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Originally posted by: Uma2010

I don’t think so. Been following him from Holiday times. He speaks little but is very put together and in the face. He is also a private person, but isn’t the kind that would release an anonymous article.

Plus, did I miss some detail in it that indicated the writer was male? I just read it once and fast, and don’t want to go back to it.

Also, if someone upstairs is reading your comment, he would cackle in a laughing fit and remark… Tum log nahi sudhroge 🙂

Hahaha The one sitting upstairs would understand that hume uski gandi vali adat hai. It will take sometime to move on from this. Plus, he should be super proud of himself that we cannot really move on from him. ♥️

I never knew much about Vidjut but loved him after the live. Only someone I can see Sidharth in.

I was hoping it was him. Since his sisters won’t talk and I don’t think he has any real and insider friends in the industry. However, I don’t really want to know who it was. The anonymity makes the article all the more beautiful. It’s just heart wondering…

Originally posted by: Kepner

I am having weird mixed feelings. Sometimes I feel sad when I see someone else living the dream that I dreamt for our sidnaaz, Sometimes I feel angry why them, Sometimes I feel glad that I got the privilege to live through our sidnaaz for 2 yrs and to know the real importance of companionship and family and sometimes I wake up suddenly with this sudden anxiety and heaviness which I can't describe clearly . Sometimes I feel worried for our girl how will she overcome this. This has been a very personal loss .

I can totally relate coz this is exactly wat I am going through. I am like a gas balloon which has been let into the open sky and has no destination at all

Originally posted by: Camlin

Hahaha The one sitting upstairs would understand that hume uski gandi vali adat hai. It will take sometime to move on from this. Plus, he should be super proud of himself that we cannot really move on from him. ♥️

I never knew much about Vidjut but loved him after the live. Only someone I can see Sidharth in.

I was hoping it was him. Since his sisters won’t talk and I don’t think he has any real and insider friends in the industry. However, I don’t really want to know who it was. The anonymity makes the article all the more beautiful. It’s just heart wondering…

As for the article, I had sensed a feminine voice in the expression of thought, but could be wrong too about that. And I was not sure if the anonymity was a good idea initially, but after seeing some of the trash comments online, and that these trolls would have hounded the person unashamedly, it was a fantastic decision to stay anonymous.

Originally posted by: Uma2010

I am glad that drew a smile from you… hehe. Pretty good picture it would make, hmmm? Imagining him with his dad watching the drama downstairs while his heart is with all his loved ones. He sure would feel proud while wishing each one of us strength to handle it all. But yeah, collective gandi wali aadat, eh?

As for the article, I had sensed a feminine voice in the expression of thought, but could be wrong too about that. And I was not sure if the anonymity was a good idea initially, but after seeing some of the trash comments online, and that these trolls would have hounded the person unashamedly, it was a fantastic decision to stay anonymous.

I agree… honestly I am not active on Twitter but for past few weeks maybe the heart wanted to be more connected to like minded people…hence joined Twitter. I am amazed at the lack of empathy that people are capable of showing. Leave alone that you don’t want to acknowledge a relationship but to go down to such depths to demean people is beyond me. I genuinely feel how the same people will react after 10 yrs seeing the filth that they have spewed…and for what… all this negativity I am sure must be affecting their day to day as well…why incur all this bad karma… Social Media really has given a place to all the filth in our society to surface.

I also felt it was a female writer…the person did a good balancing act of revealing as much that it did not take away anything from their privacy yet depicted the beautiful emotions

Originally posted by: jayasharma25

I agree… honestly I am not active on Twitter but for past few weeks maybe the heart wanted to be more connected to like minded people…hence joined Twitter. I am amazed at the lack of empathy that people are capable of showing. Leave alone that you don’t want to acknowledge a relationship but to go down to such depths to demean people is beyond me. I genuinely feel how the same people will react after 10 yrs seeing the filth that they have spewed…and for what… all this negativity I am sure must be affecting their day to day as well…why incur all this bad karma… Social Media really has given a place to all the filth in our society to surface.

I also felt it was a female writer…the person did a good balancing act of revealing as much that it did not take away anything from their privacy yet depicted the beautiful emotions

Originally posted by: Uma2010

I am glad that drew a smile from you… hehe. Pretty good picture it would make, hmmm? Imagining him with his dad watching the drama downstairs while his heart is with all his loved ones. He sure would feel proud while wishing each one of us strength to handle it all. But yeah, collective gandi wali aadat, eh?

As for the article, I had sensed a feminine voice in the expression of thought, but could be wrong too about that. And I was not sure if the anonymity was a good idea initially, but after seeing some of the trash comments online, and that these trolls would have hounded the person unashamedly, it was a fantastic decision to stay anonymous.

