Virat and Pakhi are not in an emotional affair - a different view - Page 5

Originally posted by: nikita05

She has started thinking that V now does not love for Sai, has some feelings, she can get him back by being a goody version of herself.

I'm don't think she thinks this. I think that PK is the one person, other than Sunny, who actually knows that Virat loves Sai and cares only for her, and how deep those feelings are. She has both seen it by eavesdropping and also been told multiple times directly. That is why she is always trying to tell him that Sai does not love or care for him. That being said she is delusional, but I think we would have had a monologue about this if she thought along this line. I think she is just occupied with making Virat miserable, as Shivani rightly pointed out today, and try to show fake happiness.

Originally posted by: Tiptione

I'm don't think she thinks this. I think that PK is the one person, other than Sunny, who actually knows that Virat loves Sai and cares only for her, and how deep those feelings are. She has both seen it by eavesdropping and also been told multiple times directly. That is why she is always trying to tell him that Sai does not love or care for him. That being said she is delusional, but I think we would have had a monologue about this if she thought along this line. I think she is just occupied with making Virat miserable, as Shivani rightly pointed out today, and try to show fake happiness.

Maybe you are right but she is highest level of delusional... Seeing Virat's attitude with Sai and him taking stand for her, might have increased her hopes. Yes, she wants him to remain miserable, but that too in a hope that he can return to her... Seen in her monologues many times that she wants to actually make him realise that how happy she is and what he has lost by rejecting her, by showing her fake happiness with Samrat. I am not sure of what she intends to do if by any chance, she gets to know that maybe 1% , Virat realises it (hypothetical, I know he won't), then what is her next plan of action.

Patralekha has realised that Virat was taking transfer to go away from Sai and not because of her. That's what I gauged when she 'moved her head' when Virat revealed about his reason for transfer to Samrat...

We are all stressing about Virat's emotional affair with Pakhi...A relationship starts with a respect and trust.. Both SaiRat had failed in this department.. Especially Virat looses his moral compasses when emotionally mess.. He isn't attached to Pakhi I also agree with this part..But is he totally invested himself in this relationship.. His recent antics are answer for everything the way he locked her up.. That's sums up a lot of things..

In a marriage one can't let meddling their own parents where as he has given too much leeways to his ex....He goes to her without knowing and she comes to his room without knocking....And When he celebrates his wife's birthday the very next day he would apologised to Pakhi.. Isn't it confusing 😕

As asmi pointed we are now well read and more intelligent..Girls should have the clear view about their life partners ..one should not get carried away by material love and few tears...Sai has better call than this marriage....Her aaba's dream should be her first priority..

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Patralekha has realised that Virat was taking transfer to go away from Sai and not because of her. That's what I gauged when she 'moved her head' when Virat revealed about his reason for transfer to Samrat...

I don't know, the wiring status in P's brain is weird... Her thought process is weird... She makes some non existent logics... See, if Virat was going because of her, he is affected by her relationship with Sammy, but if he does the same because of Sai, then Virat must have got tired of her zidd and attitude... Sai is making his life miserable... At this rate, Virat's feelings for her would vanish, idk. Actually, she has this narrative always in her mind that fits her story. It maybe right or wrong but it is always right in her delusional la la land...

Vaise, she moves her head a lot these days, 🤣expressions are to always incomprehensible.

I agree with a lot of your points, all of which are valid. My own view is that he has mistreated Sai, misjudged the entire situation particularly as regards allowing PK to interfere and continues to make these mistakes, but I do not agree he is emotionally cheating on Sai with PK for the reasons I gave in my initial post. His lack of realisation is his biggest character flaw because he lives with a ridiculous and warped black and white and white view that everyone moves on and believes according to what he determines and understands at a point in time. To me, he has to have those feelings or those traits bearing PK in mind, which he does not. He thinks nothing of PK and does not seek her out. Where he falls into the trap of talking to her or even seeking comfort (which he does not positively seek out) is out of his desperation and part manipulation by PK. This is compounded by the fact that PK is the only one he has honestly conveyed his feelings to and he stupidly (living in his black and white world) believes PK accepts this and understands him. It's why we get surprised reactions like yesterday when she brings up green tea - he cannot believe she has not moved past it when he has. I think the key fro me is that Virat never once, since having feelings for Sai, has ever sought PK out to talk about anything, or sought comfort from her or anything else. Where she provides that is where she has interjected herself into the situation, including at the hospital, and then seeks to tell him what he wants to hear. As an emotional Neanderthal that Virat is, where everyone misunderstands him due to his own actions, she plays that game thinking it will bring him closer to her.

