Envisioning V-P Relationship

The fate would be 2... Controlling wife. Post wedding, she might nag him also. All that 'jaha rakhoge, jaise rakhoge' will all be hawa once she 'attains' him.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

The fate would be 2... Controlling wife. Post wedding, she might nag him also. All that 'jaha rakhoge, jaise rakhoge' will all be hawa once she 'attains' him.

I mean these two are too similar...core values and ideals are different...

Sai-Virat are too different... But their ideals are almost same

So if Sai- Virat are toxic... V-P will be toxic too...

Originally posted by: nikita05

I mean these two are too similar...core values and ideals are different...

Sai-Virat are too different... But their ideals are almost same

So if Sai- Virat are toxic... V-P will be toxic too...

See for Patralekha, virat is now a zidd that she is hanging on to as 'love'. She claims that she understands him well but we haven't got any scene or anything that convinces us so. The day she gets together with Virat, it is going to be toxic. According to his own admission, Virat ne zindagi jee hai with Sai. After such zindagi, will he be okay with having Patralekha as his wife. It's purely my opinion - He won't.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

See for Patralekha, virat is now a zidd that she is hanging on to as 'love'. She claims that she understands him well but we haven't got any scene or anything that convinces us so. The day she gets together with Virat, it is going to be toxic. According to his own admission, Virat ne zindagi jee hai with Sai. After such zindagi, will he be okay with having Patralekha as his wife. It's purely my opinion - He won't.

I agree to all your points... Was just thinking about it due to recent happenings... If they actually had got married without knowing much about each other, as is shown in the earlier episodes... Patralekha and her parents were too eager to get her married... So Virat- Patralekha getting married in an arrange marriage set up... Now they start to know more about each other... Will she give wings to V to fly... No.... He should be only around her... No regard for his work responsibilities too.

As V said maine aur Sai ne zindagi jee hai... Will he jiyo Zindagi with P as his wife or will just carry the burden of relationship... I believe it would be latter one only...

Originally posted by: nikita05

I agree to all your points... Was just thinking about it due to recent happenings... If they actually had got married without knowing much about each other, as is shown in the earlier episodes... Patralekha and her parents were too eager to get her married... So Virat- Patralekha getting married in an arrange marriage set up... Now they start to know more about each other... Will she give wings to V to fly... No.... He should be only around her... No regard for his work responsibilities too.

As V said maine aur Sai ne zindagi jee hai... Will he jiyo Zindagi with P as his wife or will just carry the burden of relationship... I believe it would be latter one only...

Had he gotten married to Patralekha first, I believe he would have regretted it. Patralekha is chaheeti because Sai is their eyesore. Let the free and independent Patralekha try talking about going to maika or taking up a job and see the reaction of elders.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Had he gotten married to Patralekha first, I believe he would have regretted it. Patralekha is chaheeti because Sai is their eyesore. Let the free and independent Patralekha try talking about going to maika or taking up a job and see the reaction of elders.

Same, I agree with all your points... Mentioned in the main post...

A glimpse could be seen in the initial episodes after Sam's disappearance, when V was in GC, Kaku was rude with her.

You are right Virat will resign from the job and would become a sanyaasi 🤣🤣

Look Abuse is happening in that house because the members are supporting him, Pakhi is instigating him ( I am not saying he is not guilty he is but I have lived in joint for more than 20 years and still living in sort of a joint family so I know if you keep instigating a person he/she will react to that sooner or later, it’s not a justification but a fact and I am not justifying Virat because I know it was wrong) so it was something which was out of his control, you can’t even imagine how these small things affect your life and relationships, I have seen it happening so I know Virat is not the only one who is guilty, his family and Pakhi are also responsible for this. Virat was already hurt when Pakhi manipulated him so you can imagine the impact. I have seen how a loving person become so toxic with these sort of tricks that he himself won’t be able to differentiate between right and wrong. His family should have stopped him when he first time did that too Sai ( when he denied her food and many other examples) but they didn’t and they supported him, I know he is an ips and a matured man but when you are vulnerable these things doesn’t matter.

Okay mai point se bhatak gayi, point is he would not have abused Pakhi like he did with Sai because even if his family won’t ask him anything but Pakhi’s family would.

To ye cycle start hone se pehle hi ruk jayegi.

But yeah he would never be happy with Pakhi.

And you all can throw chappals on me for saying this but Sai is his only saving grace in that family (not glorifying marriages and all) Someone has mentioned here that Virat’s childhood was a disturbed one and he never knew how marriages work ( which can’t be an excuse on his behalf) but it does count and only in manipulation games and in love department I am saying that Sai can save him.

I hope Maine forum ka koi rule break na kiya ho ye sb likh ke

Originally posted by: Moonks

You are right Virat will resign from the job and would become a sanyaasi 🤣🤣

Look Abuse is happening in that house because the members are supporting him, Pakhi is instigating him ( I am not saying he is not guilty he is but I have lived in joint for more than 20 years and still living in sort of a joint family so I know if you keep instigating a person he/she will react to that sooner or later, it’s not a justification but a fact and I am not justifying Virat because I know it was wrong) so it was something which was out of his control, you can’t even imagine how these small things affect your life and relationships, I have seen it happening so I know Virat is not the only one who is guilty, his family and Pakhi are also responsible for this. Virat was already hurt when Pakhi manipulated him so you can imagine the impact. I have seen how a loving person become so toxic with these sort of tricks that he himself won’t be able to differentiate between right and wrong. His family should have stopped him when he first time did that too Sai ( when he denied her food and many other examples) but they didn’t and they supported him, I know he is an ips and a matured man but when you are vulnerable these things doesn’t matter.

Okay mai point se bhatak gayi, point is he would not have abused Pakhi like he did with Sai because even if his family won’t ask him anything but Pakhi’s family would.

To ye cycle start hone se pehle hi ruk jayegi.

But yeah he would never be happy with Pakhi.

And you all can throw chappals on me for saying this but Sai is his only saving grace in that family (not glorifying marriages and all) Someone has mentioned here that Virat’s childhood was a disturbed one and he never knew how marriages work ( which can’t be an excuse on his behalf) but it does count and only in manipulation games and in love department I am saying that Sai can save him.

I hope Maine forum ka koi rule break na kiya ho ye sb likh ke

See the main point for Virat to not even think to abuse P, in case she was his wife is that she has her parents... Even a minor inconvenience, either she is on the way to her aai-baba's home or they are at Chavan Niwas, so no one says anything to her... While for Sai, there are no limits of vileness from C-gang.

The abuse part I quoted because Virat has seen his dad ninad doing the same with his mom Ashwini... He is a product of patriarchy. So it goes subconsciously... Okay, not throwing out, but verbal abuse or physical, maybe a slap... But won't have happened because of P's aai baba... And if in a moment of loss of control he does that, he is gone...

Another thing is Sai got subjected to abuse because she was overindulgent with other family members matters and didn't care about V's feelings... Won't happen with P, she doesn't care about anyone else but herself.

Same with Sai, she too does not know how marriages work, hence the stubbornness.

Actually we are saying the same thing but not understanding each other’s word 🤣🤣