PandyaStore|Episode Discussion 97|Aur Fir Chal Diye Tum Kaha Hum Kahan - Page 37

Originally posted by: _charu_

Yes. Shiva raavi already in court. Dev gombi etc might come to court for krishs bail. And bhabhi ma may drag the brothel people to court pitai kar karke. So there will be a family reunion in court.

Ps. I chose to skip today's epi . Nai dekhna bakwas subah subah🤢

acha kia… even I didn’t see … just ff it to see the precap…but wo b disappointing hi ta… I did not see any elaborated set up of a brothel…so I guess she will be saved before anything happened…the guy who noticed Dhara might have seen number plate as well…

Actually come to think of it.. tomorrow’s episode can go two ways…

1. they capture janardan who discloses that krish is in jail and he doesn’t know Dhara’s whereabouts…

2. they go to police station to file a complaint and see krish there and get to know janardan did it.. enraged go and beat janardan…

jo b ho action sequence milne wala h…

honestly though… ye kirane walo ka dukh khatam kyu ni hota…. 🤣

Can't find the original post anymore, but it was about Shiny thinking the audience liked Shiva and Raavi's love story, hence she wants Dhara and Gautam's love story to be aired. I wish I could tell Shiny that no... I like Shiva and Raavi not for their love story, but for their personalities. Always have, and always will. I've always believed you, as a person, are greater than the love story you have. If you believe in yourself, you're love story will be that much sweeter.

Shiva is a man who is completely selfless. He will always put others before him regardless of the pain he will have to endure. We saw this when he accepted to marry Raavi because Dhara's smile and reputation mattered more, we saw this when he took whatever insults he did during the separation track because Raavi's happiness mattered more, we saw this when he stepped forward to protect Krish from all the beating because Krish didn't deserve that at all, we saw that when we learned how he gave up his education for his family's happiness. He's much more than just Raavi's husband or Gautam Pandya's younger brother. He is Shiva Pandya. He is an emotion, a soul, an inspiration of what we can all achieve. Yes, he is not perfect, but that's what makes him all the more relatable. His anger connects us and grounds us. His childish mischief is what enthralls us. All in all, he is the best written out character in all of Pandya Store.

Now, moving onto Raavi. She is a woman who is equally as selfless as Shiva, just, her selflessness is shown in different ways. Like Shiva, she put aside her emotions and married a man she hated because of her Mausa-Pa. She had extended love and smiles to every single being she crossed... because they deserved it. She fought just so her greatest enemy could be well fed in her childhood. She encouraged Rishita as she was getting a job, and instead of feeling jealous or tired that she will have to take over more of the chores, she smiled with happiness and pride that her family was actually achieving something! Yes, we may not get dialogues from her, but at least we can see the emotion through her eyes. The only human being who ever saw her hate is Shiva... and that is because Shiva has entered a special part of her heart that no one else has entered. He's able to bring out a side of her that she's hidden from everyone in this world... he's able to complete her while telling her that anger is not wrong.

I love Shiva and Raavi not because of the "romantic" moments they share. [Quite honestly, if I wanted romance, I would not be watching Pandya Store, as there are many American/Korean/Chinese/Thai/Turkish shows with better romance stories] Rather I like them for who they are. I root for them because of the way they complete each other. Raavi is the only one in this world who can give the same selfless love Shiva has given others, and Shiva is the only one in this world who can heal Raavi from the pain she endured. They are each other's yin and yang. I would much rather see Shiva and Raavi just sitting in a room and talking, gazing at the moon in wonder as they catch glimpses of each other with a smile, or even calling each other in the middle of the day just to hear each other's voices. I would much rather see Shiva and Raavi doing mundane things like Raavi folding Shiva's clothes and commenting how she needs to buy him a new shirt or Shiva walking back home and seeing jalebi and buying jalebi because he knows how much Raavi loves it. That's what many normal couples do. They have a silent form of respect and understanding for each other...

Gautam and Dhara, quite honestly, are not that sophisticated in terms of their characters. Because of the leap, I'm not quite sure exactly what sacrifices they made. Yes, they had the burden of raising three children; but, while raising those children, they were still able to live a life of their own. Gautam finished his education (unlike Shiva). Dhara had all of Gautam's love directed on her (unlike Raavi). Dhara had 3 understanding brothers-in-law who are willing to change themselves just so she wouldn't have to be hurt. Yes, they delayed a pregnancy... but Dhara is not old. She is just 29. Many women nowadays have children after Dhara (even I want to wait until my mid-thirties), so age cannot be a factor for her misery. And Gautam, other than being the nice, caring husband and older brother, who is he? His character is so vastly underdeveloped... which is why when I see Gautam and Dhara's romance (forget their PDA because I hate PDA), I don't feel anything. What barriers did they overcome? What struggles defined their relationship? Nothing...

