As they say...

It happens with women on ITV Bhala hai bura hai jaisa bhi hai mera pati mera not devta but everything hai

Sai is no different from any other woman who doesn't mind her husband doing anything with her as long as he pays her attention, I guess that was the problem since very beginning, Virat had decided to stay away from her and wasn't giving her attention, she didn't like it. It was pretty much clear with her excitement to know whether Virat wanted to stop her from leaving when Devi told him about it

Is it wrong? I really don't think it is wrong to crave for the man you love, its perfectly fine and everyone needs to be loved.

I am just saying this because I loved Sai Joshi, the woman who said Meri khushiyon ki chabi sirf mere pas hai that has changed now, like Pakhi, her key to happiness is Virat regardless of his actions

I don't blame other characters who were fighting for her for their changed stance in this because why would they continue when she is only reacting to Virat?

On the other hand, she clearly showed she doesn't want Pakhi's presence in her life which is understandable because Pakhi's intentions aren't good as they say A woman can share anything but her husband

Even she didn't realise when she became Sai Virat Chavan from Sai Joshi. More than changed, I would say she has progressed. She knows how extreme can Virat be and yet she loves him. The fact she does not want to admit that to herself is another thing.

The psychiatrist has been brought to spell it out how Patralekha's presence deeply tortures Sai and that she gets panicky when Virat leaves her side, some of it has been showed in hospital episodes. She has held his hands 4-5 times when he was about to leave. She only dropped his hand when she saw Patralekha coming inside the room. It is very natural for Sai to feel so.

About khushiyo ki chaabi, koi Kitna bhi kahe, we do depend on someone, even if it is for 1 percent, for some happiness. It is human tendency..

Sai wants Patralekha to stay away because....

https://www.instagram.com/p/CUzgGdYKvLs/?utm_medium=copy_link

I would say if she had a better anchor in life, like her Aaba so would have not been the case...Its too much to expect from a young girl with no family...no anchor as such to stay strong after a mental and physical trauma both...to yet be strong in this condition... People who know orphans would mention better..We had too many people yesterday coming out and talking about such situations in their own life and their closed ones life... Its not as simple as "Bhala hai Bura hai, jaisa hai mera pati mera devta hai" . I though wish it was...

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Even she didn't realise when she became Sai Virat Chavan from Sai Joshi. More than changed, I would say she has progressed. She knows how extreme can Virat be and yet she loves him. The fact she does not want to admit that to herself is another thing.

The psychiatrist has been brought to spell it out how Patralekha's presence deeply tortures Sai and that she gets panicky when Virat leaves her side, some of it has been showed in hospital episodes. She has held his hands 4-5 times when he was about to leave. She only dropped his hand when she saw Patralekha coming inside the room. It is very natural for Sai to feel so.

About khushiyo ki chaabi, koi Kitna bhi kahe, we do depend on someone, even if it is for 1 percent, for some happiness. It is human tendency..

Sai wants Patralekha to stay away because....

https://www.instagram.com/p/CUzgGdYKvLs/?utm_medium=copy_link

I won't say she has progressed but she has accepted everything Virat can give her, she clearly doesn't mind his abusive side, I am saying this for myself because I wouldn't get effected seeing her cry when she is locked or abused by Virat

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I would say if she had a better anchor in life, like her Aaba so would have not been the case...Its too much to expect from a young girl with no family...no anchor as such to stay strong after a mental and physical trauma both...to yet be strong in this condition... People who know orphans would mention better..We had too many people yesterday coming out and talking about such situations in their own life and their closed ones life... Its not as simple as "Bhala hai Bura hai, jaisa hai mera pati mera devta hai" . I though wish it was...

I would accept that in real life but not in case of Sai because she is being written and by the writing Virat is her soul mate, they are not showing what you have written here

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I would accept that in real life but not in case of Sai because she is being written and by the writing Virat is her soul mate, they are not showing what you have written here

The problem is just that, both Virat and Sai are very real....and thats what I meant when I mentioned about people yesterday on the forum talking about it.

The family is useless each one of them...I abhor the whole soulmates jaap, thats nonsense, such things would not have happened , if that was the case.. Moreover original also did not have such nonsense..

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I won't say she has progressed but she has accepted everything Virat can give her, she clearly doesn't mind his abusive side, I am saying this for myself because I wouldn't get effected seeing her cry when she is locked or abused by Virat

Even Sai is kinda not traumatised by locking episode as much as she is by other elements. Funnily, both of them have wished each other to be lonely or alone and yet both crave for each other.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I would say if she had a better anchor in life, like her Aaba so would have not been the case...Its too much to expect from a young girl with no family...no anchor as such to stay strong after a mental and physical trauma both...to yet be strong in this condition... People who know orphans would mention better..We had too many people yesterday coming out and talking about such situations in their own life and their closed ones life... Its not as simple as "Bhala hai Bura hai, jaisa hai mera pati mera devta hai" . I though wish it was...

I agree asmi .. this is not a simple case of Pati vrata Nari.. right now she has been led low by accident .. she cannot talk .. has not been shown moving around .. at this time when her mind is not working properly .. she can only trust virat to take care of her .. ( her father had done the same when he was about to die )

Can u plz inform me when did sai respected her own words .

Regarding abuse , sai will never mind abuse coz she herself is abusive personality.

Sai awesome behaviour comes under verbal , emotional , mental & psychological abuse .

Lekin yaha abuse sirf sai ke saath hota or usko har tarah ki freedom hai after all she is s woman vo bhi orphan or upar se fixed 19 yrs ki .

Mujhe to lagta if virat sneezes then it will be counted under abuse

Originally posted by: msin

I agree asmi .. this is not a simple case of Pati vrata Nari.. right now she has been led low by accident .. she cannot talk .. has not been shown moving around .. at this time when her mind is not working properly .. she can only trust virat to take care of her .. ( her father had done the same when he was about to die )

Yesterday some one brought up in one of the topics how two kids orphaned and living with their nani and mami...would be treated as servants most of the times and yet when called with love once in a while by their Nani , would leap up to grab whatever they could...They eventually grew up knwoing they deserve the life they get and they are actually undeserving of any love and should take what they get...Such psychological issues are studied at so many places...this is not just a case of Patni, its also a case of having no family, no anchor...Virat's family the moment he cries they forgive him, including Smrat and Pulkit, like any other family and they thank god that Virat is back to caring for Sai.. So this family is not hers any way...The closest and most understood she has felt recently in one year is Virat and he is also the only one close to her Aaba and his representation for her...She gets to see Aaba only in him sometimes.. This is such a sad and disheartening state....😭