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Originally posted by: nutmeg7

I don't know about others but I mostly don't care but if I come across any post that I don't agree with, I do what Vankar does with criticisms - Ignore 🙃

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Yeah true, same here. I usually dont really get affected much.. I do present my perspectives but then when I realise the viewpoint cannot coincide, I ignore. I dont have the patience anyway. And real life has a lot of reality checks to get you affected.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I understand .. I know a lot of people who have been attacked for being 'so called feminist'. The word feminist is a joke and is laughed upon or called upon many times....Here in this case unfortunately the ML has been more wrong and has treaded towards being inhuman, not once but many times. The same forum and the same set of 'feminists' have shown their understanding and immense faith in Virat when he committed it the first time out of anger. However one cannot show the same degree of faith everytime the it keeps coming up. Sorry loses its value. You know there is a reason why we would be told by our elders, Dont say sorry but feel it, if you feel it, you wont repeat it.

I see a lot of women coming out on this forum, including and talking about how a man like Virat have done to them. You know Virat in general is realistic because he is loving most of the days and turns inhuman some days...But those some days are not worth the love. Another member who works with orphans has also talked about how they at the age of 18-19 feel about life and gets really irritated with how Virat has been shown in the show recently. She is also the one who has been giving him a benefit of doubt.

I have personally interacted with a lot of women to know they have such men in life, who lose their semblance at times and assault them for that small duration... Its a dangerous cycle.

I do see a post where Virat is praised and Sai criticised being called unbiased.😊 Happening more in case of Virat recently because he did cross all his lines recently. There is not much to defend him, even from people who have been writing analysis...

I have a lot of friends who have just gone away, not because forum does not welcome different opinion or because they felt targeted, but because they have been particularly disappointed with show...There is a large section of this lot too....Hence the post.

You lose faith in one of the protagonist, what is there to talk about anyway. Ofcourse Sai and Virat are end games, so they would end up together...but then many dont really enjoy it because essence of the show has been compromised, for what so ever reasons..And then we all have discussed how bad the direction and editing is, so no going there...Almost half of the cast are bad actors, so again no point there...

Thanks for understanding sweetheart 💓..

I am slightly cynical but largely positive in my approach to situations.

I know many men who have been supportive in my journey incl who many consider old fashioned. My forward thinking bro and bff. Our family priest and community temple priest who are in 50 - 55 who told my father that they do not need any proof about my character or my side of the story. They said don't think of society but support her. Part thinking atleast in my surrounding is changing due to lot of community discussions

community Gurus who are asking parents to support edu so that women can stand on their own feer if in trouble.

Originally posted by: Devikadish

I just finished with the episode and I really liked it, because we got our SaiRat back after months of torture. ❤️

But like you said, makers butchered the plot and characters soo miserably, that many people are uninterested now. And mere jaise besharam shippers ki population forum meiin kam hai shaayad😆

I'll always be a SaiRat shipper but not interested in coming to the forum for my own peace of mind.

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Thanks for understanding sweetheart 💓..

I am slightly cynical but largely positive in my approach to situations.

I know many men who have been supportive in my journey incl who many consider old fashioned. My forward thinking bro and bff. Our family priest and community temple priest who are in 50 - 55 who told my father that they do not need any proof about my character or my side of the story. They said don't think of society but support her. Part thinking atleast in my surrounding is changing due to lot of community discussions

community Gurus who are asking parents to support edu so that women can stand on their own feer if in trouble.

I agree...I respect the sanctity of marriage but when it treads the basic lines of humanity...then even that should not stop people from stepping out ..It's not about feminism but about men and women both...Men have been for ages conditioned for certain way of life and also for the way they are let go of their mistakes...Every other show tells the same story....even here we equate Sai's mistakes go Virat's...which can in no world be equated...Never..

I am glad you had people who are considered orthodox standing up for you...giving more value to you than your identity as a wife... sometimes they are more open minded than the ones who are well educated and have a better background...

More power to you!!❤️

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Physically he will be, his dimensions of being a one woman man is limited there like many others.. Emotionally he will never be, going back what has been shown in the last one year.

He was never involved emotionally with pakhi after few days of his marriage but the main problem is I can't connect with him now a days.If a person watch today's episode for first time they will surely fall in love with sairat but for regular viewers the mistake cycle continues and his tears look out of place.Sometimes I wish it was better if virat never realised his feelings this much earlier but after 3 or 4 years until then friendship was better

Originally posted by: dairymilkanu

He was never involved emotionally with pakhi after few days of his marriage but the main problem is I can't connect with him now a days.If a person watch today's episode for first time they will surely fall in love with sairat but for regular viewers the mistake cycle continues and his tears look out of place.Sometimes I wish it was better if virat never realised his feelings this much earlier but after 3 or 4 years until then friendship was better

True... Infact he would not have if it was not for Sunny...He realised his feelings to early and developed expectations and was hurt when it was not met..

not you,but devar jhi.bhabhi kaey robot in real life👎🏼