Imlie Written Updates and Episode Discussions 25 Nov 2021 - Page 19

Originally posted by: Colormenow

+ 1 billion book. worm ji,

You have just worded out everything that I was feeling( don't like to write too much, so kinda glad that you did it. So thanks❤️)Even if MC's angle was naturally done without any plotting and planning. Adi has failed as a husband and not now but for quite some time now. My only problem with Adi is no matter what MC is doing or however much your child needs you. How do you just forget your wife needs or wants? There have been divorces and children from previous marriages but they don't forget their spouses, they try and manage it, that I did not see in Adi. I don't mind him prioritising the child over anyone cz any parent would do that. He just looks entitled to me as he wants Imlie to just be fine with everything that he is throwing at her without considering her feelings towards the situation.

Keeping the bacha aside. It is his duty and responsibility to look after Imlie's comfort. It does not matter how much anyone is trying to manipulate you or is instigating you against your spouse. Even I say 7 year must be having that kind of hold on him but it should not stop him from being a husband.

@bold: I too feel pf will happen but Adi will loose everything by then. That is why I was hoping for his realisation before pf. If PF was to happen before his realisation then it doe not hold any weight because then it won't be because of his vishwas but the proof( which can be MC's confession). If pf was to happen before Adi's realisation then his love is no good because ultimately it is MC's truth over Imlie's. 🤔

Baaki I don't feel pregnancy is real. I have only recently accepted that Adi was actually assaulted.😒

Again, thank you for writing. It was beautifully summed up. 👍🏼

Agree with all your points except PF, I don't think it'll happen anytime soon mainly because Aryan and his revenge story needs coverage

Na chahte hue bhi aapne likhdiees... Ee aapke jimmedaari rahi ya majboori?😉

🤗🤗

+ 1 Billion..

These are my questions as well.

Every time Imlie says something about Malini he says I know Malini. She can't do this.

Every time Malini says something about Imlie, he stays silent like he doesn't know Imlie at all. Now people say that he has guilt of 2 suicide attempts and pregnancy and all.. But then if he is so majboor wrt Malini from all directions, he really can never be Imlie's husband.

That yoga class incident shows that even if he wants to give time to Imlie, Malini won't let that happen. So for whatever time Malini will leave him for, only that much time he will have for Imlie.

He is not fighting for Imlie's

1.) honor --> takes all venom from AC and MC

2.) security --> Malini could have killed Imlie in that gun incident and tomorrow when Malin would throw Imlie out of hostel.

3.) Time --> Malini just needs to raise a finger and he is all hers.

4.) respect as wife --> reject all her claims as vaham, immaturity.

5.) comfort --> Imlie is not able to share his room.

6.) happiness --> ye to dur dur tak nahin dikh raha.

Normally people would ask their friends to adjust their spouse's attitude here reverse is happening.

People say that he has never left Imlie and Imlie is always ready to leave him. I totally agree to that but reason behind that is that he never faced situations that Imlie faced. The biggest threat that he faced was mud spa from SK. Other than that he never cared of anything to be really bothered.He has not shared Imlie's care with anyone. Imlie's family accepted him immediately after mud spa. He has not really faced any serious threat other than mud spa.

Imlie regained her trust on him hours after she saw him with another woman in half naked state in his bedroom and he is recalling Malini's venom on seeing Imlie getting down from another person's car.

Again, agree with all your points❤️ but I do feel that they are going make Adi's redemption a layered one to inflict maximum pain. All the truths coming in front of him one by one but him being unable to do anything because of the bacha, the same bacha for whom he did all the wrongs. Finally the one where he gets to know that pregnancy is not real, also him doing everything was just a waste. All this while he will experience Imlie slipping away from him. I see that Adi has not yet realised his mistake but he also hasn't experience the pain of sharing Imlie with anyone( not counting SK) or do a lot of compromises. Adi, I feel is a character that does not understand until he is really put into that situation. He didn't realise that jealousy was something that he could feel until he actually was threatened by Prakash's presence and now he will realise the same things that Imlie went through all this while. It is very difficult to accept a weak Adi and I doubt that makers would keep Adi that same spineless way.

