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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

The problem is just that, both Virat and Sai are very real....and thats what I meant when I mentioned about people yesterday on the forum talking about it.

The family is useless each one of them...I abhor the whole soulmates jaap, thats nonsense, such things would not have happened , if that was the case.. Moreover original also did not have such nonsense..

I believe family be it - Devi, Pulkit, Samrat, Shivani and Mohit have shown their unconditional love and support to Sai be it when she is present or absent, they have fought for her dignity and self respect more than she has done for herself. They are related to Virat but they have shown Virat how Sai means more to them, Samrat and Mohit went ahead and fought their wives for Sai and clearly told them how Sai means more to them than their wives.

Now when they see that Sai needs Virat and wants only Virat then what can they do? They are ready to stand against their brother for her, She is not too weak to stand in front of Virat, she just wants him and its better that these people focus on their lives rather than batting for Sai because they are messing up their relationships for her sake so the moment they see Sai take a decision they go back to I was just testing (tatol-ing) Virat...hehehe mode

The soulmate thing is the basic idea of this track, the track started with message from CVs that Sai and Virat end up in a life threatening situation whenever they are apart, thats the base of accident and Virat praying in front of Lord brought Sai back to life. Major changes in character arcs of CN elder took place on basis of this plot

I just feel that we belittle the trauma and pain of real people by comparing them to Sai when we know that the writer is not presenting any of this

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

Can u plz inform me when did sai respected her own words .

Regarding abuse , sai will never mind abuse coz she herself is abusive personality.

Sai awesome behaviour comes under verbal , emotional , mental & psychological abuse .

Lekin yaha abuse sirf sai ke saath hota or usko har tarah ki freedom hai after all she is s woman vo bhi orphan or upar se fixed 19 yrs ki .

Mujhe to lagta if virat sneezes then it will be counted under abuse

I have said Virat and Sai both have ruined themselves for each other, the relationship they share is toxic and suffocating....but they are soul mates for the show so 😆

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I believe family be it - Devi, Pulkit, Samrat, Shivani and Mohit have shown their unconditional love and support to Sai be it when she is present or absent, they have fought for her dignity and self respect more than she has done for herself. They are related to Virat but they have shown Virat how Sai means more to them, Samrat and Mohit went ahead and fought their wives for Sai and clearly told them how Sai means more to them than their wives.

Now when they see that Sai needs Virat and wants only Virat then what can they do? They are ready to stand against their brother for her, She is not too weak to stand in front of Virat, she just wants him and its better that these people focus on their lives rather than batting for Sai because they are messing up their relationships for her sake so the moment they see Sai take a decision they go back to I was just testing (tatol-ing) Virat...hehehe mode

The soulmate thing is the basic idea of this track, the track started with message from CVs that Sai and Virat end up in a life threatening situation whenever they are apart, thats the base of accident and Virat praying in front of Lord brought Sai back to life. Major changes in character arcs of CN elder took place on basis of this plot

I just feel that we belittle the trauma and pain of real people by comparing them to Sai when we know that the writer is not presenting any of this

Even before Sai needed Virat...they do get angry one thing is established..they are hsuband wife and they need to be together...after last accident both Ashwini and Mohit were explaining her how Virat is distraught and how she should think why he did the way he did...A real family won't do that...

Regarding Samrat and Mohit fighting with Sai ...they just stopped them from going overboard when they went...like a family member does...since jo one in the family cares to do so...Samrat even before Sai needing the Virat thing came up.. told Virat how he made a small mistake and marriages font break just like that...

I don't see a real anchor doing that...This family has never been hers from the beginning..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Even before Sai needed Virat...they do get angry one thing is established..they are hsuband wife and they need to be together...after last accident both Ashwini and Mohit were explaining her how Virat is distraught and how she should think why he did the way he did...A real family won't do that...

