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Thank you for the lovely updates everyone 🤗and what a lovely build up this has been to their reconciliation or start I hope towards one. Finally I hope this track will move forward from Aditya denial to acceptance of imie in the family. I have simply enjoyed the subtlety to there conversation and the honest they have carried. It has been so refreshing to see that imlie is still holding strong to her hurt and is communicating that fact confidently to Aditya. It’s so open for him to see and read. There is no denial of faith in the issue that they are trying to live forward from.😊

I have to agree with you Aps in your previous post of parallels that there communication either silent or spoken has been always based upon there mutually fact of each other and that still shines bright today. This is why I loved the message given by the writers that when we are faced with a decision make the one that feeds your soul. Take the path that you feel comfortable and connected with. Each of imlie decision has been done based upon her faith in them. While they personally are at crossroads she has neither step back from him or his family and neither her dreams. She is waking the journey ahead based upon the one she wishes to have but has had to tweak it a bit to fit in the role of being a wife and a daughter in law as well. The fact that she still respect the relationships she has shows the strength she hold and the courage to own the mistake her husband has made through his actions. She has neither been disrespectful or emotionally aloof of it unlike Maline whom is willing to hide all her crimes behind denial and anger.

Take the example of the date he wished to have. He knew it would be difficult for her to join him but she still had the courage to sit through the conversation and heal herself by voicing out what she felt was there issue. Yes it may not be the answer he wished to hear but she told him what the problem was. The fact that besides all the stones Maline throws at them imlie and Aditya keep choosing each other. That’s shows no matter what happened they will love you for whom you are and will be with you no matter what.

This track maybe slow but I feel has certainly focused on three key points within imlie and Aditya

1. I am sorry - they have clearly shown everyone that this has become a statement for Aditya for he no longer is sure what he is apologising for. He has always been doing this in his relationships with Maline letting her be in control when his has not made a mistake. In the present he is struggling to move past this because imlie wants him to hold up his end of his promise to her. She always said when she lets him in she expect him to honour it to for she was afraid be left behind. The fact that Maline is pregnant makes her aware of that very issue. The fact that he keeps telling her he has know her for seven years is an issue it self for he forgets that if he can change why cannot Maline.
2. I won’t do it again - is his way of promising but he is unable to fulfill because he is not willing to deal with the issue of Maline. I feel until he has an open and frank conversations about the past and the future he won’t be able to move on freely and gain imlie respect. He keeps telling imlie he will listen but when and how he is yet to proof. He has taken a step to share his thoughts through the date and the article he is working on the fact he no longer has to walk on eggshells is a blessing for him too for him around his family and Maline. He is finally free of guilt there and his journey in a way has now officially started. He still has not really said to imie what mistake of his he won’t make and why.
3. How do I make it up to you - is a responsibility that Aditya has to take care of for himself and her. He has started to take steps of this by ensuring he helps her have a successful internship and even during the family festivities issue. Where he showed support infront of the committee members during the organisation of the event of the missing idol. He wants to make it up to her for him and them but he is struggling because he knows he has lost her trust. He has faith to gain it back but will have to learn how the balance this as well.

We can clearly see there is a circle forming between making a statement, taking a promise and owning a responsibility. It’s becoming a juggling act but it’s also shaping the next part of there journey. We’re we see attraction and longing for a change in there relationship. For me I felt we were finally seeing them be husband and wife rather then friends or lovers. As we have said already claiming to love is easy but acting upon it is hard. But most of all there is hope that they can move past this. It’s somewhat like Aditya realising his feelings for imlie in Pagdandia were he had to learn the difference between love and responsibilities. This time I feel the track is more about the pain of owning once promises. It’s about over coming the struggle of communication and so forth to find back the truth of the commitment and respect they held before it all happened. There are so many shades to love and acceptance and this is sort of it too.

