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Posted: 4 years ago
#31

This is what even I was talking about when cousins extended fam and young friends talk down about Sai despite seeing my live example what else can i say ? They say mine was a one off case and vir is redeemable what they don't understand it's just ITV in reality it's sad and toxic 😢

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Clois_semperanc


It's depressing isn't it, the reaction of some people to the toxicity shown onscreen. Go though the comments of some videos of daily Ghum episodes on IG, you can see plenty of girls/ married women calling out Sai for not being submissive to Virat, for always fighting with him and not accepting his love. I feel sad that being a girl they can't understand someone like Sai and why she does what she does. Heck I even saw a comment on the day she was locked asking why Sai does so much drama why couldn't she just have stayed in her room? They blamed Sai for aggregating the situation but not one bad thing was said for Virat. For them what he does in normal behavior cuz Sai is badtameez and stubborn. They don't see it as abuse.

Even when Pakhi came into their room and started the drama, they called Sai out for always starting drama and not staying silent. I can't for the life of me figure out how and why people who watch this show have such vastly different interpretations of what goes on in the show. Yes Sai is stubborn she has done many faults but what Virat does is called abuse and he does it solely out of her rejection of him. And people being completely oblivious to Sai's pain is beyond me.

Even media portals call Sai badtameez and sees her every action as wrong, they see Ashwini as wrong for supporting her DIL. But not once would they name Pakhi as shameless or Virat as abuser. Are we watching a different show here in some parallel universe?


Even I hated the maharaani comment but I thought people here will defend it saying even Sai called Virat worse stuff like that sailing in two boat thing. But what I didn't like is him using those same words Kaku and Pakhi uses with so much venom in their hearts towards Sai.


i am reading so many comments on how what the relationship is today...how Virat is today is only because of Sai and her brash nature...her impulsiveness...her not cutting the cake and accepting his love... How wrong it is to blame someone else for how they conduct themselves...Sai hurt him gives him the license to abuse her, to harass her...to may be even kill her and then regret saying it was she who made him into this person..

Just yesterday on some thread I talked about what a counsellor said when a couple married for 10 years went for some counselling...The couple(both husband and wife) said I have never been this way, the other person brings out the worst in me..Makes me angry beyond control...And the counsellor said , no its not the other person bringing it out a version that you are not..This is you, the hidden you, the real you and you need to keep a check on that version of you..That version needs to be counselled...You need a counselling for that version...It just takes things not going for some time as per you to bring this "you" out of the other "you"....No other person is responsible....

I am sure this is Indian TV and all such things would be brushed under Virat crying unconsolably and Sairat having a confession...But the matter remains...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

He himself has been pampered and he makes a lot of mistakes or rather crimes, is it okay for him to hear he does not deserve the love the pampering he is given at Chavan Niwas.. Partners can have issues, but bringing in the parents , I always have issues with that...Virat manhandled Sai too many times, does she tells him if this is what he learnt from his father...If after her father has abused her she has respected him that much...

So true !!

Bringing parents btw the fight is not cool !!

Khud toh raja babu hai

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

And today also Sai is being blamed for not respecting Raja Babu.. taking him for granted and comparing him with Aaba..

Haan naa , she is not respecting Raja babu by apologizing to him immediately from walking away from zillat when his bff was taunting her. Isn't it disrespectful to her, infact I say she should apologize to his bff also

Edited by Rdigest - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Today sai said the things which I always wanted her to say.

1) Had my aaba was alive he would never let me go through this. He would never want me to live with a person who don't love & respect me.

2) U don't deserve to take my aaba name. My aaba has morals, principals in his life which you ever can't.

3) Meet psychiatrist for ur anger management.

I very well know sai will end up with this man because of itv typical rules. But I always admire the way she shows him mirror whenever he tries to control her.

Virat became insane now. He has problem with everything literally everything sai does. She smiled at ritual for aai sake, she left the place silently when pakhi started taunting her. Still he has problem with it. He is literally searching for reasons to shout at her because she is not being the way he wanted. His male ego overpowered his human side.

At last sai said she & virat don't have any relationship. Yesterday, today and tomorrow. She said something which will hit him hard. She don't know that but him going away without countering her statement shows it. He himself asked for it. He seriously behaved like a typical chavan today.

Waiting for accident track. Can't see this virat anymore. He disgusts me now. Yesterday I was happy with his character. Today again he went back to his worst self.

Virat had no right to take Aabas name when he himself is brought up in a toxic environment and taunting torturing the her for anything and everything. Point 1 , I have only seen clips on SM but man I had tears in my eyes when Sai said this, how hurt and lonely must she be feeling😭. Virat has become heartless and evil like his family and his bff.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rdigest

Haan naa , she is not respecting Raja babu by apologizing to him immediately from walking away from zillat when his bff was taunting her. Isn't it disrespectful to her, infact I say she should apologize to his bff also

The marriage is at this stage, because Sai rejected Virat's anniversary celebrations and hurt him woth her words..If she valued him, considered him , respected him, understood his love they would be happy today...Virat would not be so angry...

Soon she will get into an accident, want Virat to take care of her...Virat would take care of her and she will realise her love...

Edited by asmi_joya - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rdigest

Virat had no right to take Aabas name when he himself is brought up in a toxic environment and taunting torturing the her for anything and everything. Point 1 , I have only seen clips on SM but man I had tears in my eyes when Sai said this, how hurt and lonely must she be feeling😭. Virat has become heartless and evil like his family and his bff.

Today he talked with sai the same way his toxic family talks with her. He is showing his real worst side.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

The marriage is at this stage, because Sai rejected Virat's anniversary celebrations and hurt him woth her words..If she valued him, considered him , respected him, understood his love they would be happy today...Virat would not be so angry...

Soon she will get into and accident, want Virat to take care of her...Virat would take care of her and she will realise her love...

See I don't deny Sai was rude during his anniversary celebration, but why should she celebrate something which she still thinks is a deal🤔. I know Sai should have said things little calmly but this doesn't give Virat the right to keep insulting her and also stand their watching his family and bff insult her.


I don't even want to talk about the accident track yaar they are ruining Virat so much that I am not even looking forward to accident track. I want him to repent for what he has done first and what damage he caused her, go to therapy which he badly needs.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

The marriage is at this stage, because Sai rejected Virat's anniversary celebrations and hurt him woth her words..If she valued him, considered him , respected him, understood his love they would be happy today...Virat would not be so angry...

Soon she will get into and accident, want Virat to take care of her...Virat would take care of her and she will realise her love...

The marriage is at this stage because raja babu gave essay to sai about his epic vaada on their marriage day. How convinient to blame other character to cover our raja babu harkate👌.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rdigest

See I don't deny Sai was rude during his anniversary celebration, but why should she celebrate something which she still thinks is a deal🤔. I know Sai should have said things little calmly but this doesn't give Virat the right to keep insulting her and also stand their watching his family and bff insult her.


I don't even want to talk about the accident track yaar they are ruining Virat so much that I am not even looking forward to accident track. I want him to repent for what he has done first and what damage he caused her, go to therapy which he badly needs.

Exactly... I had more issues with her saying Samrat's return has unsettled him... But blaming someone else for the person you turn out to be is shamelessness at its peak.. Virat keeps doing that..

Edited by asmi_joya - 4 years ago

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