So, if Shiny truly wants greater screen space, the first thing she should ask for is character development. Not romance. Have flashback scenes if you must, of the time Dhara missed out on a personal "dream" because she had to take care of 3 children. Have flashback scenes of how Dhara was "mocked" by society for being motherless, and how Gautam supported her afterwards to prevent the hatred. Romance is meaningless unless you know the emotions that led up to it. The most intoxicating of romance stories is when you personally root for a couple... where their happiness is your happiness... and that's because you feel as though you know them.

This is my all time favorite scene… especially Shiva’s reaction….🤣

https://www.instagram.com/p/CUAR4X2FPIY/?utm_medium=copy_link

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

Can't find the original post anymore, but it was about Shiny thinking the audience liked Shiva and Raavi's love story, hence she wants Dhara and Gautam's love story to be aired. I wish I could tell Shiny that no... I like Shiva and Raavi not for their love story, but for their personalities. Always have, and always will. I've always believed you, as a person, are greater than the love story you have. If you believe in yourself, you're love story will be that much sweeter.

Shiva is a man who is completely selfless. He will always put others before him regardless of the pain he will have to endure. We saw this when he accepted to marry Raavi because Dhara's smile and reputation mattered more, we saw this when he took whatever insults he did during the separation track because Raavi's happiness mattered more, we saw this when he stepped forward to protect Krish from all the beating because Krish didn't deserve that at all, we saw that when we learned how he gave up his education for his family's happiness. He's much more than just Raavi's husband or Gautam Pandya's younger brother. He is Shiva Pandya. He is an emotion, a soul, an inspiration of what we can all achieve. Yes, he is not perfect, but that's what makes him all the more relatable. His anger connects us and grounds us. His childish mischief is what enthralls us. All in all, he is the best written out character in all of Pandya Store.

Now, moving onto Raavi. She is a woman who is equally as selfless as Shiva, just, her selflessness is shown in different ways. Like Shiva, she put aside her emotions and married a man she hated because of her Mausa-Pa. She had extended love and smiles to every single being she crossed... because they deserved it. She fought just so her greatest enemy could be well fed in her childhood. She encouraged Rishita as she was getting a job, and instead of feeling jealous or tired that she will have to take over more of the chores, she smiled with happiness and pride that her family was actually achieving something! Yes, we may not get dialogues from her, but at least we can see the emotion through her eyes. The only human being who ever saw her hate is Shiva... and that is because Shiva has entered a special part of her heart that no one else has entered. He's able to bring out a side of her that she's hidden from everyone in this world... he's able to complete her while telling her that anger is not wrong.

I love Shiva and Raavi not because of the "romantic" moments they share. [Quite honestly, if I wanted romance, I would not be watching Pandya Store, as there are many American/Korean/Chinese/Thai/Turkish shows with better romance stories] Rather I like them for who they are. I root for them because of the way they complete each other. Raavi is the only one in this world who can give the same selfless love Shiva has given others, and Shiva is the only one in this world who can heal Raavi from the pain she endured. They are each other's yin and yang. I would much rather see Shiva and Raavi just sitting in a room and talking, gazing at the moon in wonder as they catch glimpses of each other with a smile, or even calling each other in the middle of the day just to hear each other's voices. I would much rather see Shiva and Raavi doing mundane things like Raavi folding Shiva's clothes and commenting how she needs to buy him a new shirt or Shiva walking back home and seeing jalebi and buying jalebi because he knows how much Raavi loves it. That's what many normal couples do. They have a silent form of respect and understanding for each other...

Gautam and Dhara, quite honestly, are not that sophisticated in terms of their characters. Because of the leap, I'm not quite sure exactly what sacrifices they made. Yes, they had the burden of raising three children; but, while raising those children, they were still able to live a life of their own. Gautam finished his education (unlike Shiva). Dhara had all of Gautam's love directed on her (unlike Raavi). Dhara had 3 understanding brothers-in-law who are willing to change themselves just so she wouldn't have to be hurt. Yes, they delayed a pregnancy... but Dhara is not old. She is just 29. Many women nowadays have children after Dhara (even I want to wait until my mid-thirties), so age cannot be a factor for her misery. And Gautam, other than being the nice, caring husband and older brother, who is he? His character is so vastly underdeveloped... which is why when I see Gautam and Dhara's romance (forget their PDA because I hate PDA), I don't feel anything. What barriers did they overcome? What struggles defined their relationship? Nothing...

