Epi451-Mai Tumhaare Liye Humesha Abhimanyu Rahunga. - Page 3

To reject a guy five times and still hope that they remain their for them is to be honest, idiocy. Kisi ko itna bhi mat todo ki tukdon ke bhi tukde na mile.

I have heard a lot saying Abhimanyu is rude and arrogant. But I still don't remember a time where he had not respected someone... He even respects his father until and unless his father crosses a line... Which his father loves to do.

In the first meeting, Aarohi bumped his bike, in his hospital parking and he did not said a word. Not even a word to her. All he did was to clean his bike and move away without a second glance to her. For him, It does not matter what others do, it boils down to what he does to rectify or make it better.

Then we see Ruby case... He knew she did not have any serious health problem... All she was there for to see him and flirt with him. And we were not shown the conversation but he prescribed the churan from panchuran ki dukan to an intern.

Also, we saw how his father used an intern to make his way and Abhimanyu was angry yet for an intern, he did Ruby check up.

I don't know when he was being unnecessary rude to a person? When Akshara rejected, he asked Neil to drop her. And she goes on a spree to do that. Bechare ka Dil hai ki khilona.

She said Aarohi and Abhimanyu are perfect for each other but just a day before she said she hopes Abhimanyu does not know what's in Aarohi heart because it will break him? So she knows her sister is evil yet keeps on pushing her towards him.

The three Goenka siblings literally treats him like a person who has no feelings whatsoever. That whatever hurt and pain is there for them only. That their Aarohi suffers, no one suffers more than Akshara and I don't really blame Kairav for keeping quiet and not telling Abhimanyu anything. Why should he go and tell Abhimanyu that Akshara loves him? Uske paas koi kaam nahi hai kya?

The only time I don't like Kairav is when he don't say anything to Aarohi even after knowing everything.

And today, Abhimanyu made it clear to Aarohi and even after knowing everything if she is entering this relationship, its her own fault imo. She can't blame it on Abhimanyu or Akshara later on. And even her family knows what the relationship is, so if they agree and later bash Abhimanyu then they are the biggest clowns.

I am liking this indifferent Abhimanyu Birla... Maybe I am in minority... Bechare ko itna toda Gaya hai ki shayad ab tootne ke liye bhi jagah nahi bachi.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

I dont want this dark phase to end soon. I want this self inflicted suffering to prolong. I think this is a good self cleansing journey.

Akshara wanted to know and understand herself so she can love herself before she is ready to love someone else. I think this is how she will reach that stage. She is a therapist who has yet to heal.

Abhimanyu has grudges with his family. He suffers silently. He loves his mother who is taken for granted by the rest of the family. And that was his motivation to become the best IMO.

In Akshara he saw a reflection of his mother, and his protective instincts drew him to her.

Are these right reasons to love someone. what is falling in Love and what is being in love.

These are the things that they have to find.

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9

To reject a guy five times and still hope that they remain their for them is to be honest, idiocy. Kisi ko itna bhi mat todo ki tukdon ke bhi tukde na mile.

I have heard a lot saying Abhimanyu is rude and arrogant. But I still don't remember a time where he had not respected someone... He even respects his father until and unless his father crosses a line... Which his father loves to do.

In the first meeting, Aarohi bumped his bike, in his hospital parking and he did not said a word. Not even a word to her. All he did was to clean his bike and move away without a second glance to her. For him, It does not matter what others do, it boils down to what he does to rectify or make it better.

Then we see Ruby case... He knew she did not have any serious health problem... All she was there for to see him and flirt with him. And we were not shown the conversation but he prescribed the churan from panchuran ki dukan to an intern.

Also, we saw how his father used an intern to make his way and Abhimanyu was angry yet for an intern, he did Ruby check up.

I don't know when he was being unnecessary rude to a person? When Akshara rejected, he asked Neil to drop her. And she goes on a spree to do that. Bechare ka Dil hai ki khilona.

She said Aarohi and Abhimanyu are perfect for each other but just a day before she said she hopes Abhimanyu does not know what's in Aarohi heart because it will break him? So she knows her sister is evil yet keeps on pushing her towards him.

