Originally posted by: RitikaS99
Well it's a natural instinct to feel bad if the person who is responsible for bringing you into the world and nurture you hates the sight of you.
It's not out of character it's a human trait. At the end of the day we all want to be loved by our families and friends.
And for a girl to hope for a little decency from her biological father is not a crime.
She just doesn't see eye to eye with her father and her father going against her existence and keep playing like a broken record doesn't help either.
People loose their patience after a while when someone just keep criticizing you about the things that they made you feel insecure about. And all her life all she has heard are insults and ungrateful-Ness from people like Mahendra sood and his wife.
So when anyone say anything that's hits too close to home bringing back bad childhood or early memories she just goes into defensive mode like a normal Person who doesn't deal with her emotions regularly and keep repressing them untill they burst out of her in a bitter way.
And her being mean and rude to ram sometimes is not just with him it's with everyone who she doesn't know well. It's a coping mechanism to not let strangers see her as weak so no can can take advantage of her. Which she is trying to change where ram is concerned after knowing ram a little she has been reassured that Ram doesn't have any ill feelings for her, and she is changing herself. But it's a process ,a journey which can't be showed in a 20 min episode. So please be patient and try to watch with an open heart.