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I agree Latha . When a person is continuously hurt and is not given a chance to heal his wounds , he will turn bitter . Virat feels restricted so he venta out where ever possible . The problem is the makers have normalized abuse against men , trivialized man’s pain for farming sympathy for the female lead . This is a pattern seen in almost all ITV shows . I haven’t learnt my mistakes after kuch rang to expect anything different

Originally posted by: JoonaMohalla

totally agree.

They are fictional characters and all but I wish they are not presented in a cliche way.

Bold: Exactly. He is expected to be happy that she got his transfer cancelled.

But ultimately, he's not the female lead😆

On a serious note, I have a simple wish for characters or any tv show honestly that it is treated as a slice of Life and that its characters are close to humane characteristics and they get treated in the same way. I am reminded of Hasratein, the story of various characters but ultimately about the other woman of the relationship who chooses to break her own marriage and leave her son behind and stay in a live in relationship with her boyfriend, a married man with kids. I didn't watch the complete show but whatever I saw, she was both a victim of the circumstances and the perpetrator. She was wronged and she wronged others too. Totally a human character. You can hate her for her faults and wrongs that she did and feel bad for her too. It wasn't like everyone was singing praises of her in the show. She was called out for her actions too. Her husband whom she left was shown as a male chauvinist but you can see him as a normal man and feel bad for him too.

How they treated her ultimately, I have no clue, did they also make her the ultimate victim, I'm not sure😆

What's going on. I started with something and then went back to my rant😆

Mujhe kuch ho gaya hai pakka🤣

Back to the post, the track could've been much better, if it was handled better. What Virat is feeling is very normal, but ultimately they have an agenda and that agenda is bigger than Virat😆if the track was not tilted towards Sai, it could've been a beautiful realisation track.

Virat gets transferred.

Sai misses him.

She questions her own feelings.

Craves for his love and care.

All of a sudden starts thinking about what he's doing. And then questions herself about it.

Every Phone call makes her excited and then disappointment creeps in when she doesn't recognise the voice on the phone.

Every ring of the door bell gets her on her heels running towards the door but the happiness paves way for tears as she sees someone else's face and his smiling face emerges from her heart.

Every thing in the room reminds her of him that she touches and tries to get a feel of him, his proximity, in the bamboo he didn't take with him, in the bangles she caresses while dressing up before the dressing table, in the bedsheet as she lies down looking at her palms through which he ate those ladoos and his eyes fell hovering over hers.

But alas! What they chose to do🤔

Another long post. Kya hu main bhi

But please don't throw me out guys😳

@Bold This is the exactly what I was feeling but was unable to articulate in the right way . This track was about realization and such scenes would have made sense

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Here enter charming ,Devdas Chavan

https://twitter.com/thewinnie_poohh/status/1443195514946678788?s=20

Originally posted by: JoonaMohalla

Limelight:

I wonder if there are only two methods to stay in the limelight. These two are

1. Victim.

2. Slay.

There is a species called the female lead who get both these things to stay in the limelight. First, they are shown to be the victim. Even in the circumstances, where they were in the wrong, end up being the ultimate victim (by distorting facts, hiding facts, and going out of the way to prove them the victim). Another way is through those slaying moments in which they get awesome dialogues (sometimes Mata Rani ka tandav background music and sometimes Mata Rani ka weapon too, only where they have to murder someone). In those moments, someone (character) gets sacrificed (butchered).

To make the heroine the ultimate victim:

1. Her faults and flaws will be covered.

2. She will get tortured.

3. Another character will be sacrificed.

4. The other character will be given all the advices, warnings and ultimately they all will be proven right.

5. If another character is getting sympathy, they will play the circumstances in a way that the situation reverses in a way that establishes her as the victim.

Sai is example. (Virat got butchered)

Imlie is example. (Malini got butchered)

Vividha is example (The whole army family got butchered)

And so on and so forth.

I'll talk only about Sai.

1. She never realised, nor will she ever realise what she did wrong. Makers will pile up all the wrongs done to her over the wrongs that she did. If they haven't already.

2. Sai got locked up in the room.

3. In this case, Virat got butchered badly despite him being the one wronged.

4. "Tu pachtayega Veeru" Devyani says. And only he will regret. Because female leads don't regret. Cause they are always right🤪

5. Virat could get limelight and sympathy both through the transfer. So his transfer got cancelled and Sai is getting the 'tool for sympathy' sorry transfer😆

I could've said that Sai wanted to be thought of as the right one hence she cancelled his transfer and decided to take a transfer herself😆and in real life many people are like that. But I know the truth.

It is the makers. They can't give a different heroine. Every heroine has to pass the ultimate victim and I-am-always-right criteria🤔so that she can stay in the limelight.

And this is the fate of other characters. If they side with the female lead, they are right and loved. If they don't, they are hated. So the only way to get limelight in the show is to side with the female lead.

Congratulations, if you read this long post😆

Sorry, because andar bhara pada tha😆

Finally I can breathe🤣

Now if I'm judged here, I'll run away from here as well Nitu and Deepu🤣

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

no one will judge you … we are all here to discuss our thoughts freely . I agree with you and I am feeling terrible knowing it’s not just me but others also feel Virat is not getting his dues so it’s true not just my imagination.

Neilsha ..300 Episode celebration

https://twitter.com/sairatlove/status/1443259411212816385?s=20

Awesome Neilsha

https://twitter.com/Shanthi39803806/status/1443259752067198979?s=20

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Neilsha ..300 Episode celebration

https://twitter.com/sairatlove/status/1443259411212816385?s=20

People who say Neil avoids Ayesha and doesn’t include her in his group should see this . He was the one who initiated the pic and was not giving her a cold shoulder like people accuse him of . People will still find ways to bash him . That’s why I don’t take them seriously I know no matter what it’s is bash Neil .

Having said that I am very tolerant towards Neil Aish’s personal life and I usually dont find any faults if they hang out together but here I felt it was odd that Aish was not leaving Neil and always had her arm around him even when he was clicking pics , giving interviews .

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Awesome Neilsha

https://twitter.com/Shanthi39803806/status/1443259752067198979?s=20

Nitu

Like you I never believed in six feet distance. I strongly believe that Neilsha have great bonding off screen. But unnecessarily Neil is targeted as if he is averse to Ayeshu. They have comfort and understanding clearly visible in all these.pictures but you know purposely they avoid sharing these in SM thread. I hope you understand.

I am happy you observed how Aiswarya held his hand through out. Nothing more to say. I studied her so well and by now got a clear picture. God save Neil.