The three Goenka siblings literally treats him like a person who has no feelings whatsoever. That whatever hurt and pain is there for them only. That their Aarohi suffers, no one suffers more than Akshara and I don't really blame Kairav for keeping quiet and not telling Abhimanyu anything. Why should he go and tell Abhimanyu that Akshara loves him? Uske paas koi kaam nahi hai kya?

The only time I don't like Kairav is when he don't say anything to Aarohi even after knowing everything.

And today, Abhimanyu made it clear to Aarohi and even after knowing everything if she is entering this relationship, its her own fault imo. She can't blame it on Abhimanyu or Akshara later on. And even her family knows what the relationship is, so if they agree and later bash Abhimanyu then they are the biggest clowns.

I am liking this indifferent Abhimanyu Birla... Maybe I am in minority... Bechare ko itna toda Gaya hai ki shayad ab tootne ke liye bhi jagah nahi bachi.

Agree on all parts.

Abhimanyu is never rude to anyone. He is cordial. He is distant. He is stern. He is polite.

But with Ak he was soft, he was loving, he cared, his voice and eyes worshipped and adored her. And today when he wanted to give her the news of his marriage he went to enjoy the visible pain.

He can read her eyes. He knows she loves him but she is just not ready to talk to him. Just like she does with everyone in her family she is keeping everything tucked inside her.

He is unable to understand her reasons and he is fed up. Even if he had heard the siblings talk so what? It was her battle to stand up for her love infront of her family and she just wont.

And you are nowhere a minority. I think everyone here understands Abhimanyu's viewpoint more because his seems like most straingh forward and visible.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

Agree on all parts.

Abhimanyu is never rude to anyone. He is cordial. He is distant. He is stern. He is polite.

Usse apne kaam se matlab hai.... Baaki kya kar rahe hai, kyu kar rahe hai.. kya hi Lena Dena hai. And I love this. He takes stand for what's right and does not give a flying f about anything else.

But with Ak he was soft, he was loving, he cared, his voice and eyes worshipped and adored her. And today when he wanted to give her the news of his marriage he went to enjoy the visible pain.

True... He worshipped the ground she walked on... But she proved him or presented to him like that he is nothing but her shoe mud.

He can read her eyes. He knows she loves him but she is just not ready to talk to him. Just like she does with everyone in her family she is keeping everything tucked inside her.

My question is, agar koi aapko ek baar aise situation mein rakh sakta hai ki aap ya toh unko chuno ya apne pyaar ko toh kya wo ye kaam wapas se nahi kar skte? Especially if the other side is a sister like Aarohi.

He is unable to understand her reasons and he is fed up. Even if he had heard the siblings talk so what? It was her battle to stand up for her love infront of her family and she just wont.

Usko reason bataye toh pehle ... Wo antaryami thodi hai ki uska ateet, aane wala kal sab jaan jaaye. Matlab bechara doctor hai ... Narayan ji nhi.

Agar usne wo sun liya toh I want Akshu questioning session too. Uske badle decision wahi leti hai... Kya hi mast akal hai.

And you are nowhere a minority. I think everyone here understands Abhimanyu's viewpoint more because his seems like most straingh forward and visible.

Then I am glad I am not in minority. Abhimanyu jaise log nahi hote asal zindagi mein. Nd I am gald Harshad is portraying this character.

You are correct this was a power packed episode. So much to digest.

Team Abhira - Mahima, Neil, Parth, and Shefali ❤️

Loved how Neil took a stand for his bro. Sir is just taking advantage of Abhi's emotional state to get what he wants. He thinks just like Arohi gosh no wonder those two get along 🤔 It's okay to trick, lie, and cheat as long as the ends justify the means. I know Sir deep down cares for Abhi because we've seen him yearn for his son's love. But he puts family reputation and all that above all. Like he cannot see his son is back to being aloof again.

Mahima already knows that bringing Arohi into this house would make matters worse. She is selfish and conniving and would not be bothered by what is going on in the house. That's why she was set on Akshara cause she knew Akshara was like Manjari and would know how to keep the house together.

Boo! Tauji and Sir 👎🏼

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

And quite obviously, the dummy mummy's logic once again swings the axe on her son's destiny. One should marry the person who loves you instead of the person whom you love. Why couldn't she say that whats the hurry... you have agreed and that is enough. We sit together, check some profiles online on Shaadi.com?

