Episode Discussions/ Predictions/ Frustration Thread |21.01.22| pg 131 - Page 9

Originally posted by: ayushijindal

(My take Copy from another thread)

Me and my mom was just discussing this. I was so angry but she made me see through the reality. This actually calm me down. She said there is no doubt that Vanraj is evil, he was, is and will. But like him in real life also these kind of people wont regret, they dont have any ounce of guilt even. They are the so called good people in front. They got affected only for their daughters sisters but not their wives till. These are those people who did and doing the same but rebuke the others for the same. They lend help but wont learn lesson for themselves. That is why violence happens and women face lots of difficulties to prove. These kind of people never leave a chance to interfere but dont want any for themselves. Sad but true. My mom said makers trying to show the reality. She said tell me the one person who accepted and guilty of doing violence, not any. It is just that it is a show and we as viewers want to see what is right but reality is not that. Agar aisa hota na k aise log guilty hote to violence hota hi ni

Agree....

Your mom is talking about Vanraj, which is true..

What Vanraj is doing perfectly fits his character arc.

But what about Anuj and Anupama...any sensible person in real life will either break the relationship or maintain some distance...

Why did makers brutally killed Anuj character here too..

why didn't he asked Vanraj to leave the place right away..

even if he had made those faces, it doesn't help. This was time for him to act, today he had power, his house, his family...so far issues were Shah and Anuj was outsider but not today...

Anupama was anyways useless, I am done enough of supporting her or giving her benefit of doubt... even after seeing Anuj she doesn't understand how wrong Vanraj is, no one can't help..her flashback today also didn't tell her and wow..hats off lady you sharing your pain with your abuser.. salute you...

Anupama has herself put blind fold her eyes and keeps repeating achcha insaan..as if by her words she has the power to heal and change him too.

More than baa at times I feel she is the responsible today for encouraging Vanraj. I could have understood before Anuj, before she left that house..but man, this lady never stops.

Go and marry this TrashRaj again, you two are truly made for each other...

Originally posted by: Km181

Agree....

Your mom is talking about Vanraj, which is true..

What Vanraj is doing perfectly fits his character arc.

But what about Anuj and Anupama...any sensible person in real life will either break the relationship or maintain some distance...

Why did makers brutally killed Anuj character here too..

why didn't he asked Vanraj to leave the place right away..

even if he had made those faces, it doesn't help. This was time for him to act, today he had power, his house, his family...so far issues were Shah and Anuj was outsider but not today...

Anupama was anyways useless, I am done enough of supporting her or giving her benefit of doubt... even after seeing Anuj she doesn't understand how wrong Vanraj is, no one can't help..her flashback today also didn't tell her and wow..hats off lady you sharing your pain with your abuser.. salute you...

Anupama has herself put blind fold her eyes and keeps repeating achcha insaan..as if by her words she has the power to heal and change him too.

More than baa at times I feel she is the responsible today for encouraging Vanraj. I could have understood before Anuj, before she left that house..but man, this lady never stops.

Go and marry this TrashRaj again, you two are truly made for each other...

I understand my dear friend. Can you please breath please.🤗 What may I call you mu friend.

I know you are angry even all of us.Let me try to ease you a bit if possible

See makers left things undone at some points so we as viewers start assuming different aspects.

Anu today meant of physical abuse but she had fbs of mental and emotional na thats what I read her today. Anuj didnt buzz about Vanraj actually, I know I know he is not vocal about it, but he is too drained out. They are playing family family these days. They know vanraj is wrong, they dont trust him but at present he is not saying anything wrong just a few words of concern though we dont trust these words too, this is the problem of good people yaar.

Originally posted by: ayushijindal

I understand my dear friend. Can you please breath please.🤗 What may I call you mu friend.

I know you are angry even all of us.Let me try to ease you a bit if possible

See makers left things undone at some points so we as viewers start assuming different aspects.

Anu today meant of physical abuse but she had fbs of mental and emotional na thats what I read her today. Anuj didnt buzz about Vanraj actually, I know I know he is not vocal about it, but he is too drained out. They are playing family family these days. They know vanraj is wrong, they dont trust him but at present he is not saying anything wrong just a few words of concern though we dont trust these words too, this is the problem of good people yaar.

Agree 🤗

My name is Komal.

I think I've calmed down a bit now, still very annoyed but not as angry anymore. The makers sadly know we will cry and fret for a few days, give them flak and they will make it all hunky dory by Wednesday...

