Feeling very disheartened for Pallavi, DT Note pge 23 - Page 16

Originally posted by: inlieu

Thanks, dear.

This is a sensitive topic and rather than spending time showing empathy for victims like Pallavi we are having to explain that she's a victim and has been put in a difficult situation. Ugh...

I haven't seen a single post yesterday talking about how Mandaar's upbringing or other factors have made him into the monster he is today. Clearly something went totally wrong over the years that made him the man he is and his family may have been at fault for enabling his disgusting mentality to develop in this way over the years. I am sure this is the case in many households where boys and men live a life of entitlement and each time they cross a line, this is overlooked instead of reigned. A few years later you get guys like Mandaar becoming emboldened to do whatever they want with impunity.

Regarding Anjali, something tells me Raghav wasn't victim shamed (or not as much as Pallavi) on social media or on the forum when that track was going on. I suspect it's because he's a man but it doesn't change the fact that he was drugged, assaulted, and defamed in the media. Such double standards.

I'm not advocating that men should be victim shamed. My point is that no victim should be shamed, regardless of gender.

Read this post by my friend on Mandar and his upbringing.

Pls copy paste the link I'm on my phone 🤣

www.indiaforums.com/forum/topic/5244797

We are planning to draw Mandar and Raghav parallels... It's a topic that needs in depth thinking. Will be up soon.

This

https://twitter.com/buttersbih/status/1431226899347410947?s=21

Originally posted by: Isamreen

I mean both of them ...

Makers:

Giving a larger than life character who is almost invincible..

Opposite Pallavi no it's Deshmukhs. People dislike Deshmukh to the core and very rightly and here palls was supporting them against Raghav ( apni fam ko hi support karegi na kisi stranger ko toh nahi)

So she was always backlashed for being a Deshmukh bhakt..

It was her journey from the Deshmukh to the Rao in this she had learnt a lot..

People always eyed her with dislike specs, joh badhte badhte is had tak badh chuka hai..

Makers are to be blamed here for not handling the characters properly..

Fans:

Kya hi bolun mai, SKR as RR is a great performer,

More than that he is Hawt and owing to the fact that majority of the fanbase is female ..

But I would say this has turned out to be a very toxic fandom

RR is above everything for them, above the show even..

And irony is they want only one-dimensional RR..

RR who is always angry, don, smarty,

They can't see him crying ( gopi bahu)

They don't want him to be a loving and patient husband (divorce divorce)

And as young twitter Nibbis thinking by belittling Pall they are being loyal to RR

We need to stop this all and be fair and accepting fans..

And stop with all this non-sense you are making him a villain and irking other fans

Sincerely this is from

SKR/ RR admirer

People wanted pal to forget vd overnight and was like how can she go back after getting thrown out like that. Good point, but bond don't break like that and she went and married rr, whatever justification she can give won't be ever good for vd. Mandar came and it was an opportunity to do mayka/sasural thing, farz and rishta dynamic but ofcrs Mandar being creepy and disgusting ruining it a lot. But fans had issue when she said ardhamainda....I think pals as a character can't win. She will never match upto great Raghav.

Lmao so true about fans wanting rr to always hold gun and be angry 247... I think me and meghamonu once were discussing ki why he would be angry now that he has his family with him and throw faltoo ka attitude? Even him saying I love you is pov😂😂😂 this fandom is amusing and entertaining more than show😂😂😂🔥

Since when does pleating saree outside bathroom an offence ? She didn't come out naked, she was just pleating her saree, what's so obscene in it that?

At my grandmothers place, our bathrooms were out side the house and I remember my mother, aunt and grandmother semi covering themselves with their saree and pleating it properly in our bedroom . It wasn't considered immodest even for village standards and here educated women think Pallu is wrong to do what she did 😭

Originally posted by: S-I-A

This

https://twitter.com/buttersbih/status/1431226899347410947?s=21

This is exactly what I mentioned in my post. We knew Raghav as the 'hero' but she didn't know.

She was terrified.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Abi look at you write so nicely jo ek chota baccha bhi samaj jaye but what to do some people are beyond reason... Even if M does the worst to her and she didnt react it is still not her fault. You know suddenly I have the urge to watch PINK. It is on topic and covers these points.