So, if Shiny truly wants greater screen space, the first thing she should ask for is character development. Not romance. Have flashback scenes if you must, of the time Dhara missed out on a personal "dream" because she had to take care of 3 children. Have flashback scenes of how Dhara was "mocked" by society for being motherless, and how Gautam supported her afterwards to prevent the hatred. Romance is meaningless unless you know the emotions that led up to it. The most intoxicating of romance stories is when you personally root for a couple... where their happiness is your happiness... and that's because you feel as though you know them.

Avi this is so true and agree with you.

I just commented on KD's IF post about the celebration of 200 episodes. I know what I signed up for, its an ensemble cast. I have been watching the OG for the past 3 years and know each and every character, how they act and react and what importance each one gets , including the side characters.

I expect something from each couple.

I am not looking for PDA and romance in GauRa, instead I am looking for them to solve family issues, how to bring them all together and keep the family intact, grow their business, in the process they also start a family and cherish being parents. That is exactly what Murthy and Dhanam are doing in the OG.

As for DevTa, I am looking for a couple who had love marriage, their adjustment issues from both sides. how successful they can be in their careers at the same time be part of the family, contribute to their betterment. This is exactly what Jeeva and Meena are doing in the OG.

As for ShiVi, I am looking for a couple who in million years thought would never wind up together but fate/destiny brought them together and see their love for each other develop and progress. This is exactly what Kathir and Mullai are doing in the OG

I think all the actors have understood except one person and It is not that hard. If you want importance to only your character, then this is not the right show for you.

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

How will Raavi feel jealous if shiva's future second wife is not more beautiful than her? 😆

because once Raavi said “khud ko dekha h.. pura somnath janta h mujh jaisi ldki tuje tere sapno k sapno me b ni milti..”

I know it doesn’t make sense but I guess Suman is trying to prove a point that Shiva is no less than anyone else and since Raavi always claimed to be the most beautiful girl of somnath … she wanted a more beautiful girl

than her…

Raavi apart from being beautiful loves the family dearly that she conveniently forgot while searching a girl for Shiva … sirf beauty wala point yaad rha use…

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

Can't find the original post anymore, but it was about Shiny thinking the audience liked Shiva and Raavi's love story, hence she wants Dhara and Gautam's love story to be aired. I wish I could tell Shiny that no... I like Shiva and Raavi not for their love story, but for their personalities. Always have, and always will. I've always believed you, as a person, are greater than the love story you have. If you believe in yourself, you're love story will be that much sweeter.

Shiva is a man who is completely selfless. He will always put others before him regardless of the pain he will have to endure. We saw this when he accepted to marry Raavi because Dhara's smile and reputation mattered more, we saw this when he took whatever insults he did during the separation track because Raavi's happiness mattered more, we saw this when he stepped forward to protect Krish from all the beating because Krish didn't deserve that at all, we saw that when we learned how he gave up his education for his family's happiness. He's much more than just Raavi's husband or Gautam Pandya's younger brother. He is Shiva Pandya. He is an emotion, a soul, an inspiration of what we can all achieve. Yes, he is not perfect, but that's what makes him all the more relatable. His anger connects us and grounds us. His childish mischief is what enthralls us. All in all, he is the best written out character in all of Pandya Store.

Now, moving onto Raavi. She is a woman who is equally as selfless as Shiva, just, her selflessness is shown in different ways. Like Shiva, she put aside her emotions and married a man she hated because of her Mausa-Pa. She had extended love and smiles to every single being she crossed... because they deserved it. She fought just so her greatest enemy could be well fed in her childhood. She encouraged Rishita as she was getting a job, and instead of feeling jealous or tired that she will have to take over more of the chores, she smiled with happiness and pride that her family was actually achieving something! Yes, we may not get dialogues from her, but at least we can see the emotion through her eyes. The only human being who ever saw her hate is Shiva... and that is because Shiva has entered a special part of her heart that no one else has entered. He's able to bring out a side of her that she's hidden from everyone in this world... he's able to complete her while telling her that anger is not wrong.

I love Shiva and Raavi not because of the "romantic" moments they share. [Quite honestly, if I wanted romance, I would not be watching Pandya Store, as there are many American/Korean/Chinese/Thai/Turkish shows with better romance stories] Rather I like them for who they are. I root for them because of the way they complete each other. Raavi is the only one in this world who can give the same selfless love Shiva has given others, and Shiva is the only one in this world who can heal Raavi from the pain she endured. They are each other's yin and yang. I would much rather see Shiva and Raavi just sitting in a room and talking, gazing at the moon in wonder as they catch glimpses of each other with a smile, or even calling each other in the middle of the day just to hear each other's voices. I would much rather see Shiva and Raavi doing mundane things like Raavi folding Shiva's clothes and commenting how she needs to buy him a new shirt or Shiva walking back home and seeing jalebi and buying jalebi because he knows how much Raavi loves it. That's what many normal couples do. They have a silent form of respect and understanding for each other...

