Virat disappoints me everyday

So I love Sai Joshi. But I never hated Virat. I always used to think he was the kind of guy Sai needed in her life ... for the longest time I have rooted for them to be together. They seemed magical together, you know that "soulmates" vaala connection and all. 2 people whose core values are same but petsonality was different but they completed each other. Small part of me still would want to go back in time and rewrite their story. But the makers are hell bent on ruining Virat and Sairat. As good as Sai's dialogues were today, Virats responses and dialogues sucked. The only saving grace which was well written and performed was at one point he shows her various inanimate objects in the room that bear testament to their good and bad times, their journey together and says- how can you end everything. But everything else fell flat.

Sai's feelings, questions,reactions are so valid, so heartfelt n so honest.

This confrontation was the perfect chance for him to convince her of atleast the honesty of his feelings for her and how much she matters to him and her presence matters to him. But what he instead made her feel is, you are this tantrum throwing obligation I'm burdened with and here I'm putting up my customary 2 min act of feeling bad, wanting the best for you in life even though I cant stand you and really want you out of my life because I'm such a mahaan and righteous person.

Sai even said it. She feels like rishta khatam karna actually Virat ko hai but he has choreographed everything to make Sai pull the trigger and end things instead. And that is EXACTLY what I feel as an audience. She feels like he cant stand the guilt or any questions from people so he makes the situation such that Sai's reactions are mistaken for the triggering actions and he can simply say- oh, but I tried to stop you, I even volunteered to leave the house myself....but you didn't listen.

She has literally bared her soul- the way she said you had one woman before marriage, now you have another woman, nothing about my coming n going matters in your life- oh man!- that was so hard hitting yet vulnerable to say- and Virat had NO reaction- what would it have taken for him to just say- No Sai, please believe me - you are the most important person in my life. You are my wife. No one can take your place in my life. Just please give me time, maybe a hug to convey the depth of his feelings and a genuine warmth. But NO. . His body language instead was of utter exhaustion- it was like ok, you are doing your ghar chhodne ka drama. Ok, let me play along. But I'm too sleep deprived. Anyway, I'll still honor you with my sad looks of disappointment. Some shock at your words. Some memories of your dead father (who sacrificed his life for me but i have forgotten all about it) and few obligatory words - saying oh dont go.

I really didn't see ANY desperation to stop the so called love of his life from leaving him.

I didn't see ANY guilt when Sai mentions how he has stomped on her self respect.

I didn't see ANY love. I saw only PITY. And thats frankly insulting and demeaning to a woman like Sai.. if theres one thing Sai cant take- its that. Its pity. He does not love her. Fine. She will take it. Its tough but she will take it. But this pity. This is something she does NOT want.

Sai was SO clear that she is waiting for one signal, one genuine signal to her that she matters, that she is special to him in a way that no one can be because she is his wife, his closest friend. She asked him very genuinely- she said, ok I'll give you a chance, I'll listen. Please tell me ..and virat said nothing!

I mean, really what does he expect from her?!

She gave him 50,000 chances to say something. But he just acts like a broken tape recorder and even his attempts to stop her from going are SO insincere.

What should she stay for?! Neither is she getting the truth nor is she getting a comforting enough or sincere enough assurance that no one matters more than her.

I fast forwarded full ZA. I'm sure its rubbish. Glad it was shot in a manner where I could just skip to only Sairat portions.

Ayesha Singh - Girl, you are SO amazing. Take a bow. 👏 So on point. She has conveyed every beat of her emotional graph in a pitch perfect way.

Neil - please dont keep disappointing like this. I really do believe you have acting chops. Please buck up and get your head in the game man . For one brief moment- like 2 seconds- I did feel for him in that scene I mentioned earlier- but thats it..Back to just looking tired and under performing. He is NOT convincing me of his love for Sai. Only seems to have pity and sympathy for Sai instead. I am SO disheartened.

On an aside - Happy New Year to everyone. Have a healthy one. Stay safe. God bless.