See just because the situation is not ideal it doesn’t mean imlie should give up and walk away. The fact that she is willing to focus on what works for them and fight for what makes them great shows there willing to make it work through all this nonsense. The fact that they know there is a problem and share it shows them sharing a responsibility of how to fix it. This is one clear point the whole track has highlighted that at no piont has Maline wanted to fix and share the problem with Aditya in her relationship. So people whom say imlie and Aditya have given up in fact they have not for they still communicate but the barrier has come from the fact one is not listing to understand but is there only to listen and reply. He is not willing to take responsibility of the core issue which is not the child but is the mother her self.

Going back to the pooja today I just loved how that came full circle and was a testament there faith. Imlie and Aditya have finally been able to show there love and commitment to each other. It was so refreshing to see this in completion form the time when Aditya held her hand in Pagdandia to being able to do the same today and heal from it together. They have been able to be there full self both physically and mentally. That was such a sight to be hold and so truthful of there trust. Love the way they have shaped Aditya into a a man of faith through imlie for he was so aloof from family and love that today he was there in his own wanting and needing to be part of the festivities. He has grown so much and I feel the family sees that and is one of the reasons they have mellowed towards imlie too. He is becoming a son that secretly aparna wished to have and hoped would come through Maline but didn’t.

So yes although this track is frustrating at times but I do love how they silent and verbally see each other. But most of all there are testing each other knowledge and commitment in there relationship. And we can see despite the struggle of Maline in there relationship they are happy proving again the faith that they so hold fear that with the right person one doesn’t have to work to be happy it just happens. And the beauty of it is despite all this they have learnt to make the most of there difference by enjoying them. But most of all what I have loved in all this so far is that imie has the courage to admit there has been a mistake made but because Aditya is in a hoot place he is not bother about his past and that can be seen by his lack of support for Maline. His heart still reflects the pride he feels for imlie and imie alone and that why he honours his vow of imlie being his wife with pride. Growing from them is the beauty of moving on and that is what I feel imlie is trying to showing Aditya and he is trying in his roundabout way of learn by too.

Hope the rambling makes sense. 😆 Never will I watch all 7 episodes in a raw that was hard work 😆

As for the new entry let’s see what he brings hope we get some parallels between Rupi and Maline that would be nice. But I know it’s wishful.

also have to say I am loving nani and still hope the camera will help with the removal of this evil we have come to know as didi 😆 she just says what we all are feeling 🤣🤣

can we have more of her please

Anyone seen today’s episode yet? I see no updates on WU.

Thanks Apsvenky for this chat thread!

Loving everyone point of view here...keep it coming! 🤗

I will come back with my write up today but today the tag team of Adilie did a maha maha chop of didi! First adi that a marriage on paper is not a marriage that you need love , trust and saath… hai my bacha … and second imlie that number of years don’t make a marriage cos if just becomes a captive which is not a marriage . I know it’s not new in terms di dialogue but they spotted it in one after the after so well

Their chops are getting sharper and cleaner to me and it’s building up . It’s doesn’t seem like they are ghusao if it in anymore like in the first few epi but now its a build up.

this track is defo to show the ts ( who whilst on their own esp Radha t is absolutely useless even to her own daughter) that Didi is the worst fit for their family ( for those in the fam that still can’t see that).

ok I will come with a better analysis later.. I am still processing my thoughts to keep up with all u ladies who have such meaningful thoughts . ❤️

This was a good one and writers seem to be getting their brains back and direction was also better..

I don’t seem to find the reason of Pranav’s return but it feels it’s here for some final blows to Malinis place in T house.

What I observed in characters today -

Pranav doesn’t have any positive side to him so the cunning man will be here for sometime to make sure this time when he exists he doesn’t return ever….

Pranav’s dialogue about finding elders n then trying his luck makes him fall in same category as Malini.. she also has exploited Sr Ts naive behavior till now..

BK, Aditya, Nishant n PT each had their protective claws out for Rupali but as usual some idiotic advice rendered them useless… None seem to be happy about the outcome but they r patiently waiting n giving a chance to Pranav

Sita Maiyyas color will blossom in full form after Dussehra which has marked Pranav so Ben if Imlie doesn’t remember it now she will when it’s time for expose..