You are absolutely right about emotional cheating though. In many ways it is much worse than a physical affair, not least because of the intimacy that is usually there in an emotional affair.

I have missed your daily analysis the past few days!

Originally posted by: Tiptione

I agree with a lot of your points, all of which are valid. My own view is that he has mistreated Sai, misjudged the entire situation particularly as regards allowing PK to interfere and continues to make these mistakes, but I do not agree he is emotionally cheating on Sai with PK for the reasons I gave in my initial post. His lack of realisation is his biggest character flaw because he lives with a ridiculous and warped black and white and white view that everyone moves on and believes according to what he determines and understands at a point in time. To me, he has to have those feelings or those traits bearing PK in mind, which he does not. He thinks nothing of PK and does not seek her out. Where he falls into the trap of talking to her or even seeking comfort (which he does not positively seek out) is out of his desperation and part manipulation by PK. This is compounded by the fact that PK is the only one he has honestly conveyed his feelings to and he stupidly (living in his black and white world) believes PK accepts this and understands him. It's why we get surprised reactions like yesterday when she brings up green tea - he cannot believe she has not moved past it when he has. I think the key fro me is that Virat never once, since having feelings for Sai, has ever sought PK out to talk about anything, or sought comfort from her or anything else. Where she provides that is where she has interjected herself into the situation, including at the hospital, and then seeks to tell him what he wants to hear. As an emotional Neanderthal that Virat is, where everyone misunderstands him due to his own actions, she plays that game thinking it will bring him closer to her.

You are absolutely right about emotional cheating though. In many ways it is much worse than a physical affair, not least because of the intimacy that is usually there in an emotional affair.

He did cheat her and Samrat both in the beginning emotionally..Abhi it's debatable ..as per me he is unconsciously cheating...

However ...When he hides what Pakhi feels for him...how she approaches him and goes on to present a very good image of her and wants Sai to respect her beyond her own self respect I am not sure what should that be called..

I agree with the initial days. I said that in my post that he was in an emotional affair with PK at the beginning, where he met all the traits I identified and showing someone is an emotional affair, but that is part of the reason I do not believe he is in one now, because he has moved past it. I think where he ticks those boxes now is where he is being manipulated or is just so blind as to what is happening. Even at the beginning though, I'm not sure if that could be called emotional cheating given he had no feelings for Sai and told her as much, although obviously it is just by virtue of Sai being his wife.

I am not sure what his mistakes in protecting PK should be called either. What I do think is that he is cheating his own brother, for a second time, by failing to be truthful to his. The odd thing about what he said here is that I understood in KD that Rono had told Badshah that he should ask RK what was discussed and it is a matter for them.

Originally posted by: Tiptione

I agree with the initial days. I said that in my post that he was in an emotional affair with PK at the beginning, where he met all the traits I identified and showing someone is an emotional affair, but that is part of the reason I do not believe he is in one now, because he has moved past it. I think where he ticks those boxes now is where he is being manipulated or is just so blind as to what is happening. Even at the beginning though, I'm not sure if that could be called emotional cheating given he had no feelings for Sai and told her as much, although obviously it is just by virtue of Sai being his wife.

I am not sure what his mistakes in protecting PK should be called either. What I do think is that he is cheating his own brother, for a second time, by failing to be truthful to his. The odd thing about what he said here is that I understood in KD that Rono had told Badshah that he should ask RK what was discussed and it is a matter for them.

Rono had very strictly said there is nothing from my end and I have clarified it to her.. You need go talk about RK with her.. Here he has gone ahead to place their hands on each other kindaa...

I don't want to believe he is still so dumb to get manipulated..Does not go with the character..