Yeah, it's been a long drag for PF and the flavor is lost. Ab jaise dikhana hai dikhao bas Imlie pe torture kam karo😂😂😂😂

Originally posted by: Goddy2010

I just want to slightly deviate from your points.

1. Adi stood with Imlie in their fight for acceptance. He was very clear from the beginning that she doesn’t have to fight for acceptance and he is ready to give her all the rights irrespective of their acceptance. He said it is up to them whether they accept or not. This is the truth and eventually they have to accept it. He even asked her to come inside the room. But Imlie in her mahanta mode said she won’t enter until the family loves like before. For me

This was unnecessary. Her marital life with Adi and the love from Tripathi family is two different things. It was Imlie who interconnected them. Imlie is always stubborn and always wanted to do things in her own way. He even said that she doesn’t have to enter competition. She did the same thing with truth disclosure too. She is too emotional and not thinking rationally and practical which Adi was doing previously. They truth came out in the ugliest way and the family

felt they were cheated. If Adi and Imlie revealed the truth from their instead of drama, may be things would have turned out differently. When Malini came to know they have not started their marital life, it gave her so much confidence to start her manipulations. I am not saying that she would have not done any manipulations. Aiding to this Imlie should have sent malini back home when she was asked to take the decision. Again she got emotional and thought the baby which was way too unnecessary inspite of knowing Malini’s intentions.I am agreeing to all the points of yours when Adi deleted the video. He has made the biggest mistake of his life by not disclosing it to Imlie. I also not liked the wat she escaped SK. Whatever is said and done he has done a murder attempt, he has to go to jail for that. Imlie’s mahanta has also contributed to the mess in its own ways.

I agree with everything that you said. I am talking about the Adi from the moment Imlie started telling him about Malini and her intentions.

The haq thing, Imlie told him that she wants acceptance from the Ts and he was seeing how Aparna and the family was favoring Malini and insulting Imlie. Not even once, he had a conversation with Malini that “my family is using you to put down my wife. And as long as you are here, Imlie would be insulted and they would favor you in front of her. So, it would be better if you go back to your home.” Malini was brought to T house when AC was going to harm her and after that AC was coming to their house and showing her concern for Malini and insulting Imlie, so it showed that Malini and her mom sorted out their issues and she could go back home and be safe there. But still when Malini was favored over Imlie by the family, he had shown token protest and let it go on. Then Imlie started telling him that Malini is still in love with him and is trying to get back with him and at least then he should have asked Malini to go to her house as her stay was starting to affect his marital life. It is secondary whether Imlie says that Malini can stay on, I am talking about Adi at least showing the token action of suggesting that. Instead, he says “Malini will be his friend for lifelong and Imlie needs to accept that!”

the major disconnect I am feeling with him is that Imlie told him that Malini shot herself. Adi tells her there is a limit to how much one should lie. Then Malini told him that Imlie shot her. Adi asks Imlie to tell him what happened once more and whatever she says, he would believe her. Imlie left home because of that. His excuse, I just asked a question and I didn’t accuse her.

Now, my question is…

Adi thinks Imlie lied to protect SK and SK shot Malini.

But if he thinks that then he should know that Imlie didn’t shoot Malini but still Malini has accused Imlie of murder attempt. His one question based on Malini’s accusation has made Imlie leave his home. And Malini showed the audacity of going so far as telling Adi “thank you for trusting me.” That guy remained silent then.

So, if he thinks Imlie actually lied to protect SK then he should be believing that Malini lied and falsely accused Imlie, but still Malini is coming into his bedroom, serving him tea, sitting in his room, waiting for him with water, using every opportunity to accuse Imlie of things.

So does he believe Imlie really shot Malini because she was insecure? If not, why is he not defending and accusing Malini of falsely accusing Imlie? He should be seeing that Malini is fabricating things so Imlie could be telling the truth. Why is he not seeing that Malini is actually walking around his house as if she owns the damn place practically dictating everyone.