I would always wish he’s moved on there as well, Uma. I would always wish wherever he’s gone he’s making people around him happy and he’s happy with them. Of course, such deep approach when there is a loss isn’t operable, but to always let the mind and heart wander and get the emotions and mental health all chocked up isn’t functional as well. My MIL after loosing her young daughter would always say that to wonder where’d she go, why was she taken, aren’t her answers to find because they bring her immense pain and restlessness. But to pray for a better life for her is what she’d always wish.

Uma, I have always believed adverse situations bring the truest character of a person. When some people learn from loss, others taken a more insensate approach. And that is okay. We cannot teach anyone the difference between right and wrong when the judgment is as simple as the present situation.

Originally posted by: Camlin

I would always wish he’s moved on there as well, Uma. I would always wish wherever he’s gone he’s making people around him happy and he’s happy with them. Of course, such deep approach when there is a loss isn’t operable, but to always let the mind and heart wander and get the emotions and mental health all chocked up isn’t functional as well. My MIL after loosing her young daughter would always say that to wonder where’d she go, why was she taken, aren’t her answers to find because they bring her immense pain and restlessness. But to pray for a better life for her is what she’d always wish.

Uma, I have always believed adverse situations bring the truest character of a person. When some people learn from loss, others taken a more insensate approach. And that is okay. We cannot teach anyone the difference between right and wrong when the judgment is as simple as the present situation.

I don't think there is any lack of clarity in what is right and wrong when it comes to online etiquette. Trolling anybody is unacceptable, no matter whom. Period. In UAE, troll a person, and you would land in prison. Self-censorship is a necessity if one has foul thoughts.

As for trolls, let alone teach them, I have not responded to them even once and cannot be bothered enough to respond to hate and ignorance. I do feel sorry though for the repercussions they shall have to bear for their own deeds. To each, their own karmic baggage, eh?

With SidNaaz life was beautiful and magical…. Now life is just life 😭

Originally posted by: Kar_Nan

With SidNaaz life was beautiful and magical…. Now life is just life 😭

That said, the larger question is as educated people, are/were we being defeatist, vicarious and escapist alone in following them or have we allowed them to be transformative in our lives?

The values Sidnaaz convey/ed cannot be encapsulated in a page. They were intensely in love, had major hurdles and challenges within the house, they had their tiffs, did major adjustments and compromises and still stood like a rock for each other. They shouted family values from the rooftops by just being themselves.

Are we being cowards by just enjoying them vicariously or do we have the guts to take the risk and jump in and deal with our life/relationships similarly? Take the bull by the horns, and live life Sidnaaz size I would say. Do not hold back, make compromises, but don’t take anything lying down, resolve your issues at the end of the day as Sidharth reminded us multiple times and showed us too, and challenge yourself like he did. Be a model professional, child, sibling, partner, friend and associate. And most importantly, show self-love.

We shall all miss Sidnaaz and Sidharth, but the real love we can show for Sidharth and Shehnaz and Sidnaaz is to live life like they did, opening ourselves to new experiences, taking the risk while keeping yourself sane and safe, finding good opportunities and then working on them in the best manner possible, and living a real life in real time than a virtual life on borrowed lives of others. No offense, coz it applies to every single one of us in various proportions.

And when you do take those tiny steps forward, report here 🙂

Just my 2 cents ❤️🙏

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Hugs ❤️

That said, the larger question is as educated people, are/were we being defeatist, vicarious and escapist alone in following them or have we allowed them to be transformative in our lives?

The values Sidnaaz convey/ed cannot be encapsulated in a page. They were intensely in love, had major hurdles and challenges within the house, they had their tiffs, did major adjustments and compromises and still stood like a rock for each other. They shouted family values from the rooftops by just being themselves.

Are we being cowards by just enjoying them vicariously or do we have the guts to take the risk and jump in and deal with our life/relationships similarly? Take the bull by the horns, and live life Sidnaaz size I would say. Do not hold back, make compromises, but don’t take anything lying down, resolve your issues at the end of the day as Sidharth reminded us multiple times and showed us too, and challenge yourself like he did. Be a model professional, child, sibling, partner, friend and associate. And most importantly, show self-love.

We shall all miss Sidnaaz and Sidharth, but the real love we can show for Sidharth and Shehnaz and Sidnaaz is to live life like they did, opening ourselves to new experiences, taking the risk while keeping yourself sane and safe, finding good opportunities and then working on them in the best manner possible, and living a real life in real time than a virtual life on borrowed lives of others. No offense, coz it applies to every single one of us in various proportions.

And when you do take those tiny steps forward, report here 🙂

Just my 2 cents ❤️🙏

Hugssssssss to u