Aditya seem to have found little balance in life and is standing up to Malinis attacks on imlie… I m sure he is still brushing the obvious under the rug but there seem to be too much to do that.. his line about kagazi rishta was so apt that their own situation… she is holding on to something (their marriage) that was a mirage and he is holding on to something (their friendship) that’s fake.. so hopefully their win situation resolved very soon..

Malini is just doing what a lame villain does.. silly parlor tricks n just bhashan.. imlie has become immune to her bad so am I.. she is not worth talking about at all..

Imlie has the right instincts and I think this is her trail prior to her actual battle with Malini.. this should teach her patience, need of proofs and being unbiased..

Special mention to Aparna … it’s extremely difficult to accept that you were wrong and Aparna has done that today.. she is so confused with Malinis attitude towards Imlie vs Imlies attitude towards Malini.. that’s why she accepts that she is not chapaogi judge right now..

I am hopeful they won’t stretch this track for a long time.. it should get over soon with focus on Malinis truth reveal..

Originally posted by: _Seera_

This was a good one and writers seem to be getting their brains back and direction was also better..

I don’t seem to find the reason of Pranav’s return but it feels it’s here for some final blows to Malinis place in T house.

What I observed in characters today -

Pranav doesn’t have any positive side to him so the cunning man will be here for sometime to make sure this time when he exists he doesn’t return ever….

Pranav’s dialogue about finding elders n then trying his luck makes him fall in same category as Malini.. she also has exploited Sr Ts naive behavior till now..

BK, Aditya, Nishant n PT each had their protective claws out for Rupali but as usual some idiotic advice rendered them useless… None seem to be happy about the outcome but they r patiently waiting n giving a chance to Pranav

Sita Maiyyas color will blossom in full form after Dussehra which has marked Pranav so Ben if Imlie doesn’t remember it now she will when it’s time for expose..

Aditya seem to have found little balance in life and is standing up to Malinis attacks on imlie… I m sure he is still brushing the obvious under the rug but there seem to be too much to do that.. his line about kagazi rishta was so apt that their own situation… she is holding on to something (their marriage) that was a mirage and he is holding on to something (their friendship) that’s fake.. so hopefully their win situation resolved very soon..

Malini is just doing what a lame villain does.. silly parlor tricks n just bhashan.. imlie has become immune to her bad so am I.. she is not worth talking about at all..

Imlie has the right instincts and I think this is her trail prior to her actual battle with Malini.. this should teach her patience, need of proofs and being unbiased..

Special mention to Aparna … it’s extremely difficult to accept that you were wrong and Aparna has done that today.. she is so confused with Malinis attitude towards Imlie vs Imlies attitude towards Malini.. that’s why she accepts that she is not chapaogi judge right now..

I am hopeful they won’t stretch this track for a long time.. it should get over soon with focus on Malinis truth reveal..

Hi seera my positive partner .. good to see u back and I must say it’s nice to comment without worrying 😂😂😂😂… I liked the parallel u made about pranav and Didi who are exploiting the naivety or ullu ness that is the t family elders. Both p and Didi have bo values for family to see beyond their own nefarious means no matter who gets hurt. Seriously I don’t know what Brains this Radha has that she still what’s her daughter to reconcile. Bk started off like a concerned father but then slipped down the slippery slope when he accepted rupi decision so I am still not sure what use he will be in this fight.

I must say I missed that part on apu so I will rewatch but I think u are right, post this both pranav and Didi ( in turn eyes of t family) will be pack up. Imlie again will fight this battle and this time she will have her usual except rupi Didi. Nishu , adI , nn, pt ( he was the only one who was consistently not convinced today by Didi and pranav bakwass) and sundar. I just hope throughout this that we see adI now standing up to Didi more and more. Ge has been so delicate with her for obvious reasons but it’s time he steps up. I am hoping this would play in parallel .