I think this has been done on itv before and they wont shy from doing it again, like moon said somewhere, nepotism is prevalent and SP and DKP's love for SP will win again sadly.

I have given up hope, I'll watch when I want to watch and watch only the bits that make me happy, not mad.

Just sorry about the lost opportunity that's all.

Originally posted by: ayushijindal

I understand my dear friend. Can you please breath please.🤗 What may I call you mu friend.

I know you are angry even all of us.Let me try to ease you a bit if possible

See makers left things undone at some points so we as viewers start assuming different aspects.

Anu today meant of physical abuse but she had fbs of mental and emotional na thats what I read her today. Anuj didnt buzz about Vanraj actually, I know I know he is not vocal about it, but he is too drained out. They are playing family family these days. They know vanraj is wrong, they dont trust him but at present he is not saying anything wrong just a few words of concern though we dont trust these words too, this is the problem of good people yaar.

haha, well said Ayushi. This is the blunder that good people make!!!! I understand and agree to this perception as well... ,my complaint today is with the story telling from the start and how characters have been established!!

Originally posted by: hinz

I think I've calmed down a bit now, still very annoyed but not as angry anymore. The makers sadly know we will cry and fret for a few days, give them flak and they will make it all hunky dory by Wednesday...

I think this has been done on itv before and they wont shy from doing it again, like moon said somewhere, nepotism is prevalent and SP and DKP's love for SP will win again sadly.

I have given up hope, I'll watch when I want to watch and watch only the bits that make me happy, not mad.

Just sorry about the lost opportunity that's all.

True hinzee, lost opportunity yet again to show a master story, with right narration and telling with classic characters!!

Originally posted by: Kras1

see tweets in this yr

and tell me mukku ne jo tolerate kiya kya wo isne nahi kiya wo bhi 25 saal

bss wo physical tha aur ye verbal lekin the to dono abuse hi diya to dono ne in dono ko trauma hi

aur aaj mukku ka pati jaanwar ho gaya(well deserved) but vanraj saint😡

https://www.india.com/entertainment/tv-news-why-whitewash-ravanraj-anupamaa-fans-upset-after-makers-show-abuser-vanraj-helping-anuj-kapadia-in-domestic-violence-track-5178520/

I saw this tweet. There are many others also but this one somes up the whole point of debate. I wish makers see this atleast and rethink about their decision to include trashraj in this track. Agar v se itna pyar hai to uska aur kavya ka koi parallel track dikha do but dont get him into this sensitive topic.

And anupama ne hadh hi kar di...mere sath aisa kuch nahi hua...sirf thappad nahi pade physically bas baki verbal thappad, insults, trauma to bharpur hua hai....aur in madam ko anuj kya mil gaya ye bhul gayi sab aise hi...kya aurat hai

Originally posted by: RainFire125

haha, well said Ayushi. This is the blunder that good people make!!!! I understand and agree to this perception as well... ,my complaint today is with the story telling from the start and how characters have been established!!

Yep the story connect today went haywire

https://www.koimoi.com/television/anupamaa-netizens-call-makers-hypocrite-after-sudhanshu-pandeys-vanraj-shah-extends-his-support-for-malvika-once-an-abuser-giving-gyaan-about-abused/

Originally posted by: hinz

Originally posted by Km181

You mean Anuj had to go through that useless fake sympathy talk with Vanraj.. give him a break even Anuj needed some time with Anu...

I know yaar… irony is abuser himself is giving sympathy talk🙄🙄😬😬. Makers n channel ke whitewash ke chakkar mein our BP will rise. Don’t know why they try again and again when audience is so irked with it.

I hope after reading SM the makers stop this whitewash of Vanraj soon.

Thanks Arya for sharing this synopsis. I am mentally now prepared on what to expect.

Since I love Anuj so much, it's difficult for me to see him go through this pain and guilt. While I appreciate the need to talk about DV, honestly I do want Anuj's pain to be over soon.

In a way, like Anuj feels bad seeing Muku in that state, I too feel bad seeing Anuj like this..pata hai pata hai....he is fictional character, par ab pyaar hai to hai

Haan yaar I too feel bad seeing him in pain… both Anuj and Mukku needs to get relieved from this pain at the earliest. After all itne saal they have suffered how much more.. poor things😢

Point yahi hai Hina that makers are confused that or i don't know if they know that mental abuse is also domestic violence. I am even more pissed when Anu said ki uske saath ye nahi huya.

Did she forget that she was sitting in the corner and crying and scared that she don't want to go home???

Did she forget the character assassination?

God knows what makers are thinking just bz of their love for one person