Gautam and Dhara, quite honestly, are not that sophisticated in terms of their characters. Because of the leap, I'm not quite sure exactly what sacrifices they made. Yes, they had the burden of raising three children; but, while raising those children, they were still able to live a life of their own. Gautam finished his education (unlike Shiva). Dhara had all of Gautam's love directed on her (unlike Raavi). Dhara had 3 understanding brothers-in-law who are willing to change themselves just so she wouldn't have to be hurt. Yes, they delayed a pregnancy... but Dhara is not old. She is just 29. Many women nowadays have children after Dhara (even I want to wait until my mid-thirties), so age cannot be a factor for her misery. And Gautam, other than being the nice, caring husband and older brother, who is he? His character is so vastly underdeveloped... which is why when I see Gautam and Dhara's romance (forget their PDA because I hate PDA), I don't feel anything. What barriers did they overcome? What struggles defined their relationship? Nothing...

So, if Shiny truly wants greater screen space, the first thing she should ask for is character development. Not romance. Have flashback scenes if you must, of the time Dhara missed out on a personal "dream" because she had to take care of 3 children. Have flashback scenes of how Dhara was "mocked" by society for being motherless, and how Gautam supported her afterwards to prevent the hatred. Romance is meaningless unless you know the emotions that led up to it. The most intoxicating of romance stories is when you personally root for a couple... where their happiness is your happiness... and that's because you feel as though you know them.

Whatever u hav written is amazing I feel the same...

The thing what I hate makers doesn't execute the track of shivi properly everytime is abrupt ... Everytime something is missing...

Coming to bhabhi oriented I feel parde ke peeche ka jhol..

Giving incomplete shivi are nailing it... Makers knowing their potential n storyline as well hw cn they ignore...

ok few things, can someone clarify this as I haven’t watched the full episode:

Suman said that Dhara will not go without telling you if she hasn’t taken phone along with her…to which Raavi replied that she has gone to her massi’s house for sometime..

and then she explained why she went there…

Now I am more confused… either it’s editing problem or Raavi forgot to tell the complete thing… because as per Raavi she went to get the bike along with Krish… so when she came back… Krish was just leaving with Kirti.. after that she came back inside

so krish and Janardan encounters happened after that…and Janardan calls Gautam phone which is picked up by Dhara…and Dhara called Raavi and did not find her and ran…

Raavi searched for Dhara… and could not find her… so why She told Suman that Dhara left when she wasn’t around… am I missing something?

Originally posted by: frnd_ship

Bhagte bhagte road pe someone called her per usne badhawashi main nhi suna

And then she faints in front of a car jisme se ek aunty aati h aur dhara ko leke jati h

Later on pata chalta h wo ko the wali h according to her she is happy ki dhara uski gadi k aage behosh hui as she is a naya Maal ye wo kisi ko phn pe bta rahi hoti h ki

I think her happiness will be short lived once she gets to know that Dhara is pregnant and she will dump her back on the road … and that is why Gaumbi is running holding dhara in arm… because this is so random.. no body in their dreams could guess she is picked up by a pimp…

https://www.instagram.com/p/CUXV3BFq1Nb/?utm_medium=copy_link

ye konsa navratri/garba outfit h?

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

ok few things, can someone clarify this as I haven’t watched the full episode:

Suman said that Dhara will not go without telling you if she hasn’t taken phone along with her…to which Raavi replied that she has gone to her massi’s house for sometime..

and then she explained why she went there…

Now I am more confused… either it’s editing problem or Raavi forgot to tell the complete thing… because as per Raavi she went to get the bike along with Krish… so when she came back… Krish was just leaving with Kirti.. after that she came back inside

so krish and Janardan encounters happened after that…and Janardan calls Gautam phone which is picked up by Dhara…and Dhara called Raavi and did not find her and ran…

Raavi searched for Dhara… and could not find her… so why She told Suman that Dhara left when she wasn’t around… am I missing something?

Raavi came home later, she did not come immediately with Krish. She sent Krish back home to pick up Keerti. At that time Dhara was alone at home. Suman was at Kanta Kaki's house. By the time Raavi came back, Dhara got a call from Janu and she left immediately, she did call out for Raavi and Suman, since both were not there, she just left without informing anyone.

What if Gautam's phone was with her. She could have called Shiva, right? He has his phone.