I must add that Didi sees herself as rupi and thinks that this means adi will realise and come back,, whilst I don’t watch serials she is the stupidest villain ever cos she can’t realise that technically she is the mistress or other woman / rapist so this rupi track will highlight to everyone the diff in them.. ( sorry stupid comment I know 😂)

Originally posted by: raaz19

Thank you for the lovely updates everyone 🤗and what a lovely build up this has been to their reconciliation or start I hope towards one. Finally I hope this track will move forward from Aditya denial to acceptance of imie in the family. I have simply enjoyed the subtlety to there conversation and the honest they have carried. It has been so refreshing to see that imlie is still holding strong to her hurt and is communicating that fact confidently to Aditya. It’s so open for him to see and read. There is no denial of faith in the issue that they are trying to live forward from.😊

I have to agree with you Aps in your previous post of parallels that there communication either silent or spoken has been always based upon there mutually fact of each other and that still shines bright today. This is why I loved the message given by the writers that when we are faced with a decision make the one that feeds your soul. Take the path that you feel comfortable and connected with. Each of imlie decision has been done based upon her faith in them. While they personally are at crossroads she has neither step back from him or his family and neither her dreams. She is waking the journey ahead based upon the one she wishes to have but has had to tweak it a bit to fit in the role of being a wife and a daughter in law as well. The fact that she still respect the relationships she has shows the strength she hold and the courage to own the mistake her husband has made through his actions. She has neither been disrespectful or emotionally aloof of it unlike Maline whom is willing to hide all her crimes behind denial and anger.

Take the example of the date he wished to have. He knew it would be difficult for her to join him but she still had the courage to sit through the conversation and heal herself by voicing out what she felt was there issue. Yes it may not be the answer he wished to hear but she told him what the problem was. The fact that besides all the stones Maline throws at them imlie and Aditya keep choosing each other. That’s shows no matter what happened they will love you for whom you are and will be with you no matter what.

This track maybe slow but I feel has certainly focused on three key points within imlie and Aditya

1. I am sorry - they have clearly shown everyone that this has become a statement for Aditya for he no longer is sure what he is apologising for. He has always been doing this in his relationships with Maline letting her be in control when his has not made a mistake. In the present he is struggling to move past this because imlie wants him to hold up his end of his promise to her. She always said when she lets him in she expect him to honour it to for she was afraid be left behind. The fact that Maline is pregnant makes her aware of that very issue. The fact that he keeps telling her he has know her for seven years is an issue it self for he forgets that if he can change why cannot Maline.
2. I won’t do it again - is his way of promising but he is unable to fulfill because he is not willing to deal with the issue of Maline. I feel until he has an open and frank conversations about the past and the future he won’t be able to move on freely and gain imlie respect. He keeps telling imlie he will listen but when and how he is yet to proof. He has taken a step to share his thoughts through the date and the article he is working on the fact he no longer has to walk on eggshells is a blessing for him too for him around his family and Maline. He is finally free of guilt there and his journey in a way has now officially started. He still has not really said to imie what mistake of his he won’t make and why.
3. How do I make it up to you - is a responsibility that Aditya has to take care of for himself and her. He has started to take steps of this by ensuring he helps her have a successful internship and even during the family festivities issue. Where he showed support infront of the committee members during the organisation of the event of the missing idol. He wants to make it up to her for him and them but he is struggling because he knows he has lost her trust. He has faith to gain it back but will have to learn how the balance this as well.

We can clearly see there is a circle forming between making a statement, taking a promise and owning a responsibility. It’s becoming a juggling act but it’s also shaping the next part of there journey. We’re we see attraction and longing for a change in there relationship. For me I felt we were finally seeing them be husband and wife rather then friends or lovers. As we have said already claiming to love is easy but acting upon it is hard. But most of all there is hope that they can move past this. It’s somewhat like Aditya realising his feelings for imlie in Pagdandia were he had to learn the difference between love and responsibilities. This time I feel the track is more about the pain of owning once promises. It’s about over coming the struggle of communication and so forth to find back the truth of the commitment and respect they held before it all happened. There are so many shades to love and acceptance and this is sort of it too.

See just because the situation is not ideal it doesn’t mean imlie should give up and walk away. The fact that she is willing to focus on what works for them and fight for what makes them great shows there willing to make it work through all this nonsense. The fact that they know there is a problem and share it shows them sharing a responsibility of how to fix it. This is one clear point the whole track has highlighted that at no piont has Maline wanted to fix and share the problem with Aditya in her relationship. So people whom say imlie and Aditya have given up in fact they have not for they still communicate but the barrier has come from the fact one is not listing to understand but is there only to listen and reply. He is not willing to take responsibility of the core issue which is not the child but is the mother her self.

