SidNaaz Unlimited cc 81 ~~~ Beautiful journey - Page 47

It's so strange. Every rumor about them is turning out to be true.. despite so much scrutiny, they had managed to keep so much under wraps, it's incredible..

Originally posted by: Uma2010

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That said, the larger question is as educated people, are/were we being defeatist, vicarious and escapist alone in following them or have we allowed them to be transformative in our lives?

The values Sidnaaz convey/ed cannot be encapsulated in a page. They were intensely in love, had major hurdles and challenges within the house, they had their tiffs, did major adjustments and compromises and still stood like a rock for each other. They shouted family values from the rooftops by just being themselves.

Are we being cowards by just enjoying them vicariously or do we have the guts to take the risk and jump in and deal with our life/relationships similarly? Take the bull by the horns, and live life Sidnaaz size I would say. Do not hold back, make compromises, but don’t take anything lying down, resolve your issues at the end of the day as Sidharth reminded us multiple times and showed us too, and challenge yourself like he did. Be a model professional, child, sibling, partner, friend and associate. And most importantly, show self-love.

We shall all miss Sidnaaz and Sidharth, but the real love we can show for Sidharth and Shehnaz and Sidnaaz is to live life like they did, opening ourselves to new experiences, taking the risk while keeping yourself sane and safe, finding good opportunities and then working on them in the best manner possible, and living a real life in real time than a virtual life on borrowed lives of others. No offense, coz it applies to every single one of us in various proportions.

And when you do take those tiny steps forward, report here 🙂

Just my 2 cents ❤️🙏

So beautifully said Uma. Do you know how fiercely Sidharth’s stance of building a character rather an image has impacted my life? I have started letting go of so many situations and things when before I’d have stopped and pondered over them or maybe have indulged in foolish contentions. It makes you so confident and calm to know that what you are doing is right in your morals and everything else is just details.

The romance was profound, yes. But how many of us in real life will be able to sustain such a deep and hard driving love? So why not take away from it what we really can? Like Meenakshi ji said, not many could recognise what cosmic interplay of souls it was.

Originally posted by: Camlin

So beautifully said Uma. Do you know how fiercely Sidharth’s stance of building a character rather an image has impacted my life? I have started letting go of so many situations and things when before I’d have stopped and pondered over them or maybe have indulged in foolish contentions. It makes you so confident and calm to know that what you are doing is right in your morals and everything else is just details.

The romance was profound, yes. But how many of us in real life will be able to sustain such a deep and hard driving love? So why not take away from it what we really can? Like Meenakshi ji said, not many could recognise what cosmic interplay of souls it was.

It was Cosmic !!! And cosmic energies and the divinity of the universe are not easy for mortals to handle. Even for those who are spiritually inclined or awakened.

Its is a blinding light , extreme force kind of experience . So God doesnt let all mortals be able to experience it .Only strong and chosen ones get to feel it when its actually happening .

And that is why the extreme , unexplainable reactions. They wrenched our emotions. We couldnt grasp what was happening ,and at what speed. I believe all of us here are mature people with life experiences and yet we fought .And how !! What explains that ?? If we look back the reasons were trivial . Yet the emotions were intense.

The extreme hatred on Sm . Unprecedented. The extreme love . Again unprecedented for a jodi . People could not absorb the energies.

And even now the grieving . For whom ???/ celebs on screen ???? .

But it was more than just that !!!!

And if My experience is right their love will now hit people who didnt experience it when it happenned , like a tornado .

The internet is suddenly filled with Shehnaaz resuming work.. media, celebs, everyone.. I know she should eventually get back but only when she feels like it.. right now, it feels like everyone is putting too much pressure on her, especially the producers of HR.. there really was no need to state that they are waiting to hear from her.. and then these celebs.. it's just so maddening

I can only hope Shehnaaz gets the strength to get back.. and I hope she only gets back when she is ready, not due to the pressure..

If there's one thing that this tragedy has made even more clear, it's the insensitivity of media and celebs..

One look at Shahbaaz is enough to tell that even the guy is still struggling to come to terms with the tragedy and everyone is after Shehnaaz..

Just makes me realize how Sidharth was like a shield for her.. he is gone and she will have to be stronger than ever to survive in this environment

Every time I see a couple being papped or posting happily, I am just filled with this inexplicable anger.. why?!! They were so happy in their little shell.. just why

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

The internet is suddenly filled with Shehnaaz resuming work.. media, celebs, everyone.. I know she should eventually get back but only when she feels like it.. right now, it feels like everyone is putting too much pressure on her, especially the producers of HR.. there really was no need to state that they are waiting to hear from her.. and then these celebs.. it's just so maddening

I can only hope Shehnaaz gets the strength to get back.. and I hope she only gets back when she is ready, not due to the pressure..