Originally posted by: Nja91

So I love Sai Joshi. But I never hated Virat. I always used to think he was the kind of guy Sai needed in her life... for the longest time I have rooted for them to be together. Small part of me still would want to go back in time and rewrite their story. But the makers are hell bent on ruining Virat. As good as Sai's dialogues were today, Virats responses and dialogues sucked. The only saving grace which was well written and performed was at one point he shows her various inanimate objects in the room that bear testament to their good and bad times, their journey together and says- how can you end everything. But everything else fell flat.

Sai's feelings, questions,reactions are so valid, so heartfelt n so honest.

This confrontation was the perfect chance for him to at least convince her of atleast the honesty of his feelings for her and how much she matters to him and her presence matters to him. But what he instead made her feel is, you are this tantrum throwing obligation I'm burdened with and here I'm putting up my customary 2 min act of feeling bad, wanting the best for you in life even though I cant stand you and really want you out of my life because I'm such a mahaan and righteous person.

Sai even said it. She feels like he cant stand the guilt or any questions from people so he makes the situation such that Sai's reactions are mistaken for the triggering actions and he can simply say- oh, but I tried to stop you, I even volunteered to leave the house myself....but you didn't listen.

She has literally bared her soul- the way she said you had one woman before marriage, now you have another woman, nothing about my coming n going matters in your life- oh man!- that was so hard hitting yet vulnerable to say- and Virat had NO reaction- what would it have taken for him to just say- No Sai, please believe me - you are the most important person in my life. You are my wife. No one can take your place in my life. Just please give me time, maybe a hug to convey the depth of his feelings and a genuine warmth. But NO. . His body language instead was of utter exhaustion- it was like ok, you are doing your ghar chhodne ka drama. Ok, let me play along. But I'm too sleep deprived. Anyway, I'll still honor you with my sad looks of disappointment. Some shock at your words. Some memories of your dead father (who sacrificed his life for me but i have forgotten all about it) and few obligatory words - saying oh dont go.

I really didn't see ANY desperation to stop the so called love of his life from leaving him.

I didn't see ANY guilt when Sai mentions how he has stomped on her self respect.

I didn't see ANY love. I saw only PITY. And thats frankly insulting and demeaning to a woman like Sai..

Sai was SO clear that she is waiting for one signal, one genuine signal to her that she matters, that she is special to him in a way that no one can be because she is his wife, his closest friend. She asked him very genuinely- she said, ok I'll give you a chance, I'll listen. Please tell me ..and virat said nothing!

I mean, really what does he expect from her?!

She gave him 50,000 chances to say something. But he just acts like a broken tape recorder and even his attempts to stop her from going are SO insincere.

What should she stay for?! Neither is she getting the truth nor is she getting a comforting enough or sincere enough assurance that no one matters more than her.

I fast forwarded full ZA. I'm sure its rubbish. Glad it was shot in a manner where I could just skip to only Sairat portions.

Ayesha Singh - Girl, you are SO amazing. Take a bow. 👏 So on point. She has conveyed every beat of her emotional graph in a pitch perfect way.

Neil - please dont keep disappointing like this. I really do believe you have acting chops. Please buck up and get your head in the game man . For one brief moment- like 2 seconds- I did feel for him in that scene I mentioned earlier- but thats it..Back to just looking tired and under performing. He is NOT convincing me of his love for Sai. Only seems to have pity and sympathy for Sai instead. I am SO disheartened.

On an aside - Happy New Year to everyone. Have a healthy one. Stay safe. God bless.

What u said everything is write.

Is it neil/virat his body language shows clearly give up attitude.

His dialogues are like now you are nt believing me you will regret in future.

You have time to clarify it but instead of clarifying things you are trying to make opposite person it at fault.

That sai is died. You only killed that sai. For that also virat gave a blank expression.

After watching whole episode I want to give tight slaps to dialogue writers who written for virat

The director who approved neil acting.

Nowdays virat is much comfortable vth sruthi soft looks and all.

Happy New Year Neerja ❤️

I can't understand virat why he can't tell her u r my life n wife no body take ur place in my life.ok don't say I love you some importance to show Sai can feel secure n give one Hug reduce her pain.