Going back to the pooja today I just loved how that came full circle and was a testament there faith. Imlie and Aditya have finally been able to show there love and commitment to each other. It was so refreshing to see this in completion form the time when Aditya held her hand in Pagdandia to being able to do the same today and heal from it together. They have been able to be there full self both physically and mentally. That was such a sight to be hold and so truthful of there trust. Love the way they have shaped Aditya into a a man of faith through imlie for he was so aloof from family and love that today he was there in his own wanting and needing to be part of the festivities. He has grown so much and I feel the family sees that and is one of the reasons they have mellowed towards imlie too. He is becoming a son that secretly aparna wished to have and hoped would come through Maline but didn’t.

So yes although this track is frustrating at times but I do love how they silent and verbally see each other. But most of all there are testing each other knowledge and commitment in there relationship. And we can see despite the struggle of Maline in there relationship they are happy proving again the faith that they so hold fear that with the right person one doesn’t have to work to be happy it just happens. And the beauty of it is despite all this they have learnt to make the most of there difference by enjoying them. But most of all what I have loved in all this so far is that imie has the courage to admit there has been a mistake made but because Aditya is in a hoot place he is not bother about his past and that can be seen by his lack of support for Maline. His heart still reflects the pride he feels for imlie and imie alone and that why he honours his vow of imlie being his wife with pride. Growing from them is the beauty of moving on and that is what I feel imlie is trying to showing Aditya and he is trying in his roundabout way of learn by too.

Hope the rambling makes sense. 😆 Never will I watch all 7 episodes in a raw that was hard work 😆

Raaz, I liked your parallels and the points on adi battle in this whole incident and how he needs to fix it with his wife. Very well articulated and it is coming through as well in his dialogues and actions as well. You can see him slowly addressing the issues and realisation of Didi still not having changed with her bakwass is seeping into his subconscious

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Lovely lovely gifiya filled majjakiyya review nim🤗

Ooooh what a nice episode. A lot of good things to highlight. Senior ts maafi maange naa maange unka wo previous waale traits waapis aa rahe hain the unintended consequence being them subconsciously eased into their old relationships with imlu

Apu voicing her conflicts when rupi asks her whether she too advises that rupi forgive pranav and go back. She no longer knows if she can be trusted to make the right decision for anyone and advises rupi to do what is right for her.

Bk ka coming over to make a mess of folding imlus clothes their cute banter and then giving in to her request to tutor her all over again like he used to.

Imlu sharing her concern with adi about pranav not giving her good vibes. Hopefully this time he will atleast not stand in her way by destroying any sabooth she gathers about pranav.

Hum happy happy happy hoon..

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Kuch bhi karle didiya kithne bhi parallels draw kare aur apne sade huwe rishte ko aage badhaane ki koshish kare uske saare efforts naakam hi rahe hai. Adi ne himmat jutaake ab uska aur forcefully band bajaana shur bhi kar dees. T fam aur adi milke usko ab cancel hi kar rahe hain.

https://giphy.com/gifs/RobertEBlackmon-cancelled-canceled-you-are-5qFDrz8CE75GzT9qJW

Also glad that the focus is on a fierce imlu fighting back for adi besides the fam even if this cannot always be balanced with adequate adilie moments

Episode begins with bk asking pranav to hit the road because they all hate him. Cut to apudha trying to calm down an upset rupi who is crying due to the shock of seeing pranav return after so long. Radha as usual is trying to convince rupi to give the man a second chance.