Yeh le 🤗

Yes , please watch Pink...all the forum.

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

lmao funny you said about d clan. Other day I was thinking, if you see the story from vijay deshmukh pov nothing he did was wrong. People bashed him for throwing pals out, or asking Raghav to wash his feet...rr the don single handledly ruined his life and family, took away her dil. Washing feet...pretty sure irl if someone accused our mom/sis how Raghav did, ruined our business or barged in house/shop to create ruckus majority of us would have committed homicide. The one thing he did wrong is now being very happy that pals is back and Making food for his fam but again for him it's like bahu ghar wapas agyi and all is well. Pallavi herself wanted a divorce and said raghav came between her and mandaar according to outsider. I don't think he can ever comprehend pal will fall for someone like Raghav. But this character inconsistencies can be attributed to writing I guess...just like how 1000+ iq wala banda is now having a funny disguise and thinking none can recognise that built 😂😂

People wanted pal to forget vd overnight and was like how can she go back after getting thrown out like that. Good point, but bond don't break like that and she went and married rr, whatever justification she can give won't be ever good for vd. Mandar came and it was an opportunity to do mayka/sasural thing, farz and rishta dynamic but ofcrs Mandar being creepy and disgusting ruining it a lot. But fans had issue when she said ardhamainda....I think pals as a character can't win. She will never match upto great Raghav.

Lmao so true about fans wanting rr to always hold gun and be angry 247... I think me and meghamonu once were discussing ki why he would be angry now that he has his family with him and throw faltoo ka attitude? Even him saying I love you is pov😂😂😂 this fandom is amusing and entertaining more than show😂😂😂🔥

Although I have to disagree on few points..

But I get where you come from...

It's all about how you interpret the story,

From VD and Sulochana Deshmukh side RR is the biggest villain of their life..

If you want to see Raghav as a villain you will see the same, regardless of his MUs, backstory and his redemption..

If you want to see Pallavi as a weak,dumb andhbhakt, insensitive to her husband and family and careless character despite her troubles, hardship and pain, you Will..

To each his own..

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

lmao funny you said about d clan. Other day I was thinking, if you see the story from vijay deshmukh pov nothing he did was wrong. People bashed him for throwing pals out, or asking Raghav to wash his feet...rr the don single handledly ruined his life and family, took away her dil. Washing feet...pretty sure irl if someone accused our mom/sis how Raghav did, ruined our business or barged in house/shop to create ruckus majority of us would have committed homicide. The one thing he did wrong is now being very happy that pals is back and Making food for his fam but again for him it's like bahu ghar wapas agyi and all is well. Pallavi herself wanted a divorce and said raghav came between her and mandaar according to outsider. I don't think he can ever comprehend pal will fall for someone like Raghav. But this character inconsistencies can be attributed to writing I guess...just like how 1000+ iq wala banda is now having a funny disguise and thinking none can recognise that built 😂😂

People wanted pal to forget vd overnight and was like how can she go back after getting thrown out like that. Good point, but bond don't break like that and she went and married rr, whatever justification she can give won't be ever good for vd. Mandar came and it was an opportunity to do mayka/sasural thing, farz and rishta dynamic but ofcrs Mandar being creepy and disgusting ruining it a lot. But fans had issue when she said ardhamainda....I think pals as a character can't win. She will never match upto great Raghav.

Lmao so true about fans wanting rr to always hold gun and be angry 247... I think me and meghamonu once were discussing ki why he would be angry now that he has his family with him and throw faltoo ka attitude? Even him saying I love you is pov😂😂😂 this fandom is amusing and entertaining more than show😂😂😂🔥

The thing with mayka/sasural was that the writers screwed up by making Mandhaar a creep instead of victim of circumstances. Aur uske baad Pallu bashing we all have seen.

I do feel like they exaggerated Vijay's flaws and mellowed Raghav's at the same time, which is why people didn't realise that VD and RR were initally more similar than they'd like to admit.