I can't understand makers why they showing virat character as a joke😔

Thank you to you too dear. For sitting through it and doing this daily. The first thing I do is read your review.

And happy new year to you too 🤗

I am not watching Gum just reading your analysis.

Happy new year Neerajaji.

Happy New Year!!

Again the way they write Sai, if they wrote Virat 10% of that, they would atleast be shippable...with each passing day virat is making it difficult for audience to understand him and ship SaiRat.

Sai is like audience's voice...all facts that cannot be made to look like a lie while Virat is delusional of the highest order. I love the part where Sai tells him about having women in his life, so he won't miss her, he had full opportunity to tell her what she meant to him but his jalebis as usual. Also the dialogue where she says you are busdil...again audience ke dil ki baat bol di...we have been ranting how coward and spineless he is, felt good seeing this dialogue onscreen being said by Sai... Just one thing short she fell, maybe she will say in the next episode..I hope so that if she had done same thing, would he believe or trust her. He couldn't even tell her that he is not married to Shruti...such a sad life...itna sa kehne me that I have faked her identity as Mrs. Chavan to save her, kya chala jaata..

And Virat's dialogue, tum Shruti ki wajah se naraaz ho to mujhse rishta kyu Tod Rahi ho... Shruti se todegi kya? Dialogues, character, nothing makes sense.

And there is a saying that bhediya aaya, bhediya aaya... finally aa hi gaya...in terms of Sai not paying heed to his death threats and Sai leaving the house. The way she said mujhe chidh ho gayi hai, vohi same baat audience are saying.

Pakhi didi does not interfere in another couple's matters, LOL...

Though I like the episodes that are dedicated to SaiRat confrontation.

And Virat's dialogue, tum Shruti ki wajah se naraaz ho to mujhse rishta kyu Tod Rahi ho... Shruti se todegi kya? Dialogues, character, nothing makes sense.

Exactly same frustration is what i felt listening to that dialogue.

What rubbish writing.

I mean he couldn't even convincingly show his feelings for Sai, let alone give her the truth.

I love how Sai asks him- ok tell me the truth and he goes on mute and she says- dekh liya bharosa.

I wish they had given a full sentence there and said- aap chahte ki main aap par bharosa karu but aap mujh par nahi karte.

He said I'll try till my last breath to make you trust me and episode basically closes with him already in the end of a 15 min confrontation already giving up.

He has literally no reaction when she bares her heart about these women in his life.... and he claims to love her! And even when he went to look at that cut on her finger, typically silly but still effective itv cliche would havr been to show him suck the finger but no- here we get no such intimacy or husband/wife vibe. Instead he looks like he is pitying her.

He constantly makes her feel "indebted" to him and smashes her self worth , her self esteem to smithereens.

I think virat believes sai will be stopped by his family and she will remain for their sake....waiting for ZA

Boring episode...

Frankly to me it looked like a filler episode. Nothing moved forward. Just some dialogue baazi.

V is seriously thick in his head. Fine he can't seem to reflect on his recent actions and he thinks Sai is upset bcoz of Shruti. Ok. Got that.

But inspite of living with her and supposedly being her friend, can't he understand that she always means something else but speaks something else??? What is this mujhse rishta kyun Tod Rahi ho?

Itna hi clarify kar de ki dost ki Biwi hai par koi pyaar nahi karta usse, she is in musibat.. I m helping her. Ye bhi nai bol sakta?

He remembered her pre mission distress for the first time today. Can't he realise why she behaved like that then and now? Itna bhi connection nahi jod sakta? Sab hint kar rahe hai is baat ko to... even Shruti 😔🤣.

Poor poor writing, even poorer direction.... Neil is failing but he doesn't even have anything to go by.. 👎🏼.

Sai ko bahot haunt karega ye sab in future episodes. I just hope they don't lose her spunk in the apology. 😳

Didn’t watch the episode, just FF for precap.

Read somewhere did he tried to manipulate her with that Devi’s superstition talk?