Imlie told him about how it feels to come into his room and stay on his bed after what she witnessed and still Malini is sitting on his bed and chatting with him. Even if he believes he wasn’t raped, then he should be believing that he cheated on Imlie with Malini, and still Malini gets so much leeway to walk around and come into his bedroom as if she is still his wife.

Malini might not be an issue for him and she might not exist for him, but for his wife, Malini exists and she is an issue. But still he is not doing anything to sort out the problem.

the biggest failure of Adi as a husband is, he believes that AC drugged him and he and Malini ended up sleeping together and he cheated on Imlie. So, the least he can do is telling Malini point blank that her mother is not allowed inside their house under no circumstances and if she wants to see her then to do so outside their house. Instead, he lets that woman come into his house and call his wife naukrani.

Originally posted by: Chintapandu

Agree with all your points except PF, I don't think it'll happen anytime soon mainly because Aryan and his revenge story needs coverage

Na chahte hue bhi aapne likhdiees... Ee aapke jimmedaari rahi ya majboori?😉

@bold: Abhi toh Aru ji hi hero hain. Adi ji... Who?🤡

Are yr, I want PF but at the same time I want a better Adi and I cannot accept a looser Adi that we will get after PF. He needs to be redeemed before PF. So am ready to wait. ☺️

@bold2 : I was always on team PF bas tameez se karen ye log🙂. Ee humar jimmedari hai, biswas hai🤣

Originally posted by: book.worm

I agree with everything that you said. I am talking about the Adi from the moment Imlie started telling him about Malini and her intentions.

The haq thing, Imlie told him that she wants acceptance from the Ts and he was seeing how Aparna and the family was favoring Malini and insulting Imlie. Not even once, he had a conversation with Malini that “my family is using you to put down my wife. And as long as you are here, Imlie would be insulted and they would favor you in front of her. So, it would be better if you go back to your home.” Malini was brought to T house when AC was going to harm her and after that AC was coming to their house and showing her concern for Malini and insulting Imlie, so it showed that Malini and her mom sorted out their issues and she could go back home and be safe there. But still when Malini was favored over Imlie by the family, he had shown token protest and let it go on. Then Imlie started telling him that Malini is still in love with him and is trying to get back with him and at least then he should have asked Malini to go to her house as her stay was starting to affect his marital life. It is secondary whether Imlie says that Malini can stay on, I am talking about Adi at least showing the token action of suggesting that. Instead, he says “Malini will be his friend for lifelong and Imlie needs to accept that!”

the major disconnect I am feeling with him is that Imlie told him that Malini shot herself. Adi tells her there is a limit to how much one should lie. Then Malini told him that Imlie shot her. Adi asks Imlie to tell him what happened once more and whatever she says, he would believe her. Imlie left home because of that. His excuse, I just asked a question and I didn’t accuse her.

Now, my question is…

Adi thinks Imlie lied to protect SK and SK shot Malini.

But if he thinks that then he should know that Imlie didn’t shoot Malini but still Malini has accused Imlie of murder attempt. His one question based on Malini’s accusation has made Imlie leave his home. And Malini showed the audacity of going so far as telling Adi “thank you for trusting me.” That guy remained silent then.

So, if he thinks Imlie actually lied to protect SK then he should be believing that Malini lied and falsely accused Imlie, but still Malini is coming into his bedroom, serving him tea, sitting in his room, waiting for him with water, using every opportunity to accuse Imlie of things.

So does he believe Imlie really shot Malini because she was insecure? If not, why is he not defending and accusing Malini of falsely accusing Imlie? He should be seeing that Malini is fabricating things so Imlie could be telling the truth. Why is he not seeing that Malini is actually walking around his house as if she owns the damn place practically dictating everyone.

Imlie told him about how it feels to come into his room and stay on his bed after what she witnessed and still Malini is sitting on his bed and chatting with him. Even if he believes he wasn’t raped, then he should be believing that he cheated on Imlie with Malini, and still Malini gets so much leeway to walk around and come into his bedroom as if she is still his wife.