Any ITV FL can't win. She is either selfish or doormat. Ghamandi or no self respect. Men can do whatever and get redemption sequence but women will be very harshly judged. Raghav did all that nonsense and had a redemption track. Pallavi simply fed RR chilli powder without knowing about his allergy and became biggest villain🤔She was expected to forgive him and do patni dharm despite being forced into a marriage.

Even those calling RR gopi vahu are ridiculous. It's like the trend of calling a person who respects their s/o a simp. Some people said they don't like seeing MLs crying ...

Writers inconsistencies are also stupid. Jaya had such a random change after actress changed. Keerthi and Amrutha other stupid changes that were too abrupt.

Originally posted by: hapc

The thing with mayka/sasural was that the writers screwed up by making Mandhaar a creep instead of victim of circumstances. Aur uske baad Pallu bashing we all have seen.

I do feel like they exaggerated Vijay's flaws and mellowed Raghav's at the same time, which is why people didn't realise that VD and RR were initally more similar than they'd like to admit.

Any ITV FL can't win. She is either selfish or doormat. Ghamandi or no self respect. Men can do whatever and get redemption sequence but women will be very harshly judged. Raghav did all that nonsense and had a redemption track. Pallavi simply fed RR chilli powder without knowing about his allergy and became biggest villain🤔She was expected to forgive him and do patni dharm despite being forced into a marriage.

Even those calling RR gopi vahu are ridiculous. It's like the trend of calling a person who respects their s/o a simp. Some people said they don't like seeing MLs crying ...

Writers inconsistencies are also stupid. Jaya had such a random change after actress changed. Keerthi and Amrutha other stupid changes that were too abrupt.

Mandar was always meant to be villain like come on why would they cast ashok who's apparently big marathi name? They could have done a ved like track I guess but wanted to link to pals too with "obsession ashiq" but thing is they are making it complicated. If he sees her with lust why sunny said his obsession is fake? If he's after her due to (assuming) krishna rao angle why this lust, or he's someone who want double tango cause it's a hot girl? Writers need to clear this and not sulo ogling at Raghav.

Vd is disgusting cause he's old budha and not Raghav ka side. All other old characters is on Raghav ka sidr, heck his own wife is on rr side I still don't know what she saw in him to get over the mess so quickly 😂😂

Lmao I remember those chilli powder posts, seems tame to current situation. Keethi to ugh like nanad had to be vamp.

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

it's about looks 😂😂 no offense but amrtutha actress is prettier imo so she got away with not even a sorry, pals just said acha hua tum sidhe rasta agyi , she acknowledged and that's it. To think those abortion papers were root of all evil and none now care.

Mandar was always meant to be villain like come on why would they cast ashok who's apparently big marathi name? They could have done a ved like track I guess but wanted to link to pals too with "obsession ashiq" but thing is they are making it complicated. If he sees her with lust why sunny said his obsession is fake? If he's after her due to (assuming) krishna rao angle why this lust, or he's someone who want double tango cause it's a hot girl? Writers need to clear this and not sulo ogling at Raghav.

Vd is disgusting cause he's old budha and not Raghav ka side. All other old characters is on Raghav ka sidr, heck his own wife is on rr side I still don't know what she saw in him to get over the mess so quickly 😂😂

Lmao I remember those chilli powder posts, seems tame to current situation. Keethi to ugh like nanad had to be vamp.

Haan na. In fact Keerthi was the only one who wanted to know if Pallavi genuinely consented to the wedding instead of Amma. She went to save Pallu despite the fact that her own life was a mess. They ruined her. Pretending like Amrutha is innocent child is also ridiculous. She must have been around 20 and in this generation at that age people definitely know the implication of what they are doing. I feel like they are going to create a lot of open ends regarding Mandhaar and then decide what they want to tie in the end and leave other as it is. MHRW makers would rather show comedy than give closure most of the times.

Good looks. Very true. People tend to excuse those who they find good looking much earlier than those who don't. One of the reasons why MLs can do nonsense like manhandling but people still think they are good partners which they wouldn't do for someone who doesn't look good.

I feel VD should not have thrown Pallu out at night. He could have waited for the day and then asked her to go to her brothers house. But I get his hatred for RR. People hated him too much before because he was against the hero. I feel like makers made him too negative now so I don't like him anymore. Initially though his character was interesting.