Emotional affair (?) - Page 4

Originally posted by: Thanuj

The most cringe part in virat sruthi scenes are virat looking at sruthi baby bump while talking about saas /sahas. It was not needed. The soft looks and sayng to sruthi he never feel she is burden to him.

The same man saying he took takleef to attend her function.

Vth sada he mentioned bhabhi, first time he met sruthi he mentioned thum.so he did nt have any respect to an unknown woman.

Doctor nurse hotel staff no one doubted virat nd sruthi are husband nd wifes in real. He acted that much no discomfort no guilt nothing.

But he z expecting sai shud understand him. The way he accused sai in yesterday episode am feeling to give a tight slap on his face

@bold: exactly how he behaved with Sai in the beginning of the marriage...the same zimmedaari bojh talks, the same udhar talks and him looking at baby bump as if he is the real husband and Shruti calling him to be by her side etc is completely weird, he is practically a stranger and him being a part of something so personal is indigestible.

At this point, sai is like ghar ki murgi daal barabar, whatever he does for her will give him takleef because the new zimmedaari seems real adventure.

That's what itna bhi kya acting karna, they are so comfortable in 2 days...this amount of comfort is seen in SaiRat after 1.5 years of marriage.

Sai should always understand him but she will always be immature.

Originally posted by: Moor278

This track is a failure in terms of writing, acting and finally approval on part of the channel.

The character is ruined to the core, the actor cannot express properly and the channel doesn't even care to have a look at the final episode before telecast. 😔

Going forward I think they should bring the fake pregnancy track. Vo bhi karlo. And if the writers have some sense they can maybe finally redeem Virats character when he realises how far PP can fall. That is if they want SaiRat as endgame.

And in the meantime, keep Sai away from CN. Safe in a hostel. Completing her studies 🤞🏻🤞🏻

True, so many people are involved and not one can point the inconsistencies.

Sab kar lo, fake kya real bhi kar lo...it won't make a difference now, the way Virat has shaped up. They can easily divert from SaiRat endgame to Viruti or Virakhi.

Bas free sai of all this...after that show Virat fulfilling multiple zimmedaari, no one will have a problem with it.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Some characters in the show like pp, bk are already aluding to how Virat is a "man" with "physical needs" that are not being met in this marriage with Sai. The way mohit is revealing the hotel issue, its gonna seem like Virat IS having a physical affair, not just emotional with Shruti. And I'm not gonna be surprised if one of the cringy side characters declares that its Sai fault Virat is now involved with someone else because Sai didn't give him the love and respect he expected from his wife.

Also after all this affair talk, can nicely set stage for mahaanta narrative, when eventually its revealed that he didn't really have an "affair" was trying to "help" Shruti they will paint him as "maryaada purushottam" because he managed to "resist physical urges" despite having needy women like pp, Shruti who "value" him more than their self respect or any maryaada. Utterly ridiculous.

If Virat is so morally upright, why does he not have answers to any questions except for being a taperecorder that Shruti is friend's wife. Sai will eventually get blamed, I can very well imagine BK again starting her Chirag talks and how Sai was always only interested in friendship which leaded their Raja beta to cross the line... I won't be surprised if Shruti is welcomed into the house with her child, being the Chirag... And end of it all pp blaming sai for getting another kaanta in her life.

At last Sai would be the immature, impatient one who couldn't wait for the sahi wakt and Virat bechara the victim, mahaan person who does so much for the betterment of society.

Originally posted by: xfiles

They sure might take this route. That would be the highest level of whitewashing and basically questioning viewers’ common sense

They don't themselves have common sense and have been questioning viewer's common sense since the beginning.

If Virat gets atleast a brief suspension from the Police Department for his actions, I will definitely feel congratulating the makers for keeping a teeny tiny bit of logic intact.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Thats what happens in KD abd we know that they are 100% setting stage for that. They constantly mock the audiences intelligence and force feed this virat is so mahaan idea on us. Theres zero growth in his character. Everyday he does something more illogical or cringe worthy than before and to placate us they throw some Sairat moments at us. And we are so attached to the show and addicted that we take the bait.

The number of times Virat has talked about Sai eventually feeling proud of him, we know that they will make Sai feel utterly guilty and apologize for misunderstanding him. And of course CN peeps will then berate her as if they are all "doodh ke dhule".

In all this, they will not even acknowledge that Virats actions are plain stupid , not to mention illegal. He has abused his position to create a fake identity and protect a Naxalite. Even if we accept that Sai n family are all gonna say- bechaara mahaan virat, legally he has committed a big time blunder. What repercussions will they show. Either nothing or at best if they have any sense of logic- meager short period of suspension maybe- that will be a bonus. If they actually show Virat atleast get suspended, that will be a huge deal for them.

He couldn't make fake ID card for the naxalite too, even after using his position...😆

Why would Sai feel proud of him? Is he getting some gallantry award? He is betraying his nation, his department, using Sai's identity in doing so. He could have easily arrested Shruti and requested DIG to take care of pregnant woman and child but no he goes to jungle, feels guilty, then praises her courage, and eventually takes the zimmedaari, not even knowing his department schemes..he doesn't even know that no one behaves cruelly with a vulnerable, pregnant lady and the kid is also kept in protection... Kya IPS banaaya hai...

He can question Sai's character for merely talking to a friend and when she reminds him of that, he doesn't retrospect or has guilt of being wrong and is proud of himself of a mere apology but he himself can cross n number of boundaries with every second lady he meets and then will say that Sai is doosri for knowing his whereabouts.

