Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm
Exactly my point..this is not the RR we know. This is a modified version of CVs for this track. We cannot judge him now based on past tracks. In the present track , its just a pati patni and woh track, he has been made to participate in infidelity and feel remorse and express it....we cannot look at how nice he was before now and whitewash him.
About being habitual cheater, im saying that if Pallavi forgives him easily, thats a message to society or viewers of an ideal loving wife forgiving her husband of such a ...marital crime. Habitual cheaters are created by spouses who forgive and dont walk out.
Just as an example....Suzanna Khan separates frim Hrithik Roshan openly , publicly after 13 years of marraige and two kids, because he got close to spanish actress at shooting. There may have been other incidents but this was the last straw for her.
Mant in the industry argued that she should have stayed..but I am glad she didnt . There are there men and women who publicly show remorse of failed marraige but privately expected spouse to put up with it.
Not saying RR is like that, I am leading to a morw social discussion.
I'm just not sure why people can't forgive a marital crime? Do we not forgive other crimes? Why is it all of a sudden when its marriage that a crime is unforgivable?
Also, why does a tv show have to teach any lessons? This is life, sometimes people make decisions we don't get bc we're not them and we're not in that situation.
If this show had to have the right moral compass, then they wouldn't show : 1) him putting her in front of a truck 2) R slapping his sister twice 3) R+A trying to forcefully marry off K 4)locking K in a room 5) forcefully marrying P in the first place. etc etc. More than half this show showed crimes of DV, DA, EA, etc.
SK and HR example - it could've been the last straw. He could've been a habitual cheater, we don't know. She did what was right for her in that moment. At the end of the day, no one is privy to the ins and outs of a celebrity couple you know? There's a lot of smoke screen and a lot we don't know.
Real life example: I know someone who found out that right before they got together, her spouse fathered a child with his ex, married the person I know anyway, and kept this from her for 1.5 years. She's still working through it to be with him. She still loves him. She's secure in their relationship. They got to this point after her contemplating divorce. I get it's not the same exact situation - but it's a betrayal nonetheless. In real life, between real people, forgiveness in relationships is much more common than what is shown on tv or in media.
I'm not saying P should or has to forgive R. I'm saying she can and there's nothing wrong with that either. I'm just presenting another option here. It doesn't make her less than to forgive her husband. It doesn't take away her feminism, dignity, intelligence, nor should it lower her in the eyes of society for doing it.
I'm also saying it's more likely that she will bc that's who she is. She couldn't turn him into the police - and thus compromised her own morals - during the diamondgate... so while this is a much bigger offense and will take much longer to heal, I think with time and groveling from R, she will move past this.
Habitual cheaters are created bc the cheaters themselves are weak, the blame isn't on the spouse that forgives. It doesn't enable anything. I'm not saying if forgiveness happens it should happen quickly.
Obviously she needs time to get over this. Take all the time she wants really. And Raghav really needs to spend time reassuring her, asking for forgiveness, etc.
IRL talk- at the end of the day people have different thresholds for pain, for betrayal, and for forgiveness. It's not up to us to decide what's best for others. You may decide one thing is best for you and I may look at that and be like, not for me at all.
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