It is revealed that pranav happens to be the man sent over by the corrupt netha to somehow retrieve the evidence of his crime from akt. He assures the minister that t fam ka bharosa waapis jeeth ke woh uska kaam tamaam kar dega. It is also revealed that he was the person stalking imlu when she hid the pen drive in the murthi. Rupi ke bhajan ke waqt isne aag jalaayi to plan his way into the t fams good graces

A distraught rupi is asking apu if she also wants her to reconcile with pranav. A conflicted apu responds saying patha nahi mujhe lagtha tha ki mujhe sahi aur galath me farak karna aatha hai sache aur jhoote ki parak hai mujhe but pichle kuch dino me is ghar me jo kuch bhi huwa hai jo maine dekha hai uske baad sahi kya hai galath kya hai ye ab mujhe samajh me nahi aatha Ab tho har faisla lene se darne lagi hoon. Advises rupi to take a decision thats good for her kyunki yeh uski jindagi ka sawaal hai. Promises to support rupi in whatever she decides to do. Lovely scene where apus conflicts are finally voiced out for the viewers. Good writing here.

Imlu walks up suspiciously overhearing pranav. She asks him to leave the house because rupi didi iski intezaar me nahi baiti hain. He decides to talk to the elders to hoodwink his way in and pleads with bk to give him a chance to sudhaaro the wrongs done. A similar ploy is being utilized by didiya to try to force adi to return to her by emotionally blackmailing the elders. Didiya with her own ulterior motives jumps in to offer her sastha advice that bk should give pranav a chance.

We see her arguing with imlie about giving someone a chance to sudhaaro a rishtha if that person has realized that itne saala ka rishta ek min me nahi thod sakthe. She is making a case for herself and adi here. One sided obsession that adi has checked out of and moved on from for a while now. Imlu responds ki koi rishta siraf waqt dene se phultha nahi hai usko prem aur vishwas ke saath adar samman ki roz jaroorat hai jiske alaawa andhi toofan se uski raksha bhi karna padtha hai. Didiya continues her bakwaas saying pranav and rupi are still husband wife and nobody can judge what goes on between husband wife. Ultimately adi agrees with imlu and schools didi saying sirf ek kaagaz ke tukde se pathi patni hone par shaadi nahi chalthi, shaadi sirf naam ka nahi ek dusre ke saath ka rishtha hai, pyaar ka rishta hai . He agrees with imlu that pranav rupi did ke liye sahi nahi hai and wonders ki achaanak iske mann me itne saalo ke baad rupi didi ke liye pyaar kaise jaag utha. Didiya continues on shaadi not being a kamzor rishtha and that since they are adults they should be allowed to decide.

Rupi and apudha walk out. Imlu is shocked to hear rupi say she wishes to give pranav one last chance to sudhaaro all the wrongs to reconcile. Adi , nishu give in for her happiness and imlu asks rupi didi ki woh bharosa jode ki jaldi me hai ya phir rishtha. Thankfully dono ke beech me wo pyaari soul sisters waali connect intact hai when rupi lovingly reassures imlu that she will be fine and that wo seetha meetha se pray karegi ki uski vishwaas ko chot naa pohonche. Imlu walks away worried during the aarthi and didiya peecha karke sastha dialogue maarthi hai about puraane rishton ki dor being pakki itni aasani se nahi tootthi and all that. Imlu gives it back to her saying agar saathi sahi na ho tho dor aur bedi me farak nahi hoth hai malini didi aur khush rahe ke khatir bediyaan thode ki padath hai.

Bk imlu scene was lovely. Unhone jitna badly imlu to treat kiya uthna hi aasaan bana dees inka redemption. Waah bey genius writers. I am glad we are not seeing imlu cry balti bhar bhar ke anymore and for that alone i am thankful. Bk gets trolled by imlu for his ghatiya clothes folding skills instead she requests him to tutor her for the maths ka exam to which he agrees.

Imlu notices paint on her dupatta while folding clothes and wonders how it got on her new outfit. Recalls pranav giving her a dhakka when running over to save rupi. Back in the kitchen we have pranav trying to wash off the paint he has on his palms from trying to get the pen drive stuck on the murthi. Imlu walks up to notice something suspicious. Didiya ko uski maa ne pranav ko use karke imlu ki biggest supporter ko ghar se hataane ki saalah di. So one more destined to fail in progress.

Precap me imlu is voicing her doubts about pranav to adi. Rupi rescue plan ke baare me adi apni super womaniya se poochath hoon.