The OT proposal right before an operation should be a felony. This is not allowed plz tell me. That b****h dropped solution bottle!!? 😭

Main ready hun tum ready ho mujhse shaadi ke liye? And what is this intern doing in the OT room alone. I have seen enough of Grey's Anatomy, Scrubs, General Hospital and ER. to know this is not the way for new interns to enter just any place within a week's time. Careless Birlas ko Audit karwaoo. 🤔

This had me in stitches your Shaadi.com comment 🤣

And I felt the same about the operating room scene. I was like what is this?

As for the proposal scene at least he was straight forward and laid the rules down. I hope he continues to remind her of this whenever she tries to act all lovey dovey with him. Reality check every time. This is an arranged marriage. I do not love you. Don't touch me 😆 I am Abhimanyu to you.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

The rudeness that Abhi shows her was scary and i think she also forgot some of her expressions because of that.

Shaadi? The way abhimanyu whispers "haan" was a combination of scary, sexy, hot, steamy, angsty, spine chilling, heartbeat skipping, and could give some panic attack. Reminded me of thriller suspense where a pretty girl faces the axe murderer.

Why does Ak loose control and cry I don't get it? She said move on and Abhi found a good way to move on. Now if he marries a stranger, a tree or her sister how does it matter?

This scene was acted brilliantly by Harshad. Abhi's anger and spite towards Akshara. Basically to prove to her You wanted me to move on. Here you go. I've moved on...I've moved on so much that I can even marry your sister. He's emotionally depleted and is now a stone. And she is the reason because she basically destroyed him. That clap he did was just 👏 and then his salute when he left uff! And we know it is killing him inside that he is hurting her but its like he wants her to feel what his pain was. Dr. Abhimanyu Birla giving a good dose of bitter medicine to Ms. Akshara Goenka.

In regards to Akshara crying, she hasn't moved on. And to hear everything from Abhi himself and how cold he was towards her I think she realized how much she may have hurt him. He isn't the Abhi she met on that trip. This person standing before her is cold to the world.

We saw Abhi lost and crying for two weeks I think it's Akshara's turn to be lost and crying. Now every little thing she will be forced to do by Arohi or the situation because she had taken on to play this part will just break every piece of her heart. Every day she will have to face this pain and torture.

I really hope they don't bring in another guy for Askhara right now cause things are getting complicated enough with people making some seriously questionable decisions. At the end of it I don't want us questioning why Abhira are together. We should be celebrating that they are together because they learned from their mistakes and grew together to be worthy of each other.

We have a long journey ahead guys.

Loved your analysis and like you said this was scarier than a horror episode. The wait is much more scarier. As you rightly said, Abhi is the dark character and I am happy HC is doing this role because like have been telling it an umpteen times nobody fits this bill.

From the caring and over protective lover he has at once become the hurt and tortured lover who is now on a revenge kind of mode giving her back the own medicine which she made him taste continuously.
I knew Akshara will not be able to take it when he starts moving on seriously. Jorr ka jhataka laga hai aur woh bhi jorr se.

I did not have the himmat to watch the Abhi Arohi proposal but still made up to watch it but she sucks and her despo attitude is really getting on my nerves.

Dummy mata and her stupid advices - don’t know how it changes with time. Pehle bola if you love someone pursue it phir bola jo tumse pyaar karta ho usse shaadi karo na ki hum jisse karte hai… wah!!!! Books publish hone chahiye.

I am shipping Neil and Mahima big time.

This drama and torture AbhiRa or their fans is not gonna end soon. Hopefully they give us a new year treat. if it’s gonna straight be a V-Day proposal then we need to clutch to our belts tightly in this not so safe roller coaster

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

It was a power packed episode.

The argument at Birla house was impactful. Mahima, Neil the rest are team ABHIRA

Anand and Harsh are Team AbhRohi.

Today I realized that Harshvardhan and Dr. Anand are always on the same page. Anand does not argue with his younger brother because basically both of them are arrogant, just the way they portray it is different.

