 but let me know what you guys think 🤗