Malini might not be an issue for him and she might not exist for him, but for his wife, Malini exists and she is an issue. But still he is not doing anything to sort out the problem.

the biggest failure of Adi as a husband is, he believes that AC drugged him and he and Malini ended up sleeping together and he cheated on Imlie. So, the least he can do is telling Malini point blank that her mother is not allowed inside their house under no circumstances and if she wants to see her then to do so outside their house. Instead, he lets that woman come into his house and call his wife naukrani.

Thank you so much.. You have put every thing literally everything I have been asking and getting answers as

1.) Lihaaz

2.) bache ki amma

3.) guilt of 2 suicides

4.) weak mind

5.) 7 saal ka rishta

6.) disgusted looks..

Even if I accept all these reasons they are not valid for AC. Why no bashing AC, why not standing for Imlie's honor when AC calls her naukrani, murderer..

The reason I got for this is that if he bashes AC, Malini would be upset and Malini can't be upset because

1.) Lihaaz

2.) bache ki amma

3.) guilt of 2 suicides

4.) weak mind

5.) 7 saal ka rishta

6.) disgusted looks..

When will he do anything literally anything, even if for token, to break this circle. He is asking Imlie to live life with him in whatever window he can spare of above reasons. How is that any kind of commitment, care, love, relation, any damn thing towards Imlie. People say Malini doesn't matter to him, if she doesn't matter to him how is going out of his way, putting his relation with Imlie at stake, to keep Malini in good moods.

Originally posted by: Colormenow

Again, agree with all your points❤️ but I do feel that they are going make Adi's redemption a layered one to inflict maximum pain. All the truths coming in front of him one by one but him being unable to do anything because of the bacha, the same bacha for whom he did all the wrongs. Finally the one where he gets to know that pregnancy is not real, also him doing everything was just a waste. All this while he will experience Imlie slipping away from him. I see that Adi has not yet realised his mistake but he also hasn't experience the pain of sharing Imlie with anyone( not counting SK) or do a lot of compromises. Adi, I feel is a character that does not understand until he is really put into that situation. He didn't realise that jealousy was something that he could feel until he actually was threatened by Prakash's presence and now he will realise the same things that Imlie went through all this while. It is very difficult to accept a weak Adi and I doubt that makers would keep Adi that same spineless way.

Yeah, it's been a long drag for PF and the flavor is lost. Ab jaise dikhana hai dikhao bas Imlie pe torture kam karo😂😂😂😂

wow didn’t think of it like that.
Though this show has always been drag drag drag and BAM resolution in one episode (some times half a scene or even behind the scenes).😆
Yeah, Adi never had a strong opponent for Imlie’s affection. Imlie had remained loyal to their marriage even when he had married Malini and that had given him a kind of security that Imlie will always be his wife. But now things are changing with Imlie burning the MS and removing sindoor and dropping the Tripathi name. Now, even if Imlie smiles at Aryan, Adi is going to be insecure and jealous.

I am feeling that Aryan is going to be a catalyst in exposing Malini and that is going to get him blind trust from Imlie. And if Imlie continues to remain outside T house because Adi didn’t trust her over Malini. Then if Aryan starts playing double games with Adi like Malini did with Imlie then Adi will know what Imlie went through.

Originally posted by: book.worm

wow didn’t think of it like that.
Though this show has always been drag drag drag and BAM resolution in one episode (some times half a scene or even behind the scenes).😆
Yeah, Adi never had a strong opponent for Imlie’s affection. Imlie had remained loyal to their marriage even when he had married Malini and that had given him a kind of security that Imlie will always be his wife. But now things are changing with Imlie burning the MS and removing sindoor and dropping the Tripathi name. Now, even if Imlie smiles at Aryan, Adi is going to be insecure and jealous.