Anand knows how to sugarcoat, quietly and surely he does what he wants. The way he manipulated Manjari's argument to his own advantage was absolutely mind boggling. Now I know why he is in everyones good books. Today I realized that he is truly Harsh's elder brother and just like him.

So matter ends with them talking to Abhimanyu and he in return says that he will talk to Arohi about marriage himself.

Neil seems most distorted with Abhi's destructive behaviour. The Tandav was Abhi undoing the love knots that he had woven. He lynched away the softness that he had accumulated and now he is on the path of self destruction. The man who meditates to keep control on his hot temper and keep himself sorted at all times is undone.

And quite obviously, the dummy mummy's logic once again swings the axe on her son's destiny. One should marry the person who loves you instead of the person whom you love. Why couldn't she say that whats the hurry... you have agreed and that is enough. We sit together, check some profiles online on Shaadi.com?

The OT proposal right before an operation should be a felony. This is not allowed plz tell me. That b****h dropped solution bottle!!? 😭

Main ready hun tum ready ho mujhse shaadi ke liye? And what is this intern doing in the OT room alone. I have seen enough of Grey's Anatomy, Scrubs, General Hospital and ER. to know this is not the way for new interns to enter just any place within a week's time. Careless Birlas ko Audit karwaoo. 🤔

Abhimanyu was a different person with Ak becomes obvious when we see how he talks with Arohi and for that matter anyone in his life.

Seedhi baat karta hun waisa hi pasand hai- haan ya na.

I am stunned but it does seem most appropriate that he do this sin himself. Why should anyone else be blamed for his deeds. You and Arohi are a perfect fit. Go and bang your heads together. 🐷

Yeh jaante huye ki main aaj bhi tumhari behen se pyar karta hoon. Yeh jaante huye ki Wahi mera pehla pyar hai, wahi mera aakhri aur main aaj bhi usse pyar karta hun.

It needs courage to say such things and it needs sheer grit to stand and hear such dialogues while being proposed for marriage.

I kinda liked the proposal and the conversation. I like Arohi. (Plz dont hit me but I like how sure she is about herself)

Hum dono ek na ek din okay ho jaayenge.

Mai tumhaare liye humesha Abhimanyu rahunga.

💔 💔

So Abhi calls Akshara on a false pretext. She arrives thinking she is going to meet NGO kids.

And voila middle of the road lies a big river rock(how?) and she trips over the rock, no prize for the guess who saves her from the fall--

This girl needs to stop tripping coz that is rightfully Arohi's place now.😆

Abhimanyu gave her some good dance song options to dance on his wedding and she guesses the brides name. No surprise she is smart and she is clumsy with weak ankles. 😉

The rudeness that Abhi shows her was scary and i think she also forgot some of her expressions because of that.

Shaadi? The way abhimanyu whispers "haan" was a combination of scary, sexy, hot, steamy, angsty, spine chilling, heartbeat skipping, and could give some panic attack. Reminded me of thriller suspense where a pretty girl faces the axe murderer.

Why does Ak loose control and cry I don't get it? She said move on and Abhi found a good way to move on. Now if he marries a stranger, a tree or her sister how does it matter?

She needs to talk to Arohi, which she will not so she should have no grudges about Abhi marrying anyone else.

Manish and the rest are super disturbed today. But tomorrow will be a different scene.

The Goenka's are going to agree to the proposal by tomorrow as shown in the precap. Because who can say no to Abhimanyu and his straight forward logic about whatever it is.

Twisted Fates.

I am amazed how heartbreaking the scenes are yet quite impossible for me to avoid. Each day this week I have waited for episode updates as if I am waiting for a horror show. (darna mana hai but aur daroo)😈

And today's episode wait was like a rollercoaster ride with no safety belt. Watch it at your own risk but if you fall only you are to blame. I was hanging there by the thread at the tail end.

Every character of the series who has a substantial role was present today. And each and everyone did a great show today.

Crisp, fast beat a lot once again in 20mins to digest. Watch the episode at least 2times to fully get the impact because I think it was an important episode.

It was reinstated again and again by the Birla family that Abhimanyu has anger issue and he is Stubborn.

A forum member said they don't like the background music for Abhi- the yelling. After watching todays episode you will understand why.