Regarding Samrat and Mohit fighting with Sai ...they just stopped them from going overboard when they went...like a family member does...since jo one in the family cares to do so...Samrat even before Sai needing the Virat thing came up.. told Virat how he made a small mistake and marriages font break just like that...

I don't see a real anchor doing that...This family has never been hers from the beginning..

When Sai doesn't even respond to anyone, what can they do? Why will they fight Virat's entry? If they fight, Sai won't get better

I am sorry but these people have done alot for her but she only wants Virat was established in the show when she didn't react to Samrat or any other family member including Devi who fought for her. If her expectations from a family is what Virat does for her then in comparison to Virat, I'd say others have shown more support towards her but this is simple case of Wife wanting her husband regardless of his actions

Originally posted by: NoraSM

When Sai doesn't even respond to anyone, what can they do? Why will they fight Virat's entry? If they fight, Sai won't get better

I am sorry but these people have done alot for her but she only wants Virat was established in the show when she didn't react to Samrat or any other family member including Devi who fought for her

That's what we are talking about when few of us bring examples and psychology..but then you say you don't want to talk about it...the similar real situations... Then there is no point of that discussion...we will move in circles..like the show 😆

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

That's what we are talking about when few of us bring examples and psychology..but then you say you don't want to talk about it...the similar real situations... Then there is no point of that discussion...we will move in circles..like the show 😆

Real life examples are painful because I want them to get better and come out of whatever they are going through, here Sai and Virat are presented as Soul mates so I know Sai will have a happy ending with him and the people we are discussing, their trauma and pain is trivialized in the process, which I think is not fair to them

I have accepted the soul mate narrative from CVs

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It has been a cycle of virat Sai.For Sai,till virat is giving her attention, stupid nok jhok,taking stand for her here and there.Till then Sai is ohkay with everything virat does.But the moment virat doesn't give her attention then she doesn't care about the feelings 0f other family members.

Sane with virat till he is happy with Sai, he will support her.the moment he is not happy with Sai,Sai become the worst person for him.

Even his stand for pakhi depends upon his equation with Sai.Same with Sai too.this is so frustrating. I know many won't like it ,but the fact is it is only Sai and virat who has caused so much destruction to each other. Neither the cn family nor pakhi cam be blamed.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Real life examples are painful because I want them to get better and come out of whatever they are going through, here Sai and Virat are presented as Soul mates so I know Sai will have a happy ending with him and the people we are discussing, their trauma and pain is trivialized in the process, which I think is not fair to them

I have accepted the soul mate narrative from CVs

Real life does not get better in general unfortunately until again they have better anchors out there. Drama still has a chance of getting better.

I have seen it happening with someone I know....we were never able to get her out of the marriage...

You see she would say...even though he gets aggressive the way he loves me after feeling sorry... I have never felt so much loved...he loves me you guys need to understand...he hurts me yes..but he heals me as well....WHo has anyway come to check on me when I am not in good state....

She came from a family that had only girls and family was not financially good..The guy was educated and earned well and the family was good...So they anyway did not lend a lot of support...She got married very young as well...

Originally posted by: UPSC2021

It has been a cycle of virat Sai.For Sai,till virat is giving her attention, stupid nok jhok,taking stand for her here and there.Till then Sai is ohkay with everything virat does.But the moment virat doesn't give her attention then she doesn't care about the feelings 0f other family members.

Sane with virat till he is happy with Sai, he will support her.the moment he is not happy with Sai,Sai become the worst person for him.

Even his stand for pakhi depends upon his equation with Sai.Same with Sai too.this is so frustrating. I know many won't like it ,but the fact is it is only Sai and virat who has caused so much destruction to each other. Neither the cn family nor pakhi cam be blamed.

I agree with it

Pakhi ceases to be a problem if Virat shuts the door as simple as that, don't allow her in your discussions, don't wash dirty linen in public, keep your private matters to yourself. If you care about your brother then tell him the effing truth and ask him to divorce her