I am feeling that Aryan is going to be a catalyst in exposing Malini and that is going to get him blind trust from Imlie. And if Imlie continues to remain outside T house because Adi didn’t trust her over Malini. Then if Aryan starts playing double games with Adi like Malini did with Imlie then Adi will know what Imlie went through.

@bold 1: Definitely Book ji, Imlie's understanding and compromises has somewhat made him entitled to her love and loyalty, which needs to be broken. How I am seeing this situation is, Imlie's understanding nature has made him push her to make more compromises and Imlie's previous daring acts have added to his current thought process. What better way to break it than breaking it brick by brick till her finally realises his wife's plight. 😃

@bold 2: In some ways I too feel that( new raah and all) but we have seen that Adilie relationship building has been kept away from third party interference. Like MC had quite a huge role in OG but here everything was written off and SM was made the ultimate driving force of their relationship. Aryan's contribution to PF means third party involvement but then he is SM ka selected raah for Imlie. 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: aarti1234

Thank you so much.. You have put every thing literally everything I have been asking and getting answers as

1.) Lihaaz

2.) bache ki amma

3.) guilt of 2 suicides

4.) weak mind

5.) 7 saal ka rishta

6.) disgusted looks..

Even if I accept all these reasons they are not valid for AC. Why no bashing AC, why not standing for Imlie's honor when AC calls her naukrani, murderer..

The reason I got for this is that if he bashes AC, Malini would be upset and Malini can't be upset because

1.) Lihaaz

2.) bache ki amma

3.) guilt of 2 suicides

4.) weak mind

5.) 7 saal ka rishta

6.) disgusted looks..

When will he do anything literally anything, even if for token, to break this circle. He is asking Imlie to live life with him in whatever window he can spare of above reasons. How is that any kind of commitment, care, love, relation, any damn thing towards Imlie. People say Malini doesn't matter to him, if she doesn't matter to him how is going out of his way, putting his relation with Imlie at stake, to keep Malini in good moods.

Regarding AC, yes, AC comes to their house as if she committed no crime. There are people who asks why AC was let off by Adi while SK was not. I feel it was because AC was arrested and jailed and she is now out on bail.

But still there is no excuse to her for coming to their house and acting so entitled. She insults Imlie and her mother. She acts as if the whole of T family is Malini’s nursemaid. And Adi remains silent because of lihaaz? we don’t let a person who insults our family members into our home and after all that AC did, she is practically at their home everyday.

@bold this even after so many instances he is not seeing that Malini’s presence is jeopardizing his relation with Imlie. It was because of Malini that Imlie was stranded in the roads at midnight and she had to use her brains to get home safe with a lecher. Then Imlie told everyone how Malini always has a suddenly moment when something nice is happening around Imlie.


I need to make a point that because of Adi’s lihaaz and love for his bacha, Malini, a house guest had very authoritatively told him that it is either Imlie or her, who will stay on in that house. And Adi didn’t even do a token, “Malini, this is Imlie’s house and you are a guest here. Don’t forget that.”
when is Adi going to realize what a failure of a husband he is? He didn’t even bat an eyelid when his ex-wife and best friend had so confidently asked him to kick out his wife if he wanted her to stay on in his house.

Red2: when the marriage truth came out both were already ready to tell the family. So marriage reveal fone by Adilie or Anu doesn't matter. The time needed for Imlie to finally accept it in front of the whole family was given to her. Yes, the truth reveal was done by Anu but what if Imlie was not ready by the time of marriage reveal?

Besides I was specifically pointing towards MC as Adilie would have been under the ehsaan of MC for their relationship to blossom.

There was time when I too thought that Adi would stand by Imlie no matter what and when she left he would immediately run after her but now it is a different Aditya, who is a to be father with a lot of baggage of GD. Even after all of this, he is able to realise his mistakes then I will be his cheerleader. It doesn't matter if the expose is done by Aru ji, Adi's realisation before pf is still required to make him a better person. Just like the marriage truth both Adi and Imlie were ready to reveal it to the family, they did not want to hide it anymore but final reveal was done by Anu.

I don't if I am making much sense here. Too much expectations, I suppose☺️