Didi and her aggressiveness!! - Page 4

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I dont get this aspect of Virat anymore... How hurtful and insulting it is when your sleeping arrangements are discussed by your husband's ex infront of the family, your relationship is discussed, with the husband all silent, while the same husbands reaches peak of anger, when you go wrong.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I did not say you mentioned Ajinkya and aniket the first time.I did for sure. .I said you mentioned about how their rant by Virat did not last wrong.I am talking about you saying how it was just for a week and presented my views on why t lasted for a week in comparison to Sai's forever rant, I brought them up to talk about how insecurity works... Virat went on and on with Ajinkya Jaap just after the performance. Ajinkya and Pakhi were not same.

@bold Again you are assuming on my part. I am not assuming on your part though. That would be extremely personal if one says I believe in letting the problem in. I am simply saying, here the problem is always in constantly 24*7. Going about my personal life, I dont let anyone walk over me or my loved ones, not even my close ones. So there is no question of letting a problem "in".

Hold on I am talking about Sai not you. There is no need to say that I am bringing the personal life of yours. You believe that a problem (PaKhi) should be mentioned all the time by Sai because Naaginlekha is always poking her nose, I believe Pakhi the problem shouldn't be giving importance when there is no need. We easily start comparing the show with real life and ourselves so I am ending the convo before things go too far and people misunderstand the conversation.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Hold on I am talking about Sai not you. There is no need to say that I am bringing the personal life of yours. You believe that a problem (PaKhi) should be mentioned all the time by Sai because Naaginlekha is always poking her nose, I believe Pakhi the problem shouldn't be giving importance when there is no need. We easily start comparing the show with real life and ourselves so I am ending the convo before things go too far and people misunderstand the conversation.

I did not say you are bringing my personal life, noone here can bring it up as we dont know wach other...Might have misunderstood. So apologies.. However, I meant you are assuming on how I see and deal with a problem, since we did go towards real life examples, in the conversation.

I would just say Pakhi as a problem is given importance, because its unresolved, had it been resolved, I would give that problem zero importance and question Sai for bringing her in. Today also her bringing up Pakhi was valid and I have gave the reasons in one of my replies. All in all , it was great discussing with you.. No hard feelings. I am sure there wont be from the other end as well..because we are immature unlike Didi.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

For this reason

She said how his bf told they share no husband wife relationship She is indirectly telling how his ex comments about their relationship everytime & he never asked her to stop poking her nose in their relationship matters. And virat didn't say anything to pakhi when she is talking about his relationship with sai infront of everyone but getting irritated if sai says what his bf told. When the wife is constantly ridiculed by the husband's ex for being with her husband & the husband doesn't say anything to the ex. Then it's hard to ignore. It's unfair to say she shouldn't bring up that name just because it spoils husband's situational good mood. Everyone can't react according to his mood. He too needs to understand how much his wife is going through because of his past & he is doing nothing to secure her.

Had virat made pakhi shut when she was telling how sairat are not husband & wife because of different rooms & by which right sai will live in CN. Then sai wouldn't have brought the matter that ur bf told this about our relationship. That's why most of the talks of her about pakhi are not unnecessary. It was her hurt & disappointment at virat speaking.

See that proves that she lets Pakhi affect her too much. Yes Virat didn't say anything which actually sucks and kind of stupid from his side too. But sometimes when things are going good, you have to let the things go good and not ruin it. When we have a shitty life and we get one moment of happiness, isn't it better to be positive instead of thinking about the problem and ruin that moment of happiness ? They were finally having a normal conversation after weeks of fight. For me her mention of Pakhi ruined that moment for her, for Virat and for viewers like us. I was just enjoying them back that I was like "Not again".

And I would have loved if she had told him directly that he should have shut Pakhi when she questioned about their relationship which would have made more sense.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I did not say you are bringing my personal life, noone here can bring it up as we dont know wach other...Might have misunderstood. So apologies.. However, I meant you are assuming on how I see and deal with a problem, since we did go towards real life examples, in the conversation.

