Originally posted by: laksh
For me, It wasn’t marriage but lot of other things which I felt could have kicked off their journey in the right way.
I always wanted Sai to stop Virat when he was about to leave GC when he had come to speak to her in her room. She called him since she needed him and it looked as though she wanted his emotional support at that time. Things might have been different but I don’t know.
Other than this, I wanted Virat to share about his past but not put any conditions or deal in the marriage, even keeping an option of ending it once she become a doctor.
I would have actually preferred Sai refusing to get married to him with all such conditions, and then for him to have taken Sai with him as a guardian, let her stay in CN or get her admitted in a hostel and for him to keep a check on her every now and then.
If it has to be after their marriage, even then I would have preferred for Sai to have walked out of the house after the pyaari cheez behaviour of Virat when he said he never wished that he went to GC or atleast after the chilly kaand. As you said, Sai felt some pull towards Virat anyway, Virat would have also missed Sai just like how he missed her when she moved to Usha Maushi’s room. He could have tried to make some amends after she moves out but without her returning to the house. Sometimes, we take people for granted when we get it easily and if both had to get it the hard way, both would have respected and valued each other. It would have been better if Sai had put her foot down to let him know that she wouldn’t tolerate whatever his family was doing. Virat would have been forced to do something about the treatment Sai was receiving. Also, they could have actually got to understand each other outside the house, without much of Pakhi’s interference or misunderstanding. Virat would have also been able to understand what he wants and if he really had accepted Sai as she is and if he had really wanted her in his life, he might have acted differently.
Things have changed a lot and from the recent events, I have come to a different conclusion. My views about their relationship has entirely changed.
Yes, if Virat had cleared to Sai during the Ladakh fight, it would have helped for Sai to understand him better but at the moment, I feel Virat himself needs to first realise what he wants. He should understand what Sai goes through in his house and it is not a normal thing, not something one should take it lightly. He should also understand that he cannot give so much of liberty to his ex whom he has made his friend. He first needs to understand and prioritise what he needs, whom he values the most.
Even if Virat had cleared Sai’s confusion, his attitude towards Pakhi or the way he reacts during situations would always be a problem. Without that being addressed, even if he comes clean about Pakhi to Sai, I feel that it is not going to help.
Both has to learn to respect each other and value each other. If not, their relationship is always going to be a failure or it will be a relationship where one will be always required to compromise.