He is the dark character in this series-

Arohi is not.

And as I have been repeating each day. I LOVED the episode. HARSHAD CHOPDA is brilliant. The way he can change his demeanor- eyes, voice and his body language is flawless. I am so smitten... He is showcasing perfectly the humiliated Lover. But instead of stalking the girl to torture her, he is going to torture her and himself by "tying knot".

ENJOY the DARKNESS. ☯️

Till we Travel towards light.

Firstly, "HC" I am smitten too❤️. God I am loving this darker Abhimanyu. I think he always have had issues but we saw him mostly from akshara or manjari's perspective. Now that Akshu is in receiving end of his wrath we are seeing this side of him upfront and I am sure HC would nail it.❤️

Originally posted by: pj10

All families have some level of dysfunction but Goenkas and Birla have taken that dysfunction to another level. It is amazing to me as to how unfair/borderline emotionally abusive both households are to their kids and how they seem to neglect the negative undercurrents in the family. Goenkas enable Aarohi's behavior and ignore Akshara's abuse calling it sisterly love and familial love. It is clear to me that Akshara feels inadequate and neglected in the family compared to Aarohi. The situation is so bad that Kairav does not even question Aarohi on her misbehavior despite having an inkling of what is happening but instead asks Akshara to leave. Birla's disrespect for Neil, considering Abhimanyu's anger issues normal and ignoring Parth is no less a sign of bad parenting. Not to mention the level to which Mahima, Harsh and Anand are willing to fall to show each other and Manjari down is crazy. Mahima was willing to play a gamble with Abhi's happiness to show Manjari down.

We react to a situation based on what life has taught us.

Manjari believes Abhi should marry someone who loves you more than you love him and preferably a doctor. That is what she thinks went wrong with her life ...she loved Harsh when he did not reciprocate and the underlying reason in her mind is she is not a doctor. She is probably not wrong when it comes to her life but she forgets that Abhi is a different person than her.

Mahima is a very complex character. She sees being emotional as a weakness and keeping control and putting others down success. That is what her life has taught her, she is very successful but she yearns for emotional fulfillment. She does not want an another competitor in household and that is the only reason that she is team Akshara. Strangely she has better EQ than Manjari and understands the emotional state of all family members a lot better than Manjari in any situation. I wonder why she resents Manjari so much. Is it because all the kids in family love Manjari more than her or because she believes that Manjari is stupid and weak but she gets a pass because everyone is constantly sympathetic to her or because she thinks Anand wanted a wife like Manjari and not her.

Aarohi's confidence stems from what she has managed to do in Goenka household, alienate Akshara and drive her away by hook or crook and constantly keep the focus of Goenkas on herself. She seems to be succeeding with Harsh, Manjari and Anand so there is no reason for her to think that she won't succeed with Abhimanyu too. Also I don't think she is as interested in winning as she is in seeing Akshara lose. She wants whatever Akshara wants and seeing Akshara not get it gives her pleasure. In some ways she seems to be taking a revenge on Akshara for things/motherly love she thinks she lost because of Akshara.

Akshara is a complex character too. She is strong but she yearns for acceptance and over years she has forgotten to fight for herself when it comes to her family. She sometimes explains it away as family love and at other times as practicality. I wonder if she is scared that she will lose whatever love she has if she does not give in to Aarohi. She is confident but she she feels inadequate when compared to Aarohi. She has constantly mentioned she is not the right choice for Abhi despite his constant support't

It is said that "Truth sets you free" but in this case Aarohi's truth will not change much for Birlas or Abhimanyu. It will only frustrate Abhimanyu even more. If Akshara sacrificed her budding love as first Ahuti in the fire of Aarohi's zid, Abhimanyu just added second ahuti as he sacrificed his love and himself for his mom and to get over Akshara's denial of her feelings for him. The ball is truly in Goenka's and Aarohi's court now. Either Manish or Kairav has to force Aarohi to back off and decide to marry Akshara to Abhimanyu or Aarohi has to back off because something better caught her eye.

Great analysis. The way you explained it looks like a horror show it's astonishing how alright the families are with Abhimanyu's anger issue( he break things on daily basis and nobody blinks an eye), Aarohi's bitchiness towards akshara.