If there's one thing that this tragedy has made even more clear, it's the insensitivity of media and celebs..

One look at Shahbaaz is enough to tell that even the guy is still struggling to come to terms with the tragedy and everyone is after Shehnaaz..

Just makes me realize how Sidharth was like a shield for her.. he is gone and she will have to be stronger than ever to survive in this environment

Every time I see a couple being papped or posting happily, I am just filled with this inexplicable anger.. why?!! They were so happy in their little shell.. just why

Let go of this anger Kheer. Try and let go . Tell yourself to let go. When you have no answers for your questions , it will only make us more bitter . For that matter why did they meet and why did we watch them???? MAny questions we just need to not ponder on !!

There are many out there who are not into them and are unaffected.

Its a vast spread of nothingness . So stop thinking too deep . And am not trying to preach ,this is a request as a friend. You have to put in efforts .

I can't seem to let go of this anger M.. it's just so unfair.. every celeb out there has proven to be an opportunist, trying to bring others down.. yet this happened to the only two people who never tried to do that, who were just happy being in their own little space.. every time I think of this, the bitterness and anger comes rushing back

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

I can't seem to let go of this anger M.. it's just so unfair.. every celeb out there has proven to be an opportunist, trying to bring others down.. yet this happened to the only two people who never tried to do that, who were just happy being in their own little space.. every time I think of this, the bitterness and anger comes rushing back

I have to resort to spirituality but its a fact that we consider only that which happens around us in present as happiness . As that gives us comfort . Security . No child wants to leave his mother as he feels that is the happiest part of life , then you cry when you leave school , when you leave college .....whenever you leave behind one life and enter another the people behind you are unaware of what the journey further has to offer .

You know what my Naani bua used to say ??/ She said a mother child love is the most deepest . We say a mother would never want her child to be away from her. But at every stage she keeps pushing her child away . For the closest the child is ,is in her womb . But she pushes it out so that it lives .One knot untied .. then the child is the closest to her when in her arms , but she teaches it to walk , lets the child stumble ,fall , but teaches him to walk . Again that is one step away from her. Only a mother can understand the mumblings of a child. And yet she teaches him to talk . Again untying the bond !!!!! We at every step have to untie .

And that goes for all. We all have our individual journeys . We have to accomplish that .

As Sym said in our group " His Journey is complete...Her remains...and we are here to be a part of this cosmic cycle".

Their love was way above this shallow show and mockery of relationships that celebs project to papparrazzi!!!! Never ever feel bad for them . theirs was a fulfilling love story !!!Something many of these celebs will probably never experience .

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

The internet is suddenly filled with Shehnaaz resuming work.. media, celebs, everyone.. I know she should eventually get back but only when she feels like it.. right now, it feels like everyone is putting too much pressure on her, especially the producers of HR.. there really was no need to state that they are waiting to hear from her.. and then these celebs.. it's just so maddening

I can only hope Shehnaaz gets the strength to get back.. and I hope she only gets back when she is ready, not due to the pressure..

If there's one thing that this tragedy has made even more clear, it's the insensitivity of media and celebs..

One look at Shahbaaz is enough to tell that even the guy is still struggling to come to terms with the tragedy and everyone is after Shehnaaz..

Just makes me realize how Sidharth was like a shield for her.. he is gone and she will have to be stronger than ever to survive in this environment

Every time I see a couple being papped or posting happily, I am just filled with this inexplicable anger.. why?!! They were so happy in their little shell.. just why

same feeling Kheer! Just not able to understand why? Have accepted the fact that he cannot come back, he has finished his journey but restlessness is there and Infact try to refresh Twitter more than normal! Really don’t get what am I waiting for! Cannot feel happy for any actors project announcements or their appearances! Hope we get our answers soon

I know you are right M.., and I do try to convince myself of all these things.. But then everything just comes crashing down the moment I see all those who wronged him and them being happy in their lives... It just makes no sense

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

I know you are right M.., and I do try to convince myself of all these things.. But then everything just comes crashing down the moment I see all those who wronged him and them being happy in their lives... It just makes no sense

They wont be happy . That I can guarantee you . Sid clarified his side and he exposed so many fake ones. That was his purpose.

He went away happy , but rest assured they wont be happy . I have that faith in almighty . Sid was the nimit through which universe and karma will get them .........