Virat won't be prisoned and tortured for doing something this grave, they can atleast show him being permanently suspended and looking after santra business... certainly not giving him medal for bravery but our tough luck...

His gestures are always questionable even though he doesn't mean it most of the times.. There is boundary in every relationship.. He often doesn't understand that or he has no knowledge of that.. It's hard to believe he is a grown up man who fails to draw a line between himself and Pakhi or now Shruti ..

I have concluded about this man that he has no experience in life and got everything in platter so easily.. Except his parents traumatised marriage he never had to face any hardship...No wonder he is often seen very lenient towards his own marriage.. This is actually beyond me that his is saving a pregnant extremist for the sake of friendship by putting his job, family and nation in jeopardy.. If he didn't kill Sada then he would have gotten killed ..its just as simple as that..

The man who can't control a crowd how he is gonna make his life with his wife.. Virat is made to look stupid day by day.. It's hard to connect with him or feel sorry for him..

Though I believe he loves Sai a lots..No wonder he is hurt more most often because of his own stupidity...But he shouldn't get into any relationship or marriage because simply he just can not handle it.. If his priorities shifts from time to time then whats the point being in a relationship.. He just doesn't know that in a marriage only your child has the right to be in your priority list over your partner other than your responsibilities towards your parents..

Originally posted by: Shaome

His gestures are always questionable even though he doesn't mean it most of the times.. There is boundary in every relationship.. He often doesn't understand that or he has no knowledge of that.. It's hard to believe he is a grown up man who fails to draw a line between himself and Pakhi or now Shruti ..

I have concluded about this man that he has no experience in life and got everything in platter so easily.. Except his parents traumatised marriage he never had to face any hardship...No wonder he is often seen very lenient towards his own marriage.. This is actually beyond me that his is saving a pregnant extremist for the sake of friendship by putting his job, family and nation in jeopardy.. If he didn't kill Sada then he would have gotten killed ..its just as simple as that..

The man who can't control a crowd how he is gonna make his life with his life.. Virat is made to look stupid day by day.. It's hard to connect with him or feel sorry for him..

Though I believe he loves Sai a lots..No wonder he is hurt more most often because of his own stupidity...But he shouldn't get into any relationship or marriage because simply he just can not handle it.. If his priorities shifts from time to time then whats the point being in a relationship.. He just doesn't know that in a marriage only your child has the right to be in your priority list over your partner other than your responsibilities towards your parents..

This is the thing...for how long will he be defended thinking about his intentions when his actions say something else. His character seems no growth, he witnessed how Pakhi grew obsessed with him overtime, how she can create havoc in his married life, how she can hurt sai just to get him, in her jealousy but he is hell bent in getting another Pakhi, who would be more dangerous given her criminal background.

He seems to not listen to any sensible advice, when Ashwini told him one does not burn his own house to light a lamp in someone else's, he had those irritated expressions.

It would have been better if sada killed him, he would have died bravely keeping the pride of his post, department, uniform, nation intact... Now he is cheating all, being a traitor.

He loves Sai but his actions suggest that it is also some kind of majboori. He never understands her, never thinks from her viewpoint...every other woman has access to come in between them and their married life... They may say because of deal and friendship...then why does any man not have that access, simple because Sai doesn't allow. They had a deal marriage, Virat proposed that, it was kind of open from his side to keep Pakhi in his heart, still sai didn't seek support from outside, that shows the strength of her character, she didn't allow anyone for any reason, despite of her being the immature one.

I love how you've rightly pointed out that Sai is the younger, impressionable, innocent, naive one who has been left lonely in life and is extremely vulnerable- she longs for a confidant, some one who is exclusively hers. Yet she has never let anyone in. She has fiercely guarded her space and only trusted/allowed Virat and by extension his family into her life, because all said and done he's her husband. Her father trusted him so she had trusted him. Time and time again given in to his emotional requests, understanding that it takes guts to acknowledge a mistake and apologize and believing in his inherent righteousness, goodness. And her belief in him is always ruthlessly quashed. Every single time she takes a step forward she is shoved several steps back. She keeps getting back up on her feet but this is an endless cycle.

Its also sad how people in CN think that Virat is "stuck" in this Shaadi and is not getting "his expectations met" both emotionally and physically but no one has considered if Sai is having her "needs" met. Everyone has assumed that Sai has all of her materialistic needs met so she should just be grateful. Isnt she also entitled to the same physical and emotional needs though.

Even if everyone in CN decides to be mature, patient and believes at the get go that Virat has a legit reason to be in a hotel room with another woman and even lie about her identity as his wife ....even then isnt just the fact that he hid all this from his own wife utterly unacceptable. If Virat for whatever reason felt "humiliated" by lack of acknowledgement or bitterness because of Sai's speech in public , then how much humiliation would Sai feel at this stunt of Virat's. Theres no comparison because one was a veiled jibe that only Virat, family and us as the audience understood- not the audience in the auditorium, it was an expression of her anger and hurt whereas Virats actions were conscious decisions, choices- not an impulsive thing. He hasnt lost his cool here, or been caught off guard. He has consciously done things which he knows will hurt Sai without so much as preparing her for it mentally and now he is getting irritated at being questioned. He is not even seeking to diffuse the tension and reassure them. If you are ever in a position where you are unable to disclose something but your loved ones are getting worked up, wont you try harder and repeatedly to calm them down. It obviously cannot be one and done. Ki I told you- be patient and wait for sahi wakt but you're not so now I will act as if you are the problem and I am the victim. His body language is one of victim while it should be of the peacemaking person trying to placate his rightfully concerned family.