I would just say Pakhi as a problem is given importance, because its unresolved, had it been resolved, I would give that problem zero importance and question Sai for bringing her in. Today also her bringing up Pakhi was valid and I have gave the reasons in one of my replies. All in all , it was great discussing with you.. No hard feelings. I am sure there wont be from the other end as well..because we are immature unlike Didi.

No hard feelings just different POVs about the characters. 😊

If only the writers were good they would have written the story better, without making Pakhi so important be it by her presence in the episodes or extra importance given by SaiRat.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

See that proves that she lets Pakhi affect her too much. Yes Virat didn't say anything which actually sucks and kind of stupid from his side too. But sometimes when things are going good, you have to let the things go good and not ruin it. When we have a shitty life and we get one moment of happiness, isn't it better to be positive instead of thinking about the problem and ruin that moment of happiness ? They were finally having a normal conversation after weeks of fight. For me her mention of Pakhi ruined that moment for her, for Virat and for viewers like us. I was just enjoying them back that I was like "Not again".

And I would have loved if she had told him directly that he should have shut Pakhi when she questioned about their relationship which would have made more sense.

Things are happy for audience because we have been spared from toxicity..because it was FGS two months long...Nothing has changed for Sai as far as Pakhi and her indulgence in her life is concerned.. One cant let go statements and remarks like the ones Pakhi comes up with, with no one even batting an eyelid...

It was exasperating to see her talk that way , about Sai doing Naatak just after coming back home from hospital, Sai not having any status to stay back at this house.. How much does he want to be told to Sai to speak up..Its frustrating beyond a point...

Also like Kumuda pointed out Sai ignores Pakhi most of the times...She ignores her comments on being high on drugs...she did not mention her reactions to Saree gifting to Virat...She does not react when she talks about Sai doing naatak...She does not react even today when she is taunting her about being in the room...She was very polite actually... She usually lets it pass...Only when she is bothered by their equation , their closeness and also her taunts about the instability in her relationship with Virat is when she talks about Pakhi...

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

No hard feelings just different POVs about the characters. 😊

If only the writers were good they would have written the story better, without making Pakhi so important be it by her presence in the episodes or extra importance given by SaiRat.

I believe the third angle is alive in this show only because of how dumb Virat has been all along, from the time he gave Vaada to this date...There is no scope of third angle any other way..

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

See that proves that she lets Pakhi affect her too much. Yes Virat didn't say anything which actually sucks and kind of stupid from his side too. But sometimes when things are going good, you have to let the things go good and not ruin it. When we have a shitty life and we get one moment of happiness, isn't it better to be positive instead of thinking about the problem and ruin that moment of happiness ? They were finally having a normal conversation after weeks of fight. For me her mention of Pakhi ruined that moment for her, for Virat and for viewers like us. I was just enjoying them back that I was like "Not again".

And I would have loved if she had told him directly that he should have shut Pakhi when she questioned about their relationship which would have made more sense.

She don't let pakhi affect her that's why she ignores every nonsense pakhi talks about her be it drugs or other names. But when her husband kept silence when his ex is insulting their married relationship then any wife will get affected.

Her problem is not pakhi's comment , her problem is virat silence over that.

Pakhi talks nonsense about her all day but sai never talks about that infront of virat.

But if she comments about their relationship & her position as virat's wife then sai brings it.

How can she directly ask virat why you didn't say anything to ur ex when she herself is confused about their relationship & feels virat also thinks same as pakhi that's why he didn't shut her.

If they share normal husband & wife relationship then she would have definitely confronted him directly.

Their good moments, smiles,talks everything is futile if virat didn't address her insecurities & expect her to tolerate the shit his ex is doing with her.

Bringing pakhi name is the only way she can express her hurt. She isn't doing it intentionally.