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Originally posted by: AninditaB

Well we're alive

It's just that we choose our mental health over some people. I still ship SaiRat and continue to ship till the end of the show. It's just that I chose my self respect to not to make any post where I'll be mocked and taunted for my post. So yeah we are alive but not in this forum.

If it affects your mental peace then sure nothing is worth it. With this post I was aiming at what has been done to the show particularly in the last few months to have no one ...the active ones in the forum gushing over a good Sairat scenes... In any case got to know some different viewpoints...I hope with time, the animosity decrease you guys get back to the forum.... But in case you don't want to get back that would as well be respected ❤️

People here still ship Sairat...even in this thread they have spoken about it...I am sure they have not been mocked.. if they are in this thread...Sorry guys...❤️

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Yeah same here.. I did try to forget it all on order to go ahead... The good tracks were badly executed so spoilt my mood further... I used to watch old episodes multiple times and no I don't even feel like watching them now...It kind of cringes me knowing what it has all culminated to...

Its actually the culmination of all incidents till now.. I still could reason with him when he locked her up though no way it was justifiable..and the cycle goes on and on.. Sai never stops harping deal, zimmedari and contact ..And virat never stops making some stupid moves.. 🤢

Agree good tracks were ruined due to execution.. Last week episodes were total wasteful.. Most of the dialogues were not making sense .its kind of boring seeing them in the same clothes.. 👎🏼

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

If it affects your mental peace then sure nothing is worth it. With this post I was aiming at what has been done to the show particularly in the last few months to have no one ...the active ones in the forum gushing over a good Sairat scenes... In any case got to know some different viewpoints...I hope with time, the animosity decrease you guys get back to the forum.... But in case you don't want to get back that would as well be respected ❤️

People here still ship Sairat...even in this thread they have spoken about it...I am sure they have not been mocked.. if they are in this thread...Sorry guys...❤️

Not need to apologise for something you haven't done.

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Well we're alive

It's just that we choose our mental health over some people. I still ship SaiRat and continue to ship till the end of the show. It's just that I chose my self respect to not to make any post where I'll be mocked and taunted for my post. So yeah we are alive but not in this forum.

Originally posted by: AninditaB

I agree😆. Craze for Sairat or Sai and Virat hadn't gone down but the place of discussion just changed to a different one😆.

I guess all the parties are happy i.e both solos and shippers to get a platform different than the forum where they can Express their views.

Moreover current status of Forum is useless for shippers who'll be thrown indirects and counter posts and humiliated to the point of leaving the forum wasting energy of both the shippers and solos so it's better to maintain peace without indulging in their work😆.

P.S. I don't entertain indirects, so better Directly quote me ya tag me.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I understand ...even I have been tagged as Sai's fan.. And ardent fan. However I say what I feel irrespective of being given 100s of tags. Now I dont say, Virat is blindly supported. I do feel targetted when I present a perspective here and see posts mentioning Sai is supported 'blindly'. Also recently I see if Virat is not seen in a positive angle , one is called biased and anyone who brings this perspective is called unbiased... Recently a member who was speaking from Virat's behalf for a very very long time was called unbiased till the member went anti seeing the locking kaand and his behaviour afterwards.. The member was immediately a biased one. Things happen both ways and not particularly for Sai...So yeah.

I will leave the forum when I want to not because I allowed someone to mock me or hinder my peace.. 😊 Every forum has difference of opinions.. There are multiple people so views would be multiple as well.. In fact a single person can have multiple views on the same topic. Forum is all about agreements and disagreements. In any case if you guys feel targeted feel free to report. 😊

However this topic was also about how there are hardly any discussions about Sai-Virat meeting each other unlike previous times..... This was more emotional and better performed than the last accident one. It was better in all departments and yet "sabka man uth gaya hai". The CVs have destroyed the essence of almost all the characters and the show.

Something on the same lines ...I am called anti Virat .

I also dislike it when actors say it's grey when it's toxic

But I try and maintain my level of decency( , I hope so) ..I have seen a severe side of it with broken bones in reality and have seen many cases in my support group so my stand may sometimes come across harsh.

I have reduced my time on the forum so as to not let my emo colour the serial ...

But then it is my perspective and people are free to disagree with me ..

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Something on the same lines ...I am called anti Virat .

I also dislike it when actors say it's grey when it's toxic

But I try and maintain my level of decency( , I hope so) ..I have seen a severe side of it with broken bones in reality and have seen many cases in my support group so my stand may sometimes come across harsh.

But then it is my perspective and people are free to disagree with me ..

I understand .. I know a lot of people who have been attacked for being 'so called feminist' here . The word feminist is a joke and is laughed upon or called upon many times....Here in this case unfortunately the ML has been more wrong and has treaded towards being inhuman, not once but many times. The same forum and the same set of 'feminists' have shown their understanding and immense faith in Virat when he committed it the first time out of anger. However one cannot show the same degree of faith everytime the it keeps coming up. Sorry loses its value. You know there is a reason why we would be told by our elders, Dont say sorry but feel it, if you feel it, you wont repeat it.

I see a lot of women coming out on this forum, including and talking about how a man like Virat have done to them. You know Virat in general is realistic because he is loving most of the days and turns inhuman some days...But those some days are not worth the love. Another member who works with orphans has also talked about how they at the age of 18-19 feel about life and gets really irritated with how Virat has been shown in the show recently. She is also the one who has been giving him a benefit of doubt, for a while now!

I have personally interacted with a lot of women to know they have such men in life, who lose their semblance at times and assault them for that small duration... Its a dangerous cycle.

I do see a post where Virat is praised and Sai criticised being called unbiased.😊 Happening more in case of Virat recently because he did cross all his lines recently. There is not much to defend him, even from people who have been writing analysis...

I have a lot of friends who have just gone away, not because forum does not welcome different opinion or because they felt targeted, but because they have been particularly disappointed with show...There is a large section of this lot too....Hence the post.

You lose faith in one of the protagonist, what is there to talk about anyway. Ofcourse Sai and Virat are end games, so they would end up together...but then many dont really enjoy it because essence of the show has been compromised, for what so ever reasons..And then we all have discussed how bad the direction and editing is, so no going there...Almost half of the cast are bad actors, so again no point there...

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Not need to apologise for something you haven't done.

No No...Sorry was for the people who in this thread have been shipping Sairat and are being attacked for the same... In your case I am sure I have no hand, because we have hardly interacted.

Originally posted by: dairymilkanu

They butchered virat's character so much that given me a vibe that he will be never a one woman man certain time after confession...

Physically he will be, his dimensions of being a one woman man is limited there like many others.. Emotionally he will never be, going back what has been shown in the last one year.