Originally posted by: RainFire125
This is my observations on last 2-3 episodes. If you have read my long essay that i posted in the morning, you will really feel ki G pagal hai kya???? LOL, dont worry even I feel at times that way ki how can I think in opposite directions!! This is bec we assume a lot and then we form our perceptions by observing the characters. This is not bec the writers have done a great job is portraying them in an xx manner, but bec we have assumed that they might have been that way. Will try and keep it to the point.
Relationships are like those garden where on all the flowers (dimensions in relation) you have to keep nurturing them, showering your attention/love on them. There is nothing called a perfect relationship; every relationship needs constant building and commitment.
On Samar's question to Anu (which completely surprised me) - Anu ended her relationship, but did he forget why Anu ended things? The divorce needed to happen because of a betrayal, of manipulation, and lies for nine years that can never be forgiven or forgotten. Rather should not be!!
I will really advocate Nandu to not marry into that house as one perception. She has seen firsthand again that no one stood for her in that house. The elders mainly stood silent as V belittled her as they did for 25 years with Anu. One fact that was brought up by Pakhi was that Nandini was not her bhabi yet and was still an “outsider” however, if Nandini was married she would have been treated as an outsider. So net net - without Anu, this house is a mere building where people are mute spectators!!! And no girl with a right mindset will want to be a part of this family! I am actually disappointed with Samar. Samar’s reaction to Nandini is a perfect example of his lack of maturity and how he’s not yet ready to commit. It’s as if when things aren’t perfect, you run away or get defensive just like you father. As much as I dislike Kavya, it’s true that someone needed to advocate for her and part of Kavya’s insecurity is the lack of acceptance from this family. No one is ever going to stand up to V's actions ever is it??? We know that Pakhi will forever stand by her father regardless so why is Nandini being put on the spot for advocating for Kavya? As Vanraj openly insulted Nandini, not a single Shah advocated for Nandini but instead Baa tried to pacify her instead of saying anything to Vanraj. This is like everyone practicing see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil when Anu isn’t present in the Shah house. I wonder this - Anu spoke up only after the betrayal surfaced. If the betrayal never happened would Anu be a silent Shah as well? Would she have supported Nandini in any given situation?? Nandu is fortunate to have this changed Anu in her life because many mothers never see their son’s wrong doing but Anu looks at facts and not just blood.
I am going to let Mukku be bec i want to still assume that here there is more than we are seeing. We may see her becoming a putty but I want to hope that its her BIG PLAN. She adores her bro and now she also adores Anu. As someone had said she cannot adore MaAn as well as V. So one side is definitely a pretend. Hence let me assume that she is pretending towards V and he will be her checkmate eventually!!
Coming to ANu and Vanraaj Shah -
It’s evident now that V is using the same manipulation tactics on Mukku that he had once used on Kavya. That sympathy of not being understood by loved ones, rejection, and lonliness etc. We know that Mukku forever seeks the good in everyone and sympathizes for them. She understand lonliness very well. Her character arc accepts people’s faults and weak points so far. Anuj is Anu’s inner strength and Anu is fortunate that he forever tries to raise her and never pushes her back. This inner strength is needed for Anu to fight again the evilness that is V. Anu hopefully is starting to understand the true layers of Vanraj. Maybe she will have a full window now to see how he had started things with Kavya. As Kavya warned her, there is a side of Vanraj that Anu cannot even fathom. Even though Anuj forever has Anu’s back; in this situation Anu needs to handle the situation tactfully as i see that she is going to handle the situation alone for some time (which i have my reservations about). Anu understands Anuj’s temperament when it comes to his sister and she also understands how defensive Mukku can be. Instead as Vanraj gains Mukku’s trust, Anu needs to keep developing that bond with Mukku so she’ll be receptive to Anu protecting her against Vanraj. Anu was once his victim. She thought for a while that he might have changed because she truly wished that deep down there was an ounce of goodness in the man that she laid with; Perhaps Vanraj isn’t a womanizer by nature but the truth is he will use a woman’s weakness, compassion, or passion to his advantage to succeed and this is the reality that Anu has to accept fully!!!
I am glad that Anuj is starting to put pieces together and understand Anu is falling in love with him while giving Anu her space.
I dont want to even think that writers will take the route to making Mukku cause such situations that Anu might be forced to leave the Kapadia house. If that happens then i will say - good riddance to a rubbish script!!!